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>we want nice guys who treats us well
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Anyone got a website with a list of logins for accounts like Netflix, Spotify, ect?
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I've been seeing a girl for a couple of months and everything was going great until today. She's been feeling tired and worn out lately so at the behest of her mother, she went to get checked by a doctor for anemia. She called me afterwards and told me they prescribed her iron pills to see if it would help. Then she told me she didn't think she should be in a relationship because she was still hurting from her last one and didn't think it was fair to me so she wants to take some time to get herself straightened out.
I told her I understood and I appreciated her being honest with me. I have literally no reason to suspect she's lying about anything, but I can't keep old feelings from previous relationships that ended poorly from resurfacing.
What should I do?
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You should come to terms with the fact that the only truly worthwhile relationships are those between equally enthusiastic partners. When you're meant to be with someone, they'll be as enthusiastic about being with you as you are about being with them. That's not something which many people can offer. While that doesn't make them bad people in any way, it does make them poor choices for a significant other. They need time to learn honesty with themselves. It looks like your ex has taken the first step toward learning that. You should too.
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When a woman rejects a man, it's his duty to accept her choice and respect it. She has no obligation to give you a reason.
Accept it and move on. That's all you can do. It's for the best, it's what nature intended.
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>>16775833
>She has no obligation to give you a reason.
I never implied she did, and furthermore, she did give me a reason.
I feel like you're replying to the wrong thread.
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Hi /adv/ !
So, there is this girl, i'm friend with her on Facebook, because she hangs out a lot with 3 girls that i know well since middle school, but the thing is, i've never met her irl
I know very well this is much more fantasy than actual attraction but i just find her very attractive and she seems like a very nice girl
So one day i decided to talk to her on Facebook, and it actually went very nicely
But during new year's night i fucked up (fuck you alcohol huh)
I decided to send her a message to wish her a happy new year, and she answered nicely to it, but a few hours and a few drinks later, i decided that i should be more direct and i sent her some bullshit like "i wanted to dedicate this message to your golden hair and your beautiful eyes" (don't remember exactly and i don't wanna look it up because it's way too cringe-worthy), and she answered with a very brief "you're nice ^^ thanks" that seemed very awkward
From then i didn't know what the fuck i should do to save that, because i felt so stupid i didn't want to talk to her again but to just stop talking to her would make me look like a fucking chad
So a few days later i decided to apologize and to explain it was new year and i was drunk and that i felt stupid as hell for sending this, to which she just answered "don't worry"
So yeah i'm there and i don't know what i should do to save this because i realize even after apologizing i look stupid, and i felt like i shouldn't answer after the "don't worry" because it would show that my apologies were just an excuse to keep hitting on her
Anyone has advices to save my autistic situation ?
I mean of course i don't know her irl and i'm not obsessed with her in case that's what you're thinking but i don't want her to think i'm a retard, and if i could get to know her that would still be cool
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Just stop the sperging to this and she can accept that it was one isolated event while drunk.
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>>16775780
this, just proceed normally
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>>16775828
so i just... talk to her again ?
don't know what i can say after that, don't want it to be awkward and to look pushy
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I asked this the other day, but since it's the weekend and some of the 9-5 crowd might be around, I'm going to ask again - I have a crush on a coworker.
The thing is, it's not going anywhere, no matter what - she just had a kid and is with her boyfriend. I have a small inkling she's a little interested, but I'd chalk it up to hormones. We've gone drinking together, she invited me to lunch yesterday, etc. She's seemed to pay me a lot of attention since I wrote her a nice Christmas card, which she's talked about multiple times.
Anyways, what I want to do is put a stop to this quickly, because having a crush on her is a waste for me. Ideas?
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>>16775738
If she is willing to cheat with you, she's willing to cheat on you. If by some chance you were to get with her, what would you have then? A cheating mother who will probably become a single mother when this becomes knowledge to her boyfriend/husband. She'll probably put him on for child support, and if you get her pregnant she'll do the same to your dumb ass.
Sorry if I seem harsh, but the only way to get over a crush is to replace the thoughts of an idealized relationship in your head with thoughts which are a much more realistic interpretation of how the situation will unfold, and to decide that you want no part in it.
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>>16775757
I'm aware of this, I want no part in it already, but that doesn't stop the instinct I have to flirt with her or whatever. I have zero desire to have her cheat on her boyfriend or anything.
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Moving to a new state 2016-02-06 20:33:14 Post No.16775727
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so i just moved to a new state and i have no idea what to do regarding my car and insurance. my parents gifted me the car right before i left but we only filled out the bill of sale and did nothing else about it. on top of that, since i moved out of home i am no longer covered by my parent's car insurance policy.
ive been hearing very different things about what to do first. some people have told me that i will need to sign up for a new insurance policy before registering the car, while others have told me i'd need to register the car before signing up for a new insurance policy.
on top of that, since the car was gifted to me right before moving, im guessing there will be additional documents i'll need to fill out.
and what about emission tests? would i need to do that before registering the car?
there's always a 3 hour line at the local dmv office and i'd like to get things done in one trip. can anyone tell me where i can go to find some answers? the official dmv.gov website is so confusing.
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bump. ANY help would be great here.
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>>16775727
Call the tax office (or whatever state office handles car registrations where you are) and ask...
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>>16776260
Also you don't do car registration at the DMV in my state at least... so, best check...
Are you moving TO california or FROM?
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I want my Girl friend to show off her body to my friends 2016-02-06 20:32:09 Post No.16775724
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I want my Girl friend to show off her body to my friends
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Hey guys n girls. I have this fetish of showing off my girlfriend. I have this fantasy of her coming out in a revealing dress infront of my friends and all of them just being in awe at her sight. I want them to have a hard on looking at my girl. I even want my girl to show her pussy, ass or boobs to them, but she doesnt want to do those. Any advice how i can convince her?
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>>16775724
Tell her "my penis would get super hard" because that's what you mean.
Note: this won't convince her. If she's not into it this won't change her mind, exhibitionism is mad uncomfortable if you aren't into it.
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Stop being such a cuck. Your girlfriend isn't your possession, she's not for you to show off like a watch.
She should dump you and find a real man.
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>>16775770
>your girlfriend isn't your possession
Please explain.
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Just turned 18 yesterday, what's the best way to enjoy it.
I already had a party and hung out with my closest friends.
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>>16775715
Buy cigarettes, lotto ticket, spray paint, a bottle of robitussin.
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>>16775785
Spray paint?
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Fuck a hooker
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How long does it normally take to get over a big break up?
My long term boyfriend of a few years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and I still feel empty and dead inside while he seems to be just fine. Since most of my social life depended on him (I had lots of friends when I first dated him then over the years the majority of those friendships were lost) I'm essentially staying at home a shit ton now and it's making me feel really depressed. I only go out to work or occasionally meet my best friend or have a drink with another friend of mine, as in I socialise like maybe once or twice a week.
I have few friends left but they are all super close to me, pretty much 4 of them are left and 2 of them are leaving to move overseas permanently soon. So I'll be stuck with only 2 fucking friends.
I'm really shy and awkward when I talk, too, so it's hard for me to make friends. I used to be very sociable in high school but I seem to have lost that knack since my relationship. I've nearly finished college too so I don't know where to meet new people.
Because I feel empty as well I don't have motivation to do stuff and a few guys have already asked me out on dates, pre-relationship I would've just gone but now I just feel like I've changed and I'm not interested at all. Especially I'll be super suspicious that they just want a fuck and I'll protect myself from potential douchebaggery by just rejecting them.
I just don't know how to get out of this funk, or if it's something that only time will heal.
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Time will tell. Go out with your friends, cry yourself out on their shoulders if you are super close. Not getting into a relationship is a good idea until you are emotionally stable because it impairs judgement and you may get into a relationship that you regret later.
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Maybe you shouldn't have neglected your friendships while you were smugly in a relationship
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>>16775743
I never said that those friendships were lost due to me being neglectful. A lot of them were high school friends (I started dating the guy when I was fresh out of high school) and as you know once everyone's out of highschool they tend to change and have different groups of friends, move overseas, etc. In fact most of my friends either went to a university overseas, and a couple of them I had a disagreement with because they weren't being good friends.
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I guess that's all I can do at the moment. I'm just in a rut because it's the summer holidays now and no classes are on, so I don't have anywhere to meet new people. I don't meet my friends as much anymore because they've graduated and are working full time jobs now where as I'm only part time until I finish this last semester, and it doesn't start for another month.
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A lil backstory first. I liked.. sorta loved and confessed to a girl a year back and she basically had the worst of the reactions: "Oh.. Cute..?"
Now a month back she got herself a bf and soon after said that she doesn't want me in her life anymore without any reason at all.
We had lotsa fun together, as in when we went out with the squad and what not. I keep telling myself that she is worthless if she hates me, then again for some reason I hate it when I see her talk with the rest of the gang and I also want to ask her what the real reason is for such a bitch ditch she did to me.
Do help as I think that I'm still in love with her and can't get over her.
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>>16775672
You (like me) are infatuated, not in love.
Please take the advice I can never take, fuck that bitch, you don't need her, you'll find someone who will be good to you and for you. You can't force someone to have feelings for you, trying so will only push them away further
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>>16775672
Grow a spine and cut her off.
She didn't hesitate doing the same to you
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How do you get noticed on youtube? 2016-02-06 20:02:17 Post No.16775623
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How do you get noticed on youtube?
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I need advice on how to get noticed on youtube.
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Don't be shit.
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Little bit more specific dude xD
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>>16775637
Don't have shit content.
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I'm an alcoholic going on a two month stint of sobriety. I do a couple months off once every few years, generally to get back into shape, and generally with the strategy of coming out with a better relationship with alcohol (that clearly hasn't worked, but that's not the point).
People keep telling me how excited I must be, that I'm really going to love life, and that I'm going to "feel SO MUCH BETTER" when I cut it out. But honestly, I've done this, and I don't feel any better. I feel the exact same. I'm accepting that the world is going to become a boring, awkward place for two months, and I'm not happy about it, but I'm resolute. This makes people frustrated with me. I'm just being honest with them.
My main question here is, how do I get people to stop preaching at me about booze? They're the same people that go drinking 2-4 times a week, but the difference between us is that they feel like garbage in the morning.
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Buy them a shot. Repeat as needed. When they're right fucked up take them home and shit in their bed. That'll get them to shut up about drinking.
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I had a drinking problem. For years. IDK what your situation is like, health wise, but you'll keep drinking more and more untill you hit the same shit situation I did. I used to take a few months off, wasn't a complete drunkard back then but it progressed over time.
Sober since September last year because I lost a job several times and almost died from drinking in the end. I'll have some permanent consequences and non-permanent ones still haven't completely gone away. I felt like shit, drank as to not feel anything, still feel like shit even though I kicked alcohol (it is a depressant) because the underlying problems are still there.
You'll never stop people preaching against booze to you. At least not the ones that really care about you. Don't drive such people away. They're good to have around. People who drink casually and occasionally drink a bit too much or get completely blasted will never understand what it's like to be a proper alcoholic (having a drink first thing in the morning to stop your hands shaking, your mind racing until you're severely blasted to numb it and not being able to fall asleep if you're not so drunk you fall asleep from the amount you drank, drinking so much you throw up everything, including your soul, and then continue drinking).
Those people you find annoying are the kind of people who saved my life. Maybe you should reconsider your stance on them?
Anyways, good luck.
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>>16775666
So you never drink now?
I'm not OP. I've been afraid to stop cause I havnt stopped for years and I hear about seizures etc.
I think im about ready to quit completely, ive slimmed down to drinking beers instead of cheap liquor and less time being drunk.
I dont want to die, waste money or time so those are my own reasons.
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I'm about a third of the way through this book and enjoying it so far. Seems like slightly more intellectual advice than the standard pick-up artistry.
Anyone else here read this? Did it have a significant impact on your ability to approach and talk to women?
Also, what are some other great self-improvement books, not necessarily in the area of dating?
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>attract women through honesty
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Ive read it but I havent really followed the stuff in there religiously, so the book was useful to a degree.
I actually have a self improvement book list from / fit/.
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South America or Bust? 2016-02-06 19:25:37 Post No.16775525
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As an 18 year old who is going out if high school soon, what is the best way to travel the world basically broke?
I am looking into hostels to work at for a bit and other things.
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Hate to tell you this, but it's not all that easy. But that's not to say it can't be done.
Important questions for more detailed info, though:
1) What country are you in
2) What country/regions are you looking to go to
3) Define "basically broke"
4) Any skills you may have
5) How long do you intend to travel
6) Plans for after
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>>16775536
It's fine, I like the help a lot.
1.I am in the United States. (Born in it, full Citizenship)
2. South America, but mainly focused on Chile, Peru, Bolivia and Argentina.
3.I am currently looking for a short term job, but I have a few hundred dollars (nearing a thousand) on me.
4.I am bilingual, English and Spanish.
I have some higher arts (photoshop, video editing, and animation) skills, I have done some light landscaping before I have a bigger build so I am used to the heavy work.
5. I plan to stay there for about a few months, at least 1-2 months at least. (I wouldn't mind working there for the time I remain there)
6. I plan to go to college the following year. (2017)
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I accidentally looked down xD 2016-02-06 19:00:58 Post No.16775453
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I accidentally looked down xD
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Makeing great eye contact having conversation and then in the bat of an eye almost as if instinct I looked down right at her chest! Then instantly back up too try and keep my sentence pretending it diddnt happen her face turned red and she smiles turning and walking off
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OK.
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>>16775453
K...
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Today for breakfast I had sandwiches with pineapple jam and had cocoa to drink with. I like the taste although fibers going inbetween teeth is a bit annoying.