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Shameless selfbump!

honestly if you want to see this in a fairly business like manner if you want sex you have to give her reasons why she should give you sex.

currently you are giving her your company and time for free, and are asking for nothing in return which is chill.

but

you kinda autofucked yourself by continuing to hang with her as a friend. rule of thumb is keep any girl you want a shot with at arms length.

if i were in your shoes i'd start weening myself off of her slowly and grow aloof. i'd wait for her to come around to asking why, and then i'd just be honest.

i'd say it's tough for me to hang out with her since i'm drooling all the time and i don't like being on edge in this state of desiring sex with her all the time.

as a guy wanting sex you ultimately can't get any unless you're willing to risk the loss.

i'm just going off of what i know though. if i were you i'd be tearing up okcupid and tinder btw.

>>16604367
That's basically the definition of leading you around by your dick. She may be a really good friend, and there's nothing obliging her to fuck you--that's the number one thing you should consider at this point--but I can't honestly tell if she's being a tease or if she's just that comfortable with you. It's especially odd that you two have had a sexual history already. If it's just sexual tension at this point, she might be enjoying the fact that she has a measure of control over you, RE: your dick.

But if she doesn't want to fuck, tough luck, bud. Don't let it break your friendship, and if you eventually come to the conclusion that your friendship is built on her leading you on for the sake of entertainment, then consider the common denominator between your previous situation and now, and ask yourself why it happened again.

>>Claims i'm friendzoned, yet she drips just by being arround me.
I'm gonna go with "exaggerated bullshit designed to fuck with your head." It really sounds like there are extenuating circumstances behind this situation that you aren't exactly aware of. Have you considered talking to her about it, if you're so compatible?

Just hit him up and be like "hey man, i feel pretty shitty about *whatever falling out you guys had* and don't wanna lose a friend over this".

Maybe he feels the same way, apologies can be exchanged, and you guys can move on with the friendship.

Maybe he's bitter about the falling out and is not interested in being friends with you. Oh well, at least now you know.

Either way, I think you should have this discussion now. What good is waiting for his birthday?

>>16604465

Dunno maybe just, wanted a pretty good excuse or a special date, anyways that seems like a good option.

>>16604311
Most yoga is more for the meditation aspect. I would either take a class, or ask your doctor about some healthy ways to stretch and improve your flexibility without hurting yourself. Also, everyones body is built different, and doing Yoga doesn't guarantee that you will be able to touch your toes, or it might take years to get to that point.

Go to some professionals for a better opinion.

Also how long until my horrible posture is fixed

>>16604383
As soon as you put enough work in.

>>16604259
she looks like she enjoys the warmth of multiple male reproductive organs on her face
dont dude

Nose ring totally signifies not being a slut.

Oh ya OP, you sure know how to pick them.

>Implying a girl that hot would date someone who needs dating advice from neckbeard NEETs

O I'm laffin

>>16604239
Use a debit card for a year retard

>>16604244
I've been using a debit card for 6 years

Apply for a Capital One Cash Rewards card. That was my first credit card - had a $300 limit. I charged most of it every month and then paid it off in full by the due date. In 6 months they bumped my limit up to $1800. My credit score was 850. About a year later I applied for and was approved for American Express Everyday and Discover It with credit limits of $2k each.

I'm not sure that Bank of America is lenient about credit requirements, but CapOne is. Discover and AmEx are pretty hard to get approved for.

>tfw $6k in debt now with a 560 credit score
top kek

>>16604238
embrace solitude, it's like a warm dream, I severed many social relations because of this and I don't regret it a bit

>>16604238
So are you assuming something is wrong with you cause you think and act for yourself instead of most bimbo women your age or because you want to conform but can't. ... ?

>>16604302
no, I wish I wouldn't have to justify myself all the time,
"I'm not good with people" and "I just don't like to do this or that" because I come out as bitter but I'm really not, i don't want to be perceived as bitter when I'm really pacific.
my humour is really black and full of things that make people uncomfortable. I just wish I didn't have to be so awkward about myself when people look at me like I'm some kind of loser or something. I'm not the most confident person I know of

Try again this time but this time don't post like a retard. How do you expect people to give you sound advice when you right confusing shit like this

>Oh wait, I remember her having a bf she kissed in front of me a few years back...lemme go fuck other girls! Get in here guys

Huh?

>>16604214

Make some fucking sense, OP. All we know is that some girl you like is twittering with a guy. The rest is nonsense.

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>>16604219
I'm sorry anon, I'm but bad wif this writing shit.

Nothing in life is guaranteed except death. Just wait it out and quit stressing about it. What happens, happens.

>>16604188
no, you don't. Not even close.

You might if you want to buy all the same brands displayed and replace all of it every 5 years then probably.

Also his computer monitors the person uses are shit and seem like they're 20-30 dollars.

This looks like it costs 6 to 7 k in total. Just save a shit ton and you should be golden of course why you would spend your money on that shitty set up is beyond me.

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>>16604207
This better?

There's probably counselors, teachers, and even current pros you can talk to, all of whom will give you far better advice than anyone here can.

Having said that. I don't think volunteering changing bed pans (or whatever a high school student is permitted to do in a hospital) will do much for you besides a pat on the head. Did the volunteering do anything at all to increase your marketable skills? Did you really learn anything about pharmacology or the medical sciences? Be honest. Ignore the moral kudos you're looking for.

No. It won't affect her in the least dude, so move on and don't cause unnecessary drama.

Besides you can't delete pictures from 4chan, they will just be archived and the thread will die off.

Better post the pictures, you know, for research and stuff

>>16604172
well... if you tell her about it she can at least get google and bing to make it unsearchable. and in the slight chance shes still in contact with the person she gave them to she should know so she can break contact/deal with it accordingly

then again if it was me I would promptly kill myself soooo...

use it I guess?

>>16604139
smoke crack

I swear to God if it's iFunny...

Fake. Move on.

Photoshopped up the ass crack.

Probably fake. I did a Google search, looks like a popular IG personality.

Have any idea who the personality on Instagram is? Any username?

>exercise physiologist
a lot of dumb asses want to do it, it's one of the more competitive low skill medical jobs

>>16604149
Yeah but doesn't the certification kind of weed out the dumbasses?

Name all the hobbies you tried and which you enjoyed.

Name the two majors you are in and explain what interests you.

>>16604127
Hobbies in the past few years: 3D art, fishing, camping, programming, writing/reading, dancing, studying languages, clay modeling, martial arts, fighting games, hobby electronics, cosplay, electronic music making, guitar/drumming. Misworded it a bit, I've tried over 12 in the 4 years, stuck with 2 I tried this year.

I greatly enjoy cosplay, camping/fishing, languages, and writing. Cosplay/writing lets me create (and cosplay to meet others easily), languages allow me to appreciate cultures/arts/always can get better, and camping/fishing helps me connect with nature to relax and enjoy it. Fighting games/martial arts/dancing resonate in that it's something fun, and always there to work toward, and very rewarding mentally. The others I enjoyed but basically I've hit a "hobby overload" and just have no time to dedicate to them all. Would if I could, though.

Majors were Psychology and IT. Psychology drew me in as I loved helping others and being there, so it seemed logical. Those "issues connecting with others" kicked in, made me quick, then I learned I love helping others but should use my other main skill of PC's to help.