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You make a move you dipshit. Go on a romantic date, look into her eyes and kiss her. If she accepts you two are couple and that finalized it.

You then just accept it that you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend without saying it. I mean seriously how socially autistic can some of you be? This is basic shit that 13 year olds figure out.

>>16665450
Are you a 12 yr old boy? Because that's what it seems like.

>>16665450
You shouldn't really have to ask, but if you must, just ask... "Where do you see the both of us going?"

Just find a boring friend. Or conversely an extremely not boring friend.

>>16665277

Start doing activities that involve other people.

Get an interesting hobby, I don't know, skydiving or some shit.

Actually scratch that, it's too much effort and we both know your faggot ass won't get off the couch to do it. You don't have to be interesting to appear interesting to other people. Read some shit on social interaction and psychology and PRACTICE IT. It will help you have decent conversations much better than being interesting.

>Well the only thing you can do is learn you lesson. You can break up with her and only find someone with comparable partner count as you. Someone else who is either a virgin or made the same mistake as you. Or you can live with it. You wont be happy about it ever. She realized it because of course she wasnt a virgin and understood. You didnt really have a way of understanding. It really sucks I know.


Is this from personal experience?
I hate the feeling that i somehow HAVE to break up, because some petty feelings i have, however the natural they might be.

>>16664080
You thought it didnt matter because you didnt realize how important sex was at the time because you never had sex. After having sex you are now bitter and upset because you realize that this special moment between you two isnt so special for her as well.
This feeling isnt going to go away. You may not say anything but it will get to you and reflect in you actions and thoughts.

Might be best before it takes form of hostility. I suggest you stop having sex for now and reflect upon whether you can accept her past. She'll be hurt but she knew better than you did that this would be a problem.

Speaking from experience, there's nothing you can do bro. I've never been with a virgin cuz I was late to the party, I didn't get laid till I was 23. Totally my own fault, I didn't give a fuck about girls till that age. When I had my first girlfriend, I thought about that shit all the time. Same thing with the second girlfriend. I cheated on the 2nd a few times, broke up with her, then smashed a shit ton of girls. Like, so many that I've lost count. The thing is, you'll never get over this unless you want to. I still go out and slay, but none of it ever satisfies they way sex did with someone I cared about.

If I had to try and give you real advice, it would be this - realize that sex isn't intrisically special, it's the two people that are having it that make it special. It is what you make it. That being said, it's nearly impossible to appreciate that without having some meaningless sex under your belt as a point of comparison. I'd dump your current lady, or at least get her to throw a threesome your way, so you can know what another vagina is like. My 2c.

you can have perverted thoughts without taking perverted actions.

the fact that your conscientious about it is probably an indicator that youre not insane.

Femanon here. What you blushed cause you thought of dick? Do you happen to be still in high school? What exactly do you mean by borderline nymphet?

So you want a good girl who has all the qualities of a girlfriend but she is slutty only for you?

That is rare as fuck kid, dream on.

Pick the engineering and get a nice stable job with plentiful opportunities. It is the simplest to get in terms of all you need is a degree and you are set.

Now granted it can be boring I hear but you can always switch to another career midway through.

History is good as you can become either a civil servant or specialise in law afterwards, not to mention the fact its very very interesting.

Computer science is great as well, as the employment potential if youre good at it and network is massive

>>16665133
How are any of those limiting? There are many different kinds of engineers, for example.

How did you find out?

>>16664360
She forgot to clear her browsing history or use incognito mode this once and I just ran across it.
This really piqued my interest so I set up some network monitoring and found that it's alot more serious than i thought

>>16664354
show her the proof, ask her why she didn't come clean? Tell her "Sex with you is starting to feel underwhelming, do you feel like its a chore?"
....????
>fuck her

Make a painting while listening to Alan Watts.

Play League of Legends

>>16663634
Bicycle or motorbike

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Cut one bad habit, see how it improves your situation.

>>16663437
You already know the answer to this, you're too lazy and unwilling to fix your own problems. Stop shoveling shit into your mouth and start exercising. No fucking excuses cunt

>>16663437

I am just in your thread to whore my thread, as it's exactly what you need: >>16664581

Don't lead on people it makes them sad. Honesty is the best. Go up to the guy and tell him to take you on a date. Guys aren't friends with girls unless they want can see themselves romantically with them as a general rule.

>>16665272
Guys can be friends with girls without wanting to date them lol

Look, it's not a good idea to get with someone who was going out with your best friend. If you're "kind of in love with him" then give him the time he needs. Seriously, leave the kid alone. He went out with your best friend when he knew you were an option. And now he just likes your nudes. Move on.
Furthermore there's nothing wrong with going to a dance with a friend. But be upfront with him about your feelings and then give him the opportunity to take someone else if he's upset by the news.

halp

hes prob masturbating too much.
too tight of a grip makes dudes loose sensitivity making cumming an issue.
tell him to not overthink it, just enjoy it.
>what helped me

>>16664677
The thing is before we even talked about this he admitted to me that he doesn't really masturbate. And he knows I wouldn't have a problem with it so there's no reason for him to lie to me. He says that he basically can't masturbate. He doesn't get hard enough to continue let alone finish :/

>>16664382
Trick her into drinkin' lot's of dissolved birth control pills.

>inb4 moral-pricks and whiteknights tell me that this is wrong.

And what she did wasn't? Fuckin' white knights. Tricks work both ways, ask any hooker.

>Inb4 "two wrongs don't make a right".

Yeah, but the right "wrong" will prevent a greater wrong called the child support system from destroying this young man's life. Shit, we get no rights as parents, why the fuck we got the responsibilities?

Fuck that shit, dissolve bitch control pills in her drinks.

This is exactly my problem, I'm not ready for children, I have no job, no own apartment, nothing that goes for me until I finish my degree and this girl wants to force a child into my life.

>>16664398
You mean putting them into water and letting her drink it?

For which period of time?

Do you have a source?

Oh dude you fucked up

>>16663955
I somehow doubt they wanna talk to a nerdy loser who works at Wal Mart and plays D&D on the weekends.

I don't even have anything interesting to write to them about.

>I want gullible retards on 4chan to give my brother some bail money

>>16663963
You'd be surprised. Many of them are lonely and desperate for human contact and would be most enthralled to hear of your exploits in D&D.

The signs are really passive aggressive. I know it's a shitty situation but when people like that come in you need to keep hinting at them to order. Like have the waiters hover around until they get uncomfortable.

>>16663367
that's the first thing i brought up to my mother when she brought it up. we came to the conclusion for a fee notice after a customer nearly became physically aggressive when we politely urged him repeatedly that the 4/6 sitting at the table needed to order because we had diners waiting outside. he insisted he was dining there and he had a right to stay, we simply stopped arguing to avoid commotion.

>>16663369
I don't think a notice would matter much to idiots like that but if you decide to use one, word it differently. Something along the lines of "seats for diners only, if you have finished please give your seat up to someone who's waiting to have a meal" etc. I'm sure they'll just say that they'll order in a minute though lol. Some people.

How do you know that after you transition you won't have a midlife crisis and identify with your original gender?

If you're on the fence about something this serious I wouldn't transition.

I think most transgender people commit suicide after they transition because they later identify with their original gender and wouldn't really be able to transition back. I forget the exact statistics.

What if I told you.. that, even as a man, it's okay to like girly things? Having female interests doesn't make you a female. It's okay to have diverse interest outside of gender norms.

>>16662475
this

also this
http://www.sexchangeregret.com/

>what can i do to have these things stop
you could drink some bleach

>>16661737
Oh fuck off.

Seriously though, do you have a school counselor? You don't have to tell them what kids are doing this but you can let them know what's going on. They won't tell anyone else about it unless you request they do so if you're worried about the kids finding out

you can punch 'em
thats a good reliever and not such a big deal depending on where you live