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You should probably tell her how you feel about her boyfriend doing something obviously incredibly fucking dangerous and also so disrespectful to a member of family of the person he's supposed to be in love with.

It sounds like he's human detritus, who even does that, for fucking money?

>>18099330
do you not possess basic survival instincts? stay away from these people including your sister. if she wants to die that's on her

>>18099380
This, just tell her you love her but don't want to see her while she's still with that boyfriend.

>>18099320
With fire and prayer.

No cure. Its genetic.

>>18099320
No cure, but you can treat it. Google the word and it'll show you treatment options.

report it to paypal or take him to small claims court.

>>18099289
I still have the item and he still has the money so no fraud was committed, just attempted, also we're in different states.

You can report it to ebay and your local police. Ebay will actually be able to do something but they won't really be able to stop him from hiding behind proxies and doing it again. Your local police will take the complaint and maybe pass it on to the relevant body of authority but who knows what the outcome of that would be since no crime was actually committed.

>>18099245
First, don't feel guilty. A degree of same-old-thing is inevitable in any longterm relationship.

The trick is to break the same-old-thing pattern. When was the last time the two of you did something spontaneously romantic?

Take a dirty weekend. Woo her. Do some of the things you two did while dating, even if they seem pointless or silly now.

And if you want to spice up your sex lives, try something new. If it's a disaster you can giggle about it. If it's a success you aren't bored anymore.

>>18099252
I literally don't have the desire to even take those steps. It's complete disinterest.

Sounds like you need to spice up your sex life. Have you tried roleplaying? Get into different characters and roleplay out a scenario where she is simply just not your wife, but instead your doctor/nurse/patient, student/teacher, etc. Do something slightly more kinky or romantic, maybe leave a card for her to find where it says she should meet you in X bar and pretend you are a stranger, then you can go up and hit on her. Win her over, perhaps psychologically you'll feel more satisfied if you can "win her over", rather than just fuck her. And your wife will most likely enjoy the extra attention and being appreciated more.

You've probably done this, but explain to her that, with you two being together 24/7 on weekends, there's is literally no single point at all in your current life where you're spending some time completely on your own, with no other humans around you, where you're left purely to your own devices. Even non-introverts probably require some alone time. If she says "you can do your own stuff when I'm around too", explain to her that you feel like you have an obligation to take her desires into account when she's around (practically impossible to turn off), which is the opposite of what alone time is about.

She on the other hand sounds like she doesn't really get a lot of social interaction outside of work during the week (like, the evenings) and on the weekends neither apart from you, and generally doesn't know what to do with her time. Does she have any hobbies? What about friends and stuff? Does she do a job where there's no space for social interaction, or where she's with people she doesn't really know at all, like when she's behind some counter?

>>18099261
Thanks anon for the reply.
She has actually said that exactly same sentance 'you can do your own stuff when I'm around too'. Well i guess if she's not willing to give me time it will destroy this relationship since she doesn't seem to understand my situation.
She has alot social interaction when im in army, she has friends and spends time with them alot.

Let's not forget she didn't see you in like 5 months, and now after 2 weekends together you tell her you don't want to spend so much time with her. On the other hand, no one can blame you for being tired being around people the whole time. I personally wouldn't mind a day of fucking after 5 days of army, but doing nothing else for an _entire_ weekend is a bit insane if you value alone time.
You'll probably have to find some compromise. Do you leave the army place on friday evening or saturday morning, and do you go there again on sunday evening or monday morning? If you leave friday evening, maybe go directly to her on friday, be with her till late afternoon of saturday, leave and take your free day till sunday afternoon/evening, then sleep at her place again, so you can go to the army on monday morning. Something like that, you get your free time, she has you 24 hours, plus she has the shortest possible intervall of not seeing you during the workweek (monday morning - friday evening).

My wife's father is a Buddhist priest who runs a temple but he has quite a temper and is always spending profligately at department stores.

>so how can I truly become like that?

A monk said to Chao Chou, “I have just entered this monastery. Please teach me.”
Chao Chou said, “Have you eaten your rice gruel?”
The monk said, “Yes, I have.”
Chao Chou said, “Wash your bowl.”
The monk understood.

If you're interested in Buddhism, simply begin your practice. right now. begin to read about Buddhism. if you have access to a temple, why not visit? if you don't, start with the story of the Buddha. Read about his life, his career as a teacher, and his death.

Branch out and research different schools of Buddhism. See if anything appeals to you.

>>18099192
I wish more people thought like you do anon.

>>18099192
>Everytime I speak I think to myself "I'm such a fucking dickhead"
>How do I change my life? I'm afraid I'm about to do something drastic

Without knowing you, these 3 sentences have no apparent connection. Please give (a lot) more detail.

There's only way, dude.
Just do it.

You can try some of these things:

- Over analysing it to a ridiculous degree, probably even missing sleep over it
- Posting on 4chan in order to get some tiny bit of emotional expression without actually talking to her
- Holding your phone in your hand typing out messages and then deleting them
- Just do it, accept that it might or might not work out, continue with your life in either case

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Alright slytherino..
These are basically the colors you can match with that green tie; white, blue, green, brown, beige. Best bet would be a lighter blue shirt and a dark blue suit, or preferably the same dark green as in the tie. But definitely not the lighter green, should only be used for details, like cuffs links. White shirt and black suit will make you look like a nazi though, so I'd avoid it at all cost, unless that's what you want to portray to the outside world.

Some kind of houndstooth tweedy suit with grey/brown/olive would look best. Men look amazing in tweedy suits, very cash. I'd say a creamy white shirt.

>>18099182
A medium/dark shade of grey with white shirt and green tie looks really good.

>>18099153
This isn't your problem. You see that she is using them, and they know she is also. If they know she's riding a dick train, but are still both into her beyond just that, then they aren't telling you everything. She'll eventually move on, and they will too.

Tell them to do a threesome

>>18099153
you're just mad that she doesn't let you have a piece

>>18099126
Also not talking about random jobs. I'm referring to jobs related to a specific field.

>>18099126
Have heard people saying things like "if you're not applying for 10 a day you're not trying" but I dunno. That seems fairly high. Maybe just apply for each and every vaguely appropriate job in that field you see?

And even if you don't have every single qualification try anyway if you think there's a shot.

>>18099523
I been trying to apply for work in the IT field in Australia for about 3.5 years. Diploma, Cisco certifications and not even a single call or email back. I gave up and moved on. But there were periods where i'd apply for about 6 jobs a night. My number of applications was this high because I applied for the same jobs non-stop to no avail. I'd say 10 is plenty. I kept 6 jobs a night as my limit to avoid me going insane and wasting my time on cover letters non-stop. Do it at your own pace but try to keep it realistic. There is no minimum or high just make sure at least 1 gets out there.

I'm off to bed so my replies can't continue. Good luck dude. I was just unlucky don't feel discouraged at all. Just go at a pace you like. 10 just resumes sure. But the cover letter will make you much more employable as proven by some studies (double check this). Try to make a universal resume.

Greet her with a bow into a handshake.
Look her straight into the eye and quietly say "Good day, madam."
Offer her a place on the ground, but don't worry about her response, as you'll have chloroformed her into your car. If you don't have a car, then take her behind a tree.

>>18099098
Masturbate an hour before you go out. This should make your consciousness clear during he date. You might feel anxious meeting her irl. She probably does too so nothing to worry about. If you are a robot autismolord DONT be yourself unless shes a fembot. Talk about topics you both find interesting. I assume you know them. Be a good listener, but also learn when to ask a question. This should cover you anon

Source: Never been on a date, but I assume this will work

>>18099098

You're going to get a lot of differing answers from a wide spectrum of people here, some of whom will even claim to be women.
Ignore them all I am a woman and I'd correct.
When you meet take out your phone and show her a photo of a huge veiny cock with is dripping precum out its Japs eye
Give her a wink and say nothing.

>>18099084
Give the poor dying creature love you selfish prick.

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Nigga you and your family are pretty much all this dog has. Give it love and attention while it comes closer to death. Yeah it'll hurt and itlll suck when it finally dies, but it'll hurt a lot more for the dying dog if you just ignore it and it has no idea why

Gonna be a whole lot worse for your dog, not really the ideal eay to die if you just get ignored

>>18099056

Have you actually had sex? If you haven't, it could be just fear of the unknown. If you have, yes, it's possible you're asexual or have just had some traumatically bad sexual experiences.

>>18099067
Would an asexual person be lead on by one'a sexual appeal (I.E: tits, curves, asses, etc.)?

>>18099031
Put down the bottle and pick up a bong

>>18099077
Kek has spoken.


But seriously: How much are you actually drinking on those days? The fact you're already concerned without even drinking on schooldays is a really good sign, it means you're already aware this could be a problem.