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. 2017-03-06 03:40:39 Post No.
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. Anonymous 2017-03-06 03:40:39 Post No. [Report]

so, i've got a pretty serious question regarding my relationship that i'm hoping you guys can help me really come to a rational decision about it. I've been dating this guy for three years, we've been living together for one, and in jan. he cheated on me by getting really personal with some chick. I moved out. This guy kept pursuing to talk to me and asked to be forgiven and all... I told him id only forgive him if he proposed, and I did this because I take being in a relationship seriously and I wanted him to show me that he was really committed to me, by doing so. He proposed after meeting up a few days separate, along with promises of change of character and all and i accepted. We are now living together again and its been a month now that we have been "engaged" but he hasn't told any one about it and he hasn't changed his bad habits and i've seen no effort to do so, so I don't know how to feel about what his actions are telling me?

Anonymous 2017-03-06 03:57:22 Post No.18104091
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Anonymous 2017-03-06 03:57:22 Post No.18104091 [Report]

>>18104060
anyone?

Anonymous 2017-03-06 09:04:51 Post No.18104752
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Anonymous 2017-03-06 09:04:51 Post No.18104752 [Report]

>>18104091
So he cheated on you, then made you forgive him by pushing empty promises down your throat. After him cheating on you, you deamed it a good idea to get engaged with him. You are now engaged(and lets face it: this period +honeymoon will probably be the peak of the relationship) and he has not lifted a finger to atleast appear as if he is making progress on his *empty* promises. And yet you dont know what to feel about his actions? How about feeling and showing some self-respect? How about telling him that hes a cheat and him CHEATING ON YOU is too big of a stain on the rship for you to bear? How about not accepting the marriage proposal of a person that clearly disrespects you? What do you think will happen 2-3 years down the line when you get a kid and he gets bored of you?- last time he cheated he got a wife out of it, so why not do it again.

TLDR- You should have never talked to him again after he cheated. Dont throw your life away for a lying douchebag, as there are plenty of caring men out there. Dump him.

Anonymous 2017-03-06 09:12:10 Post No.18104757
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Anonymous 2017-03-06 09:12:10 Post No.18104757 [Report]

>>18104060
can you elaborate on getting really personal? was it sex or more?

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