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So my gf / ex gf of 3 years just moved in with me 2 weeks ago (3 now) everything was going good for us till she flipped Shit and tried to stab me the other day. She's been I jail for a few days calling me every day trying to apologize. She has one felony and 9 misdemeanors she broke my TV and a bunch of other Shit. I have an opportunity to send her back to live with her family from another state or give her a second chance. I still have feelings for her after that and we have been together 3 years and this is the first time ever she's ever done this. If she stays he will be in court ordered therapy and shit. I need to make the decision buy 5 today any advice helps
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>should I take back a person who tried to murder me?
>it's OK because they never tried to murder me before this
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>>18108273
Yea basically
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>>18108264
Bih cray brah, run!

Or you can just buy plastic knifes and throw all the good ones out... and hide your tools...

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How do I stop being jealous of my girlfriends past
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>>18108199
1. Her past made her who she is today. She might be a lot less interesting/mature/fun without it.

2. She's with you, which makes you the winner and those other guys the losers.
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Shes not yours
Its just your turn
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>>18108205
>2. She's with you, which makes you the winner and those other guys the losers.


The truth is she's with me because none of those other guys wanted anything more with her.

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Long story short. Someone attacked me the other night, I have a very bad temper, I beat them until I was too tired to move anymore. I didn't use a weapon and the witnesses there told the cops I was attacked first and responded in self defense. I didn't get arrested or anything. I was sober. etc

It turns out the guy may be on his death bed. What the fuck happens to me if he dies? I'm freaking out. I live in South Carolina.
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You should be fine mate, you live in a country that has freedoms others don't.

Enjoy taking another's life! Not a lot of people get to kill and live free.
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What are the contexts of the attack? What happened?
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>>18108197
You beat up a guy to death? I don't believe you

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My mom is cheating on my dad with my boss. This guy was asked to stay away but still won't quit. What can be done about this? I'm 23 BTW

-Here's some insight on the situation:
He hired me to get closer to her.
-My mom is incredibly gullible and has many vulnerabilities that he is using to take advantage of her.
-My dad has done nothing to deserve this. He has grown as a person throughout the years and has overcome many faults; he has never been unfaithful however.
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This is a funny situation
> My mom is cheating on my dad with my boss
It means your dad is a weakling and your mother is attracted to strong independent men, who could blame her?
> This guy was asked to stay away but still won't quit
Just lol
Guys who are bosses dont stay away because you ask, they stay away because they fear
Your father should have kicked his ass hard
> he has never been unfaithful
Which makes him even more unattractive.
Dont blame your mother, its not her fault.
The only thing you can do is to beat up your boss instead of your father, which however will emasculate the poor man even more
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>>18108170
this is fucking retarded, tell your dad and side with him, stop defending your whore mom, that's it
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>>18108159
>What can be done about this?

nothing you can't stop women from cheating and your dad should know better then to trust women. Women don't love you the same way and they lack loyalty/honor. Women don't love men and but you think they do because you are projecting your love on to her.

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In that weird transition between talking and "dating" we did go on a couple of dates and hung out at least 8 times. It has made me frustrated more than anything and I'm thinking of cutting it off next time he offers to hang out. I'm the only one carrying most of the conversation and if I don't we end up talking about the same 4 things. He has never been in a relationship before so I believe this is why he doesn't know how to flirt or show a girl he likes he's interested, he treats me like a bro and I'm over it. I thought maybe I should be more patient with him because he's only been in casual relationships.

Thoughts?
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would it be bad to ghost him completely and remove him from all social media? I don't want to come off as bitter/hurt and we have a lot of mutual friends (all of which are better friends w/ him than me im the newest to the group)

how do i do this and keep things cool w/ the mutual friends who's company i enjoy a lot? he's kind of a pissbaby so i wouldn't be surprised if he were to talk shit about me to them...
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>>18108059
That would be so shitty. If you want things to go faster you should make a move.

Maybe hold his hand or kiss him on the check next time you hangout. I remember my first girlfriend did that because I was so nervous.

The very next time we hung out I finally manned up and kissed her.

He's just nervous and if you really like this guy you should just give him a chance. Look back on your first boyfriend and remember how nervous you were.

He is in that position now.
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>>18108070
I never had a bf but I had boys w/ experience interested in me and I can tell the difference easily.

I have thought of taking control and leading the way but the whole treating me like a bro pisses me off too much and I don't want to deal w/ that at all.

I think he doesn't know how to treat girls any other way. He did ask to kiss me on our last date after awkwardly asking me if it was okay then explaining how he didn't want to just go for it cause he thought it would be weird. Not sure if I want to deal w/ this anymore.

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My ex left me for another guy 4 months ago. 2 days after our breakup, they kissed and the only way to get over her was to block her on social media. Then a week ago, she came by my house to say sorry for being so cold during that period and that she hopes we can be friends. I havent unblocked her but she texted me during the weekend and we went out for a movie. I tried to act normal and well, it went okay, I had fun but right now, I still can't shake the feelings of inferiority and betrayal. Should i just cut all contact? Or will being friends with her make me grow as a person since you learn from what hurts you etc. We were together for 2 years btw
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>>18107913

Don't be friends. Trust me on this.
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Cut ties dude. She wants you there to act just like you did when you were her boyfriend minus the sex. The first time she kisses him in front of you will feel like someone stabbed you.

Block her number and dint contact her no more.
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>>18107913
>>18107934
>>18107934
>>18107934
>>18107934
This

Cut contact. Kick her to the curb. Never look back.

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Just curious of what everyone thinks.
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Double digits.
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>>18107779

Me+1
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>>18107779
I don't care about the number but I do care about what he did, who he did it with, why he did it.

I'd rather be with someone who had 2 serious relationships and 5 friends with benefits over someone who had drunk hookups or someone who cheated even if they have a smaller number.

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Alright guys so I need some advice, basically I'm 24 years old and still live with my parents. Yes I know it's sad, but I can't afford to support myself. Anyway my mother is a very bitter, spiteful, miserable woman. She's always been that way, I've had more arguments with her then I care to remember. Lately it's been getting worse, she thinks I'm a failure of a son and thinks I hate her. There are times were we're arguing she cries and says she wishes she was dead, and that nobody cares about her. I can't really do anything for her, she hates that I got a college degree in a useless field and can't find a decent job that pays full-time.

Right now I'm currently working part-time at a shitty retail store making minimum wage, also she hates that I have no passion in life. Personally I'm a straight edge guy, I don't do drugs, drink, or smoke. But I also have no friends or a social circle, I mean my question is what I can do? I can't stand this much longer, everyday it's a fight/argument. If I say even ONE WORD to her she gets upset, she has an angry issue in my opinion and just blows up at anything. Moving out isn't an option, I wish it was but I can't due to financial reasons. Would it better just to not say anything to her? I feel like that might make the situation worse but I can't talk to her, it's like being stuck between a rock and a hard place. If I try to talk to her she screams, cries, and calls me every name in the book like a child. How do you deal with someone like this? Moving out would be ideal, but since that isn't an option I don't know what the next best thing to do is. My dad says it's not right to just ignore each other if we live in the same house, I feel like he's right, I mean should I just have bare minimum conversation with her? I feel like giving her the silent treatment might just make things worse. There really is something wrong with her, she sounds mentally ill to me but won't listen to anyone and she's driving me crazy.
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(OP here I'm continuing because I ran out of room to type the rest.)

I know when you live with a toxic person it's best to get out of that environment but like I said, I really just can't. Maybe if I get a second job and save up money I can move into an apartment or something, but I'll admit living at home has it's benefits like I don't have to worry about rent and bills.
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>>18107090
how are you 'basically' 24? You're either 24 or you aren't.
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>>18107097
Sorry, I meant to use the word "basically" as in "Basically this is what is going on" not "Basically this is my age"

Sorry for the confusion, but I am 24.

Are gay relationships objectively superior (on average) to relationships with women? And by how much?
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relationships with women are great if you have the balls to lead them
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Gay dudes are sluttier than women, and that's saying something.
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Knowing your way around your own helps you smoke a better pole. But on the real sexuality is fluid af do who feels tight and right m'right?

why are there never over night solutions to improving yourself? why can't we change fast?
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>>18106568
Yes there are. Just be confident bro and dont give a fuck what other people think of you. Set goals and succed. Its all about the way you see the world and life
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>>18106568
Because Eve corrupted Adam by eating from the tree of knowledge.
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>>18106568
Wouldn't be as valuable if it were easy

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Why is there such a stigma against people with psychological disorders?

I have OCD and can't get a licence for a gun nor probably join the army because of it. I take medications and go to a therapist and function normally.

It feels emasculating. It seems that society treats all mental problems the same, no matter if it's severe schizophrenia or mild OCD.
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if it was mild you would not be diagnosed with a psychological disorder
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Well, the picture you chose to start thread is the reason you can't get a lisence, join Army etc.
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>>18106539
It's mild enough that I function normally. I'm not a fucking kid or a psycho, and it's extremely hurtful to be treated like that.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, that guy who says monogamy is dead and fart guy
Fuck off

Previous Thread - >>18102078
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How do I know if I actually like her and not just being a lonely fuck?
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>>18105478
You start to have feelings for her. You start to imagine your future with her(like for example; growing old with her.).
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>>18105478
When stuff you like about her looks more like
>the curls in the nape of her neck
>a specific kind of smile or look she gives you
>some quirk other people would find fuck all annoying but you find endearing or even moving
>how easily you can tell her stuff and how much you trust her
>very specific memories/habits/character traits of hers

than
>that she pays attention to you
>that she's a girl
>that other people see a girl paying attention to you
>that you can have sex with her

Basically whether it has more to do with her being a woman or with her being the woman that she is.

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Alright, I'm 18 and will be on a gap year (I.e. A year between high school and University) between September 2017 and when I start Uni in September 2018.

Now, I have no friends, and don't stand a chance at making any between now and the end of Sixth Form. Anyway, I'm also a virgin, and would like to get laid before uni.

How the hell do I meet single women outside of school? I can't do it in a bar, because I'd be alone. I wouldn't want to risk it with a waitress or shop worker because then I can never go back to the shop or restaurant. In fact, I can't think of anywhere. Most people return to the same establishment (be it a shop, coffee house etc.) regularly, so even if I ask a random person in one of those places, I still couldn't go back in case I meet them again.

So how the fuck do I do it? Go out of town?

Or should I just try and get a year-long job in a place with loads of women and try to get lucky?
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>>18105416

If you have no friends or a social life to speak off, then you shouldn't waste your time with this.

Work on simpler social skills befoe trying to get laid. Unless you'd be fine with paying a hooker. You don't need social skills for those.
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>>18105428
Firstly, there's no way to make friends either.

Secondly, my social skills aren't exactly bad, I just fucked things up in school pretty badly to a point where I'm not going to be able to make any friends at this point.
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>>18105461

Friends and partners are relationships. The only difference is the level of commitment. If you can't make friends to hang out, how do you expect someone to get naked with you?

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What's your first impression? How long have you been together and what's the thing of him/her you love the most
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>>18102388
She was an escort that I met several times. For some reason we hung out after awhile then it just went on from there.
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>>18102388
I was an escort and he was this total loser. He pays for everything now. All I have to do is act like his girlfriend
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>>18102394
So she's fucking anyone with money, but you don't care because after she gets 3 or 4 other guys to shoot their cum in her mouth, she kisses you?

That's some fucked up, repugnant shit.

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My girlfriends mother thinks she has the right to go through her mail just because she lives under her roof. I have done research and i know that this is illegal but her bitch of a mother refuses to believe it.
We dont want to take legal action against her just yet as the outcome would probably leave my girlfriend homeless.
I want to send something addressed to my girlfriend that will teach her mother not to go through her mail.
I know about glitter bombs but i dont think that will be a good enough lesson.
Any advice on what to send? I would like to stay within the confines of the law... preferably... and no physical harm to anyone.
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>>18107483
Anthrax
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What's your girlfriend receiving that you care this much about it?
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>>18107485
"dont do thes its ilegal"

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