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Should I stand by my ideals and principles or ignore the red flags?
Trying to make long stories short here:
>be normal type guy, last summer I broke up for good with ex, after 5 years (last year of that with some breaks, but always monogamous)
>had two one-night stands, made out with a couple other girls, but generally never play games or be an asshole
>basically I am of the rare non-dickhead species
>have clear principles in terms of watching out for red flags in girls, but through that really high standards
>big party with everyone from my uni, end up helping a girl to get home at 8am
>know her quite well, find her really attractive, but know that she had a boyfriend for years, had other guys during breaks with him, had crazy drug experiences in the past, generally a bit mental
>spend day with her, we get along really well (deep conversations, lots of cuddling) and she is actually what I never found in other girls in terms of being generally straight-forward
>she tells me she broke up with her boyfriend two days before this
>the first time we fuck she stops because of that, the next time its fine (though ripped/slipped-off condom issues)
>keep spending time with her, staying at each others places
>we are both not sure what this is
>I can really feel that she likes me a lot and she also says I am different from anyone she had before (in terms of being sincere, positive, and honest)
Today is the first night alone since Monday and I started thinking... I extremely enjoy the time with her, at the same time its a rollercoaster, she is very different in many ways, and there are several red flags. I don't even know what I am trying to say or ask, I am just overwhelmed by the situation...
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every time the story is the same, just different names and places
good men, intelligent, dissuaded by normal relationships because the internet has jaded them
in reality you're only here because you are happy and are looking to not be happy
but in reality you can always make decisions later down the road
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Don't question it, that ruins things. Just roll with it and see where it leads.
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>>16776051
... She will fuck you over. But if you can be patient and ENDURE you and her will get peace in the end.
Last night I got way too drunk and brought a guy home. We had unprotected sex. I don't know his history, and he got crazy obsessive after so I blocked him on Facebook. I have the implant so won't get pregnant but obviously I'm terrified of getting an std. I'm going to a gyno asap. One thing though - his smell has really hung around my genitals. It's pissing me off. It's a slightly sharp, tiny bit metallic, mostly musky smell. Is it likely to mean something bad? Why can't I get rid of it? I've had two showers.
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Scent is tied to memory. It's probably not there, you're just remembering it. Of you're convinced it is there bring it up to your gyno.
You could also consult us by posting pics on /b/. If there's a problem we can tell you in a professional and courteous fashion.
As far as him spazzing about facebook, he's probably trying to figure out what he did wrong and it's driving him nuts.
We're insecure about sex and he probably thinks he fucked up or came to fast or hurt you or that you think he raped you
Doesn't realize you regret fucking him for reasons pertaining to you and not him. Send him a message that reads, "I was drunk, shouldn't have fucked you. You were fine, but this isn't going to continue."
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I really hope you're right about the smell. Fingers crossed.
As for him freaking out on Facebook, it wasn't an insecurity thing. He wanted to meet me today for dinner, I told him pretty much what you told me to tell him and he started to tell me that he loved me, I was breaking his heart, that he was going to come to mine etc.
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Try not to get into this position again, getting so drunk you have unprotected sex is very dangerous behavior which could end quite badly for you.
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I want to download sexy porn pics on my computer but I can't unless I know the girl is 18 in the pics and I can prove it in court.
Sounds stupid? Probably. But in my country the CP laws are strict beyond your wildest imaginations and I want to rest assured.
Basically I can only download stuff like Playboy playmate pics so I can always prove that the pic is from a legitimate source and made by a company that keeps records of their models' ages which is always over 18 at the time of the photoshoot.
What about places like MetArt, MLPart, Amour Angels..?
Do they guarantee that all models are adults?
Please help me fap.
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Sites that have this are safe I guess:
http://www.mplstudios.com/title18.htm
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Is it bad if my new girlfriend is able to do stuff like deep throating, eating my cum and she enjoys it? She seems to love to do anything like that with me, im not really sure if she just loves to do that with me or if she is a slut?
Or if it something she does to try and impress me, because she says that she is nervous and doesnt want to do anything to scare me away.
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Sounds like she's gonna bite off your dick next.
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>>16776024
>excessive porn viewing results in a population of men who have twisted and fucked up
perceptions about what a sex life should entail
>women pick up on this and do their best to be good partners, because men have made them feel that they need to do crazy shit in bed to be a good partner
>OP comes in and wonders if his girlfriend is a slut when she's just doing what society has told her she ought to
Kill yourself OP.
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>>16776039
I never made her feel like she had to do that though. Is it something she feels she has to do? She seems to want to have sex all the time but I don't want to feel like im pressuring her into doing it?
Im really nervous its my first relationship.
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How often should a couple go out?
Where is the line drawn between needy, normal, and neglected?
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>>16776023
Variable based on the relationship and the people.
No easy answers anon.
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>>16776023
>Where is the line drawn between needy, normal, and neglected
There isn't one. I know people who go out with their so once or twice a week and others who spend almost all of their free time together. It depends on the person
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>>16776023
Whatever feels most comfortable
You're already a couple, you can just b urself senpai
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At my college , Monday -Friday the college gives you an allowance of 8.50 $ for breakfast and for dinner 11.80. Is there a way I could beg for more money to be allowed?
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>>16776017
I will be the first to say,
That there is a way -
Go out on the street,
And hold out a tray,
With a sign "Help - I am poor and gay!"
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>>16776017
College dinig room is usually much more affordable than private "on the street" dining. Aren't you getting enough to eat? That would be unusual.
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>>16776035
Well yes I am it's just I'm constantly hungry
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Nowadays it seems that women have infinite suply of men at their feet. They get attention all the time from social media.
How does a guy approach a girl without the thought that you are feeding her ego?
The thought of feeding someone's ego disgusts me, but at the same time I want to get laid.
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>The thought of feeding someone's ego disgusts me
Then you're the problem here.
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>>16776012
elaborate
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OP here, I am a faggot. I just want to use women because I don't see them as people, but they scare me so much. They have all men at their feet, clearly, and it's not creepers and users like me just trying to fuck them!
lol op you're retarded
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Which is the best contraceptive method for women besides celebacy? The pill, a diaphragm, spounge, etc. ?
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>>16775998
A bullet to the head.
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Condom and a seperate water based spermicidal lubricant. Also track your ovulation and avoid sex on the days you are most fertile.
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If I remember correctly it's the hormonal implant. Condoms are incredibly effective when used right but most people do not use them right. There's a specific way you have to store them (never in wallet or in the car) and put them on (have to pinch the tip) that most people just don't know.
The implant is something you can't mess up or forget or do incorrectly. You just have to be aware that if you are over a certain weight threshold, hormonal birth control doses lose effectiveness.
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I am at this turning point in my life.
I ended a 4 years long relationship, moved out of his appartment. I am a first year at uni, dealing with the annual exams. Also, I was promoted at my job.
I feel Iike I am constantly rediscovering myself, working on myself. But I sometimes also fail. I quit smoking a couple of months ago but ever since the break up I started smoking again from time to time. I just get random moments of anxiety and they make me feel like I am about to be crushed into little pieces.
What should I do? How should I approach everything? Can someone tell me their past experiences?
I am the one who ended the relationship, I am the one who wanted it. We didn't fit together but I didn't feel ready to let go for a while so it took me some time to take the step.
Also, how do I know when I am okay to date again? I wouldn't want to just rebound.
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>>16775963
The other day I ate some chocolate. I went on a date and she told me to call her tomorrow, then she made an excuse but said she would love to do something, she just can't atm and then blew me off again.
What should I do? How should I approach everything? Can someone tell me their past experiences?
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Stop trying to make every single thing in your life go right.
You, and every other human being in the world, did something that ended up not going to plan, despite their best laid intentions.
Evaluate your own behavior, you're just anxious, do something to relax.
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General advice. There is nothing wrong with failing, but you can never allow yourself to give up.
Typically, you should wait to start dating until you are stable emotionally, there is no magic time frame for this. Just wait until you feel okay about yourself and have accepted that the former relationship as run its course. Provided there was no abuse a good metric of this is when you no longer have negative feelings toward the ex.
So I can't tell whether im bisexual or just having inappropriate fantasies. I've never kissed a girl or experimented in any way but sometimes seeing really hot photos of supermodels and just any woman with a great figure makes me wanna just do really sexual things to them... I accidentally visualise it and then wonder why It came to my mind, like I'm female and 15. I found myself staring at this girls ass it was really embarassing cos my friend saw but luckily not the hottie. I can visualise being in a relationship with a girl but I don't know if I should put label myself bi if I haven't experimented really, but to experiment wouldn't that make you bi without a doubt? Anyways bit of a long confession help!
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Don't worry so much about labels. Just live your life and keep an open mind. Maybe you'll be with a girl someday, maybe you won't. Feelings like yours are common even among girls that live their whole life only in straight relationships, or it could be an indicator that you're not straight. But based on this stuff alone, it's impossible to tell, and not really worth worrying about. You're fine
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>>16775944
Same like me I prefer girls but can get turned on if two guys are going at eachother...
>>16775958
but its basically what this person said, labels are pointless, just live your life
Unless you really really want it pansexual is a thing I think, tho I cant give more than two shits how my sex prefferance is called as sex is sex, If Im horny I will hump the person that is making me horny.
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>be me
>21, M
>attempt to purchase alcoholic beverages
>get scolded by employee
>says too young to be in this isle
>explain age
>refuses to believe it
>shows id
>"oh my bad man"
Ive gotten tons of comments saying i look like im friggen 16 or any age in between. I didnt mind much at first but lately its kind of annoying me more and more. So my question is, how do look older? or more mature i guess?
Ive tried uppin my style and changing up my hair (used to have it long now short), facial hair comes in super patchy so i shave it, and also looked into getting glasses (i have a perscription but dont absolutely need em), yet i still get carded or commented on my age everywhere.
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Just put up with it, grow a beard put keep it very short, it'll still look patchy and shitty but it should make you look older.
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So, I'm a college freshman and my classes start this month. I'm creating this thread in order to receive some input as to how I should deal with my first months there. More specifically, I started taking Accutane last week, which renders me unable to drink for the next six months. I've been a social drinker for something like three years, and believe I can deal with the lack of alcoholic beverages for a few months, but I wanted to ask any knowledgeable person here in /adv/ about how to deal with the months dry and also the pressure I may suffer from my peers, since I plan to frequent parties and I know people tend to get crazy as fuck in the college I'm going to. I also plan on doing drugs there to compensate, but so far the only thing I've done is weed, and only a dozen of times throughout the last 4 months, so any input on that will be valuable too. It may seem like I'm someone who just wants to go to college in order to get drunk and stoned as fuck, but in my defense I just thought that if I'm going to experience this kind of stuff at some point in my life, it should be now.
TL;DR: Going into college but can't drink. What do?
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>>16775915
By the way, general freshman advice is welcome too, if you think there's anything I should know. Your experiences as freshmen would also be interesting reads for me, so if you want to just reminisce about them here, feel free to do so.
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started talking to this girl few weeks ago. we start hanging out. says she wants a relationship and pretty much tells me to fuck off for no reason? what should i do.
pic unrelated
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maybe she broke with her boyfriend, started hanging out with you, but them they got together again
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fuck off, there's nothing else you should do.
learn to take a hint, maybe.
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Rape her, that'll show how her how much you care.
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I think i'm imagining pain that isn't there. I often feel light head and backaches I think might be hallucinations. How can I tell if I'm being neurotic and if so how can I stop it?
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>>16775870
Me too, since i was 5 or something. Learn to use it as your advantage, as a way to presume all posibilities. It helped me alot in few difficile choix.
It sees like all matchmaking and online dating is centered around hobbies and activities. How do I meet a girl who just wants to be a comfy, lazy piece of shit with me?
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By openly admitting that your preferred activities are comfort and being a lazy piece of shit. What, did you think that winning at matchmaking/online dating was to find someone you just admitted would be a bad fit for you? That's an even worse form of losing than never matching at all.
Plenty of women are content being lazy pieces of shit. There's a reason why pic related made its way around the girl blogs so much.