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The things I have to learn for my class are frustrating me, it's so uninteresting how it's all being presented, none of it is sticking and I don't really want to carry on even though I have to so I don't fail.
What should I do?
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>>18102232
A bump is what I will do.
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>>18102232
What class?
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>>18102299
Java programming.
I've recently realized I'm an extremely boring person. Other than talking about weebshit, video games and tv shows, I cannot hold a conversation for the life of me because my knowledge and experience in everything else in basically nil.
I don't even have funny stories to tell about me doing things because I've never done anything noteworthy in my life. I guess what I'm trying to ask is how the hell do you make yourself interesting and find interests that you enjoy?
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>>18102223
Well I know you're not a genius but I am pretty sure you identified the solution in the first couple sentences.
You have limited interests, expand. You have no life experiences, go outside. All of this you already know, so what do you want?
You need sudden anxiety and shock, complete isolation from the things that make you happy now. Stop browsing the web and go meet people now, find things in them to admire and absorb their interests while simultaneously harvesting your own.
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Read a book, nigger.
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being boring is not bad. way better than being that guy that has to one-up everyone all the time.
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My closest friend by far is a girl. She's dating my other close friend. Whenever they fight and especally whenever there is another girl in my life who I want to date (this doesn't happen when I'm just fucking a girl), she gets very... idk, she tries hard to get my attention. She always bashes on girls that I want to date and gets visibly irritated, and then she will try to get me to go with her somewhere we can sit down or walk and we will talk for hours upon hours.
I love her to death, like a sister, but I don't understand why she keeps doing this. Is she afraid she will lose the emotional connection we have if I start dating someone? She always complains that the guy she is dating now doesn't provide her that. Anyone have any clue?
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Well, yes, she feels jealous too. Because in her head, you're her territory, due to the emotional connection
Just ignore that and carry on with your life.
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>>18102196
She does it because she's a young woman who bases a big part of her feeling self worth on the attention and validation she gets. (That's how other women become attention whores) You two have a good connection, but she also uses you as a form of validation. She probably thinks she'll lose that when you get with other women, because then all of your attention will go to them and not to her. She's basically manipulating you with that behaviour into acting the way she wants, regardless of the consequences for you. You'll notice you're being manipulated if she acts flirty, jealous and so on even if you two are just friends.
Now that you're aware of that make sure to stay cold to those attempts because they are out of place. Just go your way with other women. No need to be mean to your frmale friend, because she acts out of fear and insecurity
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>>18102196
I've felt the same way towards my male best friend. I didn't act out on anything irrational like manipulation, but I did feel slightly irritated and "very... idk" for no rational reason. It's hard to say why, but he was just a really fun friend to hang out with and I must have been kinda worried that would change once he got a girlfriend.
You should ask her why she does this. She's your best friend and surely she can understand you being concerned about that. Reassure her that the friendship won't change. It's an irrational feeling and it's hard not to feel it even if you know it's irrational. It simply feels bad and can be hard to recognize the reason for it. I do think it's bad if she tries to manipulate you, but it's also bad because she feels uncomfortable.
You have a friend who cares and loves hanging out with you very much and doesn't want to lose that. No one is perfect and she may act out some of those feelings. Really, just talk to her in a mature manner, let her know how you feel and let her tell you how she feels. She is the single person which will tell you the most accurate and true answer about how she feels. You won't find her here.
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I have a problem /adv/. I'm stuck between two females. One I've been talking to for a while, dating for two months. The other I've been talking to for about a month and a half. My gf is a sweet girl, short, pretty submissive, will tolerate my shit most of the time, but she likes alcohol and she's not capable of not being slutty when she's drunk. I can foresee the worst happening eventually. She also has a bunch of guy friends.
Now the other girl is like god-tier. I'm talking Eliza or Rose God-tier she's an easy 10/10, plays vidya, watches the weebshit, is a femanon, and best of all she has the best voice. Like I could listen to that shit all day and her laugh is cute as hell.
Sidenote: God-tier girl doesn't have that many guy friends and has told me that she likes anal and is submissive in bed, which is very believable.
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Girls don't have guy friends. They have options.
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>>18102184
This man is right
t. Option
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So guys I was exploring an abandoned hotel and I found some maths equipment and some salad i Want to meet this person who hangs out in a decrepit old hotel, frequented by crackheads, neo-nazis, satanists and chavs just to do some maths homework. So any ideas how to contact this person (this could be my qt gf)
>pic related is photo I took of the setup
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>>18102166
WTF?
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Thinking about the absurdity of this put me in a good mood.
Thanks op I giggled
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Starting and finishing uni late, how disadvantaged is this?
I'll be starting uni at 21 studying microbiology at a top50 biosciences uni and finishing at 25, might go for a masters so possibly 27.
How fucked am I in terms of getting employed?
What about socialising once I'm there?
Couldn't do anything about it as I was forced to drop out.
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You're not starting late so none of this is a problem.
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My classmates are literally finishing the year I start, I am a little late to say the least.
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I didn't finish until 26. Got a decent job just before graduating and three years later my career is going well.
desu going to uni later was the best choice I ever made. I didn't socialise much when in uni since I already had a circle of friends from outside but that let me concentrate more on studies.
im so depressed /pol/, i can't take it anymore, im failing collage and i dont know what to do in my life, i always feel depressed and nihilistic nowadays, and no amount of MAGA seems to change it, my gf cucked me for some slav a week ago, adding more into my depression, every night i go to sleep I feel great because i feel that i will escape my immense depression, no amount of degenerate porn i try to watch ever changes it, i changed from left wing to right wing, but everyone around me now hates me because of my immense support for trump and right wing politics, i just want to jump off my balcony and sleep forever sometimes...
and the fact that i am posting this on such a notoriously nazi and jew hating board already shows in what kind of shit situation i am in.
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>>18102146
Workout. Eat right. Repeat. You'll feel better kid.
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Dive deep into the nature of your existence and discover how tightly your perception and reality are intertwined together. The political goofs are just small entertainment and matter little for the enlightened observer or in another words - you have to realize that no amount of the external world will ever fill your soul, you need to seek fulfillment somewhere else.
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I messed up the image of myself. I messed around too much and people think I'm a lazy, slacking, non serious, unreliable person. I just make a persona and mess around when I'm with people I know but I can be serious and reliable when needed to be, but because I never had a need to do it around my friends they never have seen me like that and think I can't be "mature" in a sense. How can I gain respect and show people I'm reliable and can be serious without pushing them away because I'm not fun anymore.
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>>18102103
Balance.
Also stop proving yourself to people.
Focus on your work. Relax and play games when youre not working. Play in between when youre waiting for something work related. And remember, always focus and give it your all in your work.
Its that simle.
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once people get their images of you imprinted into their minds, it's over.
get a new set of friends and try not to fuck up again.
Sorry, but you're screwed.
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How do I stop being obsessed with WWII?
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not OP but pls help
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that's one of the least interesting moments of WWII desu.
war psychology is a much more appealing.
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>>18102090
Start obsessing over something else to replace your current obsession.
Also stop going to /pol/
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i'm a 25 y/o virgin. there are a lot of reasons but the main reason is that i'm scared of talking with girls. i never approached a girl, except for asking two girls to dance with me when i was exceptionally drunk (i was rejected). please please please tell me how to overcome this fear
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>>18102071
Was 23 years old my first time. Had same issue. My advice is to just be friendly. Since you made this thread, and identified yourself as a 25 yo virgin, I think you may be putting too much emphasis on sex (or lack of it) as part of your identity. Just don't worry about it. I never asked a girl out to date that I wasn't first friendly with for a while.
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>>18102071
meditation stops you from running in your emotions and helps you get women.
find out how to meditate and be more centered
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>>18102089
thank you. honestly i don't care so much about the lack of sex, it's more the nostalgia for something i never had (a relationship/love). for the last few months i've been actively trying to socialize with people despite my social anxiety so there's that
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I'm seriously thinking of getting the fuck out of my girlfriend's life and getting everyone else to do the same.
>girlfriends is a 8/10 good looking intellectual
>she hangs out with losers and introverts
She among other people have this common problem. She finds a dumbass who at first appears decent, instead of looking for more people in a sea of 6 billion, she just gets stuck with this 1 idiot and that 1 idiot refuses to let go or help her find quality friends, wasting everyone's time.
Her other friends are the same, mute awkward introverts with no successful degrees, most of them are college drop outs.
Meanwhile she's a successful IT programmer at IBM.
Here's what needs to be done:
A) She lives alone and get used to living alone (a bit hard)
B) Find her decent friends to get used to for 6+ months (much easier to swallow) then maybe she learns to live alone and stop dating losers.
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>>18102044
Nice blog.
Where is the question and who are you to dictate other people's lives?
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>then maybe she learns to live alone and stop dating losers.
So you're a loser?
Also, not having a degree doesn't make somebody a loser, peoples value isn't determined by their education level or labor.
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>she learns to stop dating losers
There's something we can both agree on.
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My dad died of cancer like 10 years ago.
I constantly feel paranoid about getting cancer and just having a countdown on my life. I'm 19 and I feel I have so much future ahead of me, that the thought of dying slowly but surely it's a constant fear of me.
Feeling down some day? Maybe i have cancer.
Stomach hurts. Am I fucking dead?
Hangover? This is it, it's all over.
How can I be sure I'm not developing something and I'm a walking corpse right now? The thought of death is becoming more and more common right now. Constantly in the back of my head, it's physically and emotionally tiring. I feel aloof most of the time and my ties to the present world and people around me seem to fade away more and more
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>>18102011
Have you tried a therapy?
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>>18102039
Nope, my family doesn't believes in psychologists. They all have severe issues though, the only normal person seems to be my middle sister.
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bump for help
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Hello my friends
I have the opportunity to go to college in September.
Would studying psychology help my autistic and depressive behavior or make it worse?
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Who diagnosed you?
If noone with medical credentials did, then you're a normal person.
Stop putting yourself down.
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Posting here means you've already maxed out your autism levels
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>>18102142
Or... maybe, just maybe, it's for your PhD thesis in psychology :p
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The last couple of weeks i've spent a lot of time fantasizing about murdering people. I also have a lot of violent intrusive thoughts when walking in public.
I don't understand where these thoughts come from, i'm not a violent person. I've tried talking to people but nobody takes me seriously.
How do i get rid of these thoughts?
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Don't, embrace them
or just let them pass like clouds, your choice.
Just stop resisting so much, the more you resist the more you'll think about them
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>>18101959
How old are you? Gender? Previous diagnoses of depression or other conditions?
Do you currently see a therapist of psychiatrist?
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>>18101959
Meh. I live with them. My thoughts are equal parts concern and disgust most of the time.
So long as you have the ability to think then you shouldn't worry about acting out your violent thoughts.
Though you strike me as a person who tries to bury their feelings because they seem wrong.
Give us an example of one instance where your thoughts raised concern.
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How do you get over anxiety during sex?
normally I perform pretty well, but the last 3 times I haven't been able to keep it up. shit's embarrassing.
everything's fine until the condom goes on.
could it be porn that's causing it? I've been quite addicted. Have I conditioned myself with porn so normal shit doesn't do it for me?
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i wish i knew
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>>18101926
Viagra, hombre.
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>>18101926
That's exactly it. Stop watching porn.
If you feel like fapping just imagine a hot co-worker or some shit. You last way, way longer and become able to get erections from normal shit again.
Porn=bad
Imagination=good