I was dumped a few days ago by my girlfriend. She was really

>>18104159
Sounds mentally defective to me. Time to find some fresh pussy to keep yourself occupied.

>>18104178
This is my problem though. I never go out of my way to date. She just came into my life and we clicked so well. I feel like I want to reach out to her but I don't even know if she's really hurting too or not. I'm just so confused. There are ten things I want to do, but I don't know if they'll make things worse or not.

>>18104192
At the very least it's her responsibility to reconnect with you, not the other way around. Fresh pussy would be better if you can get it though.

>>18104195
Do you think I should try talking to her at all? I can't tell if she doesn't have the courage to say anything to me, or if she just doesn't want to.

>>18104213
Depends how strongly you feel about her I guess. Trying to get her back after she dumped you seems a bit spineless imo, but what the fuck do I know? I'm a khv anyway. Perhaps you could set things up and let her know indirectly (through friends or whatever) that you're open to talking.

>>18104217
It really is pretty spineless. If it were any other girl I've been with I wouldn't do it. But I sympathize with her, her first bf is doing exactly what my first gf did to me. She even sees the fact of him dumping her twice was her fault. I might just be too nice for my own good but I don't want to see her go through that. I might not be able to snap her out of it, but I'll be kicking myself in the ass forever if I don't try. Even though right now I feel like I'm chasing nothing, I want her to know that she doesn't have to feel alone through it all.

>>18104159
as your thinking about this, you should be getting new pussy.... cus she is probably getting gorilla fucked right now by her x,,, just saying. my girl never got over me, and everytime she comes around she gets GarrIla fucked then realizes she fucked up by seeing me and runs to the dude she dumped or just cheated on.

Go cold on her, this make you the new ex she can't stop thinking about. She will try to win you back if you act like you don't want her anymore.

Sometimes damaged goods need to be manipulated to get them to make good choices.

>>18104267
I guess that might be the only way. She sounded torn about dumping me and yet she's still not talking to me. I reached out to her earlier today and was surprised to see her reply immediately. Just a simple "how are you" and "I've been ok". and then she said nothing. I honestly feel like this is it.

>>18104373
Go ahead and grieve the loss of the relationship. This will help if you never her back.
Don't text her anymore until she comes to you, the ball is in her court.

>>18104379
Ok, I'll just wait to hear back from her then. Thank you