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>>16630175
Because it's embarrassing. I would believe her in your shoes. Take her out for dinner for being honest about it and give her a hug.

It's 6 months ago, move on its not like she did an 8 man bang and bong

>>16630186
I told her if thats the truth its nothing to hide from me. I told her I loved her for her and that doesn't bother me, just her being shady was.

>>16630188
It was while we were dating and we've been through some rough patches the past couple months.

what do you mean by imaginary relationships?

>>16630136

thats inherently contradictory. like the whole thing. by definition a relationship is how two or more people relate to one another. so they cannot do it imaginably (either by the person being imaginary or the relationship imaginary).

also
>imaginary
>real
>delusional

imagination is to some degree, a delusion, more so if you take it seriously. so no they arent real.

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>>16630171
Bait me again.

(Also, pic not related)

Talk to your schools counsellor.

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>>16630095
As someone who passed high school and got into the top uni of my country, there is literally only one thing you can do. Set your emotions to zero and open those schoolbooks. Learn to make studying an escape from your unhappiness and give it your all.
For me, I feel uneasy when I don't finish all my homework resulting in that feeling that nothing is under my control, so getting my shit done is actually improving my mood too.
Pull trough, it's just high school and you will have free time after your exams anwyay.

>>16630095

if we could all just take a break from the world whenever we get depressed, the entire world would fall apart. the world doesn't care if you get sad.

depression doesnt go away because of a breather. instead, focus on school so you can geti t done, then spend your spare tiem fixing the things in your life you do not like, the ones that are making you depressed

look for him bc he's your dad

leave.

>>16630064
Shut the door leading to garage. Dad dies. You get the cash. Profit

>>16630009
what part of your body

Antiperspirant

Armpit pads

Botox injections

>>16630009
If it's your armpits your ducked

>>16630002

by politely saying
'excuse me, MR X? i was wondering if we could talk a bit about these schedules. I have a hard time with the inconsistency and was hoping we might be able to hammer out something different?'

keep in mind that you are asking for better treatment than everyone else. its normal to work 8 or 9 hours aday, that is a normal work day. the hours you are talking about arent even that inconsistent. i understand hating to work a horribly long shift then coming back early the next day, but this ones slightly offset so that doesnt even happen.

asking to only work five hours a day is awfully entitled cuz on top of that you are asking everyone else pick up your slack. its wal mart so chances are you are going to be told to go fuck yourself.

"Hi boss, I'm sorry, but I'd like to resign for health reasons."

>>16630033

lol

>>16629999

Dude I wanted post #9999

>>16629999

>whiteknights getting quads

yes tho. id go with the fake email if you dont want to get involved in the ensueing drama, but it at least lets her know what is up and take the legal action. maybe give her a ltitle help there by linking to a resource online on what to do (As im sure its happened before).

>>16630005

Am I protected by a fake email
If I link the url can the email be traced back to me via IP address if she was to freak out and get the police involved.

>>16629964
I think you've never actually been in love. That's the only thing that comes to mind to me, because every time I actually loved someone, I woke up everyday before them to make their breakfast, cancelled every plan I had if they weren't feeling well to watch them over and shit.

>>16629964

>am I just not built for relationships?

probably. but more like 'not programmed' for relationships. as im sure you know relationships have evolved a lot over time. every year there seems to be a different trend and everyones different. there was a time where youd really only ever know one person romantically for your entire life. and if that feeling faded it didnt matter, cuz like your family they were just one of those random permanent installations in your life that you had to deal with.

thats not the case anymore. the ability to serial date has made it so people DONT need to function in long term relationships, and as a result people dont want to.

the honeymoon phase is the best part, so i do the same thing. i dont see anything wrong with it. whats wrong with meeting someone, enjoying them for as long as you can, then saying goodbye when it fades out? some might call it 'using' i suppose.

but if you met someone that really lit a fire in your heart i am sure that you (and I) would see it through for as long as possible.

Try being good friends first, and do not have sex early on in the relationship.

>>16629946
You're addicted to caffeine. Going cold turkey is not a good idea. Over the course of the next month, drink less and less. Remove 1 cup a day from your usual routine. When you're down to just 1 cup a day, switch to decaf. Tastes the same. Eventually wean yourself off decaf.

Can you drink tea instead? I was in the same boat and managed to go down to just 1-2 cups of tea in a day. Drinking tea feels loads better compared to coffee, too, like a night and day difference.

>>16629946

when you quit any addictive substance its going to take a temporary toll on your life. you are going to go through withdrawal and there isnt much you can do about that.

if you want to go cold turkey, make it a point to streamline as much of your life as possible (like cookiing a LOT of meals on sunday and storing them, and perhaps being prepared to spend money on eating out for other meals).

also, work the buddy system. are you at work when you are having your first cup lately? talk to your best work mate and ask them to be your cafiene sobriety buddy. at home ask whoever you live with. throw it all out.

weening yourself off of it is also an option but it depends on your personality type. some are better cold turkey cuz they just have to adhere to the one rule: dont drink. others are better at weening becuase as long as tehy get a tiny bit of coffee in them, the rest of the day goes smooth.

Such freedom.

Queen of Cups

She realized she wasn't happy

She found happiness elsewhere. Things don't always work out in your favour.

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>should I do something I want to do and find interesting that isn't illegal, unethical it immoral. Well shit anon, you tell me.

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>>16630211
>>16630263

I know but I'm just a random dude with no experiance, sexy body etc. Just long hair, if it counts :/

Kinda need help about how to deal with pose or photographer.

>>16629881
wear a wig

A hat of some kind is probably your best bet. Short hair isn't necessarily a bad thing unless it looks poorly cut. If it is poorly cut, have someone more skilled try to cut it a little shorter so it will grow back nicely. If you can't take it any shorter, just roll with it until it regrows.

>>16629881

i feel ya i almost always have a bad haircut and it takes two weeks til im happy.

there isnt really much else you can do other than try to style it the best you can and of course wear a hat. i tend to go with a beanie. just make yourself comfortable around your work and remember that if you are attractive with good hair, having short hair for a little while doesnt really matter.

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>>16629879
Sometimes acknowedging that you remember something is the best way to move on.

>>16629879

whats your normal falling asleep procedure. its common to have dreams about things you are stressing about, and though they've been gone two months it sounds to me like you still have a lot of unresolved issues. right now you are probably thinking about them a lot.

so distracting yourself before bed could help. find a soft sounding comfortable TV show (a very talky drama or not so hardcore comedy) and listen to that with the screen off. i find that the office and that 70s show tend to be leveled enough audio that it wont hut your ears or distract you.

you can also invest in radioplays (there are tons of ones its avery big independent field these days) podcasts (look for something educational if you can! but anything that itnerests you) or audio books / short story narrations (creepy pastas and 'true scary stories' are easily found on youtube).

these will distract your brain as you fall asleep.

other than that all you can do is try to get some closure on the situation. maybe address them about what happened assuming you only just cut them off and ran away. if not that, get some personal closure. make some new friends or go shout about how much you hate them from the top of a roof.

other than that, its only time

>>16629879
Sounds like you haven't gotten over splitting from them.

Maybe try to get back with them?

>>16629870
Do what you want. If all they're doing is putting pressure on you and you think you can get an address, a phone line, and food without them, then go do it. You'll be ok without mommy and daddy.

You're a free man, but not when you're living on their dime

>>16629870

im not sure you are thinking about your own situation accurately.

if they arent paying for college they cant force you to go. just go get a job. if you can get a weekend and summer job you can save up and at the very latest, get your own place by september of 2016.

get a summer job, and by end of summer you'll be able to pay for it.

you can also get a regular day job and just tell them you are going to school. if they dont pay or anythign they wont really know

>>16629945
Just confronted my parents again. They threatened to kick me out of the house if they find out that I'm working full time instead of finishing college.