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Looks like a slut
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Lil starbucks brownie.
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That beam and joist in the upper right hand corner are not shown very clearly, but at first glance look like some very nice carpentry.
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Fighting a Loosing Battle, Please Help 2016-02-08 15:31:56 Post No.16782732
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Greetings, /adv/, I am living throught a difficult stage of my life and I am feeling like everything is gettings out of my grasp. I am at the border of depression. Here is my story.
A year ago, I met a girl who I felt the best connection of my life. I have been a succesful year discovering tons of new experiences with her. Everything was fine until last November. All of a sudden, she was loosing her sex drive with me. At first, she was just telling me it was some hormonal issues but, during Christmas, she told me she wanted me to be more dom in bed.
I tried the best I can, always trying to talk about it with her and all that jazz but, every time I tried to test the waters around dom/sub, she closes herself and only answers me with a "You should know how convince me" or a "You are not experience enough in BDSM to give you trust". Trust... when she didn't mind to let hersel falldown because I was always going to grab her.
The last times I tried to be a do or some pet play (which she and me legitimately love it), ended with her trying to hit me and bite me. Not spanking or erotical biting. I am meaning hittin you like someone who is attaking someone... lethaly. Yes, shit like going to the eyes, the nuts or your jugular. Funny enough, when I defend myself and get pissed off about what she did, she is like a little kitten. Even more funny enough, she is totally submissive with every other person in the world. It is getting out of my nerves.
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Not all problems in the bedroom have their roots directly in your sex life. Maybe your girlfriend is interested in exploring a more traditional masculine-feminine dynamic in your relationship. Try taking the reins, but not in terms of your sex life but rather taking on traditional and wholesome manly roles in the day to day.
Think about calmly informing her that you're going to convert the spare room to a workshop, and take up carpentry.
Even if this doesn't fully resolve your sexual issues, you've got a fun new hobby and potentially lucrative extra source of income. No matter which way the economy goes, there's always a strong market for carpentry!
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>>16782732
Nowadays, there is no sex drive in her. It looks like she has problem with sleeping too now. Every advance I make toward her only gets her enclose herself even more. Yesterday, I pet her (she loves when I pet her like a kitten when we cuddle). Instinctively, she grabbed something hard and hitted me with that in the face. My glasses got broken for that. She was like terribly sorry but I didn't care and kicked out of my house immediately.
I don't know what the hell is happening with her. I am feeling like she is like two different persons at the same time: one the girl I got in love and the other a violent bitch who represent all I hate in a person. I am even getting at the border of depression, because having to break up with a girl for all these reasons feels like ... like I am not a real man, just a pussy.
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No you're not a upset for breaking up with a crazy bitch but you're acting very passive. She should know not to Fuck with you, you need to be in charge on your relationships because women aren't good at leading (generally). Which is why you need to put her in her place, get her to massage you, make dinner etc then after that just take her clothes off and Fuck her. Literally don't listen to her, do it enjoyable and not rough but Fuck her.
She'll know who's in charge, I did that to my girlfriend a couple of times when I was sick of her shut. After those times she learnt her place, she got turned on by my dominance as well. Women play games, as a man you show them when enough is enough.
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I've given up on my sexual self. I forsake dating and relationships. These things hold no importance for me now. I failed to become sexually awakened. It feels like I failed to even become a man. I've made up my mind that I will never have sex. If that really means that there is something wrong with me, I don't care. I've come to terms with it.
What are some good alternative lifestyles?
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If you want to be a real man, you need to get back to your primal roots. Instead of wasting time every day as an online keyboard warrior, set up a woodwork shop in your garage or shed and learn the skills of carpentry. You'll soon find your masculine self awakening as you work with magnificent natural materials to make the things you need in your home and office.
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I'll have nothing to do with the carnal. But thanks for the suggestion.
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Killing yourself desu
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How do I show my girlfriend how much I care? 2016-02-08 14:57:22 Post No.16782658
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So I had been dating this girl for over a year. Things were great. I was going through a tough time in my life and took her for granted. I broke up with her and immediately regretted it.
We are slowly patching things up now, a few months down the line. Things aren't the same as they were just yet, she's obviously scared I might hurt her again.
How do I show her how much I care without coming across as clingy or desperate?
Last few days have been good, reminded her how beautiful she is and surprised her with some small gifts. I'd like to carry on doing this, leaving her small notes and so on. Just want to let her know that there is no chance in hell that I will ever just leave her again. I just want to be a better boyfriend this time round, without being too clingy or trying too hard.
Any cute date/gift ideas? Or just general advice?
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You should be willing to show your nurturing but masculine side. Try taking up a manly but creative hobby and making her something nice. I recommend carpentry - chicks dig woodwork! Best of luck.
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What you're doing for your girlfriend is great.
I like when my boyfriend brings me my favourite chocolates for no reason. Or when he brings me coffee to bed or makes me breakfast. I like when he tells me "You're cute dressed like that". Or when he buys me flower for no reason, he usually does that once or twice a week since we moved in together and it always makes me happy. I like when he texts me "I am thinking of you" during the day. Or when he hugs me at night if he wakes up.
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Sup /adv/ i need some help
Recently i had undergone spine surgery and i have some problems with walking (Namely my right leg is slightly paralyzed)
I'm not quite familiar with interview ethics, and don't want to create an embarrassing situation for myself.
I was wondering, is it worth signing up and going to interviews with a crutch in my hand, with my current situation, or should i wait till i get fully healed?
Will the interview look awkward at me/ disqualify me just for not having full health?
thanks in advance.
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Interview for what kind of job?
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I reckon you should avoid burning any potential bridges, and concentrate on rehabilitation for now. As with any neurological problem, the key is use it or lose it - work the nervous system with gentle but precise movements and you'll quickly regain full functioning. A good idea for this kind of recovery practice is to take up a manual skill such as carpentry, allowing you to regrow damaged nerve fibers and relearn dexterity skills.
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Internship at a library for a fancy english speaking club
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Oh i can still walk. It's just that my Vastus lateralis and medialis are non-responsive yet, but in time they'll recover
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How do I tell the difference between the normal ups and downs of life and Bipolar Disorder /adv/?
I'm too embarrassed to see a doctor in case i'm just being melodramatic.
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Full blown bipolar manic episodes leave you acting very odd - wild flights of fancy coupled with extreme actions, tirelessness without sleep for days, risky and uninhibited sexual behaviour. If you're even wondering, you're almost certainly not bipolar.
However, if you're looking for more stability in your life, there's a lot you can do. Try to keep to a sensible routine of sleep, exercise, and meals, and make sure you're spending your time well. Try taking up an activity that involves both mental effort and physical activity, like a sport or, best of all, carpentry. Once you're doing a couple of hours of woodwork each day, you'll find your emotional swings are on a much more even kilter.
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To expand on the OP. I seem to meet the criteria for Bipolar 2, but I don't personally believe that to be a problem. It's just that my life is a mess, lol.
Carpentry though, yeah.
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I'm starting hating school so bad, I don't know why it started that feeling I used to like going school before but now everything seems so bad to me, I don't like my classes, I hate doing homework, months ago I could do that without problem, now everything has changed..
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Think about why you started school in the first place.
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Get some sleep, people get the feeling every once in a while, i know i did, get sleep and exercise
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I had the same problem, started hating it and then i started uni went to uni for 2 years and failed my classes, so now i just went on a trip for 9 months working overseas and traveling.
Now i feel like starting school again, so i'm gonna move back and go to uni again.
Try taking a year or half a year break.
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Likeminded PDD-NOS and how to deal with the petty stuff 2016-02-08 14:31:05 Post No.16782611
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First time on /adv/, I usually only go on /pol/, so bear with me. Not a native speaker either.
I have somesuch diagnosis called PDD-NOS in english and GUA in danish, which im sure you can read up on elsewhere. As got it explained, it essentially means that I am autistic (which I find rather upsetting as I have an asperger sister who is nearing crazy status) but do not fit in any established category.
In my case, it means that I have trouble dealing with ''feelings'', that is, getting depressed easily.
I use my computer a lot, and everytime I see something I find completely and utterly stupid, senseless, illogical, or cruel, I become so very upset that I retreat down the dark chasm that is depression.
Now, I have had the diagnosis for a while now, and have known about ''it'' for far longer, and I have been there, done that, so I came to /adv/ in hope of not only finding like-minded individuals, but also people with the excact same diagnosis. I have tried to reach out, virtually and in reality, to other such people, and it was absolutely horrible, as the PDD-NOS diagnosis is so wide we got nothing in common.
TLDR: Shot in the dark, anyone with PDD-NOS who got tips on dealing with negative emotions? Already talking to a great shrink, but to no avail.
> inb4 man up
> inb4 sperglord
> inb4 op is a faggot
In hindsight, is also need to get this off of my chest.
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Emigrate to Sweden - I hear they'll take anyone.
>SWEDEN YES!
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Little about me. Bad with disappointments, impulsive, small tolerance for bs, easily depressed. Circling thoughts, self-hate, apathy. Even alright memories of interactions with people oftentimes threw me in fits of self-doubt and anger to the point of having to whisper "forget, forget, forget". We are probably not the same, but I think we have some things in common. Nordic also.
What I've found is that imageboards are really bad for things you listed that upset you. Lots of stupid people, lots of frustrating stuff, many many people who are just out there to get any kind of reaction from you. And what I've found helpful is kind of obvious things, stuff you might even find obnoxious but here's my two cents. Interesting hobbies (for me budo-stuff and martial arts, essentially samurai-larping), and surprisingly, attending church. Went with orthodox, protestants are a bit too, how to say it, down-to-earth with dull churches. Yeah I know, religion for someone who hates illogical stuff, ridiculous right? Well, I think it's something that doesn't have to do with any of that. And people who genuinely wish you well are helpful to have around.
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Hey guys.
I'm wondering if there are maybe any books/advice that can help me deal with emotional pain that someone can recommend for me. To be honest I'm done school and waiting in limbo for a while until I actually graduate. I've never had a girlfriend and I've never fallen in love or actually cared deeply about another girl and I acknowledge that it's a possibility that I never will. Normally I'm OK with it but there are times when I basically go into hardcore depression mode because of it. I think that if I can learn how to control these negative emotions I'd be much happier in life.
Thanks in advance for any suggestions.
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Books from Haruki Murakami
How do I move out when I don't have a car or a shit load of money? I live in a shit house with my parents filled with mold lead and asbestos and they refuse to care or even acknowledge it. I'm constantly sick and tired and can't do shit good or right. They also constantly mentally abuse me and keep me awake and ruin my sleep.
I can't do shit here and it's ruining my life id rather live in a tent or something honestly holy fuck. I want to go somewhere warm where there's at least somewhat good public transit or bike routes.I don't care if I sleep in a closet or on a couch and work some shit dead end job every day. I don't want to go to college because that means I'll have to come back on breaks
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Your house is not your home anymore, you must leave. Where is that truckerfag when you need him?
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helpx or workaway.info are your best bets.
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just leave, find a job (when applying ask for correspondence by phone as you are unable to be on-site for an interview) and move.
if you're over 18 you can just do it, it's a weird feeling but you can.
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I just turned 19 and I want to get it off my chest that I'm going to kill myself very soon
I know 4chan takes suicide very insincerely but this is the only properly anonymous place i know that also has a decent amount of traffic
I tried sex and letting go as a solution to constant unhappiness and it worked for a while but it's a major source or regret for me now (personally, and not for the other people thank god) and it's definitely done more damage to me than good
Then I tried alcohol and I severely misjudged a couple of situations and I think I alienated a few of my former friends
I'm meant to be starting at uni and the end of the month but it's a bridging course, not an undergraduate course, because I need to fix up the effects of my really negative high school experiences. But I tried another bridging course at another uni 3 times last year and I failed all three. And I'm really am not convinced that I can do it this time or ever.
Anyway my life is officially rock bottom mentally and socially as of Sunday the 6th Feb. and after 7 years of depression and negativity I'm convinced that it's really time to pack up
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Tried going to a shrink yet?
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Instead of killing yourself, have you ever considered a serious drug addiction?
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>>16782548
Can I have your computer and money?
You are going to off yourself anyway.
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Is getting a breast reduction worth it? 2016-02-08 13:36:01 Post No.16782499
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Is getting a breast reduction worth it?
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I'm 19 years old. I'm 5'6" and weigh 130 pounds. Overall, I'm a pretty average sized girl. My boobs are a 40DD and I've really been considering a breast reduction. I get really bad back pain from my boobs, let alone working a night shift at work. Sometimes it's difficult for me to fit into shirts of different styles such as tube tops, cami's, low cut shirts and sometimes even v-necks. It's almost impossible for me to find a bikini top that fits me and actually supports the weight of my breasts. I've been considering a breast reduction since I was 16 as this is a major factor in my life. Having big breasts is really awful. They are super heavy and make it hard to fit into certain types of clothing. Sometimes I even cry to myself because of how BIG they actually are and how much they hurt my back and ruin my life! Can anyone from surgery experience or even any knowledge on breast reductions tell me, Is getting a breast reductions really worth it? Is it worth the thousands? Is it worth the time? Is it worth the change? Is it worth the pain? Please and thank you!
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Are you sure it's not an ill-fitting bra?
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If you think you'd rather have a big scar under your boobs up into your armpit is better than the back pain then do it.
If I were you, I'd consider buying better (probable most expensive) bras to help with support, investing in that can maybe lower the back pain you're experiencing.
Good luck with your boobs, OP.
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Post pics.
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Just wanted to thank you guys 2016-02-08 13:34:41 Post No.16782498
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Just wanted to thank you guys
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Seriously. /adv/ may be a place where many have their minds already made up and come seeking others to confirm their opinion. But for me it's more.
I really want to thank anyone who actually takes the time to help a nigga out once in a while.
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agreed.
Sometimes even the thought of saying something ANYTHING, can help you out. Makes you re-evaluate your own situation and make you realize that things are not as bad as they may seem.
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No, Anon, you da real MVP!
On a separate note, you strike me as the kind of level headed and caring person who could really make a go of it in the fast paced and lucrative world of carpentry. Have you considered a career change?
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yar this board is pretty great <3
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Can you learn to love someone? Let's say a male and female friend were friends for so long, could they fall in love? Or is love more objective than that?
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You'd have to ask the long arm of Chromosome 6.
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>learn
No, you can grow to love someone.
>objective
No, it's subjective.
How old are you?
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Apprenticeships and Trades 2016-02-08 11:53:16 Post No.16782464
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Apprenticeships and Trades
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What's the best way to achieve an apprenticeship. I'm 21 and really want to get on track with a decent career. My robotdom or perhaps failed normiedom (and the subsequent feeling of melancholy/worthlessness 24/7, I feel, stems completely from my lack of prestige and value in a career.
I really want to work hard, on a project with others and gain worthwhile skills. Any tradesman here that can give me advice?
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>>16782464
>Pepe as a wagecuck
Weird, sickening even. And this is coming from a fellow wagecuck.
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But look, see how he smiles. He's skilled now; and accomplished.
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Find an apprenticeship and join. What state do you live in?