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So i came back home for Christmas and to be with family from college, i have my own room and my own comp that, lets just say has a shit tun of porn on it. I always make sure i keep my comp pass protected and lock it before i do anything. But for some reason i get really paranoid that my folk and siblings have been trying to catch me away from my comp and see the weird sht im into. I know im just being paranoid about it but damn its bothering me. So how do i stop being so paranoid? im pretty sure my anxiety has a role in it as well, so how do i stop being so concerned if they saw anything? aka how do i stop giving a fuck?

p.s gif is how i feel right now

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>be me
>just broke up with partner of 2 years
>tired and stressed out from constant study
>old senior from school randomly shows up at my place
>we end up hanging out and its really lovely
>she starts being flirty and asks me over for new years
>she says she'll be alone
>SHE WANTS TO FUCK

do i go for it? also, i've never eaten out a girl, so do you have any tips?

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Short story: I tried to manipulate someone I work with because I hated her and wanted to get her fired I thought the best way to do it would be by pretending to like her alot it was working for a couple of days we talked alot but I started to like her and now I can't stop thinking about her witch wouldn't be hard to do in the first place you should see her she's fucking perfect she's got beautiful eyes perfect shape perfect everything that's what made her so dangerous in the first place now I feel fucking stupid because Im fucking depressed no I don't want to presue anything with her she's married and a little bit older than me plus it would ruin everything that I worked so hard for I just want it to go away what caused it wasent how beautiful she was I'm strong willed enough not to fall for the petty bullshit its the way she responds to me the way she looks at me it drives me fucking crazy any advice would be greatly appreciated should I try to have sex with her? Will that make it go away? The problem isn't that I think I couldn't have her its that I think I could and I know its a bad idea mabye sex just once would make it all go away but it could also make things 10x worse

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positive motion thread

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How do I find out if my landlord enters my home when I am far from home, without him finding out I did?
I think he seriously breaches my space when I am away. It is important for him not to realize I did find out about the breaches.
Thanks /adv/.

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Is it interesting that my coworker commented about hearing my heart beat when she hugged me?

We like to hug each other at work, even though we can't go out on a date since she's engaged, and she usually lays her head against my chest, since it's at her level (she's 5'2", I'm 6'1"), but just the other day she stayed with the hug a little longer, commenting about how she could hear my heart beating.

Should I take anything from this other than she just being a friend?

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feeling alone and horny, picrelated charges 50$ for 15min, no foreplay. Apparently 22 y-o, 5'0 95lbs

I've never been with a professional before... so I'd wear a rubber obviously. I'm affraid to catch something but then again I guess I could catch a disease from any random girl I bang

So did anyone from /adv/ ever purchase a prostitute ? thoughts ?

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Hey all

I'm in a steady 4 year relationship and have nothing to complain about in that area. However, I'm getting really attracted to my sisters sister-in-law, and I know that she fancies me too, primarily because she gives me these really obvious looks all the time. I feel slightly uneasy about it, but still I return some of the signals. It's getting to the point where I think our families actually might notice whats going on...

I am happy being with my current girlfriend and do not want to mess that up. But I want to sort of return some signals that I fancy this girl too. Should I stop, or is it okay? She is single by the way. Is it unfair of me to return signals of attraction when I'm not inclined to actually let it escalate?
Or is it unfair of her to show interest in me, as she knows about my relationship?

Ah jeez, I know it's bad, but what I really want is to have them both...

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I've been with my girlfriend for approaching 5 years. We got together in highschool, and we've both only ever seriously dated each other.

We are both loners. In highschool neither of us quite fit into our friend groups, and so once we got together we became incredibly close. We never did the traditional dating thing (dinner, flowers, anniversaries) because neither of us are into such a public display. In the last 5 years she has become my best friend.

For the last 4 years we have been living together away from our families and old friends to attend university. In that time neither of us have made any close friends, and we spend all of our time together (we both give each other space to do stuff alone, so it's not about that).

I'm afraid that we use each other as safety blankets. I feel as though I never had the sink-or-swim moment that comes with becoming an adult. We love each other a lot and get along well, but I know I'll regret only ever having dated one person and never truly growing into my own person.

I don't know what to do. Do I break her heart just because of my discontent or should I stay with the relationship I know works?

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hey. i have just one simple question.
where to find lasting, cheap clothes?
price range is around <50 euros.

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I love building stuff. I do it in my free time and have all of my own tools and a workshop in the shed in my parents' back yard.

Is there any way I can make a decent career out of this? I've heard carpentry work is scarce now that everything is made in factories, and construction tends to be seasonal with long periods of no pay.

Can someone please give me career advice? Thanks in advance.

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It's the second Christmas without my dad this year. It's taken a toll on my family, especially my mother and brothers. One brother moved away to escape from it, and the other has become a worse alcoholic. My mom has gone a little crazy without him. Even my sister in law cried this morning and said it didn't feel like Christmas without him.
The only reason we had a Christmas last year and this one is for my nieces, being aged six and three.
My boyfriend recently moved in with my family and I. We've had our troubles with him being dishonest about certain things. It has troubled me greatly.
Sometimes I get depressed about things at random times, but my boyfriend doesnt seem to realize when and how to deal with it or help me.
Tldr;
> how do I accept the loss of a parent and help my family?
> how do I talk to my boyfriend about how I feel about it? Without him thinking I'm upset because of him.
> how do I make holidays better without my dad around?

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Hey guys i just ordered a camera and it says the delivery is 'UPS Express (1-2 business days). Does this mean the item will reach me in 1-2 business days or simply dispatch in 1-2 business days?

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So I didnt do very good in my first semester of school. I transferred into there and im not in good academic standing right now. Is it possible that they will dismiss me right away? I know no matter what im going to academic probation but for some reason i feel like im going to get dismissed.

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Girl I talk with has a crush on a friend of ours but he is taken but she still is crushing hard on him, everytime we all hangout I don't really want to go if they are both in the room because I feel like she will ignore everyone else in a sense to try and make him notice her a little more, she asked me am I coming to the gathering of our friends and I said no I can't but never gave a reason. I feel like she would only want me there just to distract the other people so she can sneak in and talk more with the other guy. Now I don't know if I am overthinking things but I honestly feel like she doesn't really want me to go there and is just using me as a distraction. Any input here?