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She's going to be pissed at you no matter what. Let this be a lesson in not giving gift cards at all

>>16608052
>lenin

what kind of jew psyop is that pic

>>16608054
>communism is Jewish

Wat

>>16608084
>he doesn't know

You have much to learn

Grills can't procreate, sorry

Yes. Your parents would probably rather you have children when you are ready and financially stable.

A few months after my mother was diagnosed with Stage IV cancer, my sisters both announced that they were expecting (first chldren for both). After the initial congratulations, my mother gave both of them a bit of a chewing-out, informing them that they had damn well better not have moved up their timetables just for her sake. My sisters both swore up and down that they had not.A couple of years later, everyone is doing all right (in whatever way the term "all right" applies to someone with Stage IV cancer), and my sisters are expecting again. Still swearing that this is not an accelerated timetable.

My point is that you should talk about this with your parents. It is probably safe to assume that, like most parents. they want grandchildren. But they probably don't want you doing things like that before you are ready, just for their sake.

>>16608018
Have you considered doing collage in places like EU, where the financial burden is much lighter?

>>16608110
Oh buddy, there's no way in hell I can afford traveling anywhere, especially not another country. After my bills I have enough to put away in an emergency savings and a little for like a movie or gas to travel around town for fun.

>>16608110
the EU does not just let us in if we ask.

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>>16607962
Some women get turned on/really enjoy it when the guy just takes charge. I'm not a woman myself, but I've heard some saying that for an ideal date for them, they want the man to take complete charge over where they're going, and all she has to worry about is having a good time.

Sounds like she's dropping the hint to do that. Pick a night when you know she's not busy, tell her you're coming over in 5 minutes. If she says she has plans, suggest she cancel them.

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>>16607973
That's what I thought.
I really like the suggesting her cancel them part. Will definitely use that if I can.

Thanks anon.

Mainly person 1 (here after known as ;M;) is very interested in me, but is fresh out of a 2 or 3 year relationship with a girl. He's still feeling a lot of the emotions from it, and I wanted to give him some time. We've dated before, just before he dated her. He's fairly privileged and has a promising future. ;M; also lives fairly far, about a 3 hour drive. I could potentially work out here for a bit, save up, get a job out there (or transfer) and we could live a happy relationship. How much time should I give him before trying to discuss any future with him.

Person 2 (here after known as ;K;) is much closer to me, about 20 min drive. We see each other about once or twice every other week. We have great sex and have dated before. He seems like he could be privileged but doesn't have the motivation to get a better job or work towards moving up in position. We spend great time with each other with out having sex, his family seems to like me, and I think he's adorable. For some reason though, he's constantly wanting me to find him women to date, where I have no resources for him. I think I'm just his friend he can fuck. He's really introverted and won't go out to meet people, so it really confuses me why he doesn't consider dating me, when his only objection is that I "live too far" but then he goes and dates women online that are several states away!

Person 3, now known as ;A;, is a great person, smart, has a good job, tall, beautiful. I don't see him as often and haven't known him for as long as the others. He lives about an hour away. We seem well connected when he's around and the sex is great but again, not required every time we see each other. How do I advance that relationship, while I'm sure he has as many side quests as I do?

Person 4, now known as ;P;, is rich, a druggy, and super cuddly. He's currently dealing with a homeless person who took advantage of his apartment unit. He was recommended to me by one of our mutual friends, with the intention that he needs someone who won't have sex with him for his money. He's great, but again, I haven't known him for as long, either.

>>16607893
Wow a couple months without a stable relationship how extreme I really feel bad for you op

10% of the population is gay my friend.

Next time you watch porn, make sure you know what's really making you hard.

Good luck.

>>16607879
You're a kid. Some people your age like doing kid things and not being tied down. Your mind is not ready for a relationship yet.

16607902▶
how do i grow my mindsett
It's either die a loser with no gf or go with gf with guilt

How did you recall their names? You clearly have a very good memory, one way or another, but it might not be eidetic.

The thing about eidetic memory is that it's also called "photographic memory" for a reason. People with eidetic memory remember whole images with amazing clarity. For example, someone with eidetic memory in your situation might not directly remember the names, but might remember the pages of their high-school yearbook. They could compare the people they were seeing to the pictures in the book, and then just read the names back off the pages themselves.

Is that how you pulled off this feat? If so, then maybe you do have eidetic memory (though it would be best to test it more rigorously, to make sure). If not, then I'm afraid it's not eidetic, though it's still very impressive.

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>>16607946
Maybe I read it in a yearbook, maybe I heard their names being called before. I just have one autistic ass memory I guess

Unless he asks for help with something, you do nothing. The fact that he's poor doesn't mean he considers himself a charity case. You don't have to feel sorry for him as he seems to have lived a normal life so far. If he needs your help, he'll ask. Otherwise, you'll just humiliate him if you start giving him hand me downs.

Do you have anything better to do?

>>16607848
If it's worth it to you, go. How would we know the answer.

>>16607848
Do it. I went to my first concert alone and enjoyed it, despite almost quitting and going home cause I was alone

>dissociative personality disorder
did you mean identity disorder or are you just making shit up?

Anyway just save up, get a new place, and subscribe to an in home care service, they can help check on her and you can be free of that environment.

She probably won't be in the next 10 years so you need to get your shit together and put her in a nice home.

>>16607812
Get this shit outta my face

I reckon the best thing you can do is write a sappy piece about your best friend and his lifelong passion for "insert sport/activey of choice here" and how he has asked to to help him "end his life" if he ends up a cripple.

Then make accounts on twitter, reddit Facebook, ect and just spam the sob story till it goes pick up steam and hopefully goes viral

>>16607807
First off let me say that pic is funny as hell fambly

Second off what you do the casino?

>>16607816
croupier

>>16607819
Hardcore, man.

Do you see any future in casino work?

>>16607760
Just go up to women and make the face in your OP pic

1. You are suffering from clinical depression, been there, done that, get a shrink and some meds
2. Most people have hobbies even if they don't have social lives, find something you enjoy doing, preferably on the cheap since no job

>>16607745
You need a job, to feel valuable.

>>16607778
Nigga could feel valuable in a bowling league or gaming guild. I'm not saying he doesn't need a job, but telling an unemployed person to tie their employment status to how they value themselves as a human being, when they are already depressed, is not a smart idea.