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Need some opinions about my Tinder pics, as I have no clue whatsoever about this.

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I really, really want to go travelling. At the moment I'm unemployed though.

Should I go now, because I have no commitments? Then I can just get a job when I get back?

Or should I get a job because otherwise I'm a lazy faggot? And then try and take time off work to travel in the future (which of course will make everything more expensive because I will probably still have to cover rent in wherever I'm living, which will probably be in London, where rent is fucking expensive)?

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I did it! I dominated my girlfriend and made her submit to me.

The problem is she was just way too bold and sexually aggressive and forward. I think I was finally able to take most of that out of her. We've been together for about three months now, having regular sex for over two of those months, and she has just been really stubborn and resistant, has a lot of spunk. It's been difficult.

Last night though, I found out she has never been facefucked before. I mean it's something I usually do early on, because I think it really shows a woman her place, but I just hadn't pulled out that tool yet. At first she kept trying to use her hands, but I kept scolding her about how I can use my hands myself if that's what I want, and finally just started slapping her hand away a couple of times till she got the point. She was having a difficult time and tried to protest, but I explained that her throat just hadn't been broken in yet. I then was able to get her in position with her head hanging of the bed and really fuck her throat.

After doing this for another few minutes, she was really pliable and willing to do anything else I wanted. I basically ragdolled her into various positions, made her look in the mirror while she was getting hair pulled and fucked and ass spanked. She orgamasmed two times! Which was a first for her. I then ended up coming on her face, another first for her, and the look of defeat was glorious.

The problem is during aftercare, she was really upset. She kept trying to argue that she isn't submissive, and doesn't really want to have sex like this again, but her pussy was saying otherwise! I kept pointing out the facts of what happened, and she kept getting more and more upset! Are you fucking kidding me? Why do you think she has so much trouble accepting this?

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>Be 23
>Attracted to 19 year old

I know it isn't much of an age difference, but I still feel weird for liking her.
Almost as if it's wrong of me to feel this way. What's wrong?

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So here's how the story went
>be me
>beginning of school
>my crush shows up on move in day and she smiles at me
>I smile back
>move in day is done
>we start hanging out
>everything is good
>flash forward 4 months into the relationship
>Christmas time
>get her a nice ring($30) and a nail kit ($65)
>She got me gifts
>I go to new York because cousins live there
>I come back early than expected
>I ask her to hangout then she says she's hanging with her friend
>new year 2016 with the boys
>beginning of 2016 I text her. No response
>I text her again. No response
>I video chat her. Ask her if there's anything I can do or improve on says no.
She says she just wants to be friends.
>hangs up call
>she changes her facebook status to single the day before that which is odd
>a day after, she posts a twitter status asking who wants to party
>when I confront her on Facebook about just wanting to be friends, she blocks me on all social media
>I email her. She says leave her alone.
>find out from friend that she's been seeing a new guy a week after she broke up with me.

Do you guys think that I deserve the closure. She said just felt like we should just be friends but she blocks me and won't give me closure. Also the new guy too. The relationship was only going up. My friends think that the Christmas party was with guys

What do you think ?

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What do you think is a good life? Where does the music play at?

Everyone has their own preferences hobbies, goals, etc., but is there something where everyone could agree on? Something objective that make's one's life good?

Is itm ore the way for a safe, quite and comfortable living (which many people don't have after all) or should it be filled with more excitement, risk, passion and ups and downs?

Should you focus on special goals or is a varied approach better?

Are personal goals (like health, finance, social goals) better or should one contribute to society (politically / or social activities)?

In a world filled with so many opportunities and billions of life strings I kinda got lost in what I should pursue. Thus this is more a discussion thing than an actual advice. But I'm curious how others think about it.

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I'm trying to find and replace text in hundreds of files, but there's a special requirement.

For example, let's say the text is as follows :

test
40
blab

I want to replace the 40 with another string, but i want to avoid replacing files with text that looks like this :

test
required:40
blab

If i just find and replace the number "40",i will end up replacing a lot of stuff that i don't want to. So basically want to replace the number 40 if it's the ONLY thing by itself on a single line.

I've tried several find and replace programs and none can seem to do it. Any ideas?

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Anon, do you have something you want to vent or hash out?

I've been through my fair share in life and have learned quite a bit.

I want to try a new idea. I am offering an hour of my time, via telephone. In this hour we can discuss whatever you want, and I can give my advice based on my experiences. Or I can just listen, if that's what you want.

Right now I just want to try this out, so my rate will be $5 for an hour (via PayPal) .

Would any of you like my help?

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So I got to know this girl from playing video games with her online. I got along well with her from the beginning and thought she was really fun to be around. I found out she had a (long-distance) boyfriend pretty quickly, but didn't think much of it. I started playing games with her, her boyfriend, and some of their other friends every day. Occasionally she and I would be the only ones online and we'd hang out, just the two of us. I always enjoyed that the most.

Over a couple of months, she and I spent a lot of time together. Eventually, we started talking late at night, sometimes falling asleep to eachother's voices. A few days ago, things got sexual. We had definitely both been interested for a while, and then it just kind of.. happened. She told me she and her boyfriend were arguing all the time and their relationship was basically over anyway.

Then, the next day, she told me that she couldn't do it. She said she told him the truth and he forgave her. She said it's her fault that their relationship is struggling and that her boyfriend doesn't deserve to be tossed aside for nothing he did wrong. Despite choosing to stay with him, she keeps spending time alone with me. We can't stay away from eachother. She cheated on him with me again. She tells me that she's fallen in love with me, she can't stop thinking about me, she wants to be with me, but she just can't leave her boyfriend for me because it's "wrong."

She feels horrible about everything she's doing, but won't let go of either me or her boyfriend. She says she's never been in a situation like this and is so confused. It's all been very stressful for me but, while I know what she's doing is fucked up, I can't stay away from her either. She makes me feel so good about myself and I genuinely fucking love spending time with her. Wat do?

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How do I know?

How can I deal with this? Has anyone else been through this? I really need advice.

Also is it safe? Can it all just be in my head?

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UK folks, TV License shit. Get ready, ready, ready!

So my girlfriend was paying for TV License despite us not watching TV live, only on demand, Netflix, 4OD .etc so i emailed the TV license cunts and declared that we didnt need one on the 24th of November i got an email acknowledging this fact saying they wouldn't bother us for 2 years.

Last week a letter came in her name demanding money saying shes breaking the law saying her payments only keep our license upto the 31st of November and they'll cancel our license completely, NOW today a letter came from these Marston Baliffs saying she owes nearly £500 because of a fine for not paying TV license...what the fuck kind of law breaking is this from them?

I was going to ring them and remind them they actually owe us a weeks worth of over license paying but theyre shut now till Monday.

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How much money do you need to be making to be seen as dating material to women?

I barely make above minimum wage, but that's like $22 here so it isn't as bad as it sounds.

I mean I could have a family we'd just be kind of poor until I inherit

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Ok anon's I need help

I recently started using Tinder and got a match.
We talked the entire day and really hit it off, I feel. But unfortunately I fell asleep during our conversation, at like 2 am. When I woke up and realized what happened I apologized and continued the conversation we had previously.

But she hasn't responded for 2 days now. What do? Is this just part of the game or should I give up?

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Sometimes my pictures on here randomly flip upside down, any idea why? Using phone app

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Why would a female friend ask who I go with to places?