Am I the only girl who secretly fantasizes about being cucked?
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no. i want to watch my BF completely dominate another guy in front of me.
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>>16780968
That's kinda hot too.. But I mean like another chick
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>I'm not like the other grills ;) ;) ;)
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I've been seeing this guy for about three months casually. We really like each other and things are generally going okay.
The problem is that he keeps asking to make things official. I've told him I'm not seeing anyone else and the boyfriend/girlfriend label just makes me feel really dodgy (just got out of a long relationship).
He usually seems fine with it, but every once in a while he'll text me asking why I don't want to date him. He gets very upset and is generally inconsolable. The next day he apologizes and says he's fine. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Should I stop seeing him? We get along so well but I feel like he's looking for something much more serious than I am and I feel like I'm just hurting him. Every time I ask his opinion he swears he's fine just because he doesn't want to end things.
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Shameless bump.
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Alright, one more time before I give up.
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>>16780975
You're hurting him. Let him move on and find someone that can give him what he needs.
His heart has wings but nowhere to roost.
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I wanna know if something can go wrong in the relationship that I am in right now. My boyfriend loves me a lot. And I mean a LOT. It's almost like I'm his goddess. He's crazy about me. It's insane how much he loves me, he tells me that it is pure pleasure just to serve me and see me happy, it's pretty much his goal in life right now; ensure that I'm happy at all times. Now that I'm typing this out, it really sounds like I'm bragging, and I'm sorry, but is this too good to be true? I know he's a trustworthy guy and he's very nice, and I've known him from long before we started going out, so I know him well. Actually, is it even normal for guys to be like this? It's almost like he's my butler (when I even so much as mention the word "butler" I swear his eyes start shining). He's a very lazy guy, but if I order him it's like pure inspiration. I think he's addicted to me. Is there anything that can go wrong at this point? Or have I been lurking /adv too much and started forgetting that perfect relationships like these exist? If I've made anyone mad, I'm terribly sorry.
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>>16780890
Have you asked him about this? You seem a little uncomfortable yet happy on this "servant situation".
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>>16780890
How long have you been in this relationship for? I had an ex that was kind of like that, borderline worshipping me. We ended up being way too ideologically dissimilar and he was a fucking manchild, so I tried to break up with him. He ended up being clingy as fucking hell with anger issues, so dumping him was a horrible process that took a year (also because I was an idiot that couldn't put my foot down). So, your situation sounds like there is potential trouble down the line.
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Let's be real. You find his needyness unattractive right?
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Sorry in advance for my drunk typing. Ill try to keep it as coherent s possible.
how do I be sexy? Not sexual, but flirty and all that, and being desired. I always feel silly when I'm trying, and I lack the grace and the style of most women. Once it's time for sex, I do well, but I don't know how to be sexy without being vulger?
How do I elarn how to do this? Gimme your secrets!
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>>16780883
bAmpin
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show interest while being modest. innocent girls are pretty hot for most guys.
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>>16780883
like with men needing confidence, a lot of it is faking it til you make it. being sexy requires a certain amount of confidence.
girls who are loud and funny aren't sexy. they may be hot. but not sexy. sexy girls are more reserved, but still strong. stoic, not shy.
they tend to be nice to everyone while seeming indifferent to the world. they are in control, but able to submit.
in a word, they are stoic. they say what needs to be said and not much else.
that being siad you dont need to be strictly sexy. you can be cute or hot. nothign wrong iwth that. by your own description it sounds more like you just wanna be an attention whore. or the center of attention
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So all my life I've sort of hated the idea of smoking weed. Had a bad past with it since a friend sort of let it drive him away from me, so I've stayed away from it. I have a group of friends that smoke once in a while, and they've always never invited me to hang out just in case they were to start smoking. I've decided it wouldn't hurt to try it out.
What the hell can I expect? They're hooking me up with everything, and I trust they won't give me laced or bad shit. I've heard it makes you kind of dumb and hungry and stuff but wtf does it make you guys do? Any advice in smoking weed in general?
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>>16780875
I've been a regular smoker for a few years.
Sativa will give you more of an energetic "head high", and indica will give you a lazy "body high" aka couch lock. Most strains will be a hybrid, some will be sativa dominant and others indica.
Sativa is nice. You'll feel happy, creative, you might reflect on your life a bit. I've had a lot of epiphanies when I'm high. Then when I sober up, I realize how fucking dumb those "epiphanies" actually were. Nevertheless, still a great feeling. Indica is great if you just want to chill and watch movies/eat.
After smoking for a while, you'll build up a bit of a tolerance. Pace yourself and try to not smoke every day. Unless you want to make your wallet weep.
There aren't any known adverse long-term side effects from weed consumption (yet). However, I've noticed I'm prone to "brain fog" if I smoke too often, which usually lasts for about a week after I stop.
Also, edibles are fucking awesome if you just want to get as high as possible.
Have fun, anon.
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>>16780967
Jesus I didn't even know there was different types. Won't be smoking daily. I'll literally so it maybe once or twice a month. Thanks for the advice though
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I suggest taking two puffs. Itll put you in a state of happiness and youll be able to settle yourself down and get a grip if you get a bit paranoid.
If you want to be Rambo and smoke the whole spliff youre going to just get paranoid as fuck and trip balls...which some people like, but that sint my bag personally. Just take two hits and relax. Youll enjoy it. Youll still be higher than camel pussy as a first timer. Hey...and dont hold it in for thouands of seconds. Just inhale, hold, 2-3 seconds and exhale. Do that two times...thats all you need bro trust me.
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so my best friend's girlfriend is cheating on him and has been for week, should i post her name and number on 4chan?
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I didn't realise 4chan was the cheating police.
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>>16780870
That would make you a bigger faggot than the girlfriend.
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1. You say it in present tense. Does your friend not know? Why haven't you told him?
2. The internet is not your personal army.
3. Consequences should be proportional. Cheating is awful, but emotionally damaging a single person isn't worth the wrath of being doxxed.
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hooking up with a friend's friend + your experiences 2016-02-08 02:12:27 Post No.16780857
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hooking up with a friend's friend + your experiences
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So I went out two months ago with my best friend and his girl, and his girl's two female friends ( one was with her boyfriend). I didnt think much of it, nor did I think it was meant to hook me up with the single one. Just a standard night out. We all had fun.
Im getting along very well with my buddys girlfriend very well this past two months and hanging out with her everyday without my buddy, and she mentioned yesterday that I should date her single friend.
Im interested. How do I get this going???
Plus, Id like stories on similar occurences with you anons and how it turned out, and especially how it all happened.
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your best friend will hate you forever. sorry breh drama aint goin to work out goin into u necxt relationship. steer clear of friends friends bruu. just my opinion bro;) hope helps aha ;)
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>>16780857
OK, clarify- you want to date a woman who is friends with your buddy's GF?
If so, go for it. I met my wife at a friend's wedding. The bride later asked me if I wanted to meet up with her hot foreign friend. I said yes. Fast forward a lot of years, she's no longer foreign, just has the accent, and our kids are almost teenagers.
Worked out pretty good.
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>>16780921
Why would he? He's like my brother and thus, his girl is like my sister and I treat her as such and were both adults haha but okay, opinions can be valid thanks.
>>16780943
I apologize for the poor uncondensed situation, but yes, my friends girl is trying to hook me up with her friend.
Thants a nice story. I sincerely wish you and your senpai the best.
Eh, Im just not really proactive when it comes to dating. I enjoy the life I have now, solitary as it is. I just dont want to complicate it, ya know?
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OCD/Fears of owning too much junk 2016-02-08 02:04:25 Post No.16780830
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OCD/Fears of owning too much junk
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Okay Anons, hear me out. I own 12 David Bowie albums. I love each, done my research etc. But would it be too many if I owned 13? I fear owning too much filler/junk and start hoarding so are 13 albums too many? What do!
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I don't see it as a problem. It'll be a problem if like, you have stacks and stacks of David Bowie paraphanalia to the point you cant walk freely in your home
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>>16780830
If you're gonna listen to it then go ahead and get it. If you want to be some pretentious fag that says "well, I have 13 Bowie albums" then go ahead and get it.
Either way just go ahead and get it you pretentious fag.
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>>16780836
I mean my father owned every vinyl with the words "The Beatles" on it. So this isn't that odd you love who you love.
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Oh 4chan, where would I love you too.
Guys, I think I'm slowly losing my sanity. I'm numb, I love my girlfriend but I feel I'm getting distance day by day. I have not my blood family, but my gf's family who love me and has done sooooo much for me. I feel like I'm slipping away and the only thing that makes me happy is video games and listening to people who have shared their deep web experience.
I'm getting more violent and feel myself getting happy when violence is involved. What do I do?
Pic related, it's the woman I love
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Am I losing it?
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How'd you guys meet?
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>>16781088
On a movie set. But it's not about her
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If anyone needs to talk, my skype is EchosOfAutumn. I leave it on 24/7. I'm here. Been a long time since i've posted on here but if you guys need to talk about anything at all, I won't judge. Sometimes you just need someone to vent to and whatnot
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>>16780799
Would you listen to a Southern Italian with a shitty accent vent about how life gets harder and harder, love is complicated and you're parents are very old and soon you'll be alone?
Would you listen to all my regrets?
I have so many regrets.
I've missed so many trains, and disappointed everyone. I'm a piece of shit that needs to die.
I want to change, be a better person, be actually what I was before.
I feel so old and I've changed so much. All my dreams are dead. The only person I've ever loved lives 10 000 km away from me, and we can't be together anymore.
Why do I have to keep living like this? Why can't I be normal? Why do I fuck everything up?
My friends, my ex partner, my family, university.
Everything's fucked up.
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Can I not use my voice? I don't want to use my voice but can't, for the moment find the vent thread, and I don't want to waste your time
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what is catalog? Still I need it like right now it can't wait but I can't find it
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all I've done the past year is "work on myself", and I still don't have a girlfriend. It's been a year, I'm tired of being single.
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Why do you need another person to validate yourself?
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Why?
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>>16780794
I miss sex on a consistent basic, every FWB turns into wanting to be my partner. There's nothing wrong with this, except I don't see them that way.
>>16780793
I'm not sure yet. I would like some companionship and sex.
Which direction of the space/time oracle do I consult to obtain smokable DMT? I'm too nervous to blue light Austin and shake any hands. Looking to have shipped. I'm ready to embrace the other side without influence from a shotgun
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Dark net is probably you're only choice if you're not going to go out and find a dealer. If you are wanting t, go to festivals and make friends with the right people
>mom is a bitch
>literally always pissed off and yelling
>slams shit when people are trying to get ready for bed while talking to herself
>mumbles mean shit as she walks by and slams doors
>freaks out 24/7
>acts sick/injured for attention
>every time me and my friends start laughing or I have a drink she goes on a rampage of slamming shit and screaming to herself
>she does nothing but sit inside her room getting more miserable by the second
>she has no friends or family at all no one can even stand being near her
>dad is too stupid/poor to divorce her
>she drinks every day and goes on a rampage of yelling at everyone and doing chores loud as fuck
The drunker she gets the meaner and she just lays in bed with a gallon of $10 vodka all day. She does everything she can to piss me off for no reason at all
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>>>/r/RaisedByNarcissists
but no seriously that's textbook narcissism.
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>>16780725
Your mom needs mental help.
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Maybe you should seek professional help for her? Set up an intervention or check her into a mental health clinic? She sounds like a schizophrenic alcoholic narcissist.
If you're under the age of 18 I would maybe suggest looking into getting imancipated and getting out of there, if you're over 18 get out of there
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hey /adv/,
I am an ok looking female and I found it hard to make friends my entire life, ever since my first social group environment, which was pre school at age 3 years old. I may have a mild case of Asbergers, or Autism, but I am able to cope with it well, and sort of teach myself to be normal.
Now that I am in my mid 20s, I have grown used to having few to no friends, but I get very surprised, and even freaked out when good looking, well balanced people are genuinely interested in being my friend. It sort of trips me out in a way.
Recently I got a nice hair cut and I have been complimented on it excessively in school, and people have been noticing me and acknowledging me more.
I also volunteered for this event last weekend, and I made an effort to introduce myself to everyone there. At the end, I made a good impression on this really pretty blonde girl who was interested in talking to me further. This really tripped me out because I am not used to it at all.
Another thing about me is that I was on Prozac for about a month to help with my social skills.
So../adv/, are people really this shallow? I am dressing a lot better now, showering etc, have a cute hair cut, and now all of a sudden people see me as a different person. This truly tripped me out and it took me a while to get used to it.It might also be the Prozac because I don't feel depressed or sad, ever. So this may increase my chances of making good impressions on people?
I feel like all of a sudden my life is changing pretty fast.
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Not necessarily shallow, but I think most people are drawn to others by the way they carry themselves. It's much easier to approach someone who seems happy and we'll-adjusted. Also I think some people just tend to feel uncomfortable when dealing with someone who's depressed, especially if they've never been in that situation before. It might even be offputting for some.
But yeah, are you happy that this is happening to you? That's really all that matters. Maybe these people who acknowledge you now have noticed how much better you are in general, and this would make you seem much more approachable to them.
How did you find Prozac though, btw? I was on Zoloft for anxiety and it did not do me well haha
My long-distance boyfriend won't cam with me anymore.
We used to regularly. It was nice not only for sexual release but to be "intimate" with each other when distance made it not possible. Met up for the second time in September. Since then it declined, and stopped entirely a month later. He says ever since meeting up, camming has seemed inadequate, so he'd rather just use porn as it isn't worth the effort anymore to cam with me. I'll send him nudes, he'll compliment me but change the subject. Or I'll bring up something in conversation and it gets completely ignored. But he still finds me more attractive than when we first met. He's never sugarcoats anything, so I know he isn't lying about that.
I've been unable to visit him for medical/family reasons since September. It wasn't fair to him - I'd tell him I could go in a couple weeks, then it'd be prolonged again. But we went for 7 months not meeting the first time and everything was fine. I feel rejected and miserable having to wait months to have any kind of sexual relationship with him - currently, I can't see him now for at least another month.
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What are you looking for advice on?
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>>16780714
What to do about the situation, I guess. How to get him to be sexual with me when I keep trying and he constantly brushes me off because it's "too much work".
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>>16780724
Well LDR aren't real relationships so it doesn't really matter