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Well she's probably gonna kill herself so i'd go ahead and find a new girlfriend

>>18107120
She's just looking for affirmation that shes not a loser... she does it because she wants attention.

Pro tip: don't give her any

>>18107120
Go lay some pipe dumbfuck. Like right now. Do it.

Realize deep in your heart that if your sis thinks like that she's no thrill to have around anyhow.

Pray tell does she have colored hair not unlike a poison dart frog and wears problem glasses?

>>18107005

/pol/ here.
Women are like jews; They shriek as they hit you.

She knows fully well what the divorce courts are like and that they've killed off more of a countries own soldiers than it's enemies.

She just doesn't care because it contradicts "all men are evil, feminist gurl power, WE ARE DEFINATELY THE FAIRER SEX IF WE JUST KEEP SAYING IT IT'S TRUE" wymyn cult.

You gone against the cult. Should've hid your powerlevel, instead now she's gonna play the victim because women are the real victims in this legalised slave trade that drives hundreds of men to suicide each year by throwing them in and out of debtors prisons and forcing them to pay more than they actually earn.

(Don't worry though, the golem always turns. millenial women are out-earning men and if they don't fight for change now they won't have enough support to actually makes changes when it does affect them - particularly as there is more scrutiny on courts to be egalitarian and fair.

And really, even if they cause change, it would be an admission of wrongdoing, allowing men who've paid alimony to apply for backpayments and damages... so either way the golem is going to turn and hurt women).

>>18107005
It's in our nature, mate. She's genetically programmed to behave this way (social female self-survival). Try to avoid the topic, and start spending more time with her besides showing her that you're a good and sensible person.

>>18106870

by not fucking it up.

How though?

>>18106870

Well, girls love flowers, and it's really gentlemanly, so be sure to greet her at her door with a watermelon.

Dinner is a fine first date, it gives you plenty to talk about. I recommend KFC because everyone likes fried chicken, and 12 entire spices really shows off how cultured you are.

Now, an often underrated side of modern dating is chivalry. Historically, the man would order the food and drink for the woman - this however opens up logistical problems, predicting allergies and such. Don't force her to eat food she can't, but you can order her a grape soda, because no one is allergic to grapes.

Another fun activity you can attempt is swimming, but that should generally wait until a few dates in at least because of the whole revealing clothes thing.

If you want to show off your wealth, you could also try to get her on your ship. Be sure to hand her some ropes in case she falls off. Safety first.

Lastly but not least, at the end of the day, kiss her on the cheek, tell her you had a wonderful time and say goodnight. Once she's home, check to make sure you still have your wallet, ready for your next date.

>>18106655
why has your dad being a "hard ass" made you submissive?

go through your past and figure out as much as you can

>>18106655
you slowly learned it now you have to slowly un-learn it

>>18106684
Yeah I should of gotten into more detail. I had a very classic Italian New York type dad that used belts, shoes, etc whenever I didn't do what I was told. When I was 9 he whipped me because I didn't eat a bowl of cereal. 14 he punched and kicked me when he saw me hitting my sister for stealing my DS games (probably understandable idfk anymore). A belt when I was 15 for knocking over a vase. Last time was when I was 17 for slamming my door as loud as a could. That last time I sort of lured him into it, in order to call the cops, then it never happened again. There are probably other examples, but those are the most prominent that I remember well.

>>18106525
Everything but dubstep and shit rap and shitrock. Bring up the fact that shinedown sucks. And r&b is also quite lame

with words that convey the preference that you have regarding sounds that have a certain harmony.

>>18106525
>How are you supposed to answer this question?
Well, what kind of music DO you like?

Include me in screenshot

>>18106494
Just stick to oral then.

>>18106505
While it is true that oral isn't all that unhealthy if the cock is clean and I don't attempt to deepthroat, I often get so heated during the act that I let my mouth get brutalized, which usually leads to negative health effects afterwards. Swelling of the tonsils, throat, etc all usually occur after I perform oral. Do I just have to learn to discipline myself? It doesn't help that I am masochistic in bed.

>>18106439

You're not going to convince her that having positive people in her life isn't important.

Its not about which mindset is better its just about how people operate differently. She uses positive thinking to manage her stress and you use the piece of mind of contingency plans to manage yours.

You're just two different people who use two different methodologies to make sense of the world. Either you'll both come to respect each other for your differences or break up.

>>18106458
>You're not going to convince her that having positive people in her life isn't important.

It's important of course, but I don't want her to think that just because I'm extremely down in the dumps one day due to a major loss in my life, she needs to break up with me or something.

It's one of the reasons I despised The Fault In Our Stars - I think the dude's name was Isaac. He goes blind and suddenly the girl promising him eternal love ditches his ass immediately. This sort of mentality, in my opinion, was born from this pseudo-scientific bullshit.

>>18106560

Perhaps you should come to consider that you and your girl are just two different people?

If it bugs you this much anon, maybe you should move on.

If you can go to sleep tonight not worrying about it then gratz on that super gf bro

>>18106116
abandon ship immediately, these people cannot be fixed
source: experience

>>18106131
The least kind of advice I wanted to hear...

Is it still hopeless with the amount of therapy she's going through

BPD? Sounds like most women
either way, she's an emotional drag
your call whether it's worth it to put up with it for weeks, months, or years

>>18105526
>How do they do it?

Better question: Why do you want to do it? Do you really want friends or you are just looking for possible dates?

>>18105526

Just make friends with anyone. If you know a few guys who know some girls, you'll probably eventually become friends with the girls too. Find a friend circle to hang out with and don't focus so much on whether they're male or female. You'll meet both through the friends you make and if you click, you'll befriend those people too after some time and interaction.

>>18105526
Fuck if I know OP, but I find it hard to make friends at all in the first place. Anyway college girls are generally pretty boring. Why you'd want platonic friendships with any of them? Even the more interesting ones (history / philosophy students) are barely a tier above the base.
Let's stop meming and admit druggies are the best girl buddies a guy can have.

It's always the partner's responsibility to shut down advances from the opposite sex. Tell your bf he needs to shut it down ASAP and that it makes you uncomfortable when he lets her continue to flirt with her.

>>18104385
Ahhh thank you, cause when I tell him about it he just tells me not to worry over and over again, but there's this counter where he works behind and she'll go behind with him and i REALLY wanna break her nose and whenever I'm around she never talks, also my bf is spanish and the place I work at is 99% spanish except me so she'll talk about me in spanish (i understand most times) and i hear "nigreta" (I'm part black and white) and i told my bf but he didnt do anything like?? I just wanna rant about all of this cause it's only been 2 weeks since this started

Does she know that you and him are dating?

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>>18104136
Gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8

>>18104136
>have guys ever considered a girl to be just a friend?

yes, many times.

>or will guys always see their women as possible dating potential than just a friend?

the younger you are, the more likely you are to see a girl as just a friend. as you get older, you tend not to have any legitimate platonic female friends as what you two are able to enjoy together becomes increasingly small. your female friends are usually just people from class / work, or your friends girlfriends or girlfriends friends, but its rare to get the closeness you did when you were younger. rare but not impossible.

they can be friends.

>>18104145
I don't see how this is bait. I've wondered this myself too as a girl. Not OP, but I'd like to know if making friends with dudes is a fruitless effort.

I honestly don't give a damn as long as it is not FUCKING ALL OVER THE PLACE.

I like the trimmed stubble, completely shaved is weird.

>>18103447
i prefer smooth, but as long as its not a giant ridiculous bush im ok with it. trimmed short seems to be a fair compromise in your situation

Why are you in school?

>>18101136
I'm 23. We met when I was in school and had an unplanned pregnancy. I had gone through like 5 majors. Now I'm serious and waiting to see whether or not I'll be admitted into Nursing School so I can hurry up and get a job

>married to a man 11 years older
>only known him for 2 years
>have a kid together

Sounds like you've got bigger issues than your husband not paying enough attention to you.

>>18106666
Who needs humans? Fuck em. There are better animals out there.

>>18106666
Ask people for the time. Don't forget to smile.

>>18106666

go outside and talk to them

>>18106535
zasto /adv/ nema update dugme?

yeah, dont

life gets better incredibly fast and unexpectedly, its like how bad it gets when you've been waiting to piss for hours vs 30 seconds after you start pissing, honest.

quit pot and drugs for a while, interrupt yourself every time you shit talk yourself in your head or wanna get stoned (this is a great habit, you will not believe how positive this is). meditation is shit hard but do it for 15 mins a day. read a book by ram dass, your love for your best friend isnt real its just a fixation, you can break it. dont ice yourself, dont listen to shitheads who tell you to. cute fuckn pups!!