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you lift 2 hours a day?

have fun gaining no muscle. workouts shouldn't be more than 45 mins or so. if you can do longer, you're not going hard enough. muscle growth happens during rest, not lifting. lifting tears muscle fibers.

you need to sleep and learn about nutrition

How old are you?

Honestly, Id say drop the products you're using on your face. Drink plenty of water, stop touching your face... Even if you do touch your face, have clean hands. Having pimples show up once in awhile is normal. Id also stop the moisturizer since it prevents pores from breathing. Your face should provide the natural oils it needs.

You can also try sleeping with a fresh towel on your pillow every night, but I don't do that since I can't be passed to wash towels all the time.

Study dates aren't a thing. You're either studying, or you're on a date. Pick one. If you try to merge the two, you'll either half-ass both, or fuck one up in favour of the other.

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I will start:

>Bio
I am a 22 y/o male from Canada, work part time at my parents bakery and full time firefighter student. I was a weak beta most of my life. I wanted to be an athlete (any kind of sport), especially a Formula 1 driver but my parents (1st gen immigrants) never had the time and money to take care of me. They always pushed me for a white collar job but I was never able to meet their expectations (grades were above average but nothing amazing).

From age 17 to 20, I had some kind of mid-life crisis. I was doing really bad at school, mostly because I didn't know what to do in life, no guidance, no real friends. I thought about suicide on a daily basis for 3 years but never had the courage because my parents didn't deserve this and younger brother would be all alone and prone to the same mistakes I made. One day, my neighbor proposed me to meet his track and field coach. I reluctantly agreed but little did I know this is where my life would change.

I instantly clicked with him and became best friends. The road to self improvement has finally started but what really kicked it off was meeting that girl at the gym. Although she is 5 years older than me, she was the first woman to ever take interest in me and it really ignited my desire to improve. I finally had a goal and applied for the firefighter academy. Although I failed at the first try, I waited a year and now here I am, at the end of my studies with a new car, new friends, new hobbies and a lot of experiences.

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>Tips/experiences
-Clean your room. It helped me so much to re-organize my life and it will become a habit the more you do it
-Stop eating junk food. From soft drinks to chips and sweets. Don't try to do it in a single day but progressively, over the course of a few weeks
-Get rid of your useless stuff. Give your old clothes to a charity. People in need could really use them. Sell your electronics or other stuff on ebay/amazon/kijiji.
-Clean your bathroom.
-Don't spend too much money on escort or strippers. It will help you get more comfortable with women but never spend over 300$ IN YOUR LIFE with them
-Stop buying video games. They are truly a waste of time and money. You can still play your old games but eventually, try to just stop. You could use your time for better things
-Brush your teeth twice a day. Once in the morning and just before going to bed. Take care of your teeth, you'll thank yourself later on in life
-Clip your nails once a week
-Sleep 7-8hours per day
-Stop playing mobile games
-Drink socially but don't go out too often
-Reach out some of your friends. Most people are afraid of socializing and you making the first steps will make them open up to you

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-Stop thinking about tfw no gf. Girls WILL come to you but only if you WANT to change. Focus about yourself first and then you'll worry about the others
-Gradually reduce the amount of pornography you watch. Once a week is fine but try to go no fap. It helped me out and I'm sure it can help you too
-Get in shape. It is very hard at first but don't get discouraged. Go out for a jogging and then stretch. Do some push ups/sit ups in the morning. It is 80% nutrition and 20% exercise so start eating well (avoiding junk food like I mentioned earlier will greatly help you)
-Watch some youtube videos about weightlifting. Any channel with lots of views and subscribers will do but start somewhere. Try to copy the same movements
-Go to a gym that has a power rack and read about Starting Strenght. It is a great introduction to weightlifting. Remember to warm up before the training and stretch after. Eat well
-Be open minded. Try new restaurants, new activities, go to events
-Get yourself a new haircut that is trending. You can never go wrong with a short clean cut
-Get some new clothes that fit. Find a style you like and that is not autistic.
-Get some new shoes
-Stop hanging out with friends that bring you down. The social circle you have is a reflection on who you are
-Finish your studies, whatever you are studying
-Stop smoking or doing drugs. It truly is a waste of money

just text her if you wanna meet up. or dou you wanna have whatsapp conversations for fun dude>
cmon

>>16781278
literally ignore the shit out of her.

If she's into you, she'll text you.

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I'm gonna piggyback here.

Is there a payoff to ignoring the shit out of someone? I like talking to this girl. So I text her. I text her, so she doesn't text me first, but she responds.

Is there some payoff for ignoring her and getting her to contact me first? I'm already sure I'm more interested than she is, which is ok as long as she's interested enough to keep up the conversation.

Also, she sends a lot of sparkle emojis. Does that mean something?

If you want to return it, figure out which carrier it belongs to (like from the SIM) and turn it in to a local shop. (Or call the support number for that company.) They can match the IMEI to the owner.

>>16781187
I'm not sure why I hadn't thought of that. I'll try it in the morning.

>>16781258
Or just give it to the police

Send em to me I'll "dump" them

do you have a utorrent or a thing like that to open it up i so go to https://thepiratebay.se/torrent/13131101/Russian_Interior_Ministry_Hack__amp__50GB_Leak

>>16781188
if

>>16781100
Lurk more.

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I completely intend on doing so :)
I like memes, that's what sent me here! I haven't spent much time here, because Tumblr and Reddit are my main areas of interest, but I do hope to get many more warm receptions such as the one you gave me, anon!

>>16781098
eh, ask us later.

>>16781089
I'd like to kill myself too but I have debts and responsibilities to clear. Then I'll throw myself off a bridge.

>>16781089
>How do I build up the courage to kill myself?
Alcohol.

Jokes aside, are you an autist? Serious question. Just go do shit. Your goal is to get comfortable going out on the town, you are already a loser so what does it matter if people see you alone. Once your comfortable and you have a reasonable idea of how your supposed to act in these situations, then start asking other people to go do that shit with you.

>>16781113
I am autistic. I feel fine going out and doing things by myself.

Who would I ask? I don't go anywhere regularly enough, and cold approaching rarely works.

I've strongly been considering drinking. 25, never had a drink in my life because I'm scared I'd use it to treat my depression. Alcoholism runs in my family bad.

>>16781046

its totally weird, but i say go for it. god knows my fetishes get really out there. not even like insane or crazy, but justreally fucking weird an ddumb

It's called a fetish. It's not that big of a deal, though it is one of the more oddly specific ones I've heard of.

I write erotica commissions for money and that shit ranges from the relatively weird (a story about a man whose penis is so large that he cannot wear pants) to the incredibly fucking creepy (a character giving a man a blowjob, except instead of a penis the man has a venemous, sentient snake.).

Your place on the weirdness scale is so low that it isn't even remotely in "pay someone to write my sexual fantasies in detail" land.

>>16781057
Thanks man.

See a relevant professional: psychiatrist, clinical psychologist, etc

>>16781012
I don't want to waste their time if it's not anything.

Two of my exes have it.

Usually, borderlines cycle through phases of idealization/devaluation. They fall in "love" quickly and out of it quicker.

They seek a lot of attention/affection. They usually have a "favorite person" that they seek the most attention/affection from. They get pretty insecure and often have problems with relationship permanence--if someone hasn't talked to you in a little while, clearly they must hate you.

Basically, if you're needy and it's fucking up your life you probably have it.

There isn't some magic weed detox to pass a piss test.

If there was, everyone would just use it and the test would be invalidated.

>>16781014
Yeah agreed but with no weed in system for 2 weeks and very light smoker would this help

>>16781022

>there's no magic way to detox
>yeah, agreed
>but is this KINDA magical?

dude, just use google.

>>16781007

why are you afraid to start a relationship? because of those qualities? or is there some baggage here?

if the former, than i say dont do it. it sounds like shes too emotional for you to handle or deal with. and thats okay. you dont need to date someone jsut because they are interested. or even just because YOU are interested. thats how you get stuck in bad relationships. continue to hang out and see where it goes. if its too much to handle, back out.

if the latter, than what is that baggage?

So how do you deal with self-doubt? Maybe that's a good theme for thread that people will reply to.

I'm gonna do homework! But if anyone does wanna chat and hang out still just post

Well if you find black girls hot, too, why the hell not?

I don't really care about race, as long as the person is still moderately attractive. It's just not a factor. But you can't control what you find sexy.

do it faggot

>>16780994
While making broad generalisations about any group of people is dumb, there's no reason to not have your own personal preferences.