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>>16783019
Make a decision. If i were you i would just do it. See if she adds anything to your life and See tgat you add anything to her life.

pal-cum

get it?

so.. It's as obvious as I thought... Thanks for your quick reply, my Pal :D

Try sucking cocks, OP

Feels amazing

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>>16783003

I'll fuck your mother instead.

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>>16783004

O-okay....

>>16782990
You just need to Start to look around for love.

>>16782990
Stop falling for lesbians

Stop living in Edo period Japan.

Try expending your excess energy with a craft-based hobby. Tire yourself out and achieve fulfilment in your home carpentry workshop, and you'll soon find you're on the same page as your boyfriend in the bedroom.

>>16782967
As someone with a very similar problem, focus on sports. I play squash and volleyball every week and it really helps.
And, of course, buy a magic wand.

If computer science were really the field for you, you'd enjoy studying it. If the course is a drag, you're setting yourself for a lifetime career in an area you're never going to enjoy. Dump the major, and learn the knowledge and skills of carpentry. With a rewarding and enjoyable profession, it's like you never work a day in your life.

>>16782963
I'm interested in more about what you have to say. All the things I'm "interested" in are god awful career choices that I would be really bad at actually working in.

I don't like IT/CS at all as it makes little to no sense to me, but I'm doing it because it means I'll have a good job 20 years down the road and my body won't be shot from working outside. Halfway through my IT degree I decided I wanted to be a forester, did that for a year, and then got lyme disease and lost my forestry job. I'm back in IT now, hoping I can land a job working with GIS.

>>16783002
20 years down the road, someone in India will have a good job, and your body will be shot from the alcoholism brought on by depressing and serial unemployment.

I feel a strange compulsion to suggest carpentry as the solution to all problems on /adv/, but in your case it's a real option. You can't outsource installing a new bookshelf or kitchen counter.

In any case, you should make a career choice based on a lifestyle you'll enjoy, rather than just where you reckon the work will be. If you were serious enough about forestry to actually do it for a year, IT is very unlikely to be your thing as it's hard to imagine two more disparate careers.

Think hard about what kinds of things you like doing and are good at. There are a million and one careers apart from the ones a high school advisor knows about; look for niche things you love. It doesn't need to be a major sector, so long as there's at least one opening in the world. If your job is something you enjoy, you'll be motivated, reliable, and skilled at it, which in turn will make for a great working atmosphere; if you hate it, that will make you unreliable, unprofessional, and a nightmare for your boss/clients - and they'll dump all that hurt back on you, making a toxic job climate.

If you were a bored millionaire, what rewarding and challenging activity would you do to pass the time? Chances are someone will pay you to do it, or something very similar.

You mustn't define yourself by your relationships; who you are is up to you, not derived from who you're with.

Back up, and examine your life and how you would like things to be. It's never too late for a career change, for instance. Give some solid thought to packing it all in job-wise, and moving to a more rewarding sector such as carpentry. You have no problems in your life if you work with wood on a daily basis.

Fucking degeneracy.

Leave the poor schmuck. It's obvious that you like the other guy better and I don't see your relation going uphill from this point. Better for both of you to leave it behind. Also, in case you still haven't noticed having an open relationship is a horrible idea. They never work. You have to choose between fucking a bunch of people or having a good, old-fashioned relationship.

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>>16782955
Are you trying to make a meme out of this?

This could be a wakeup call that you're in the wrong business. Client transactions tend to go a lot more smoothly in a legitimate sector like carpentry, and you have legal redress in the unlikely event of any problems.

Protip: ask for a downpayment in advance, to cover the costs of materials and transport.

Do you have people that will go to war with you?

> 2 black guys

You missed your opportunity to bail OP. C'mon, you know blacks are violent, you should have known better!

>>16782937
It is virtually impossible to tell high-functioning Aspergers from run-of-the-mill nerdy or socially awkward guy.

So what does it matter? Who needs labels?

>>16782937
>Is there any way to tell without getting a professional diagnosis?
Not really. No reliable ones.

I suggest getting a professional screening. I had to, several years back, and although it turned up a number of other issues, it didn't find any form of autism. This came as a surprise to a number of people. The same could happen in your case.

It looks to me like she's a friendly, outgoing and bubbly person; whether anything's going to happen between you is up to how you respond to that.

If you have self confidence issues, try taking up a hobby in which you can get some me-time, and make beautiful and useful items to validate yourself without worrying about other people's opinions. Carpentry is probably the best option for you right now.

>>16782940
She's actually really shy and has issues getting to know people. On my side, I first got to know her in a really depressing point in my life a few months ago.

At the time, I definitely thought "would" here and there but I wasn't gonna repeat the mistake of idealizing the idea odd a relationship with someone. Now my life has gotten a lot better, I've been going out with my friends more, playing guitar more often, working out, losing weight, and getting straight As in college. However as my life has gotten better, she's been on my mind more for some reason. I'm not falling into oneitis and I've tried looking around a little, but I kinda always find myself thinking more about her.

>>16782978
Shoulda woulda coulda

Stop living in a world muddled with potential future outcomes, and enjoy the moment.

Less Would, more Wood!

Bamp

>>16782924
Get best grades and make your parents proud

You stay in the school, study hard and make friends with others who are likely to be successful. They can give you incredible opportunities later in life. If you play your cards right the school will be worth it.

Ever heard the phrase "Its not what you know, Its who you know."? Well this plays a part here. Its not about the education, its about the people you are being educated with.

You are mingling with the future elite.

You have been given a good base to help you start your professional life, make the most of it.

You yourself seem to recognize her noncommital attitude, but you've already got tunnel vision. Why, I can't say--you don't have any faith in her.

Forget about her or confront her in person--not aggresively, just directly. She isn't going to start things, so it's really just about sorting out your own baggage.

>>16782971
I dont remember where she lives, and that's creepy. I cant think of a "natural" way to run into her.

We have a mutual friend, that's about it. I can try hitting her up, and seeing if theyve been talking about me, but that seems needy.

bumpo

>>16782882
Actually a common proble. Many guys who enjoy BJs can't come from them. So don't think you're weird.

Most likely explanations:

1. Physical - you need a certain rhythm/pressure/touch she hasn't found yet. If you know what it is, tell her.

2. Psychological. You unconsciously feel that BJs are demeaning to the girl and something in you resists "dirtying" her. Let her convince you she really enjoys it and you might let go.

>>16782882
deep throat works well. they cant make eye contact, and it feels a lot more like a vagina.

its the only way I can cum from a bj

Have her play with your balls while she deepthroats.

>>16782880
Yes fucking yes man

I got an iPhone for Christmas and so far I've got a new gf and have been hustling to make money on the side

Been banging and hanging out more so yeah make sure you on that data life so you can FaceTime and message people anywhere

Yeah get a neato phone but don't become that faggot who sends all his friends the same 20 gifs or memes while they're trying to sleep otherwise it's very useful and good for passing time if you're stuck somewhere and bored

>>16782912
No I just want to meet people, make friends and network.
I had a cell phone before once in highscool and it wasn't bad, I'm not gonna lie.
I've just been having a hard time accepting that the reason socializing networking is so difficult is because no cell phone.
(Plus you can't Tinder or anything like that.)

Then you are a wise man with a weak will.

>>16782870
V E N G E A N C E

Try taking up an activity that exercises you mind and your manual dexterity at once, to help disconnect from your worries and spend time in the now. Carpentry is an ideal option.