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Surround yourself with less stupid people

>>16783964
It's usually girls and the stupid people that don't get it, should I just not use it around them?

Moderation..... You're being too sarcastic too often.

>>16783948
Yep. Time to suicide.

You fucking idiot. Do you know how many people have that?

>>16783969
Quite a lot, but unless they have an outbreak you can't see it.

>future

>>16783943
>not being able to get a girl

It's in the bag, we just haven't fucked yet. We talk all the time, she sent me nudes. I was a KV not long ago, once you bang one girl a whole new world opens up.

Do you just not give a fuck about your girlfriend or?

>>16783882
Allright listen up nignog, she is letting you down easy.
Seriously, pack your bags and get on the boat back to afganistan since the bitch doesnt want to date you.
Accept that you are friendzoned and stop pulling the race card.

Is it racism to not wanting to date losers?
How many black guys do you know who are actually successful?

Equality doesn't mean everyone has to find everyone attractive. It's OK to have a type, and not racist not to want to sleep with people of a certain race if they just don't do it for you.

>>16783872
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhRXn2NRiWI

You can't live on doing shit everyone enjoys doing unless you're extraordinary good at it.

It's hard to make a living from digital jobs as there are a lot of people hanging around online who want to make money from mom's basement and don't mind low pay rates. Anything delivered electronically is also open to competition from outsourcers in low-income countries, where folk with PhDs labour for $3 per hour.

If you want out of the finance world and enjoy making things, consider leveraging your design skills into a craft that can't be picked up by anyone in Bangladesh with an internet connection - real, physical items. It sounds to me like carpentry could be just the career you're looking for.

The worst thing to happen to me would have to be a period of existential ennui of feeling very directionless in life. However, I'm happy to be able to say that I am now a happy and fulfilled carpenter, and everything is coming up roses.

>>16783844
seeing my sister kill herself and bleed out as an 11 year old boy.
12 years later and im still depressed.

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Pornography.

Not kidding.

Nothing has made warped my image of women, of men, of social relationships, and of God than watching porn since I was 10 years old. I'm just now, at age 23, getting to a place where I can control my desire to look at porn, and I'm beginning to make a ton of friends, feel more confident with girls, am able to live the life I feel God wants me to live, and I feel free from the bondage of porn... but it's still a struggle. I want to look once in a while. But I try not to.

I don't have a dramatic moment like some in this thread have and will inevitably have, but I know in my personal life, I'd say porn.

How did I recover? You'll laugh, but Jesus.

that's what i think pornstars do when they have sex with an inexperienced guy with a normal size dick

>>16783814
Do you have a normal size dick

They KY intense
try NO gas
>/thread

Knife works.

You don't reallt want to die. If you wanted to die you'd have done it by now, it's easy, there are a million different ways. This is a cry for help.

Go and see a therapist, or call a crisis number.

>>>/g/

But in the long run, the problem is that you need to fix the leak in your roof. Learn some basic carpentry skills and you can undertake all manner of home maintenance and improvements.

Carpentry!

Well then you came to the wrong place, because that has nothing to do with advice.
>>>/b/

>>16783762
HOLY CHRIST HAVE YOU LEARNED I EVEN MADE A FUCKING THREAD ABOUT THIS SHIT

You're looking at the traditional academic-based career paths that get pushed in high-schools because they're basically a lifelong continuation of what you've been doing as course work. Bear in mind that there are many other careers that you might find more fulfilling, with strong economic sectors, excellent working environments, good pay, and much better job security than anything you're looking at. Have a think about finishing your diploma and then learning a useful and fulfilling trade such as carpentry.

>>16783775
I'm looking for a lifelong skill that i can develop and i'm willing to read a lot of books and a lot of effort into it, i like working with my hands and building tesla coils and stuf

You need to learn to build sexual tension. You probably are viewed by girls as friendly or too innocent so they don't even try to flirt because they think you might find it off-putting or slutty.

p. s. : You don't get a lot of sexual experience from a lot of girls. Ons are pretty much like masturbating into a meat condom. You get a lot of sexual experience from a girl who is willing to explore your sexuality with you like a girlfriend who you fuck twice a day then talk about it and try something new.

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>>16783786
Where/How do you find one of those? How into sexual tension. I can get phone numbers, set up dates. But it's also pretty kosher.

>>16783746
Go to a bar, look for a very drunk skank, take home, stick penis in vagina.
You will be terrible but she will be too drunk to complain.
Just say "sorry im out of practice" then go for round 2.

Achievement unlocked, lost virginity

>i wish i was socially inept again.

You probably still are.

>>16783733

>even nice people are dumb

great. so because someone is half a decibel less intelligent (or not as well read) than you, they aren't worthy of your friendship.

ergo, you are the least intelligent of all the smart people. being just intelligent enough to pass, but so dumb that anyone less well read than you is not worthy of your kinds time.

ironic, dont you think? rather elitist too. maybe focus on that, do a little growth, and try to expand your interests instead of assuming a conversation can only be had when someone shares yours.

i no nothing of legos, but met a guy who builds them for a living. great conversation and great evening.

>i wish i was socially inept again.

what difference would it make?

now atleast you have the choice to talk or refrain from talking with people

>>16783711

>escape the friend zone

this is something specific to people, and people are diverse. thats like asking how to make someone fall in love with you. actually, its literally asking how to make someone fall in love with you. if you already pulled out all your stops, then there is nothing left to do. she made her choice. and nothing except for organic experiences could change that (but rarely ever do). there is also the psycopath approahc but you likely couldn't pull it off and dont want to.

so no, no escaping friend zone for you. (friendzone should be the name of a cool dave and busters type place that adults go to make friends after being rejected by women).


anywho, how to get over it? say aiight, nice knowing ya.

then cut her out of your life. in the future try not to get so hung up over someone you never actually went on a date or kissed (im assuming). but its okay. we've all been there.

>>16783732
OP here I think that's some solid advice b/ro but any advice on how to move on as I have to work with her for at least the remainder of the year.

>>16783711
Stop frogposting for starters
Then stop using the term "friendzone" so you stop sounding like a fucking robot
While we're at it, stop acting like she's leading you on. You showed interest, you asked her out, she rejected you. End of story.

Put her out of your head. Stop seeing her in a romantic light and stop acting like she's a romantic interest to you. Stop flirting. Don't refer to you asking her out or you being interested in her. Get it in your head that the two of you won't end up together. The only way to escape the friendzone is through the back door, the one that ends your friendship. If you feel the urge to wonder what she's up to, find something to distract you.

You may feel like shit, but don't let yourself be "led on" and don't pretend it's her fault if you do. The only thing that should be in your head right now is "her loss"

>I "assumed"
Yes, that's absolutely where this problem stems. You chose interpretation over communication.

How was she supposed to be "decent" enough to tell you something you didn't communicate to her?

Dude, go smoke a joint. You'll feel much better.

>>16783705

>i assumed

jesus dude, how are you mad at her for your own assumption

how is she supposed to know you'd assume she had a lifelong ban on pot because of her family history? you literally could have asked. you are mad at her for not assuming you'd assume something based off of a story she told you about her life?

>WELL I TELL HER ABOUT MY DRINKING

yeah she probably thinks that weird

>>16783712
>>16783722

Well it was a legit traumatizing part of her life. Her father nearly killed their mother and possibly raped her younger sister. I figured anything that might've been associated with her dick of a father would rock the boat. I know that making assumptions is fucking stupid and all that but given the situation I'd like to think it was a fairly logical decision.