Can anyone please link me to a legal page explaining current US law(s) on loli art? Bringing stuff back from Japan and don't want to get fcked in customs over something stupid. Thanks!
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i hope you get fucked over
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>>16784196
Lol, thanks for the valuable input as always :)
For the record though, it's my wife that's interested and she's not considering anything hentai at all; nothing super creepy or anything like that. Just content similar to the image above (which FYI came from a martial arts MMO recently released in the US by NCSoft -- the same people who publish WildStar, Guild Wars, Aion, etc)... She prefers cute, childish stuff (including figurines and so on), but some of it can sometimes appear too young or "ecchi" on the covers/box-art.
I'm just considering getting game art and manga that's no big deal in Japan but could possibly elicit the same kind of knee-jerk reaction >>16784196 had in the States.
Unfortunately(?) there's tons of stuff in Japan targeted for young children that can be easily misinterpreted at first-glance (e.g., Sailor Moon, Lucky Star, etc), and we don't care nearly enough about this stuff to risk anything. But if it's not actually a big deal in the US law-wise, she'd love to do more shopping in Akihabara.
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>>16784258
Im a girl and I was an exchange student of Japan.
My host family found my stash of shota-con comics and doujin and dumped them.
Embarassing but brief confrontation.
Whoops.
But i was 16 at the time so
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Girlfriend's mom is acting like a massive cunt 2016-02-08 22:54:59 Post No.16784111
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Girlfriend's mom is acting like a massive cunt
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>Girlfriend is 17
>I'm 19 (so inb4 pedo)
>Lately her mom has been giving her a needlessly hard time about everything
for example:
>Girlfriends boss is an emotionally abusive psychopath
>One day she finally has enough an gives her boss her 2 weeks
>Her mom was pretty much demanding she finds a new job before she did it
>When she told her mom the only thing she said was "Well I fucking guess you better hurry the fuck up and find a new fucking job then."
>When she first gave her two weeks her mom just straight up wouldn't talk to her she was so pissed
>Now she won't shut-up about how she needs a job
>Like this one time, she was talking to her brother about going to visit her grandma this summer
>Her mom instantly cuts in the conversation and says "He won't be able to go because unlike SOMEONE in this house he has a job."
>Since it's the middle of winter all buisness's around here are slow and not a lot of places are hiring.
>She's pretty much spending all her free time searching for jobs for the sole reason to get her mom off her back
Another example:
>Girlfriend never did the best in school
>The college program she wants to get into is kinda competitive.
>She's really buckling down to do well at school this year so she can get in.
>Her brother was doing something that required assistance (I'm not sure what)
>"You should be helping your brother, since when do you give a shit about homework anyways"
>She's literally bitching at my girlfriend for doing homework
Her moms always been like this, shes just kinda a bitch. But as of late it's been really really bad for some reason. She always seems to get the worst of it for some reason to.
Anyways should I be getting involved? Should I be stepping up and straight up telling her mom "you need to treat my girlfriend better". What should I be doing this, it's really stressing out my girlfriend.
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>>16784111
No. She has to learn to stand up for yourself. The last thing you want to do is get involved and give her mom another thing to bitch about.
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>>16784141
This. It will only make things worse and you don't want to be the bad guy.
Ever thought of getting an apartment together?
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>>16784159
I wish, however where she wants to go to college is going to be at least 2 hours away from me.
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Guess there are tons of young, not bad looking, insecure males out there who are worried because they don't get girls and don't really know how to do it. Give them some advices that can be recorded in stone.
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I'm 21 average looking guy. My hobbies involves playing games and watching random shit on the internet.
90% of the people at my job are men. I'm starting university and the same thing is going to happen.
How do I meet women if everything I do and enjoy doing is infested with men?
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>>16784138
That ain't no advice mane.
Also I think your hobbies are shit when it comes to both social and individual development. Get new hobbies, be less hedonistic.
I think my life is being controlled by my addictions. I don't have an extremely destructive addictions, but the ones I have are taking hold strong. I'm spending too much of my time on the Internet, eating sugary food, drinking caffeine, smoking weed, and jacking off.
I want to devote more time to reading, meditation, creating things, and just generally leading not a more productive life.
I quit vaping nicotine lately, so I feel like I'm channeling that former addiction into other addictions.
What do I do?
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>I quit vaping nicotine lately, so I feel like I'm channeling that former addiction into other addictions.
that's the problem
you want to reading, meditation, etc
you have to actually do them, just removing your addictions won't help you achieve the lifestyle you want
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Well eating, Coffein and jacking off isn't a addiction. Stop smoking pot. Find something to do and continue to smoke cigarettes.
How do I be a good husband?
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Your pic is pretty much what is there to it.
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Be kind.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
Make good communication a priority.
Make your wife feel wanted and needed.
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>>16784097
Not look at other women with lustrous thoughts
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So i got myself a degree and a job.
Now i have a neet girlfriend with social phobia.
We had sex on the first date, that was ok, i was basically permavirgin up until now.
Problem is, she has no money, so i have to buy her tickets and things for her to come visit me.
Is this doomed to fail? I feel like it is, but on the other hand it's the best i've had so far.
She's fun. Morbid. Politically incorrect. I just love it.
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It's hard to get neets out of their comfort zone. Gradually try and tell her to find a job, help her look too. Find something that has little to no social interaction, like stocking or data input or something small to start. Its for the best to try and break her out of her shell.
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>>16784092
its hard to motivate yourself (even if you are good at it)
it's even harder to motivate someone else
if she needs a push - give her a push - but it requires too much work on your part - break it off - you will be better off in the long run
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So I applied for this job and it supposedly for a Swedish Steel company who operates in Canada (Where I live). They want me to operate as their representative here to process their payments with customers located here.
The thing that made me question the whole thing is they want me to open a new personal bank account to move around the payments because they claim it's difficult to open a business account.
Does seem like a scam? I'm not sure because it's my first time applying for something like this.
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Yes it is absolutely 100% a scam. Cease all contact immediately. No real business should ever ask its employees to do transactions for it in their personal bank accounts; if you do, you will be breaking the law and may go to jail.
Time to look for employment in a more wholesome and legitimate sector, such as carpentry. No scams in woodwork!
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>>16784043
>Does seem like a scam?
Damn, the nigerian royalty is expanding.
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What's their name?
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What are some good self-help books or texts in general that focus on seduction and/or pickup artistry? I've already read The Art of Seduction.
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>>16784042 AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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So I visited my boyfriend last month for a week, I live pretty far away. Thing is, I came back and everything was fine until I took one of the pregnancy tests he got me before I left (he mostly does this just in case) and turns out I'm pregnant. I was taking birth control but I was on two strong medications as well so I fucked up. Plus my period hasn't shown up since summer because of an eating disorder. Anyway, I'm scared as fuck to tell him. I don't know what to do. My family already know because my doctor scheduled me for a blood test and before I knew it, everyone knew. I mentioned abortion but my family thinks I'll die or something because of my previous near death experience I had last November due to my eating disorder. How the hell do I drop the bomb on my boyfriend?. I feel like I should be very upfront and just tell him. I did send him a long email with the pregnancy test and everything but I guess he hasn't read it since he just texted me like any other day. I could use some advice...
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Be upfront and honest. He's a grown man, he should be able to stomach it.
How did you have a neat death experience?
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meet with him in person asap and decide what's best for the both of you. An early abortion won't kill you, but the longer you wait the greater the chance of any complication.
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>eating disorder
>being pregnant
If you're going to birth the child, please don't fuck up it's life by starving yourself during pregnancy
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>partner with cute chick in class
>afterwards
>tells me she had fun
Then what?
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>>16784023
Talk to her tomorrow.
Saying she had fun doesn't mean she's into you though.
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>>16784061
Not seeing her until Wednesday. She has complimented me before, and makes it a point to talk to me in class. We did a project where she was asking me questions about myself in German. After the class, I said she "knew so much about me, but I know so little about you". She said she'd tell me anything I wanted to know. I made a joke to brush it off, but she's like 6 years younger than me, and she might be slightly retarded socially.
>we'd be perfect for each other
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>>16784086
>she's like 6 years younger than me
>might be slightly retarded socially
What are you doing, op?
How old are you and what kind of class are you in?
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I am still so hopelessly in love with my ex who wants me dead.
He was long distance, rarely returned my calls and texts, let me believe he was dead for three straight months, and eventually broke up with me in a text after I gathered evidence that he had been lying to me. I've been battling crippling depression after he left and believing that its all my fault he's gone, that I shouldn't have accused him of lying.
I hate myself so much, all i want to do is talk to him one more time and tell him i'm sorry. How do I get this man out of my head so I can function in my daily life again?
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No no no, you're not sorry, what do you have to be sorry for? The guy used you and abused you, he's the one who should be sorry. Fuck that.
Here's what you do. You start getting happy. Pretend at first if you have to, but just do shit for yourself, shit you wanna do, other than land at this assholes feet.
If he sees you're happy, it'll eat him up inside, even if it doesn't show. He wants you to come crawling back, all miserable. Be stronger than that.
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>>16784017
You have no idea how much that means to me...thank you
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Similar thing happened to me
I wAs depressed for years. One day a friend reminded me
How long it had been (5 years) and I realized I had to move on.
Dude called me up To make AA reperations said he had been drunk off his ass the whole time and Wnted to hurt me.
Hes married now which makes me sad but I have a beautiful daughter so I dont mind too much.
Sometimes I do still wish he woud come back to me and be my childs stepdad
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Should I see a doctor? 2016-02-08 22:27:04 Post No.16783998
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I had a callous-y bubble, blister type of thing on my finger and i ripped it off, then it turned to harder callous and i then again- ripped it off and weeks later of messing with it and cutting of the skin it leads to this. Now theres a hole that wouldnt stop bleeding. What is it??
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You ripped off a wart, dumbass.
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>>16784004
This.
Go get one of those wart removal kits. Have a doctor handle it if the kit doesn't work.
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>>16784004
This lol
i did that once, took ages to heal
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Hey, so I love this girl and I dont know how to get her attention. I watch all her videos and I realize im doing the exact same thing that she does with trump but I dont care I love her. Pic related. How should I get her attention? What should I do?
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>>16783973
You don't fall in love with someone by watching videos of them. That's merely obsession. Leave her alone and go meet women in real life.
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>>16783973
she looks like a fat moomins character
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>>16783986
I just want to talk to her.
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Alright, I'm heading into uni, and up until 6 months ago life was easy. I had external problems for sure, but mentally, I'd just deal with shit instantly when it came up. Now I'm on my way towards some type of weird depression where I'm lazy, I don't do anything, I can stay in bed for a week at a time, I stopped going to the gym and abandoned most of my pet projects. Everything close to me like friends, girlfriend and, to a certain degree, family, is just draining, and I find myself caring less and less.
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>>16783961
So stop it
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>>16783961
I'm in the exact same situation. I just can't be assed to do anything. I'm even laying in bed right now when I really should be studying
Advice for women on living in a "swimsuit edition" world?
I saw that phrase in a relationship book, advising men how hard it can be for wife (or gf) to live in a swimsuit edition world where there are scantily clad women and porn everywhere.
I know a few things:
A) not all men actually like the "type" shown on TV and magazines. Preferences vary widely and I see men fall hard for girls that look nothing like your typical starlet
B) I know many of these girls are complete whores and filthy and that turns guys off. I also once overheard a friend saying there are two types of girls: natural beauties and the girls that use makeup tricks to make themselves look like different people. He said when you go home with the latter you wake up and freak out when you see a different person in your bed the next am, with the first kind you wake up and your gonna grow. In the end, its the natural beauties you keep.
Now I have always been told that I am a natural beauty and I never had trouble getting male attention ever. I made long lasting relationships in whih I explored my sexuality.
I have a reputation for being a "tantric master" but not a slut. I also pursued academics and so although I try to take care of my dress and appearance I never had hours to spend learning facial contouring or any of these weird makeup tricks.
Now all through my life up until about 27 I felt great. I knew I was attractive, fun and funny, smart, great in bed, and sporty. I could be your best friend and best lover.
Then I spent a few months living in Oakland and my world shattered. All the girls were cookie cutters and whores and acted like idiots. I still had plenty of male attraction but women actively tore me down for not overtweezing my eyebrows or wearing my hair a certain way.
I havent really recovered.
I dont feel safe and secure.
I also see that as I get towards my 30s men give less and less care to cool girls or fun girls or smart girls and just want some arm candy with no personality.
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I apologize for the post being so long but I would love to hear men weigh in.
Also-- I am a white girl, blond and blue eyes. But now I see a lot of white men talking about how "exotics" are so desirable. It makes me feel insecure. Are there still white men that love white women?
> inb4 white girls get married and get fat
So do most hispanic women and filipinos
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This whole perspective seems to view relationships through the lens of "the other person's needs matter most." How about you take the same advice I give guys: figure out your needs first and do the best you can to meet them on your own. Save relationships for sharing the fruits of that labor with someone else. As for the personal details, be as good as you can for your own sake. You get to decide what "good" means.
I don't want to date someone whose entire life is feeling responsible for what I want. That's my job and I do it just fine already. That also includes my own ability to look for and find what I'm after. It's not your job to accommodate me. Figure out your own shit and I'll let you know if that suits my lifestyle.
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>>16783978
No I am not saying how do I become this kind of woman.
Im saying,
In a relationship,
You still watch TV, look at magazines, walk by women.
And a lot of these women dress and make up with the intention of giving a man a boner.
As a woman, how do you deal with this without feeling insecure?