Can a jealous person ever really stop being jealous, or do they need to just lie to themselves?
If insecurity is ingrained in you that much, can it really go away, or is it just a part of you?
>>16774870
I've always been insanely jealous. In high school I beat up my high school sweetheart's exgirlfriend because she asked him out, but he even said no and he was with me. I fought another girl for kissing a boy I liked at a beach party.
I got a little older and I stopped fighting people. But I'd still get insanely jealous of my boyfriend's female friends and ex's. One of his friends seemed to feed off of my jealousy. I've been in a relationship with this guy for five years. I've just found ways to release it without possibly going to jail or destroying my relationship. Eventually, I started thinking/believing and telling my boyfriend on occasion, that if he ever cheats on me, that's on him because he's not going to find a low-maintenance, high sex driven, good looking submissive female like me that will cook foods for him and drive over 30 minutes a day to bring him lunch at work. So he needs to appreciate it.
>>16774889
This is kinda how I feel it'll go down. I'll always be as jealous, I'll just have a better handle how I physically react to it. I'll feel just as shit, only difference is less people will know.
What's the point really if that's all it amounts to?
>>16774870
You can be anything you want when you grow up.
I am really desperate to receive a yoni massage. Is it illegal to pay for this service in Ontario Canada?
>>16774815
Fucking Brutal. Ben telling it like it is.
I can't say 100%, but since this goes under tantra/spiritul sex-therapy i guess it's legal?
However, why not do it yourself or find somebody that does it for shits and giggles?
>>16774815
There's no Fucking such thing. It's bullshit.
Found out I have to do 3 months of military service next year, also found out several people die every year because of this.
What do you do in military service?
How do I avoid dying from this?
>>16774814
Country? Dude provide more info lol
>>16774814
3 months seems relatively short.
What about getting the fuck out of there, or just be sensible and don't die?
in my country military service means cleaning some toilets
Is it normal to feel younger than you actually are? I feel like a 21 year old at the very most, not 24.
Sure, I feel like i'm 16-18 and i'm 21. I don't feel like an adult at all. I think it has to do a little bit about how society is structured now a days. For example I haven't moved out of the house yet because it's not really economical for me to do so yet.
>>16774854
No, you haven't moved out yet because you're a piece of shit still sucking on momma's tit.
Don't blame the economy because you're too lazy to get a fucking apartment
>>16774864
This
I'm supposed to learn German to B2 level, in one year, so that I can start going to university in Germany or Austria.
Unfortunately I started the "A1.1" course at this "school" since I thought "cool, I can learn the basics really well and shit", and only later have I found out that not only they split their A level courses into to, but apparently they split their B courses into 5!! (B1.1 B1.2 B1.3... and note that each of those lasts 3 fucking months) I don't even want to know about the C levels...
Now after having lost 3 months (I have only finished a half of an A1 course, hence A1.1), is B2 doable in a 10 months span or so in a normal language school that doesn't try to milk all of my money like the aforementioned one? (I also study a lot at home and have basically taught myself most of the things we did at the course before it even started)
What do you suggest? Is going abroad to Germany for ex. and spending some time in their language schools learning German a good idea?
If you're confident enough to insist on communication German. idk this a and B thing but speaking broken German to fluent speakers is scary and they will want to try their English on you and most Germans can communicate through engllish and like 25% are fluent.
If you do go on some student exchange don't fall into a habit of letting people speak to you in english, just only reply in German and they should get it
idk gl
>>16774881
Oh and it'll be great for accent if you try hard because you'll be embarrassed by how you sound
As someone who took two fucking years to get to B1
Yes, it's possible... if you have the heart and dedication to power through it and study for at least an hour every single day. Good luck.
I want to kill myself, my life is a joke and I'm done with everything...any suggestion?
Do you want to kill yourself with an m16 rifle? There is another guy in another recent thread who wants to kill himself with an ar15, hit him up, you'll be best friends.
>>16774782
Suicide bag
>>16774811
that's not what it's called moron.
>>16774782
get professional help from a doctor.
Can anyone help me find the right board for behavioral science? I am interested in psychology and how human mind works.
/sci/
Thx. I found it myself. Sory:)
I'm from Hong Kong and I wonder if people from other countries get similar messages from Skype.
>>16774709
Just looked, i only really get birthday notifications
>>16774709
I dont get shit like that, nope.
>>16774709
have never seen shit like that on skype either. Weird.
>be me male 32
>polyamorous
>been sleeping with ex until two weeks ago
>been sleeping with new woman since six weeks ago
>considering having long term open relationship with new woman
>not considering exclusivity, rather be single
>ex knows I'm poly, but became jealous, might still come back eventually
>new woman does not know about ex or that I'm poly
I've been seeing her more frequently the last two weeks. Been staying over at hers four times the last week, and will be cooking dinner together tonight.
Is it wrong of me to continue beyond this point without initiating a conversation in which I talk to her about being polyamorous, or should I do what I feel is right for me and wait until the topic of relationship comes up naturally?
Pic unrelated
cont'd
>inb4 you're an asshole for leading her on
I don't work on the assumptions that:
>she doesn't sleep with other guys
>she's interested in monogamous relationships (fact: she does not want kids)
>she wants a relationship at all
Also, I believe one should wait until one know each other far better than what is possible in the span of a couple of weeks before deciding to try for a relationship, and in the meantime even serial-monogamous people will date and sleep with more than one person at a time.
I just want some opinion.
>>16774681
>>16774684
If you're fucking multiple people at once, each and every one of those people deserve to know the simple fact that you're sleeping with other people for THEIR OWN SAFETY.
It's a safety issue. You sleeping with multiple people at once exposes all of those people to heightened STD risk. I don't give a fuck to hear about "I always use condoms." It doesn't fucking matter man because condoms do not protect against STD transmission in many cases and you don't wear condoms on your face do you now.
SO you're in the wrong for not letting this woman know that you're fucking other people:
>new woman does not know about ex
>been sleeping with ex until two weeks ago
>been sleeping with new woman since six weeks ago
Not cool.
About the polyamorous stuff - it's whatever. I agree that you should wait until the girl wants to "have something" with you because until she vocalizes it to you what the fuck do you know? You're not responsible for reading minds Ms. Cleo. Plus women aren't rational even when they think they're ready for that conversation. You bringing it up before she's ready could get ugly.
But you ARE responsible for putting people at heightened STD transmission risk without their knowledge.
>>16774759
I agree with a lot of your points, and thanks for the lengthy answer.
You assume a few things, though.
1. I got myself tested five weeks ago
2. At the point when my ex didn't want to continue sleeping with me, she hadn't been with anybody else since before we reconciled in early October, and I got myself tested then as well. Nobody will get sick.
I'm more responsible than you might think. More interested to know how I should go about telling her about my polyamory for the sake of jealousy and hurt feelings, not so much STDs. And in that area we seem to agree that it's too early to talk about relationship stuff, so cool.
why am i stupid
What makes you think you are stupid?
>>16774635
Because you make bad choices.
>>16774638
why do i make bad choices?
I feel like friends don't exist. They only people who you drink, crack jokes, share sad and happy shit with and finally get away from bitterly.
Am I right?
>>16774632
Yea that them n calling in some favors
Dude what do you want out of them cause to me that sound pretty chill
How do you know if someone's gay, or at least estimate it?
Man or woman?
>>16774621
Man
>>16774618
Gay people are very afraid of fire. Try waving a torch around at him and see if he runs away.
Here's the deal:
3 days ago I found something on my dick which looked kind of like a mosquito bite. It was light red and I decided to wait. Now it looks like a pimple. Should I get it checked or can I squeeze it out? I don't think I have an STD because
>tfw no gf
pic related looks like it, except the white part is a little smaller and it is standing out more.
the good news is that it will propably go with time
the bad news is that you may have a 70% chance of having AIDS
good luck.
>>16774606
As I said it can't be an STD
it's probably just a pimple OP
Don't squeeze it just in case, but if it's not gone in a couple of days then see a doctor.
i had a falling out with two friends last year. lets call them A and B
B has been a friend of mine for a long time and we got along so well for so long
A was just a recent friend and I kinda liked her but she had a girlfriend so I never acted on it or anything
B knew this. One night A B and I were all clubbing and B said something to A about it and shit hit the fan.
Cue me being sad + angry as fuck because I lost two friends and I felt like I didn't do anything wrong? I don't know.
But yeah a few weeks ago A said to another friend of mine that apparently me and her are all good as long as I don't confess my love again to her or some bull shit and i was like ????????? I never confessed my love to her that shit just sounds dramatic af
TLDR: B threw me under the bus by telling A I liked her and I got the punishment. We're all going out for karaoke next week, what should I do?
>>16774562
Fuck them both for bench unreasonable cunts and find new be friends. That sort of bitchiness will only drag you down
>>16774576
I dunno, A has always favoured B more than me. B said to A when I was at A's house that she felt uncomfortable I was there and then A went on to invite me to this karaoke thing anyway.
>be me
>got dumped by my girlfriend after 4 years, for what ever reason, nothing serious.
>she deletes all pics of us on instagram
>so pissed I block her on all social media, fuck her
>started a No contact-thing, which has lasted 3 days now
>I'm confident that I can last a month of no contact
>miss her though, she was nice overall 9/10
>wat do, when a month has gone by?
>>16774558
Make it two months.
>>16774558
get laid and move on
>>16774558
Why would you want to talk to someone who's hurt you? Why would want somebody like that back in your life?
Stop thinking your a victim and start seeing it as a lucky escape.