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Im debating wether to move out or not. Currently 21, living with parents. I got an okay job (ten bucks an hour), dont go to school (not untill may) and also pay a share of bills (car payment, insurance, etc)

Would it be a good idea to move out now or shoukd i wait? I guess i should mention i feel sort of trapped here at home. I feel like alot of opportunities for me are limited due to relying on my parents and such. And with school coming up, id also like to live closer to campus rather than driving an hour every day.

Still though, im not sure if i would be able to manage living on my own without knowing what i should be prepared for in terms of financial status, what type of apartment would be best, etc.

Any adv appreciated

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my friend needs to know the best way to take a large amount of money to puerto rico. the money is for his family but it isn't very legal. anyone know the best way?

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Is it normal to approach girls in public? What should i say then? It feels very creepy personally though.

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Self advice/how to life thread?

Here's a list of stuff I wrote down to help me succeed again. Post anything you see missing, I think I covered most of it

Let's change our NEETness

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1st get a job
Once you get a job you can start scheduling yourself

Things to include
-sleep
(Always asleep, not in bed, by 11)
-Always workout before or after work
-reminder to keep carbs low and stop drinking soda
-hobbies
Guns
Skateboarding
Music
Hank
Try to do hour long scheduled blocks of this
-supplements
Make sure to take performance enhancing supplements along with medications
-alcohol
Separate two days out of the week to drink
-women
You've had plenty of sex with multiple partners dude. You look great and have no reason to try and turn conversations into phone numbers. Don't avoid women but don't dedicate conversations to solving your "loneliness" because those feelings aren't real
-big picture
Always separate a day to work on big picture stuff(hopefully Sunday's)
-competition
As a man its in your nature to compete, remember that you shouldn't feel bad for being better at something than someone else

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I'm debating if I should get my own place.

I'm 25. Up until now I've just bummed housing off of girlfriends or friends. And to be fair, while I never paid rent I would carry my own weight around the house and being a significant other, would tend to buy them a lot of shit, pay for dinners, other stupid shit.

Currently I live with my parents. Which you laugh at but I live in fucking Hawaii. It's expensive as shit down here.

So the girl I'm currently dating is the first one who does not have access to her own private room. So we do not have a secured private place for sex. And for the both of us, sex is a huge deal.

In addition to that I'm a college student. Theatre major (lol useless degree). My folks place is about 30 minutes away from my college (and my girlfriend). And this is especially a problem when I have class at 9 in the morning and I'm in rehearsal until 9 at night.

Now to my benefit, I have the keys to the theatre I work/am a student at. There are several rooms I can pull my girlfriend into after hours and fuck in.

But overall it would be easier (and less stopping mid fuck to double check somebody isn't walking in to the room were fucking in) if I had my own place. So no necessary but convenient.

Now the kicker is I graduate in May. And I plan on leaving this hellhole. Immediately. I have two conferences in the new two months at which I'm interviewing for several theatre tech jobs on the mainland.

So tl:dr
>Reasons why I should
I need a place to fuck
Closer to my college
I don't have any references for when I need to get my own place on the mainland
Because I'm 25 grow the fuck up
>Reasons why I shouldn't
I'm leaving in the next 4-5 months
Holy fuck it's expensive; I could just use the money for a place on the mainland
While it's not great, I can just fuck my girl at my theatre

Thoughts?

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I have been dating this girl for a couple of months and she's been really into me. Last week that changed and she's turned a bit cold in regards to the lovey dovey, phone sex and sexting messages. She still txts me first now and then and even sent me a message today saying she has a surprise for me, but I'm wondering if that's out of guilt because I've bought her a few presents. She's literally gone from saying I miss and want you every other day to nothing. I get if I send her anything cheeky, she plays it off like we're now all of a sudden buddies. Then yesterday out of the blue she invites me to her cousins birthday as her date next month. Its really messing my head up and I'm so confused! Another big part of this story is I had an allergic reaction to a experimental depression pill about 10 years a go and its kept me out of work up until now. How I met her was through a government scheme where she helps people get back to work. If her work found out about us, she'd be sacked in an instant, plus I have to see her again in a meeting at the end of the month. So I'm now thinking is she scared I might ruin her career out of spite if she says she's not interested in me anymore?

Tonight we spoke on the phone and I'm playing it pretty cool, but I didn't want to come across needy, so I disguised what I wanted to say and a got a few answers. Sometimes tonight she seemed really into me and then others times not at all. I've just become a personal trainer and she said tonight that she's going to go back to the gym, so I offered my services and she turned me down in a heart beat and said; "no my brothers going to help me". She said I've got some friends who need training if you need clients. Again, I don't know what to think about that.

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My boyfriend says that I'm cheating on him when I rate other mens cocks. Is he right?

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I feel as though I have gained a better self-awareness now that I am older, but I still have bad habits that I need help shaking off. I would like to live a more organized life and rid myself of my knack for procrastinating and wasting time. I currently go to uni and live with my parents, have never had a job, and have yet to move out, which I think has something to do with it. I'm going to be 23 this year and would like to live more actively and focused.

I would like to fix my diet and try gaining muscle again (I'm pretty thin and have worked out consistently before but lost my momentum a while back), but since my parents tend to pick up food/eat out more often than I would like, I end up eating crap and it sucks because I KNOW I'm eating crap but never get around to abstaining from junk myself.

I know I can do well in school if I stay focused, but I end up procrastinating on assignments and wasting time with my friends playing LoL or doing some other bullshit. I also have things I would like to be good at, both music and art, but need to shape my schedule to leave room for practicing them.

I shy away from going after girls, to hook up or even for something more long term, more than I used to because I think I have HPV and don't want to spread it to anyone. I also feel that if I were to tell them, they would lose all interest.

So, how can I take control of my bad habits and replace them with good ones to become more productive/self-sufficient? I want to think big and live life to the fullest, but I feel years of bad habits and settling for less are keeping me from reaching it. I basically just need help getting started with shaping my daily routine. Having all of these moments of realizing that I fucked up has really fucked with my head for too long and I just want to take hold my life for once.

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Can I become asexual? I don't even want to have sex in the first place but how do I remove these annoying sexual urges?

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I think I'm in love with my girlfriend's 18 year old sister.

I'm 23, gf is 24. My gf's sister recently turned 18. From the second I met her a few years ago, I thought that her little sister (let's call her Jennifer) was stunningly beautiful.

She's beautiful, she's down to earth, and she's a little weird. She's not outgoing, spends most of her time playing dota, and is basically a neet. However, she has an excellent fashion sense, and is, despite her introverted lifestyle, gorgeous.

Don't get me wrong: I love my girlfriend. She perfect for me. Whatever feelings I have for Jennifer are superceded by the love I have for my girlfriend (been together 3.5 Years now. Want to propose after college).

But I find myself constantly thinking of jennifer. I haven't felt this way about someone since the stupid crushes I had in highschool. My girlfriend has caught me looking at jennifer a few times and always pokes fun at me for it (I think my girlfriend also recognizes that jennifer is beautiful, so she probably doesn't hold it against me.) Jennifer has caught me looking a couple times, but always brushes it aside with a joke. That's one of the things I love about her: she's so down to earth.

My girlfriend only has one sister, and they're like best friends. It feels wrong, but I remember the movie American beauty, where kevin spacey falls for his daughters teenaged friend. It makes me think "am I really in love with jennifer, or am I just feeling a little complacent in my 3 year long relationship?"

I don't know if I intrinsically love jennifer, or if I "love" her because it's forbidden; because she's barely legal, and because she's so much more different than other girls.

What are your thoughts?

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so a little over a year i tried to kill myself. ended up in the er, etc etc, on meds that work now, therapists, blah blah blah. Nothing new to me, been doing that since I was 8.

But, ever since then, I'm just completely numb. I didn't really notice it until now because I had been working a very intense job until recently that took up basically all my time. I had no reason to pay any attention to anything that wasnt work.
I'm reschooling now though and i realized that, the reason i was so happy and okay doing that job, was im empty. I feel totally hollow, and the only thing the meds do is keep my emotions under control. Instead of being overwhelmed with an anchor in my stomach and being unable to move because I feel so miserable, I'm just left with an empty vessel.

I don't know what to do. I can't seem to feel good about anything anymore, it's just an endlessly hungry pit inside me.

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the fuck is this rash /adv/
it comes along with cold symptoms, never seen this before though

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Me want to get qt girlfriend
she into me, she's more into me than I am into her
but me poor and life is messed up

Do I try it and be ashamed for life because of the possible fail ?

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>live in smallish town ~20k people
>good friends with really nice chick
>talked a lot
>she starts hanging out with real trashy chicks
>becomes a real bitch
>was the only friend I enjoyed talking to
>last year
>hate everything about this town and just want to leave

How do I survive my last year before I go to University?

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Should I go to an asian massage parlor, a strip club or an escort?
I'm 26 and never even so much as kissed a girl before. I just want to look at and touch a woman. As much as I would like to have sex I don't think paying for my first time would be something I want to live with, though I might reconsider in 4 years.