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Hello I will try to make this short and sweet.
I own a bussiness doing art and I stream my art on a website for artist. This person named Bob began befriending me he has a lot of followers and could easily ruin my bussiness. Bob has been recently going into my streams trying to tell me when I can stream I just ignored him. Bob got really angry at me streaming the other day for streaming at the same time one of his friends were he sent people into my stream and Bob was very angry. Again I just ignored Bob.
I am afraid he is not sane and may send his followers on me though this dude getting even more weird and he could ruin my bussiness with the ammount of people he has.
What can I do to handle this professionally? I have never dealt with people like this.
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Until he does something, chill.
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>>18104277
I be afraid if his fans send negative reviews in spams on my company though I can not really get rid of that.
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Should I seek professional help? 2017-03-06 05:05:31 Post No.18104264
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Should I seek professional help?
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Hi /adv/ first off I'm not a neet or somebody in overly unfortunate circumstances.
I'm a normal college student, but in the last month or two I've felt my mental health go on the decline and I've picked up some tendencies of self harm. I don't have any history of mental health problems or health problems in general so this is kind of new to me and I don't know what to do.
I know this doesn't make sense for me and here's why:
I'm a mostly A student majoring in healthcare IT and accounting, and minoring in law , I'm vice president of a greek organization, have a great resume, great job, my own car, nice living arrangement, etc. Yet I feel incredibly inadequate. I look around and see other people and feel like I'm lesser than everybody. I feel like everybody is bound for great things, going to marry well, and have great lives, and I think about myself and don't see anything. I hate my looks even though people tell me I'm attractive and get mad at me for not thinking so. I hate them so much I refuse to take photos with people and cry when I see pictures of myself. I feel like everybody else is much more attractive than me and I'm ashamed of myself. Lately I don't want to eat, I want to see myself starve and I don't know why. I'm already underweight. When I make small mistakes I think or say out loud "why aren't you dead yet?" I've always wanted to go off to a good grad school, but now I look at their requirements and it seems that they want students who have been nothing but perfect their entire academic career. Now that's out of reach too and I would be better off dead. I feel like I'll never become anything worthwhile because somebody is always better than me in every aspect. Sometimes I purposely hurt myself. Lately I've been sick and throwing up from coughing, but I'm glad I'm vomiting because it hurts and I feel like I deserve to starve.
Help?
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Fuck it, I can't even get the people on 4chan to answer me. I should just kill myself and end it.
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I'll help you OP. Just posting here real quick so you know i'm here. I'll respond to your post in my next post
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>>18104435
Here.
I absolutely agree that this needs professional help. This sounds extremely serious with the starving issue alone. After reading this post what I want you to do is make a casual phone call to set up an appointment with them and get help on this as soon as you can. You are not getting responses to this not because 4chan doesn't care but probably due to how much an issue like this is beyond a regular persons ability here to relate to or help you very much. So don't take it as this cold and uncaring thing. That's not what's happening.
Here are some ideas I have to help.
First off you are feeling worse than usual because you are starving yourself. Because you feel worse right now from not eating enough, it is much MUCH easier for you to have negative thoughts and negative thoughts that are worse than usual and be in a worse mood than you usually are about all this. Good exercise is also factually as powerful as taking an anti depressant. You want to start formulating a powerful strategy to combat the bad mood you are in. Right now the bad mood is snowballing into worse thoughts and an even worse bad mood. It's headed no where good fast. We want to pause, and start moving positively in the other way and start a positive snowball effect.
Your self worth is not defined by what you can and cannot do. Do not attach any significance of your accomplishments to your worth. I mean this sincerely when I say you are priceless. There is nobody on earth that can replace you.
There are more available slots than there are perfect people to fill them. Even if you're not the absolute best at a certain skill or even close there will still be open spots available to you as long as you're qualified anyways. So yes, you can get into grad school. Although I wonder why you would want to take on grad school on top of everything else you have going on right now. That almost sounds like you're spreading yourself too thin which is very stressful.
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How do I get a girlfriend? Or even a fucking friend for that matter. The crippling loneliness I go through on a daily basis makes me want to die. I might just kill myself if I don't make at least one IRL friend in the next week. Seriously, I am going insane, why do people not like talking to me?
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>>18104261
You'd be really surprised to find out how many people think this. Try going to a local hangout, like a coffee-house or something, at least a couple of times a week. Bring something to read or a pad to write or draw on, and just develop a routine - before you know it, you'll recognize the people who keep the same schedule, and you'll be a "regular" to the people who work there, and you'll have conversations about things, and you'll trade FB pages and phone numbers, and you'll invite them to stuff you want to do, or be invited to events that they're into. You just want it to happen all at once, and it leads to feelings of alienation and isolation... give it time. Most people think they're not normal. And they're right, because there is no such thing. Let that be your armor...
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>>18104506
Is that how you met your girlfiend?
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>>18104577
It's how I met your mother.
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I only have 2 friends and they are both immature idiots.
One spends every one of his days smoking weed and watching video games and only ever talks about those two things.
The other is an asshole who thinks it's funny to do shit like put nails in random people's tire, or go to parks and deface shit/disturb nature.
They were my friends since highschool, mostly because we were all neighbors, but I honestly just don't like spending time with them at all anymore. I feel I outgrew them.
They're super needy though and will just come to my place or blow up my phone if I ignore them. The asshole even harassed my sister once and refused to leave because he wouldn't believe I wasn't going to be home soon.
What the fuck do I do?
I hate conflict/confrontation.
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>>18104229
Same thing happens to me, anon
Just leave them without saying anything to them, nobody is holding you at gunpoint to go visit them
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>>18105154
Also leave that place or report them to the police if they threaten you again
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I'm so overwhelmed and confused about everything right now. Gonna try to wrap things up a simply as possible.
-Long term (more than 5 yrs) gf.
-Have problems but try to work through them
-Currently living with parents, both of us having trouble finding jobs. I'm a part time student.
-Tension between us can't be addressed because of tension with parents/because of parents around.
-Space can't be had because if she's not living with me then she is homeless (literally only family she has is her older sister (raised her) who won't take her back because it's toxic to her relationship with her husband.
I don't want to leave her, I used to and still do want to spend my life with her, but we can't address any of our problems, not being able to address any of our problems is toxic to our relationship, all because of this with me at my parents house or homeless situation. Neither of us want us to end but we both know it's starting to head that way.
I know that wasn't short or simple but I still left out most of it and nothing is short or simple for me atm. Besides suicide. Please someone help.
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>>18104224
At least you're not me, Anon. Be infinitely grateful for this. You'll never know what misery I do. I know that seems narcissistic as fuck, and probably is, but it's true. I have multiple deformities, several illnesses, and am almost always in some sort of severe pain. I spend every waking moment of my pathetic life self-medicating to distract myself from the overwhelming dread that envelopes my very being, and despite being irreligious and unspiritual altogether, I pray constantly to any entity that may exist to please painlessly and peacefully grant me an instantaneous passing into sweet nothingness.
It's unfair, neither I, nor you, nor anybody else ever born ever asked to be so. I fucking loathe existence itself, my own at the very least, and wish with every atom of my being that none of it ever was.
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>>18104224
Of course you both living together with your parents in your parents house is not a choice.
First of all, it's not your burden/responsibilty yet (she's not your wife/family yet) to provide her with shelter/place of living. That burden fall to her family, in this case her sister.
Why wouldn't her sister provide her with some cash or help her finding her own place is beyond me. You need to address this matter to her clearly.
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Is it ok to have an alcoholic drink on the first date if I am driving?
I'm going on a first date in a few days with a girl, and she is very conservative, I feel like when we go to eat on the date, if I order a drink with alcohol in it, she might get worried about me drinking and driving.
Wat do?
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>>18104180
One drink is generally acceptable, and most people will be fine with driving after one. Obviously only you know your limits, but keep yourself to only one or two and don't let it bother you too much.
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>>18104180
Tak a taxi you cheap fuck.
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>>18104189
>Tak a taxi you cheap fuck.
I don't want to give her the impression I am an alcoholic. She is going to ask "Why are we taking a taxi/uber instead of your car?"
"Well, i am going to be drinking tonight and I want you to feel safe"
Gives off a "closet alcoholic" vibe.
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I was dumped a few days ago by my girlfriend. She was really special to me and I genuinely felt like it could have gone somewhere. Everything went perfectly, up until I found out that she wasn't over her ex. When I confronted her about it, she became very defensive. Saying things like "do you expect me to just get over him?" so I flat out told her that she'd never get over him if she'd keep letting him text her and all that. She then decided that we weren't a good idea and dumped me.
I know I shouldn't chase a girl who still isn't over a past guy, but this guy is a completely shitbag. He dumped her twice, psychologically abuses her to the point where she hides from him in public if she sees him, and yet defends his bullshit for some reason. And yet after she dumped me, I heard she texted my friends messages like "I fucked up" and "We fought and now he's gone, what do I do?"
I want her back, I know I shouldn't but I really do. I want to help her out of this cycle but I just don't know how to do it.
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>>18104159
Sounds mentally defective to me. Time to find some fresh pussy to keep yourself occupied.
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>>18104178
This is my problem though. I never go out of my way to date. She just came into my life and we clicked so well. I feel like I want to reach out to her but I don't even know if she's really hurting too or not. I'm just so confused. There are ten things I want to do, but I don't know if they'll make things worse or not.
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>>18104192
At the very least it's her responsibility to reconnect with you, not the other way around. Fresh pussy would be better if you can get it though.
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(Pic unrelated) I've been in a bad luck streak regarding love, falling for people that wasn't really healthy.
Had a girlfriend and we dated for over a year, ended relationship for some issues and because she was going to to leave the state, but we kept dating and fooling around, we kept feelings and stuff. 2 months after she left she made out with some dude and lied to me, even when we promised to be honest about it, I found out months later by accident and I cut everything off with her, ending even friendship.
After that I took a break of meeting people, then I met a girl who liked me pretty quick, dated for a while, fooled around and then she dropped me because she was "confused", never talked again.
Not blaming them, it must be me and I want some tips on what should I improve to stop this trend on me. I'm not desperate on love, sex or attention, just want to improve myself.
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>>18104151
start with the man in the mirror
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>>18104155
Well played sir well played.
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>>18104155
Lols exactly what I mean. What do you recommend me to improve? I don't know where to start and I know I can only work on myself.
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This might ruin me 2017-03-06 04:02:08 Post No.18104098
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Any one that can offer me some genuine advice would be awesome-
me even though i'm like socially inept recently got into my first relationship at 23, she's 24.. cutting straight to it- when we're going at it in bed I can never get off from what ever she does.. i mean it feels great but I CAN NOT CLIMAX FOR THE LIFE OF ME!(unless i sit there and play with myself which is really degrading.. so she can atleast see i got off..)
I make sure she gets off multiple times because I never lose my erection so atleast it's good for her, but she still feels like it's her fault even though we're both very vocal to each other and I've repeatedly said it's my fault- now she wont even fool around anymore because I last for a good hour and a half before she's like she can't handle anymore.. wtf is wrong with me?
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stop taking viagra
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nofap/pornfree
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i've went without porn for a few months in anticipation of that possibly being an issue before anything happened. I was told maybe it's just my mental block of being bat shit scared of having a kid.
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so I asked this girl on a date over text (I know, I know, there is a reason but I won't get into it, this isn't the point) over the weekend and she didn't answer me which is obviously a "no".
I see her tomorrow and I don't know what to say or do. We usually sit with each other and a few other friends during our lunch break.
Do I mention anything? Do I avoid her? Do I pretend nothing ever happened?
You can call me a fag for doing over text all you want but I had my reasons.
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You had a reason so I would be fine with it. If she doesn't want too talk about, then don'r push it dude. Although it is different with every person. Do what you think is right. Yeah, not the best advice, eh?
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Whatever you do just dont make it sound like a big deal or that you were worried about seeing her. If you feel like you need to talk to her about it then do but be cool. If shes not interested dont push her
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>>18104133
Alright I'll try to play it cool like it wasn't a big deal, which in reality is really isn't.
But do I proceed like business as usual?
I don't think I should bring it up, but I'm willing to discuss if she surfaces it first.
so, i've got a pretty serious question regarding my relationship that i'm hoping you guys can help me really come to a rational decision about it. I've been dating this guy for three years, we've been living together for one, and in jan. he cheated on me by getting really personal with some chick. I moved out. This guy kept pursuing to talk to me and asked to be forgiven and all... I told him id only forgive him if he proposed, and I did this because I take being in a relationship seriously and I wanted him to show me that he was really committed to me, by doing so. He proposed after meeting up a few days separate, along with promises of change of character and all and i accepted. We are now living together again and its been a month now that we have been "engaged" but he hasn't told any one about it and he hasn't changed his bad habits and i've seen no effort to do so, so I don't know how to feel about what his actions are telling me?
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>>18104060
anyone?
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>>18104091
So he cheated on you, then made you forgive him by pushing empty promises down your throat. After him cheating on you, you deamed it a good idea to get engaged with him. You are now engaged(and lets face it: this period +honeymoon will probably be the peak of the relationship) and he has not lifted a finger to atleast appear as if he is making progress on his *empty* promises. And yet you dont know what to feel about his actions? How about feeling and showing some self-respect? How about telling him that hes a cheat and him CHEATING ON YOU is too big of a stain on the rship for you to bear? How about not accepting the marriage proposal of a person that clearly disrespects you? What do you think will happen 2-3 years down the line when you get a kid and he gets bored of you?- last time he cheated he got a wife out of it, so why not do it again.
TLDR- You should have never talked to him again after he cheated. Dont throw your life away for a lying douchebag, as there are plenty of caring men out there. Dump him.
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>>18104060
can you elaborate on getting really personal? was it sex or more?
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>not normie enough for normies
>not geek enough for geeks
>not smart enough for nerds
What do I do?
Do I find fellow degenerates (ex: druggies, people with weird fetishes, socialists, faggots, nihilists, etc.)?
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>>18104046
if you're a druggie, then yeah go hang iwth druggies.
if you're a weird fetishest, go hang out with them, just be warned that unless you're ALWAYS in the mood to talk about your fetishes you're going to burn out.
same for the others htough if thats how you define yourself do that.
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>>18104046
Hang with people who have similar hobbies. People you enjoy. There's no reason to label yourself. Just be with people you think are fun.
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need advice on an autisic friend who is in A shitty situation 2017-03-06 03:34:06 Post No.18104036
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He is being kicked out of his current place and is trying to move in with me and I cant take him in. Growing up he had his hand held through everything and is barely self-sufficient let alone he is terrible with money. He leeches off of everyone around him whether good or bad and tends to burn bridges with them. I'm the only other option left. now I'm trying to find options to help him out but its very limited seeing as he has jumped from friend to friend for a place to live. What are the options I can assist him with
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>>18104036
Let him stay with you for 1 week.
Stipulations:
1. He does not get a key to your place. Meaning, when you're not home, he can't be there. If you leave, he leaves. That will encourage him to find a job, and shows you're serious.
2. He has to be applying for jobs
3. MAX time he can stay with you in 2 weeks.
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>>18104086
Horrible idea.
Do not let him move in, anon. Stick to yiur guns. Either tell him the truth ot make up a lie but you're right... It will only prolong the inevitable.. Help him find a shelter or send him to dept of social services.. Do not let gim even stay 1 night.
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I have a person whom I am in love with, he is a guy, and so am I. He is openly gay, so I know he wouldn't hate me for telling him my feelings, but he has a crush on another guy. Should I wait to ask him? Should I tell him know? I have dropped a f@#k ton of hints, but I don't think he understands. What should I do?
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>>18104011
just because someone likes someone doesn't mean they're in love with that person really, and if they are into you but dont want to ruin the friendship by coming on to you, they will likely focus their energies on someone else.
most people can be interested in more than one person at a time and just see what happens.
if i were you id go for it. if any of my bros came on to me id be all over that desu.
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Thanks my dude, I will try doing that in the morning.
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>>18104011
Embrace your feelings and give him the dick. You'll regret it if you don't.
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Where I can upload photos for free and anonymously
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Imgur
Newfag
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>anonymously
Any free hosting images site on virtual machine (I suggest Linux) using public wifi