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Just an insecure girl? 2015-12-27 13:41:29 Post No.16608926
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should i still ask her to come over on NYE?
backstory:
>drunk text a girl on tinder for shits and giggles
>hit it off great
>get her number
>she lives in another state, about 140 miles away
>after a month of texting daily we decide to meet up
>she stayed at my house for a couple of days
>we got pretty well along with each other
>had unplanned sex
>get a long love letter from her
>meet up throughout 3 months twice again for 3,4 days
>i actually left my state the first time alone for her
>thoughts about her last relationship arise
>she feels guilty about it ended
>tells me she wants to get in control off that feeling
>be a week ago
>tells me she can't see us two being together
>days before that we talked about our plans for sylvester
>thank her for her christmas gift
>be yesterday
>we write for an hour
>she writes like what she said last week never happened
>i write as short as i can
>she gives me more details, more information than i asked for
>she says "i'm going to bet gn8"
>i answer "sleep well gn8"
>she answers "you toooo"
just misinterpreting too much into that?
i mean, she could've just gone to sleep after i've said her sleep well, but she explicitly wrote you too, with all those "o"s.
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just bumping
she's not behaving like someone who just broke up with a guy a week ago.
she's not trying to get distance between us, through short answers, she's seeking out for the discussion.
if i break up with someone, i give him time to process the break up, maybe after some weeks ask how he's feeling, and maybe ask if he's ok with the "sort of friendship" i told him we could be in if he's interested, but not the way she is acting like right now.
i'm really confused /adv/
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Welcome to womans psychology 101. Women like to break up, but still be friends! They say things then don't remember what they said minutes hours days later! Some still want to be fuckbuddies until someone else comes along!
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>>16609054
but why is she doing that with a guy who lives miles n miles away from her?
is the only thing she wants out of this some emotional support?
What exactly is it when you can't remember some periods of time?
Last night i was on the computer and i have no memory of what i was doing and when i "woke up" ( i wasnt asleep; it was more like realising where i was, what i was doing) i saw it was 10pm so i decided to go check on my mom and eat something but when i get to the kitchen i see that it's actually 1am but i dont remember any time passing and obviously i dont take 3h to go from my bedroom to my kitchen..
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I believe it's called derealization. It's no different then when your driving and you forgot how you got from point A to point B. If it happens often, I'd seek help. It can be caused by sleep deprivation and a plethora of others things.
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>>16608919
did anything anyone might describe as traumatic happen to you recently?
>>16609134
no, derealization is a state where you are perfectly conscious and can remember everything that happens to you, but everything feels unreal as if you were in a dream, movie or a video game
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Is there a Un awakard way to ask your mate that if she's on the pill or anything or do I just need to flat out ask because been going at it for a while now and well fuck warping it up and fuck kids
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If you're having sex then you can discuss protection, what's awkward about that?
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>>16608918
tell her you want to fuck without a condom, so if she wouldn't mind using the pill that would be great. Shouldn't be awkward at all
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Haha nar iam shy asf when it comes to talking so that makes it hard if I could talk with just making faces I'd be susd. Yer it just sort of happens we haven't really giving it a minute to think about condoms or anything that's happened
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I'm in a long distance thing with my gf and its been purely that but we're planning to meet within weeks. Anyways.. things were great at first but now we just have the same conversations again and again. And we argue and hurt eachother. Keep in mind we're both really sensitive and don't know how to socialize. Recently its just gotten worse. Every time I ask what she's doing she tells me the same 4 things. And whenever we Skype, she gets held up by the same thing for awhile. She has an unknown number of ppl she can talk over Facebook,Instagram (etc) and it worries me. Being the wreck that I am it worries me a whole shit ton actually. I just want to know if there's anything I can do to improve things or just to help trust her more.
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Long distance simply isnot for everybody and terrible if it's your first relationship. If you cannot realistically see you and your gf living close to each other in the next 6 months I would cut your losses.
Yeah it will hurt and yeh you probably feel like this girl is the only one who understands you. But your trust issues won't get better, if she has not taken steps to make you more comfortable after you have talked to her about this then just move on pal
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>>16609030
Quality advice.
Coming from somebody that has been through 2 long term relationships, neither one which worked out, i would implore you to consider his advice.
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>>16609030
>>16609044
Thanks, both of you. I'm going to revaluate things.
Generally speaking what would make you consider a guy "whipped"? I've had a couple of people say it about/to my boyfriend, and I don't understand where it comes from.
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>>16608867
They're bitter and trying to ruin other people's relationships.
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>>16608877
I don't know man, I've got a friend who's 101% beta and has a terribly abusive GF. She's got the guy completely wrapped around her finger, every sane person would leave her after a month, but this guy has been with her for about 2 years now.
As for you OP, the things he generally does are:
>COMPLETELY bent to his girl's opinions
>can reject things he likes in an instant if his girl doesn't like it
>literaly stopped forming his own opinionsa bout people, if his girl doesn't liek someone, he'll hate that person in an instant, even if he never met them
>bends over to his girl's every whim
>buys her shit
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>>16608877
Thank you.
>>16608896
Thanks for the list. We buy each other things but the girls I live with sometimes compliment me on something my boyfriend's bought me. I always say if it's from him so I suppose in that sense I'm more vocal about presents than he is. Maybe it's just stuff like that which gave off this impression.
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How do you get to have casual sex with girls you know from the internet?
it seems like it's a huge thing and some people are constantly fucking new girls for one-nigh-stand etc
What are some tips to manage this? Or do I just need to be a huge chad? I don't even mind fucking a milf
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bump guys
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>>16608810
It happens for a very small but very vocal minority. It's in the interests of the hookup sites to perpetuate the idea that everyone is constantly getting laid.
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Life is bogus. I am a person who was ugly and now I am as handsome as Ryan Gosling, seriously, I went from bad bone structure to really perfect like Gosling has. My life changed a ton all bceause my face changed, now I don't see why life is all that. When I was ugly all I wanted was to have what good looking people have, now I have it and I don't feel accomplished because I'm being given sincere love and affection (and sex) just because I look good... Life is bogus, just look good and you get everything, look bad and you get nothing... Life feels like limbo, there must be another world after this when I die, such bogus bullshit. I feel like I'm riding a carousal and I just want to get off the ride, I got work soon, I dropped out of school cause I was ugly and that caused anxiety, now that I'm good looking I want to try and be a model or actor... Because I can. A life of comfy simplicity opens up just because my face changed, THIS is life everybody. THIS is what we are all about - and don't try to act like politics or religion matter, if those things were solved we'd come to the same conclusion: Be good looking and get handed EVERYTHING
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How did your face change?
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Absolutely bogus.
Thank goodness I'm attractive.
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>>16608783
You seem like you just got this, just now dude it's like basic abc
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So, here's the situation:
>be me
>my birthday
>have to work tomorrow, therefore didn't plan anything
>home alone
>gf will arrive soon
>have no idea what to do on my boring and pathetic bd
Any suggestions on what to do? Sex is most likely out of the question since gf is a pleb Virgin..
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It's your birthday, you shouldn't have to do shit
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>>16608767
Valid point!
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>>16608766
HANDJOB
Just the thought of having a gf makes me rock hard
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if your parents were sensitive
then you acquired that trait, you were a sensitive kid
then, you grew up and developed skills and changed your personality from sensitive to not
then, you had a kid
what traits would that kid have?
sensitive or not?
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"if a, then b" doesn't work that way. Almost every trait is a combination of nature and nurture and these are intertwined.
Esp. character traits are often the result of loads of genes. Then different people would react different to the expression of the same gene/the genes react different to the environment of another human.
Both of your options are possible, and with this little background (you barely cannot give me more unless you give me his genetic profile and his diary) it's impossible to tell
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>>16608779
>Both of your options are possible, and with this little background (you barely cannot give me more unless you give me his genetic profile and his diary) it's impossible to tell
that's about it, i was just curious on the topic
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Posted here a few times and everytime people just tell me to "man up" and try to kiss her or whatever, but oh well, here it goes:
I've gone to like 5 dates with an older girl than me (Im 20 she's 26). I think they all go pretty nicely talking and so on, but never more than that. In the last one, a few weeks ago, I tried to kiss her but she swiftly dodged it and acted like nothing happened. Since then, we chitchatted a bit awkwardly through text and never made plans to meet again, so thought it was pretty dead and I'd never see her again.
Then yesterday at night, she told me she finally got her vacations from work, and that we should meet before she takes the plane to her city this Tuesday to spend a few days with family and to celebrate New Year's Eve.
Seems like I'm the person she wants to meet in here before she comes back to her city, so I'm already kind of overthinking this.
So am I just a nice friend to hang out or is it that this girl likes to go slow? I have no idea.
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So am I just a nice friend to hang out or is it that this girl likes to go slow? I have no idea.
neither man she horny
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>>16608804
gee it crossed my mind, as the last time we met for drinks it was right next to her home, but if she rejected my kiss I dont think she suddenly wants to fuck after weeks
Hello /adv/, I was wondering what am I supposed to do when someone is taking pictures of me in public or filming me. The neighbor girl, while I was practicing driving took creep shots of me and I caught it. Every time I looked in the mirror she was staring at me. I don't mind but why take pictures? Not the first time I've been creep shot.
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If it's on public property they have a right. If they are violating the curtail of your home/private property, and/or in said place you have a reasonable expectation to privacy then it is illegal
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I have a terrible hangover. Whenever I try to drink water I get sick. Anyone got advice?
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>>16608736
Drink more alcohol.
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not much to do at this point.
wait until you can keep water in, then rehydrate.
aspirin or similar for the head, ginger-tea for the stomach.
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Soy milk and eggs. Cucumber or leafy greens.
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I've lost a few pounds lately because of my medicine, i've noticed better that my right forearm is bigger than my left forearms, surely from fap reasons. It's really taking my self confidence and making me conscious.
TLDR How do I get smaller forearms?
I don't know about any exercises that would make them thinner, but I trired eating less and it sort of works.
pic related it's becoming kinda like me
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There are no exercises that will make it thinner as spot reduction is a myth. If it's fat, you need to lose weight through diet and cardio. If it's muscle, you can either stop fapping so much and wait to lose muscle mass, or do some forearm exercises slanted towards your left arm to make them look more equal. Or just start lifting so everything looks balanced and in proportion.
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>>16608740
>If it's muscle, you can either stop fapping so much and wait to lose muscle mass
How long does this usually take? I've decided on quitting fapping for a period of time yesterday.
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>>16608732
>I've lost a few pounds lately because of my medicine, i've noticed better that my right forearm is bigger than my left forearms, surely from fap reasons.
Highly, highly unlikely. Gapping just isn't enough exercise to cause this.
Are you into fencing, or tennis, or some other sport that heavily favors one arm over the other? Those kinds of sports are far more likely to cause this imbalance than fapping is. Even if you are not currently into these, here's an excuse to start: plausible deniability.
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My friends gf keeps coming on to me and I want it to stop. I try to ignore most of the flirty garbage she does but lately ive been thinking about giving into it and that's no good.
I think she's crazy too so I'm really not interested in the blackmail shit she tried on my friend.
What
Do
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>>16608657
Tell her to knock it off privately. Document the interaction.
If she doesn't cut the shit, tell your friend. Show him the conversation you two had so he knows you're not trying to break them up to get at his girl or some crazy shit.
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Don't do it anon
You're better than that
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>>16608657
Explain.
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I am finally ready to start school because I have a rough idea of what I want to learn.
I want to be able to fully understand and utilize all principles involved in modern fireams, engines, electrical systems (note, not digital so much, more like the realm of capacitors, batteries, resonant transformer circuits; basically all electrical principles and applications pre-digital age), hydraulics, whatever one would need to know to make a submarine and the same goes for all manner of aircraft (especially lighter than air vessels).
What do I need to go to school for in college classes "terms" and what schools would be acceptable for my education?
I have a fair amount of money to pay for this, but I did earn it by bust my ass off.
I am not from the past.
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IF YOU ARE HAVING ISSUES POSTING, JUST DO A CLASSIC POST WITH THE OPTION AT THE TOP OF THE PAGE.
The pop out window quick reply post thing is fucked, at the moment.
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>>16608642
Mechanical Engineering
I'd also get a minor in biology so you have the option to become a biomedical engineer down the road. It has good job prospects.
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>>16608690
And this would cover the nautical, aeronautical, and electrical concerns?