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>>16772622
A good start is to live with a roomate, or atleast in a shared house with your small room. The cost of those should be around 100~200

>>16772622
I am 28 make almost 81k a year and I still live my parents they don't mind I don't mind we all save a shit load of money.

>>16772730
how do you get laid?

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>nonwhite
/care

>be a sand nigger

no

College isn't for everyone. Do what will keep you happy in the long run, cutie pie.

>>16772603
>other wants to be a lazy fuck on my day off and play Nauto Shippuden Ultimate Ninja Storm 4 for six hours straight.
>What do?
Suicide.
> I'm making good enough money for my early twenties.
>I still live at home and both of my parents are heavily pressuring me to go to college
That's a subtle hint that you could chip in the house budget or GTFO. Kinda like mommy bird pushes the younglings out of the nest so they will finačly fuck off and start feeding themselves.

>>16772595
>Club Penguin
Anon what the fuck

Hacking an e-mail is illegal under certain interpretations of certain national laws but absolutely nobody will go to court for that shit and you are an idiot for even worrying about that. But be polite for a bit and change the password back for the original user.

>>16772687

i just wanted to share the story

i don't even know her old password, fuck that, she'll just type Andrzej if she has 20 iq

>>16772595
>getting partyv& for hacking a club penguin account
That'll be a good one to tell the grandkids someday...

the sound of human voices soothes loneliness. Lots of people listen to the radio, etc. What's the difference between this and jogging or reading a book? Practically fucking nothing. What exactly is wrong in your life that you're blaming podcasts for?

this a non-problem.

>>16772555
Depends on if you're learning from it. I listen to comedians podcasts but I want to be a comedian and comedy writer and often learn advice about it.

I listen to so many podcasts now that it feels more like an obligation and get anxiety when they start to stack up. Whenever some new current event happens, I feel like I need to go to all my podcasts and get their take on things.

Then I ask myself... Why do I give a fuck what these guys think about "X, Y, & Z"? Why can't I just form my own opinions and be content with that?

I do think it's probably a cover for loneliness though. I don't really get out much these days, so listening to a group of guys shootin' the shit in a room somewhere provides a sort of artificial social life.

It's clear that she's got a real nasty streak in her, and this probably won't be the last time in her life that she does something fucking terrible. Most people would never say something like that no matter how angry they were. You might not have fully understood what kind of person she was in the earlier stages of your friendship/relationship, but now that you've seen this side of her, surely you can understand that you're lucky to have her out of your life.

When someone deliberately tries to hurt you, it's always going to shake you up and make you question things. But in this case, it sounds like she's a legitimately bad, spiteful person, and you should try not to take her malice to heart. It's a symptom of her own disease, not an indicator of something that's wrong with you.

>>16772541

...Yeah, you're going to have to go ahead and tell us the full story on this one.

>>16772541
You could try killing yourself.

>>16772536

>I love my girlfriend
>After two years I love her less
>Maybe i want other girls?
>How do i break up with someone I love?

Basically the first stage of "love" usually ends in first year. You managed to double it. But even if you find someone as cool as your current gf, the history will probably repeat.

>I just can't see myself being in a relationship bla bla bla
If you can't, then your only other option is break up in some ferocious way so she will remember you as the biggest asshole ever. Want other girls? Go on, cheat and see the difference. Just remember you might never be lucky again to get such nice girl...

My advice is to take it slow and wait for yourself to become "ready" for relationship. Which will never happen. Nobody is ever prepared for it. Man up. Make your own decision!

>>16772765
> Just remember you might never be lucky again to get such nice girl

Bullshit, there's plenty of fish in the sea. Plenty of nice, beautiful, loyal, kind, sexy fish

"I love you, but I've got really bad FOMO and my impulses are driving me to dump you flat so I can fuck like a bunny and grab as many orgasms as possible with as nany people as possible, because I don't think my life will be complete if I don't do that".

Does that work?

>>16772468
>Online relationship
she would inevitability cuck you.
Don't waste your time, find someone nearby that would let you put your pen0r in them.

>>16772468
Where are you from, anon?

Is there any possibility you can make it a real relationship and either she moves to be with you or vice versa?

If not I guess you can continue it in order to get some nudes and whatnot.

>>16772468

>we're too deep in love

I don't understand why you can't just enjoy it for what it is. You've got a pen pal, not a girlfriend. There's nothing wrong with that, you can talk to each other, you can be friends, you can have strong emotional bonds and connections. But I'm sorry, you're not "in love" without the element of sexual attraction, tension and affection, and you can't really have that if you've never met in person. Why commit yourself to someone that you can't even touch?

Just be friends. You don't have to cut it off, you just have to stop acting like you're gonna be boyfriend and girlfriend when you're living on opposite sides of the world

I'm sorry in advance if this was rambly or didn't make sense or something but between the anxiety and sleep deprivation (I only had 3 hours sleep last night) I'm having more difficulty than normal wording things and explaining and yeah, but I hope you guys get what I'm talking about here.
Also sorry this was so long.

Oh, and since this had to do with healthcare I figure it may be useful for me to mention that I live in canada and not the united states.

Thank you in advance for any responses.

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>>16772457
I dunno man, maybe get off your ass and go to the hospital?

>>16772475
Huh? He has a doctor, who diagnosed him. There is no sort of emergency going on here. So I'm confused, why a hospital? I'm looking for information and personal experiences than anything else, so that I'll be better able to help my dad deal with this going forwards.

You can't do it by yourself all of a sudden
You probably already heard this but : get sunlight; take D vitamin/magnesium supplements; talk to old friends
go on therapy.

>>16772383
I planned on going out today

I can't afford vitamin D because I'm paying off credit card debt

I should probably visit a friend while I'm out

I feel like it'll only help so much, and then i'll be what I use to be

>>16772388
the problem with depression is that you feel like you're not sick and that being depressed is your true nature. But it's not. You will get out of this.

Advice from strangers on the internet won't help you much with dealing with RAGE. My armchair psychologist degree is telling me that there's a deeper reason for your anger though, but knowing nothing about you I have no idea what it might be. Try to figure it out and deal with.

Anyways, you should know that retaliating for the possible wrongdoings of your peers will actually open you to being walked on. Of course, you need to stand up for yourself, but you need to do that in the moment, not after the fact. Taking it like a sissy and then burning down their houses isn't standing up for yourself and will only make the people want to fuck with you more.

>>16772371
nothing in this world matters, stop caring so much. just enjoy your time here on earth and try to not let anything get to you.

>>16772371
Were you molested as a child?

>>16772326
just wait. follow up a week after the interview.

they'll call you.

or never call you.

it's up to them.

It's been 3 months (they said it would take three months ) I called last week and this week on a different subject. Should I wait another week or...

Shameless bump is shameless

>>16772273
The only way to know for sure is to get tested, like I did

>>16772401
this. they may first give you an mmpi which will screen you for shit like mood disorders and personality disorders and shit. but I don't think that specifically looks for autism. I believe that is a separate test.

I will say, if you do any testing and they give you a copy of the results, be prepared for it to sound harsh. the tests are designed to look for what's wrong with you, not what's right. so the results can sound like a big laundry list of "HERES WHY U SUCK LOL" when they're just trying to be clinical and thorough.

>>16772268
>fap 2-3 times a day

Found your problem. Limit it to once or twice a week, dude, for fuck sake.

>>16772313
If I do that then it just makes the problem worse tenfold

>>16772318

When did you last try? For how long did you do it?

You're stuck into a mindset that your sexual desire is something that constantly builds up like a bomb. That's not the case.

Try it for a month - it's all in your head.

>10 to 100
is generally not normal. Being a self-serving idiot doesn't justify a 10 fold increase in emotions.

I do that too but I'm a social fuckup. It's propably best if you stop doing it OP.

>>16772230
It's an expression.

I'll go from being slightly pissy to "go fuck yourself"