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>>16780191
>I made and have friends over Facebook
These aren't real friends, you know. Go out and meet people - make friends the normal way

>>16780199
It's been 2 years so they're friends, we have talked a lot. We mostly talk through FB messaging.

Going out and "meeting people" isn't an option; I don't meet the right kinds of people and I have no other Koreans (I'm Korean) in my area

Bump

I'm not letting this thread die, can anyone help me with my dilemma in the OP?

>*after hooking up

fug

Music taste is an excellent conversation starter, if that doesn't get a conversation started nothing will

>>16780171
I'm a pleb when it comes to music. I'm actually not even looking to start a conversation I'm just trying to be polite and not make her feel used.

>>16780154

ER, now. Hope you have your will planned out in your head. Jot it down as you wait for diagnosis.

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>>16780154
Pop that shit

>>16780154
It's called a blister.

>>16780140
Just fuck her you faggot

>>16780157
That's not what this is about desu

>>16780185
But it is the solution

Op ask yourself what you want out of life. Remember that with no goal there will be no destination.

You can have great surroundings and be well off but doesn't mean your happy, that's just the staple to being happy now you just have to do what you love

>dysthymia: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/persistent-depressive-disorder/home/ovc-20166590
>major depression: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/basics/definition/con-20032977

If any of these look like they ring a bell, go see a psychaitrist.

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Piss off with your beaner speak

There is nothing you can do

enjoy your frigid bitch

>>16780098
>Why are girls so different from each other?


Because they literally are different people. In theory you know that already. This new girl isn't like the old one. She won't do shit the old one did. Her body reacts differently.

Maybe see a therapist if this is depressing you. If you are making her cum you are doing a good job, so learn to be happy with that.

Try talking to her about it sex is like 50% of a relationship if your not getting what you want then tell her

>>16780097
>STEM major.
You didn't need to say this, it was obvious from your first two sentences.

>>16780107
alright

I need advice for an odd situation at work,

long story short, friend of mine who is a girl (I'm a guy) and a co-worker suddenly went silent on me and I found out she was speaking to management about me.

Now, I'm usually the guy to keep his nose clean and while I've been in this situation before, I can honestly say I haven't done anything wrong to this girl.

To cover the basics and most obvious questions:
-No, I did not date her
-No, I did not sexually harass her in any way
-No, I did not verbally offend her in any way
-No, I did not place my hands on her at any point
-No, I have not given her a reason to try to get me fired

What I DID do, and this is the only clue I have about the situation, was that she has been elevated from her original position (not a full promotion, but might be if she plays her cards right) and hears confidential information from management.

Coincidentally, there were multiple incidents from a previous or current disgruntled employee (most likely a male) and she had confided in me but did not tell me this was confidential information.

I started telling other people about it, thinking it was common knowledge, after all security certainly knew about it and some people talk to security already but furthermore I felt it should be known among the employees that there was a possible danger to us...

she confronted me and asked me if I was telling anyone. I told her non-chalantly, "yeah, I told a couple of people. You didn't tell me to keep it a secret." I shrugged it off and she walked away

I didn't pick-up at all that she was angry or why she would be, it's just a series of petty incidents.

Turns out, manager initiated an investigation with the Sherriff's and now had to tell all of us during a meeting of all the happenings in and around the building.

My friend deleted my off instagram and now she doesn't speak to me.
fine- whatever... I continue working how I usually do.

>>16780094

>>cont

I realize now that she must have been angry because I may have jeopardized her new position or whatever.

Another part of me thinks she might just think I'm the disgruntled employee!

I don't know what to think, but today I found out she was talking to security about me and is planning on getting me fired, probably reporting every single thing I do.

So, I need advice on how to proceed. It's made me very angry and I want to protect myself aggressively and prepare a defamation suit if necessary, but I never kept record of our hangouts during lunch and breaks and our conversations. We went from good pals to enemies in a matter of a week (from her perspective, not mine), and only now do I see the seriousness of my actions.

Any suggestions?

Sounds like honest miscommunication. Whatever happens, just remember it's out of your control and to accept the situation.

they can't read minds, that's why

Plain looking people are rarely interesting people. That's not to say that they don't think they're interesting. They're just kidding themselves.

The look of an interesting person isn't so much about garish displays of non-conformity though. It's subtle. It's in a person's flair, the details of their style. Those are the ways that a personality leaks out into the open. The conscious overtures and demands for attention aren't that meaningful.

>>16780113
>The look of an interesting person isn't so much about garish displays of non-conformity though. It's subtle. It's in a person's flair, the details of their style

I like this post.

>>16780046
hang out + passion

>>16780050
Basically this.

First, you meet the person. Get to know them, judge if it's someone you'd get along with, etc.

Once you decide they're chill, you start hanging out, usually with mutual friends, and get to know each other more. Eventually you share phone numbers, start calling/texting each other more and more. Everytime your phone rings or Facebook messenger goes off you hope it's them.

Then eventually you're hanging out alone and you start to flirt, get touchy feely, start kissing. One thing leads to another and then boom, you're banging.

Something community-oriented.

>>16780025
A high GPA. That's it homie

>>16780034
I already have that but all I do is track/cross country and I'm looking to apply to some selective schools

>>16780003

Eat well with enough protein and lift 5x8 while getting enough sleep.

What kind of a response are you expecting?

Squatz n oatz

>>16780003
Eat like a horse. Doesn't even have to be healthy. If you're naturally skinny it means you have a great metabolism. So you don't have to do the fancy fucking diets like everyone else. Just eat and lift, that's it. Everytime you're on the road go get some fast food. Lift really heavy so you're in a state of perpetual rubber arms. you'll grow.

Has she actually invited you over or are you inviting yourself over?

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Yes she has. Several times over the past week. Her father apparently needed to know, for planning to leave the house.

>>16779996
>Im not bad with the ladies nor social-wise, but this seems edgy.

Why? You a old fart or something?

>>16779982
Yes youre retarded

>>16780002

How?

>>16780010

>theyre taken
>you put them on a pedastal
>think you can feel their presence