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I've been bi for a while but I've never set out to date another man. I kind of want to because I feel like it will be easier to get a bf than a gf but if I do my family will know. Should I get it over with and come out?
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>>16613228
Probably not until you know you are going to go steady with that guy or else you're taking risk with no benefit
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>>16613228
Only come out after you have had homosexual sex and liked it.
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>>16613228
>I feel like it will be easier to get a bf
well, you're stupid and wrong, so don't come out for that reason,
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Is it justified to be depressed about moving just a few minutes away?
I know I'm probably acting like a bitch here, but I've lived in the same house with my family for 22 years, since I was born. I've got another year or two of school left before I move out on my own, and I'm prepared for that, but my parents want to move for the sake of moving. I don't want to just pack everything up, move 20 minutes away, and then do it again in a year, and the thought of leaving the only home I've known my whole life is just making me incredibly sad. I don't give a shit how nice the place we move to will be, it's still just a house I'd live in, not really a home.
Am I just overreacting? Is there any way to help cope with this? I've always had anxiety issues, but I never knew it would be this bad, it's not like I'll have to switch colleges, or say goodbye to my friends.
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>>16613219
buy it from them
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>>16613222
I probably would if I could honestly. The only problem is that they plan on moving before I can begin my career. I wouldn't have enough for a down payment for a few years.
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>>16613222
brb pulling 600k out of my ass
>22
>live at home
>best friends live by themselves in apartments
>have a higher commercial examination (kind of like USAish college)
>weighted average mark: 4,8
>low
>have no idea what i want to do in life
>no future plans
>just want to make money
>working in kitchen at a shitty café
>shit pay // shit hours
>generally unhappy
Help, /adv
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Identify what makes you unhappy
Make a plan to change what you can, forget the things you have no control over
Stop drawing comparisons to others
Stop moping around
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>>16613203
cant help you, im more sad
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My GF of 8 years broke up with me half a year ago... I've had a new gf for 3 months now, but I still miss my old GF. I really like my new GF but I don't know if I can truly love her...
Has anyone of you guys ever been in that situation? What would you do if you were me?
>pic potentially related
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She's your girlfriend.
First of all "girlfriend" is an abstract. No two constellations of two people are ever the same. There is no obligation on your part to love someone at a certain level. My previous girlfriend and I waited six or seven months after becoming exclusive (11 months after initially hooking up) before we first told each other I love you. I had been wanting to say it on and off for three months by then, but I thought it was right to wait until it seemed like it mattered.
So just don't worry about it. Enjoy your time with her, and don't expect anything. What will be will be, but if you don't see any point in being with her, you should break up with her and release her to the world, for her own sake, and for our.
I will however advice you to let go of your ex.
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Also, if you think like the pic you posted, no wonder you got dumped
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>>16613185
Similar situation. Dated a girl for 6 years, she broke up with me about 2 years ago. I've been seeing my new girlfriend for about a year now (so I started dating her 6 months after my long term gf broke up with me).
At first it was hard, I couldn't get my old gf out of my head. That's a lot to ask for though cause I did date her for 6 fucking years. That's a long time, especially compared to my new gf. But as time went on I thought about her less and less. I thought I'd never get over her and my new gf would never live up to her. But as of right now I could honestly care less about her. I've finally let go and I'm in love with my new gf who treats me like a king. You'll get there anon. Maybe or maybe not with this girl, but I assure you that you'll love another girl more than your previous gf.
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what should i go as to a 90's party?
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>>16613156
vanilla ice
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Kurt Cobain with half a head.
(I'm a huge nirvana fan)
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Sanic
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I have dark circles almost identical to this guy's except mine are more red/purple.
How the fuck do I get rid of them? Is it just my deep set bone structure?
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bump. would also like to know this
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Two bags of green tea. Add them in hot water for a bit, then place them under your eyes for an hour.
Also get enough sleep, drink enough water and make sure your iron levels are ok.
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>>16613152
i dont understand why do you even want to get rid of them? they give you a aura of mystery/darkness making you basically a almost supernatural figure and that to some women is attractive as what women doesnt like mystery? as long as you have a attractive face of course then it can work in your favor.
If you are adamant about removing them then try drinking only water and lots of it also slice up a potato, you only need two slices enough to fit over each eye then leave them on your eyes for around 5 minutes, do this for weeks and notice the difference.
How to deal with having no friends you regularly do things with/enjoy having around
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Videogames
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>>16613093
Find other friends.
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>>16613093
I don't. I'm going insane, but I don't feel anxious.
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Help me figure out how difficult this is going to be.
If you were looking for a roommate, and found someone who had a bunch of reptiles, would you still go for it?
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If they didn't stink and I didn't think they were creepy, yes.
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How many is "a bunch"
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Depends. If they take good care of them, sure!
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>gf is 20, i'm 24
>met her when she was [spoiler]15[/spoiler] online, waited until she was 18 to meet her
>met her when she turned 18, we hit it off immediately
>we fly to each other quite a bit, we're not actually that far
>will be meeting her parents next week when i visit her
>"so how did you meet her anon?"
How the fuck do I answer this question without it being awkward? It's a bit weird but it's not like I did anything wrong right?
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>>16613068
Isn't that up to her to explain? Surely they've asked her where she met you and she's answered?
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>>16613074
Probably, I don't think she's bought it up to them yet though. Either way I'd like to know for future reference when other people ask.
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As a french guy, what are some easy-to-find summer jobs in England to help me practise my english and gain money for travelling the next year ?
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>>16613023
Depends whereabouts in england you'll be going. Do you know yet?
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>>16613678
I was thinking about London, I don't know England that much desu. Maybe you can recommend me a better place not so far from the southern coast ?
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>>16614050
Cost of living is high and decent cheap accommodation in London is hard to find, wouldn't recommend working a low paid job there unless you're just hosteling around. If you're traveling in the summer I would recommend Bournemouth/Poole, or going further along the coast to Brighton. Lots of work comes up in the summer because there's more call for stuff like life guarding, beach cleaning, cafe/bar staff. Bar work or waiting tables is a particularly good shot if you want to practice speaking english. If you're clear to work legally then any employment agency will find you a job in less than a week if you're up for it. In my experience Bournemouth isn't a terribly interesting place but the beaches are great on a good day, and you're less likely to get mugged than you are in London.
Please help me. Yesterday I finally officially broke up with my ex who was also my best friend after a very horrible final months and I have been crying basically nonstop since.
I spent hours trying to read things that rationalize why ending it was the best thing I could do for both of us, especially myself.
I still can't shake how much I miss him, how scared I am to be completely alone in this merciless world. It feels so unfair. We both loved each other a great deal and neither of us wanted it to end but it just became so horribly toxic.
It doesn't really help that I don't really have any other close friends, I don't have a family, I have no one.
I don't know what to do.
I made the cleanest break a person possibly could yet i know deep in my heart there's still that naive thread of hope and desire to go crawling back, even though I know that is the worst thing I could do to myself.
I'm sorry I know this is super pathetic but this all happened right at the beginning of my winter break so I can't even talk to the shitty therapists I occasionally see at school. So I'm here.
Being completely alone with nothing but an abusive mother during the holidays doesn't exactly fucking help either. Especially when I was supposed to spend New Years with him.
Fuck I want to die so badly to be honest familiars
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In retrospect there's probably nothing someone here could tell me that would help I am just thrashing around desperately at this point it just hurts so much and my life and I am a fucking mess
Making friends after college?
Hey all, I graduated pretty recently and I've been worried about my friends. I'm gonna be moving away soon for a job and my girlfriend (same city), and I'm worried I won't be able to make friends. What're the easiest ways to make friends in your early 20s?
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>>16612985
What's up with that picture my dude?
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>>16612985
Common interests. I met 2 of my best friends at open mics because we love music. Met my other friends in a creative writing class because we both love writing. In general though, I have no idea. Those relationships don't matter much in my opinion.
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A guy from my girlfriend's work has been subtly trying to ask her out. The first time was a few months ago and he asked her if she wanted to grab coffee after work, she said she was busy and declined and left it at that without saying she had a boyfriend. When I asked why she didn't tell him that she did, she said she just didn't want to assume that he meant a date and didn't want to embarrass herself (though, in my eyes it clearly was). I said it was fine and I understood.
The second time was last night, though this time he was a bit more direct and asked when she was free and if she wanted to hang out. Again, my girlfriend made up a fake excuse and said no without telling him she had a boyfriend. This concerned and upset me now, because not only is it crystal clear that he's going for her romantically this time, but she dodged telling him twice about her relationship. When I said I was upset, she said she just acted on impulse and just wanted to say no and not explain any further. I said it felt insulting to me that she wouldn't just tell him and be done with it, and that she doesn't seem to mind that she's being hit on by another man.
After talking, she found a subtle way to tell him that she's in a relationship. Though, I still feel uncomfortable. My girlfriend is very shy and likes to avoid confrontation, and is also very naive (everyone knew I liked her before we dated before she did). She also said she only acted on impulse, and was genuinely sorry when I told her how it ticked me off, and asked how she would feel if I did the same to another woman.
Am I overreacting here? She's apologised now and the dude knows she's taken, but I still feel humiliated that she didn't in the first place. Talk some sense into me, /adv/.
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>>16612979
>She's apologised now and the dude knows she's taken, but I still feel humiliated that she didn't in the first place
Yes, you are overreacting. You said yourself it's in her personality to be oblivious and to not like confrontation, if you can't accept it in light of this, then you're a lost cause.
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>>16612979
Ya it is kinda weird, man.
And you also have to wonder why he's asked your gf out twice. Is she sending him signals that are making him want to ask or is he just a rapey fucker?
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It depends on what kind of a person she is. If she's awkward and non-confrontational then it's not that weird that she acted like this. Girls and guys are different.
Also, I guess girls often don't want to jump to conclusions when guys ask them to do something. While it might be obvious to guys the dude was interested, it's not obvious for many girls.
I'm young. 19, I work full time, around 50 hours a week. I make good money, I have found a career. My problem though, is that all throughout high school I was in a relationship, I was with her four years, it ended not too long ago. Around 6 months ago, but we'd been off an on for a large majority of that time. I'm fairly certain it's actually over for good now, but now I feel as if I meet no girls. I seem to do nothing except work. I have money, but all of my friends either are at college, or are working shit fast food jobs, who only ever get drunk for fun. I'm in such a rut. I come home from work, exercise or whatever, and then it seems I'm just working again. I do some martial arts, but can only do it on my two days off. I miss the companionship and constant sex of a relationship, and also the daily interactions with friends in high school. I played sports in high school, and greatly miss that. I don't really get along that great with too many of my coworkers, they're all older. The few around my age I just do not click with at all. I'm sorry to rant, I just don't really know what to do. I always thought life was figured out when you had a good job (lol) but here I am, lonelier and confused as ever.
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What's you job? Just curious.
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>>16612977
Car sales.
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Bump.
Pls give advice Anyone who's experienced this
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So I live with a divorcing couple.
The man is petty, jealous, and has anger issues.
What do I do if he accuses me of something during the divorce proceedings as a custody ploy?
What are my rights? Will I be raided? Will it go on my record?
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> being married
> having a roommate too
wut
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>>16612927
Raided? What do you think he's going to accuse you of? Most men, even the real pieces of shit, wouldn't falsely accuse a man of harming a child so I wouldn't worry too much.