Should I just go out with a girl? I'm getting lonely but finding a bf seems so much harder than finding a gf
Give it a try. You have literally nothing to lose.
>>6828120
Accept you mind, money, house, parental rights, freedom, reputation and on and on it goes.
>>6828138
>break up if you hate it
>don't get her pregnant out of wedlock (you fucking retard)
>problem solved
Hi, I'm a mtf tranny. Been on HRT for about 3 months, came out a year ago.
Recently I've been getting signals from someone who is like my childhood best friend. A couple weeks ago he accidentally told me he liked me. He's always been "super straight alpha" so idk if I've unlocked some bi-tendencies or what.
I like him a lot and now I find myself thinking about him a lot.
What should I do?
Well what did he say? How did he accidentally reveal that?
This is happening to me too, almost word for word.
Minus the attraction, sorry dude.
>>6827803
make him take you on like a date. Dinner, movie, post movie cuddle/coitus
im bisexual and Ive been told I look straight a few times.
>maybe he was just always repressed but is comfy with u.
>tfw you think about suicide on a daily basis
>tfw you wish you had a bf on a daily basis
>tfw you're waiting for your first shipment of hrt
>>6828284
I'm not quite sure what the fuck pajeet is doing with it in Delhi desu
Can you touch your elbows together behind your back, /lgbt/?
>>6827753
Yes. I never knew I could do that!
>>6827753
No, I'm not a degenerate alien with broken joints
I am a degenerate faggot though
So I'm a straight 18 year old guy (bi sexual maybe) living on a college campus and I want to experiment with anal play. so what's the best way to go about getting fucked? I have a girlfriend who said she'd be up for pegging but she doesn't wanna do it till we move in together. any tips on how to safely lose my anal virginity?
idk if this is the best place to ask but /b/ just calls me a fag and /adv/ isn't working for me right now
Sometimes there's bdsm events where they have mistresses. Femdom is becoming really popular so I'm also sure it wouldn't be hard to find someone on tinder or another site
>>6827656
ik this sounds really stupid but i couldnt do it with a girl I'd feel too much like i was cheating
Did you ever get the feeling you only like LGBT cause you're suppose to?
>>6827615
Yes.
>>6827615
I was cursed (by G*d) to only be attracted to transpeople. so i can't help it. nothing can help me.
>>6827643
>le Jew meme
That said, I find the flags a little offensive
How does one get a qt twink bf? Do they even exist? Third year of uni and I've not seen one for years.
>>6827415
I've encountered a number of twinks at uni, but they're all taller than me :(
5'9 isn't manlett right?
>>6827415
I've heard that my university next year is flooded with twinks and femboys; you should try there.
>mfw bearcub
>mfw probably not going to find bear bf there
>>6827429
I'm 6'2. Really no benefits to being this tall. 5'9 Isn't manlette, I think it's average height.
I was talking to my therapist about support groups, and she handed me this piece of paper. I'm not really against people who identify as non-binary as long as they have dysphoria, but this group is giving me strong Tumblr vibes just from this paper alone. I guess I shouldn't be surprised given the DC area is flooded with SJWs preaching whatever they read on EverydayFeminism, but I wish I could find a truscum-only support group that banned these kinds of people.
Anyway, any good or bad experiences with support groups? Stories please.
>>6827394
wtf is pangender
Join and remind them that there are physically, only two genders, and anything else is basically personality quirks.
>>6827440
I would love to get up in there and recite a heavily sourced speech about how gender is biologically innate but I'm too much of a coward to speak in front of a large audience of strangers lmao
Why is it so hard to wear a condom?
>>6827270
b/c it doesn't feel as good and i want to die anyway
>>6827303
>b/c it doesn't feel as good
this is a meme
>>6827323
No, it isn't. Rawdogging really does feel better. Even if you use an ultra-thin condom the sensation is just not the same.
I originally posted this on /r9k/ due to how much experience they have with traps, but I learned my lesson as ultimately only a handful of responses were actual advice, the rest were just bashing or sissy kinks. So I'm posting it here.
My little brother, who turned 14 back in April, came out to me as a MTF transgender a couple days ago while visiting my apartment, after several hours of going back and forth through metaphors and really vague hinting.
He left last night, I haven't talked to him since. I pretended like I didn't remember anything that happened but dear god I do.
Hes never shown any interest in anything feminine at all, if anything he goes out of his way to avoid it, always seemed pretty opposed to most anti-discrimination laws and just didn't favor or oppose LGBTs whenever we talked politics, he definitely isn't liberal (hardcore Trump supporter).
Not sure what to do, I'm tempted to help him and take him to a therapist/doctor, but I really don't want our parents finding out. And even then, I'm not sure if he could pass (hes 5'6 and has a somewhat muscular build for his age already, arguably feminine face albeit), nor am I sure I want that as a brother? I'm praying to its some stage but he seems genuine, I doubt hes doing it as a phase, joke, or attention whoring.
Like I said, I've already gotten some advice but a lot of its conflicting and I just want to make the right decision here, part of me is sure hes legit and wanting to get him HRT and set him up with other people to talk about this with without my parents knowing, it'd be weird but its for the best I guess. I know I shouldn't tell my parents not only because they'd take it badly but also because hes my little brother and actually trusted me to keep my mouth shut, but I'm worried that I'm not making the right call here and that they have a right to know. And thats not even mentioning this entire thing could just be some fucking stage he'll come to regret later on. Help.
>>6827173
oh hi, i'm the one who actually gave you some advice in the last thread
i hope you get what you're looking for anon!
>>6827173
It's best that you help him now lest you accidentally stunt him into waiting years to transition and thus dooming him to hon-dom. Whatever makes him not pass now will be ten times worse by then.
>he definitely isn't liberal (hardcore Trump supporter
He's most likely transtrender if this is the case. Since you already know so much about MTFs, why don't you quiz him about that and see what he knows? It might help you to realize how he came to "discover" his trans-ness and whether it was something he knew all along (trutrans), a slow realization, or a sudden realization (transtrender).
Be supportive.
If he's doing it for attention this will call his bluff and he will feel bad and come clean.
If she legit has tranny feels and you are supportive towards her you just gained a little sister that will hold you in esteem forever.
Being cool about it is a win win, so you might as well.
Do you have any racial preferences when it comes to dating? If so, what are they?
>>6827141
im down with the brown
Sergeant Anon here from the 5th /K/ommando Group. This thread is bound to attract radical SJW's. As a result we have been deployed here by conservative rich white men from /pol/ for peace keeping operations. You know, to show that they care about /lgbt/ issues. Carry on.
Whites, Native American, East Asians (Orientals), and white Hispanics are my preferred choice meats.
Blacks, Arabs, Indians, mongoloids, Aboriginals, and dark skinned Latinos need not apply.
Wtf is this bullshit? Why do the trans-folk get upset over non-trans people playing trans roles?
I'm not adopting that fucking word cis, when I heard a trans person say "cisplain" to me, I had to remind myself to breathe over the stupidity I was just knocked with. Whena straight person is talking to me about homosexuality, I don't deride them by saying don't try to "gayspalin" things to me.
It's called ACTING people. A critical point in acting is pretending to be something that you're not. I don't see gay people get up in arms and assblasted when straight people play gay people?
What's the big fucking deal, at least trans people are getting media coverage and yet this is what they're focusing on?
I have never witnessed anything dumber from any minority community in my life than this.
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/08/31/matt-bomer-to-play-transgender-sex-worker-in-upcoming-drama/
Is there anyone here who actually gets mad over non-trans actors playing trans people? And let us not forget that Matt Bomer is LGBT so why are the trans folk going after a fellow LGBT member? This is stupidity at it's finest.
>>6827046
Err I should have said "straightsplain", whatever "cisplain" or any other word that tries to fuck with the word explain to try and throw notions of privilege in people's faces is dumb.
>>6827056
Eat shit you infection.
Its a dumb thing to get upset about. Patrice O'Neal, a black man played a transexual in a movie once. That was a long time ago. I don't think he got backlash for it then.
im 22 years old now and for years ive wanted to be a girl but im horrified of hrt like how do i come to terms with the fact that i want to be a girl accept it and take the plunge into hrt? like honestly ive come close to coming out and trying hrt before but i never do
>>6826866
>horrified of hrt
hey there, hon
>>6826870
not exactly horrifed of hrt but like idk im unhappy as a man but i really dont know how to just accept what i am and start hrt scared of transitioning as a whole and while im 99% sure im trans as normal people dont want to be the opposite gender i jsut dont have the balls to do it or maybe that minor doubt in my head that im not trans just stops me idk
>>6826866
That is a feeling you will have until you jump in and take the plunge. I recommend you go for it, I used to feel that way too.
Fag male here. How do I find a relationship in college? The only LGBTBBQ+ organizations around are circle jerks for rabid tumblrites and I wouldn't touch grindr with a ten foot pole. I go to a pretty large university, but the only other homos I've met have been insufferable.
>>6826839
Bump
Try getting involved with whatever you're interested in. There are bound to be other gay guys interested in the same thing.
Alternatively, if you live in a big city there's sure to be gay bars.
>be me
>fag/biscum, sub
>have straight friend who ive known for 5 years
>came out to him
>he's okay with it
>fooling around more than usual
>heyythatsprettygay
>he agreed to do some stuff
>gay stuff
>pretty much everything except anal
how could i receive pleasure without getting the boipuss fucked?
Frotting (aka rub your peepees together, an kiss if he wants)
>>6826736
sounds good, any other advice?
>>6826697
You could use a chinese finger trap and get both penises stuck in there.