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Long story short, my hair started thinning and receding about two years ago. It's gotten to the point that I need to buzz it down everyday. The problem is, not that I look bad bald, but I just don't feel like myself anymore. I used to be a semi long haired slim fit artistic guy, but since my hair started to go I hit the weights and now I just look like some bulky shaved hard hardass. I feel like my looks don't match my personality and it makes me feel out of touch with everything I do. How do I get over this depersonalization induced depression and just go back to being happy wiyh myself?
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>>18106013

you get over it eventually, or you can invest in hair growth possibilities, there's new stem cell stuff they do, its expensive at first but afterwards its like 400 bucks every 6 months.
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>>18106013
Novalis said that the most interesting people are those whom you misjudge at first glance.

Embrace looking like a meathead while being an intellectual. It is more interesting than being completely pidgeonholed easily.

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dick goes soft while i'm putting it in
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>>18106006
same. never got past an inch.
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>>18106006

are you using a condom?
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>>18106006
Have her pinch/lick your nipples lightly during penetration .. and during the rest of the act as well .. thank me later

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Hey. How do you learn to drive when you don't know anyone willing to let you use their car? There was never a car in my family growing up, and now that I'm 18, it feels like a vital skill to have.
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Sign up for driving school. Might be a bit pricy but they'll likely have their own car you can drive.
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>>18105885
offer something of value to someone capable of teaching you.

or, steal a car and get court ordered driving lessons.
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>>18105885

drivers ed.

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I'm 18 and about to take the most important exam of my life which will probably decide what I'll become when I grow up. I have exactly 23 days. There are a total of 7 subjects and they each have 2 papers and the whole course is supposed to take me 2 years to finish. I slacked around for most of the 2 years and only just realized that I was fucked a couple of weeks ago. In the last 2 years I've started smoking a lot, fucked up my sleeping cycle, fucked up my relation with my parents and got used to a pretty disgusting lifestyle. I've also been smoking pot very frequently for the last month or so. After I realized how fucked I was, I started having panic attacks and I haven't been able to study even the least bit. All I can think about is running away from all this. I'm too coward to even commit suicide. I keep going back to previous lifestyle everytime I have one of these meltdowns because that seems like the only thing that stops it. IDK what to do and I'm very close to falling apart and just doing something very stupid. I NEED HELP. I ONLY HAVE ONE SHOT AT THIS EXAM AND IF I FUCK IT UP I'LL BE STUCK BEING A FUCKING FAILURE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE AND I DON'T KNOW IF I'M BRAVE ENOUGH TO HANDLE THAT
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>>18105882

why do you only have one shot at this exam?
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>>18105901
Because my country has a fucked education system where I'm only allowed to take the exam once and the gpa is really important if I want to get into a college
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>>18105882
I strongly recommend you focus on the subjects that you are interested in on said course. and revise hard for it, 18 - 20 hour days hard. giving yourself a proper 8 hours rest over weekends.
Revise, look up online content and videos relating to said subjects too. The internet is a house of knowledge, you just need to look for it.

Granted I have never been in your position but given your time fame, I would recommend making the best out of it by focusing on the stuff your good at and interested in.

Good Luck <3

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hey /adv/, wondering if you can give me advice as i look for a job. i'd prefer something involving arts/writing.
things i'm apprehensive about:
>struggling with anxiety/depression right now, in a therapy program getting it together, so i don't want something that has me face-to-face with customers all day
>i haven't worked since 17 and i'm 21

i've applied to a few jobs before, but never really wanted to do any of them so when i didn't hear back i didn't worry about it.

any ideas for things to apply to? i'm filtering through postings now.

what should i do to pursue a job that'll put me ahead?
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>>18105869

nut up or shut up. you're oyung and inexperienced you're not going to get a job in arts or writing.

man the fuck up jesus kids these days,
>im strugglign with anxiety so i dont want face to face

just give up then
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join the military. helped with my depression. I know its different for everybody but if you go in and just say to your self youll complete that first 3 year contract itll really help your future.
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>>18106034
not op but what are requirements for military? im overweight and outside of manual labor i have no experience with life or work.

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Hey all, quick question. I'm interested in building a small game to impress a woman I work with who makes video games semi professionally. I've never made a game and to be honest I don't even really play games, but I'd like to make something small that's playable in around 2-5 minutes, probably with Unity because that's what I have.

I have some experience making small personal web applications with Ruby on Rails and that's about the extent of my technical knowhow. I'm pretty confident in my ability to make music and art for game related projects.

Is this feasible?
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>>18105839
A simple strategy game. Call it a concept for the time being.

Do it, Duke.
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>>18105839
flowerly

every day you give it water, some rare events happen like a bee visiting or something
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>>18105850
>>18105861
Thanks! I'll give it a shot.

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Yo I wanna eat some craigslist pussy

I'm 21 and I'm a virgin, I'm not ugly and I'm not repellant - I just have a broken dick which means I can't have sex until I get it fixed. I have been in situations that could've led to sex before but I've always steered away from them because of this problem (I get that this problem is the larger issue here but that's not what I'm trying to focus on)

I would like to practice cunnilingus on someone, preferably someone around my own age, clean, someone friendly who could offer me tips. If I were to advertise this on Craigslist how likely do you think I may be to get robbed or stabbed? Is this a good idea or not? It's just, at my age and older when you enter a relationship you expect sex to be part of it, and you're expected to have experience. I don't want to disappoint someone I really like in the bedroom because I have no experience, I'd like at least one or two bullets in the chamber before I can get my dick fixed and practice real sex with a partner.

>pic unrelated
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How did you break your dick...??
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>>18106275
Wondering too
>tfw have fucked up 4 opportunities to lose virginty because dick song work
JUST
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>>18106275
>>18106330
It's not 'broken' really. I have a short frenulum. Means I can't pull back my foreskin when I have an erection. I can't put a condom on and having sex would be very painful, and runs the risk of me actually severing it - there'd be lots of blood and I'd need to be rushed to the hospital

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How do you know if you have feelings for someone of the same sex?
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just kiss em
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If you have to even ask this question I think you know the answer.

Feelings are feelings
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The person is gay too, it's just she acts flirty one second but next second she's distant and has this huge crush on another girl.

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Getting a puppy just like this one, can't think of a name. Suggestions?
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>>18105818
Ghost
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tetsuya
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Noooo not tetsuya the dog will get it's papers filled out and given to op anon 5 years behind schedule.

Jk anyways maybe Snowball? I know with the black markings it isn't exactly pure white but it's nice enough I think

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What's the reasoning, I mean the logical cause behind acting stupid in front of a person you are interested in? Why would the brain try to work against you, what does it mean?
I know this doesn't happen to everyone, how do people get around it? Do they simply not give a shit about the person they are with?
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Its mostly just distraction really. You get so hyperfocused and hung up on the other person you pretty much pay zero attention to what you fuck up. Most people don't care Becasue well it happens to everyone. Even the most alpha dude probably tripped over himself in grade school.
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>>18105810
>Why would the brain try to work against you,

Welcome to Psychology

>how do people get around it?

It's all about how people handle stress I think. Some perform better under stress, some do not.

Which one are you?
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>>18105848
I definitely underperform when I'm under stress, for most things like driving, college exams, etc.

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Sorry I let the old thread die. I was too slow. I hope it is not a problem to make another one. Just wanted to answers the questions the one anon had.

>>18103875
>A lot of people might have ditched her then and there, soon as they saw the cuts and heard the crying and everything.
To be honest I had some girls who thought who have problems and cut themselves too. However they really had the typical, stupid first world problems. They cut themselves, yes, but certainly not as deep. They didn’t have problems, they wanted them. And they wanted attention. And they disgusted me.
I am not as much as a knight as you might think. I fucked around a lot.
Literally.
And I thought it would stay like that. Of course I always tried to find someone who I can actually love, but since I have pretty high standards I thought I would never find that one.
But now I think I did.
And even if I wouldn’t have fallen in love with her, after I heard her story I think it would be impossible for most people not to at least try to help her.

>Obviously, you can't just have her stay when she comes over, her family wouldn't really be happy about that and that might put her siblings in a compromised position which she wouldn't like.
Oh no. I never even considered that. Of course I want to get her out of the toxic environment she is in right now but not at such costs. I want her to finish her studies and get a degree.
After that she can work pretty much everywhere. She is a native japanese and has high english skills, add that to a degree in law and she has a lot of options for proper work in the future. Even or especially overseas. Maybe in the law department of some big companies.
And that is my hope. As soon as she can get out of there I would love her to come here. I am going to attend university myself in a year, so we still have some years ahead of us. The plan is to in the end get a nice little house in the countryside of japan.
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>>18105803
Also she will never abandon her siblings. And I would never ask that from her. She even said herself that even that she loves me with all of her heart, if she had to choose between her siblings and me she would choose her siblings. And I can absolutely understand that. I am actually happy that she said it.

>Have you met her folks or siblings, by any chance?
Yes I did. I visited her family when her younger siblings had a sports festival at their school. Her family seemed very happy at that point, including her parents. But of course no family would openly show the problems they have to strangers or even foreigners. Especially not japanese families. Losing their face in public, shame society etc.
So I wasn’t surprised to be honest. But everything I know from her parents, their true side so to say, makes me hate them.
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>She is a native japanese and has high english skills, add that to a degree in law and she has a lot of options for proper work in the future. Even or especially overseas. Maybe in the law department of some big companies.
She would be studying Japanese law, so to apply it elsewhere she would usually have to take a one year LLM program. Are you from the US? It might be more hassle that way, since the US has a common law system. Also, the legal market is highly competitive right now in the US, and it would be virtually impossible to be put on retainer in a good company without spending years at a biglaw firm first (which is hellish, and VERY competitive). To maximize her potential, it may be best to consider staying in Japan.

Regardless, hope you two best of luck. I don't really have any real advice on what you can do, so I guess wishing you well is all.
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>>18105871
I am from central europe.

Well as I said we still have some more years to go until I will finish my university years myself. So she has more than enough time to qualify herself even more. Whatever works I guess. We'll find a way.

Thank you very much. Same to you.

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Why dont i enjoy video games or tv anymore?
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>>18105763
You may be burned out because you overindulged. Do some other stuff too and keep it varied.
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>>18105763
Both immature hobbies. Books and movies are the next step up
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>>18105772
>Talking about immaturity
>On a mongolian anime masturbating fishweaving board of nazis and gays
>??

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Do girls study graphic design?
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It's a worthless degree so: yes
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>>18105747
Yah mostly girls study that I think. Or at least the only people I know who do are 4 girls.

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Why do I suck at dating girls?
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>>18105742
because you should be dating guys.
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>>18105742

We don't know you, so hard to answer.
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>>18105742
You suck at everything you don't have experience doing. The answer is the same: you need practice.

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Is being a chef a realistic career prospect for me? Given that my cooking skills are minimal. I consider myself to be a perfectionist l, and it often take a long time to complete tasks as it stands.

In addition to that, I've been a NEET for the better part of five years. (Odd jobs in between, but I haven't had steady work since 2007-2011)

I considered attending a hospitality school upon dropping out of grade 12, but never pursued it. It's just something I keep coming back to out of everything I've considered, I'd really LOVE to become a qualified chef but I don't know if I have what it takes. Any thoughts? I turn 25 this year and wouldn't mind making a positive change.
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>>18105701

It's possible, but you really have to enjoy cooking if you want to be a professional chef. Most of the best chefs in the world had minimal coking skills ot did something entirely different at first. If cooking isn't your life, I guarantee you'll hate it.
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>>18105701

probably not, though i dont think its really an ideal field for anyone who actually likes to cook.

becuase when you're in the kitchen its more like being a slave. you are throwing together meals as fast as you can trying not to let the restaurant back up. the people who flourish here are the ones who are more interested in management, they become the head chef and cook but also order everyone else around, kinda like managing a set or a show or what have you..

regardless, you need to stop making excuses for yourself.

>is it realistic to be a chef?
>i havent worked in 5 years

with the exception of general employment it has nothing to do with being a chef.
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NO! DO NOT!
I tried to become a chef because I just thought it'd be something fun to do as I did a couple subjects back in high school. I had no real interest or talent in the art but just kind of did it. I worked in a relatively busy restaurant for about 8 months and absolutely hated it. I do not deal with being under pressure to get shit out quickly and that is of perfect quality. You have to be fast and good.
The in between service time is alright though, it's much slower paced and it's actually where the real cooking happens. I'd consider working in a restaurant that is failing and only does a few tables a night but that's just dumb and lazy.

It is a high stress fast paced job, the hours are long and your social life will be destroyed if you're full time. You cannot be slow ever, stuff overwhelms you quickly in a kitchen and if you can't handle that then you'll be super fucked.
That being said, it might be worth a shot. You may be completely different to me and end becoming the next Gordon Ramsay, he didn't particularly want to be a chef.

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