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Better to have loved and lost? 2015-12-28 02:40:51 Post No.16611371
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Better to have loved and lost?
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2015-12-28 02:40:51
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We met a few months ago, became really good friends and eventually started dating. After only a month of dating, we fell in love. Call it whatever you want, what I feel right now for her is so strong and I have no doubts about that.
In 8 months she'll be moving far away for college. For the few months we've dated, we visited each other pretty much every single day. I don't think either of us can deal with a long distance relationship, we both need a physical connection and affection.
The honeymoon phase is wearing off and now I've been thinking about our own future together. It's always been in the back of my head but I guess the harsh reality hit me now. I've got no plans for college but she does. She'll be leaving me soon and there's no way for this relationship to stay alive. I brought this up with her a few nights ago but she just broke down, told me she couldn't think about it. I think she just wants to avoid the problem for as long as possible, but I can't let that happen. I've always been the type of guy who likes to put down problems before they get too out of hand. I told her we would have a discussion about our future tomorrow. I want to bring up breaking up.
I'm crying right now, I can't be strong at a time like this. But I have to step up, I don't want to let her go guys but I can't turn my back on this relationship and pretend everything will be okay. The more time we spend together the stronger my feelings will get so when the time comes for her to leave we'll be in a bigger mess than we would be in if we broke it off early. I've spent so much time thinking about it. We either kill our relationship off now or stay together even after she leaves. The only question is which hurts less.
Fuck I don't know what to do. It hurts so much.
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>in 8 months
Nigga that's plenty of time to have a normal relationship that can end on its own. Why the fuck you worrying, there's a big chance you may not even be together in 8 months, be realistic. Just have fun now, you can think about it but if you're letting what's happening 8 months form now ruin life for you now what the fuck is the point?
Quit being so dramatic. My first serious relationship just ended last week, she was just an exchange student here for a semester. We went out for 3 months, and now she's thousands of miles away and across an ocean. Yeah it's hard but when it ends, regardless of whether its because she leaves or because you break up before that, just be happy it happened, don't be sad it's over. Quit being alone and thinking about it and just fucking hang out with her and do shit.
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>>16611401
Yeah that's something I've thought about. But on the flip side what if we are still together?
I'm confident the long distance thing won't work. Breaking up now as opposed to later is the less painful option isnt it?
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>>16611420
This was the conclusion I had come to as well with my girl, that the long distance wasn't going to be good for either of us in the long run. Yeah you could break up now but why? I mean, nothing lasts forever anyway. Think about what you're doing logically if you break up now instead of later, you're saying "I can't be with this person for more than the next 8 months, so Id rather just not spend ANY time at all with her". Doesn't that seem fucking stupid? It did to me. Yeah sure it will be less painful but either way you'll get over it, and a lot can happen in the next 8 months. Either her plans or yours can change, if it is a special enough thing to last for the rest of your lives you'll make it work, if not then so be it. But to end it now is like saying "I won't be able to have hamburgers when I move to the congo in 8 months, so I'd better get used to not having them now and depriving myself for the next 8 months instead of just giving them up when forced to."
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How do I keep from getting dehydrated when I'm constantly vomiting and diarrhea-ing?
I cant keep even a small sip of water down. Ate something bad yesterday.
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Try anal
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IV fluids
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>>16611367
You probably caught the noro virus. It will be gone in a few days tops.
I think they sell special liquid medicine specifically for combating dehydration. Maybe you can get some at the drugstore.
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What does it mean when you used to be close to a girl, but you guys broke contact for a couple years, you had already moved on, and she attempts to make contact with you again? I Mean she was a shit friend, but I believe everyone deserves second chances, and am always open to new friends, but I feel like it isn't genuine anymore. Is she doing it for attention? Bored maybe? I just think if she really wanted to reconnect she'd at least send a message, but a fired request out of the blue? Dunno. Should I just ask what she wants? Seems really rude...
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It's a combination of keeping her options open, feeling neglected by other men who's attention she seeks more than yours, and self validation.
Unless you've gotten noticeably more better off than when she last knew you.
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How do I get this girl to fart in front of me? We're good friends and she's not exactly feminine, how can I achieve this?
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Haven't seen you in a while.
Most people can't fart on command, you know. Even belching on command is easier.
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>>16611365
I can farther on command. You just have to push hard enough. Just tell her to push hard op.
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>>16611341
You both gotta eat gassy food, and then fart in front of her.
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Premature ejaculation? 2015-12-28 02:35:03 Post No.16611329
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hey /adv/ im going to have sex with my fuckbuddy again
She was my first time I really didnt care, and the day we did it we ended fucking 2 more times that day. But we made out before while we undressed
And the next time I saw her a year later(recently), we made out less and went quickly to the sex, and I came quickly, she was cool with it but idk how to feel, but with what I read premature jizzing is literally cumming when you see a vagina and shit like that, so it cant be that i guess? I see her next tuesday should I fap before seeing her? Or is it just teenager hormones (im 18 she's 24)
need first time stories and tips anons
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Just go in for round 2, and 3 if you can manage it. I always nut in like 5 mins, but then I just let her know that a round 2 is in the works, we cuddle for a couple mins til my old chap is ready for more and then I last for like at least an hour. It works for me, any disappointment in me cumming so soon is always forgotten when I fuck her brains out 5 mins later.
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Bump pls
>>16611378
thanks anon, I think exercising also should help, getting more /fit/ seems like an improvent in every aspect
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Speaking with authority. How do you do it. People tell me that when I speak I talk like a caveman and that I'm often times indecisive. People don't take me seriously because of this. How do I become a better speaker?
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Be firm, and friendly.
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Hello everybody. It's my first time, when I am posting on my own /b/cause I'be got one problem and due to the fact of how I lead my life, I can't share it with anyone. I want to use u some questions?
Is it OK to go out with a guy at 15 y.o.?
What memories does your first crash bring u?
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What the?
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It's ok to date, but not ok to fuck, which most men wouldn't want to go without, so more than likely it's to protect you.
is music actually a detrimental cognitive drug? i get melodies and half-heard lyrics stuck in my head all the time, which annoy the hell out of me and seem to take away the space in my brain i could be using to form abstract thought. i'm starting to think "earworms" are actually malicious shits. sure they get you high, but at what cost? it also seems like classical music is a lot less catchy in general and there might be something to the "it makes you smarter" idea, except instead of having a bonus, it's just less of a negative than other genres. Double Sextet by Reich is the only thing i listen to anymore since thinking about this
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JTc1mDieQI8
Mr. Mozart is locked in a closet
Let him out, let him out, let him out
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how do you know if you're too much of a sex pervert?
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When you are considerably addicted to sex in one form or another.
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>>16611283
what about fetishes or latent sadism?
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>>16611242
When it starts to fuck up your life, or easily could if something went wrong.
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Married, but I don't want to be. Largest mistake I've made. However, I'm totally frozen in taking steps to move forward.
Advice on how to actually make yourself take the steps needed to improve your life? Especially if they aren't easy things like this?
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I wish I could help you. I have been in a relationship with a batshit cray cray man for 5 years and now we have a kid. He went nuts and ruined Xmas and I still cannot leave.
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I'm lucky. I don't have kids. I feel like my wife lacks the correct emotional response to handle this. I may be underestimating her. Still, it stops me from doing anything if I feel like it would wreck her. What is keeping you?
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Bump for any advice.
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I'm scheduled for a court appearance tomorrow, but I'm out of town for the holidays and I can't make it. WHAT DO I DO!?
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>>16611221
Call the court first thing in the am.
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Hire a lawyer to make an appearance for you.
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>>16611241
This
What did you do?
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Why would you go out of town when you knew you had a court appearance?
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Why is it the only time women are interested in you, it's when you don't even notice them (or perhaps know who they are)? But when you finally do and reciprocate, all of a sudden they lose interest in you?
The fuck kind of failed Jedi mind trick is this? It's like if you want them, they don't want you. But when they want you, you don't want them. And when you both finally want each other, something happens to kill one's interest in the opposite (or maybe even both).
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Its a psychological game, just like most other things. The idea is that you want what you can't have - and when you can have it - you no longer want it. When you're expressing interest, you stop looking like the guy they derived in their dirty little minds, and start looking more like a doormat.
....figure out how to stop looking like a doormat, while still expressing interest, and you'll do okay. (hint: A lot of it comes from how you do things, not what you're doing)
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Would like to know more about this too. Bump. To any femanons out there: thank your lucky stars, I mean it.
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>>16611202
The rule is: Even when you notice them, never let them know you notice them. All societal constructs in a world where information isn’t shared freely between parties without hesitation is a GAME OF DECEPTION. Unless you can walk up to a gal or guy and say 'hey I'm attracted to you' irl, then you're going to have to stick to Tinder for now my friend.
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ok guys
so i need a little help
my girlfriend is amazing
yet i still can't get over the fact that she's slept with a lot of people
6 people this year
and i've only slept with 3 (including her) ever
how do i get past this, i really like her and want this to go somewhere but this has been digging away at me for ages
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Grow up or dump her so she doesn't have to keep watering your pansy ass.
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>>16611180
those dudes probably wish she was still around while youre there fucking her whenever you want
you win, they lose
>>16611195
horrendous name. a girl that will break the rules? are you 12?
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Bang her in the ass
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/adv/
I need your help. Im in a long distance relationship, but lately ive been getting jealous over little things like guys talking to her, we exchange nudes and sext and lately its been hard making her orgasm or get turned on, I've been staying up all night on skype and its getting boring skyping in front of a computer, and most importantly she's very selfish... Ill come home from work and go on skype with her and she'll talk about something stupid like what her dog is doing and it makes me pissed because she doesn't even ask me how work was or what I want to do, life revolves around her and its starting to make me dread her a little bit. I love her with all my heart but I cant take this long distance shit and im getting stressed and bored nonstop. How the fuck can I fix everything ?
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dump her before she dumps you for another guy, guaranteed it will happen if she isn't fooling around already.
So I'm on a vacation with a friend of mine's family, and I'm digging his cousin. She's single and I want to make some kind of move. Her aunt even made a remark that I should marry into the family. How do I make this happen?
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be careful anon
you can't just dump your friend's cousin
you might really get hitched
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>>16611107
Back massage. If you can finagle a way to give her a back rub, you're in.
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Her family is also really well to do, so she's kinda stuck up. But I still have hope