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>>6841386
why is he becoming a meme just now ?

>>6841386

Have you tried therapy?

>>6841395
nope

and I don't think I will be able to for a while, im moving across country in a week or so

I don't feel that it's strange. I have a hard time understanding women in general though. I don't understand how female attraction works nor their feelings.

I do feel bad for them though, with the nonfunctional penis and all.

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>>6841046
>puts the question in the subject field
>Does any other mtf feel ftms are strange for wanting to be a guy?
>or vice versa?

I feel like mtfs who feel like this are not really transgender. Straight men ask ftms the same thing.
If you understand having gender dysphoria, i don't see why it would be hard to comprehend that ftms experience it as well.
I've never thought mtfs were weird for wanting to be women, because they don't 'want to be women, just like i don't 'want to be a man
but that we both experience a disconnect from our physical bodies

>>6841068
>i don't see why it would be hard to comprehend that ftms experience it as well.
Gender dysphoria in case with mtfs and ftms works in opposite directions.

>>6840847
desu i didnt feel like a man after but i would feel disgusted with myself for like 10 minutes after then go back to being how i normally am

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Yeah it's called AGP
Go look at their general.

this will fuck you up till you want to be a woman just seconds after cumming.

>>6840752
Wat

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>>6840754

>>6840561
It's okay! If your bf/gf was okay with it then they'd have made a terrible partner.

Nothing of value was lost

>>6840561
faggot

>>6840561
what happened? orientation?

>>6840500
Yes. My parents were remarkably shit when it came to raising me in some aspects. They weren't directly abusive or anything; just pretty shit at their job.
I want to be a markedly less shit parent to a child, just because I feel like someone deserves to have parents that aren't quite shit at what they do.

>>6840507
Just out of curiosity, what was so shitty about them? Did they ignore you, were they overprotective, etc?

>>6840500
Maybe one day, but they couldn't be my own biological children and I feel a little conflicted about that.

no.
i gave my ex-boyfriend roses for our 6 month anniversary.
he acted confused and said, "you didnt actually buy these for me". so i said, "fine", and then kept them for myself.
later, after they had dried out and i had started to emotionally check out of our relationship and he was feeling clingy because he knew he was fucking it up, he suddenly wanted them, but i told him no. they're still sitting on my table.

jackass.

A friend gave me a book and his old cell phone. Bfs just gave me their bodily fluids.

>>6840437
Mostly flowers and video games. Wish I had the time to enjoy the latter as much as the former.

Also biscum not invited :^)

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biscum here

don't need to turn straight, already would

>could

um. no one.
id just spend the night figuring out how a straight guy thinks. that would be far more interesting to me than putting my dick in some woman.
or maybe i would change my mind after i turned straight and come up with some woman to fuck then, cuz right now i can't think of a single woman i have any interest in at all.

hrt does affect skin, it's not as thick anymore for example

>>6840235
I think it's probably a little bit of both. Your skin is more thin and sensitive. You will bruise more easily, etc.

But there is largely a mental effect involved too I think. To call it placebo is reductive, I feel, but it's basically the notion that you are less "numbed" to the pain because you're probably dissociating less from reality.

>>6840235
If you're used to smashing into things and not hurting yourself, just wait until you get breast buds. Although I find it's easier to not hurt yourself over time because your body gets used to how to move properly

>>6839674
tastes like a hand

>>6839689
no, hands taste salty from all the urine

>>6839674
like salty milk and coins

>>6839559
>>what is "cis"?
The opposite of trans. a person born
a male who likes being male or born female and likes being female.
>>gender vs. sexuality?
Gender is who you are, sexuality is who you like. Pretty simple.
>>does all that weird cringey tumblr shit fall in with LGBT (i.e. identifying as a tree)?
No.
>>what is HRT?
Hormone replacement therapy. A male person might take estrogen to become more female or a female person might take testosterone to become more male.
>>is gender a social construct?
Gender is your brain's idea of your body's sex i.e. genitals and other sexually dimorphic characteristics. Gender ROLES are a social construct.
>>what is gender dysphoria?
When your gender doesn't match your sex. When your brain thinks you're supposed to be a female but your body is male or vice versa.

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>>6839559
>Cis
Literally just means "not trans". Doesn't have anything to do with gender conforming. It just means that you don't have gender dysphoria.
>Gender vs. sexuality
Sex = physically/anatomically male or female
Gender = A more abstract creation made up of socialization, societal expectations, how one recognizes themselves as a male or female and their place as male or female
>does all that weird cringey tumblr shit fall in with LGBT (i.e. identifying as a tree)?
No. Those identities are based on placebo effects and wishful thinking rather than legitimate gender dysphoria or recognized sexuality. The true sexuality and gender identities are heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, asexuality, transwoman, and transman.
>is gender a social construct?
Yes.

>>6839610
>The true sexuality and gender identities are heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, asexuality, transwoman, and transman.
And agender/nonbinary

Pretty much exactly my situation right now. Tgirl, btw
>met guy through mutual friend
>he's super into me
>doesn't know I'm trans at this point so I keep him from getting too handsy
>we go out a couple times after that
>tell him
>he's shocked, maybe a little disturbed
>continue to hang out for the rest of the evening but no more physical contact
>a few days later he wants to go out again
>we end up at his place
>he ends up taking my virginity
>been dating for a little over a year now
>keeps making comments about "still loving me if I hadn't transitioned"
>encouraging me to wear unflattering clothing and no makeup around the house
>I joke about me being his gateway drug to full blown gay
>he shrugs, "maybe"

Most messed up part is that I feel a lot less dysphoria and over-all self-hate than I did before and I think if he pushed a little more I could be happy being a femboy.
So... Idk, I guess I wouldn't love him any less if we lived as a regular gay couple and it seems clear hrs feeling the same

>>6839448
No. I wouldn't. If someone is attracted to me as my assigned gender, they are pretty fucked up, cause I look nothing like a man. I may not pass 100% but its damn near 99% if I don't speak, and even then its like 85%, and I'm not even two years into HRT. Someone that was only attracted to me because I shared one part with the gender they were attracted to, would basically have to ignore every other part of me. That's worse than a chaser, significantly.

>>6839448
Right as I started transition my gay male friend mentioned he was attracted to me. Trouble was, I still preferred women.

Hypothetically, I would date a straight woman, as long as she otherwise respected my identity.

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>>6839321
No, you're not wrong. And if you "trans" friend said that they transitioned due to having a perception that they """felt""" like a man they're most likely a transtrender or someone suffering from the placebo affect.

There's an easily distinguishable difference between genuine gender dysphoria, and someone who claims that they "'"feel"'" like the opposite gender due to preconceived and false notions about said gender.

>>6839321
I doubt thats the entire reason why your friend transitioned. sometimes things are explained poorly

>>6839321
>Isn't the very nature of transgenderism rooted in sexism?
Highly reductive thinking and failure to define nebulous terms like "sexism." You're light-years away from having this conversation with the consideration it demands.

>>6839129
bruh just look at asians

they're qt as fuck

>>6839139
One of the articles I read talked about how asians ate it for generations and "they don't have boobs so you'd be an idiot for thinking soy makes you girlier".

Shit was fucking hilarious. The person wasn't even being ironic on porpuse.

>>6839129
Not really. Like yeah if your diet is literally 90% soy it might have some effect but other than that no.

Fuck em. Its obvious you arent happy in the place you are at right now and you owe it yourself to do whats best for you. If they really loved you they will eventually except you after they digest the reality of the situation and get over it.

>>6839196
Yeh thought so too, I wonder if they will finally accept it after I move out and they miss me (I'm an only child so they'd end up completely alone). I mean fuck, it's "accept me or you won't ever see me again" right?

>>6839039
no
you should never even consider htr until you are at least 40 and have been able to understand the risks and the life you would be giving up. and of course never NEVER take black market drugs instead of seeing a licensed professional. these are serious business and can cause death is handled inappropriately