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i know you probably get loads of these but
be 19
kissless virgin
beta as fuck
cant talk to girls
what do?

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I'll be right to the point - how do I get my ex girlfriend back?
I've been over her for a while (even dated different girls after break up) and life's been great, but ever since we started to talk to each other again through mutual friends, my feelings for her came rushing back. We only talk periodically via group chat, but never have we talked one on one since last year.
I'm not entirely sure about how she feels about the situation, but she occasionally talks about me with other people (mix of good and bad) and once even brought up a positive memory between us while we were talking in said group chat. Is she just confused? How do I approach this, and how do I possibly get back to one on one conversations to reach that closeness we once had?

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How does one into meditation?

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I've had a persistent cough followed my shortness of breath and expelling mucus. Its likely a mild case of Bronchitis. I've had a severe case back in 2008. since then I've had it to various degrees severity and multiple times in the past years. I know the treatment is typically antibiotics. But I no longer have insurance and can't afford to see a doctor.

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Alright, I know this girl who's very attractive, she's smoking hot to me.

and I'm happy because she also feels the same about me.

Here's the bad part. She moved to another state recently. We're not officially dating anymore but we still talk to each other all the time.

So here's my problem.

I know she likes me, I know I like her, great. But the distance is going to make it too difficult to keep things going.

I can't see her in person anymore, or that I can't touch her or hold her, and she can't touch me or hold me.

But we are BOTH constantly talking about how we'd like to fuck and whenever we get horny for each other we do that.

It's going to end up driving me mad if I keep doing this, I'm not an obsessive or possessive person and I never have been, but the constant distance-teasing(made up term) and talking about doing cute things when we can't is going to end up driving me insane.

I'm not exactly sure what my options are here. I know that it's natural for both of us to feel this way.


What do?

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This is a test thread

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can i have a thread for myself, i dont know...just wanna ask about you guys'opinion on me
>be me
>age 20
>never had girlfriend and never give a shit about it cause waste of time, energy and money
>hate peer pressuring - one of the many reason why i don't want to be in a group of friends
>prefer to be with a person rather than a group since it is more intimate(had a few friends that is nice when alone but would insult you without a second thought when we are around a bunch of friends)
>have the tendency to keep clean friend list(0 friends), might make a few on steam and would remove them once I get bored of them
>slowly deleting myself from facebook and even change my phone number to avoid contact from friends i made when i am still in school(half of them are trying to sell my things right now so i dont see why not)
>prefer to talk to myself rather than to a person
>talks to myself for 2 hours every midnight
>not even likes animal cause they die
>it is said that if i were to clone myself, both of us would still prefer to talk alone rather than talking to each other
>that being said, i am not an asshole who ask people to fuck off everytime people comes to me, as a matter of fact, a lot of people likes me because i am 'nice' and 'innocent looking'
>currently studying IT programming for the sole reason of working quietly and alone behind a computer
>had hobbies(ant farm) once but my mom crush it by repeatedly nagging me about it and telling me to care for her fucking plants instead
>wear all black, almost everything i use is black
>day dreamer - i can day dream for the entire hour and it happens all the time
>night owl - slept 4 hours a day on average
>behave cauciously when outside and i travel alone most of the timethis stupid' when i was a kid
>kinda unorganised and unfinish but sorta lost interest after awhile so here you go

am actually committed to live my life alone and die alone and to be honest though i hope i stay this way forever :/

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So my gf of 10 months has a father that is cheating on his wife. Who lives a long distance away. And just today my gf was physically hit for bringing it up in front of him.
She's 17 and I'm 18. And I only want what's best for her. I want to stand up to him but I don't want to make my gfs life horrible.
Advice?
Please and thank you

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>next to every single one of my friends
>quiet, imposing, confidently talking, always the head of the group, very serious
>next to my gf
>anxious like a retard, constantly smiling, talking in a weird tone of voice, throwing all the spaghetti out

How can I be more consistent?

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how do I message qt grill on a dating website without seeming like every other chucklefuck on there?

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Hello guys. So I've been in a fairly new relationship with a girl of the same age for just over 9 months. This is both, mine and hers, first relationship so we're figuring this thing out slowly but surely. Everything is great and all. Love her a lot. We are both in different uni. I'm in my third year, she is in her second (she had to redo a year of college).

When we have a disagreement/argue, we both have our own way of dealing with it. She told me that if she is mad at me, I should just leave her alone and usually the next day, she will be fine. I, on the other hand, want to fix things asap so that there is less time spent not talking between us two. I try to talk to her about the disagreement and how we can try to get over it but she tells me that makes her more angry. Let's say I do what she said. I try not to bother her too much during that day. Next day, everything is fine and dandy. Isn't that just us ignoring the problem? I mean, we haven't talked about it properly? We haven't really solved it. We kinda just pushed it aside. I don't get it...

Wouldn't it be better to solve it quicker so that we can spend more time together doing fun things? Why waste a whole day not talking to each other? What do?

tldr: is it better to solve problems straight away by talking about it or wait a day for us to forget about it?

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What should I do if my ex does not give me my stuff back?

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Ok so here's the thing:

Tl;dr - this girl who never kissed a boy likes me (more than a friend, actual feelings) but she says she can't have nothing with me because she thinks I would be unhappy with her. What do?

There's this girl from my uni. I didn't even notice she existed till this year, in which I would talk to her randomly and sporadically when I would meet her at night, for short periods of time. So she starts trying to make me notice her (some likes on fb and instagram and whatnot), and there's this one night where she and I talked for a bit longer. Next day, she engages conversation on facebook, and from there we talked like everyday and I eventually started growing some feelings for her. Eventually, she tells me she never kissed a boy (which I believe btw). Some days later, she tells me she likes me. I told her (mistakenly, I guess) that I liked her back. Thing is, she says she can't have nothing with anyone, even though she likes me. And not like "I like you as a friend", she specifically told me that she had the same feelings for me that I had for her. But she says she's better off being my friend, because I would be unhappy with her. What the fuck do I do? I think I actually like her and I would have already told her to fuck off if I didn't. What do?

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All my life I've wanted to be treated like a...normal person, taken seriously. Very narcissistic and caring about what others thought of me, self image. I've tried scholastic achievement, being in leadership positions, 'faking it until you make it', but through all of this it just seems like I'm a kid in a fat young adults body. Now I've dropped out of Uni twice, 19 years old, 22,000$ debt because of loans, chronic physical health and mental health conditions, and no matter how much something makes sense to me, like the only person whose opinion you should care about is yours, I've never felt that way, and I've been fighting it only to find I'm losing. Hard.

Now I'm a disgusting blob and my family and "friends" are getting on with their lives. I went to college about two years earlier than most, was hopeful of ivy graduate school. Now I'm hoping to see if I won't end it.

Saw an old friend go into marines, come out a respectable person, has money, muscle, a sharp mind. I can't do that. Spondylosis, mental health record, among other things. So I guess what I'm asking is, does it get better for people like me, the kind who internalize everything, who victimize themselves or are just stuck in a never ending thought loop? Is becoming an hero best idea if it won't get better? Also a poor fag, living in someone's home on charity with senpai.