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Anime Reviewer 2016-02-12 13:43:49 Post No.16798471
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Hey, I want to hopefully become big on either myanimelist or the anime side of YouTube. I haven't really made much videos yet, but I'd like your guys' opinions on my reviewing technique.
Link: http://myanimelist.net/profile/Brightning/reviews
I'm aspiring for a sort of comedic approach. Any sort of feedback would be greatly appreciated.
Have this picture of Karen as my way of payment, kek
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You're quite an anime buff huh
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I'm miserable at my current university; I have no friends, I spend days not eating and sleeping all day, I'm miserable, and I'm doing terrible in school because of it (3.1 GPA, 4 and soon to be 5 withdraws within 2 years). I haven't been suicidal since I was 20, but now I'm there again.
I live 2 hours away from my friends, and my best two are moving into the city near where they live. I live in the middle of nowhere in my college town, and that's one of the things I hate... I want to be in the city so bad and it's all I've wanted for a long time. I could move out with them and potentially transfer to the university in that city... and I wouldn't even lose many credits at all... if any, really.
Should I pull one of them aside and ask them about moving out with them? Or should I stick it out here and try my best to complete my degree? I am fairly certain that I can achieve a higher GPA at this new institution.
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>>16798467
My situation is much like yours...... try to see if one of your friends would ablige you.... and whatever u do do not get gf she will ruin your plan to leave the uni
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>>16798467
I'm on the same boat, but I'm enjoying t more now. Since I have no friends, I have more time to correct my GPA. I have a 2.4, although it should jump up to a bit over 3.0 after this semester if all goes well. 3.1 sounds fine, you're looking at it too grim.
Here are the important things:
>you're still in your major
>you have a nice place to sleep, shower, eat and study
You sound stressed is all. Seek counseling. It can always be worse.
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>>16798556
It's worse than you think; someone who is merely stressed out does not spend multiple days not even eating and just laying in bed.
I also grew up poor with no money, and had a miserable childhood with abusive parents. College was going to be my chance, but I've fucked it all up. I was lucky enough to find someone who is gracious enough to mentor me and basically handed me a good life on a silver platter... something I've always wanted. That person is a VP at a hedge fund and wants to help me get into the business.
A 3.1 GPA will NEVER cut it in finance, ever. I could potentially transfer to this new school and get a high institutional GPA, but my GPA is always going to hover around 3.1, as I have 130 credits of 180 already.
So, yeah... I'm stressed out and angry at myself also because I am destroying my opportunity to get something most people out of college would do anything to get even a chance at.
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How can an introverted pushover type person who got around in life with help from more experienced people be more independent?
I would like to say if i tried harder in high school I wouldve achieved more especially when I really feel like i was just getting by with decent scores. I got my first job because of my dad and now that he is no longer connected to that company i am at a lost, like literally i've always been directed towards a direction and just learn to follow through.
Goals I know I need to obtain but not quite sure how:
-Get a job (I don't even know where to start looking)
-Finish College (I dropped out because of how lax and free the college system is compared to what i was used to)
-Move out (Probably the most distant goal in mind but I'd probably feel a lot better knowing I'm not a waste of life)
I've tried going directly to my parents and counselors but I still feel like it's not as clear to me as before. If someone can give me advice on what I should prioritize or where to start it would help me a lot.
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I have an unhealthy tendency to seek validation with others, which has landed me in damaging relationships more times than I can count.
I just cut contact with a girl who more or less used me like a surrogate boyfriend. After initially telling me she wasn't interested in dating me, she begged me to stay friends with her and said she didn't want to lose me, so that got me to stick around. Turns out it was mostly because she didn't really have any other friends at the time and once she got her social life back together, I was a non-entity to her.
I decided she wasn't worth the love I came to feel for her. That I deserved way better than how she treated me. I just want to make sure this never happens again. I gotta learn how not to need anyone else like that. I never want to fall for anything like what happened with us again. Not ever.
How do I focus inward and build that self-validation?
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You don't do jackshit. You learn from your experience and avoid the same mistake. Also you fill your life with content. Something that keeps you interested and what makes you an interesting person.
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I've been living a failed marriage for ages. We are just together mainly in order to keep appearances.
Meanwhile and about two years ago I had a crush on my habitual coffe shop owner's wife. She is blonde and wondrous, and her husband is a mere nullity absolutely irrelevant. She hates him to death but there are many economic boundaries that are difficult to break, so she doesn't even dare to consider divorce.
She is not indifferent to me and we have had very good moments at the café of chatter and banter, although she refuses to have any sexuall affair as she tells me that would make her feel bad with herself. That we must content with what we have.
But recently a new actor has appeared. The owner of a near pub, two corners away. Both couples have become friends as they share same interests in that kind of bussiness, etc. But I find his interest to my secret love isn't innocent at all. And he takes advantage of his social privileges as a friend of "the family". He has begun to stay conspicously at the café, always talking to her and hoarding her. Stealing the little moments we had to be together. Inviting the husband to drink in her pub...
This situation is hurting me so bad that I am beggining to think about giving up and not going back to see her.
I am lost
tl;dr whatdo when a suave man hoards the woman you have been try to conquest for ages. And that you were being successful till the moment he appeared
Advice /adv/ I need your magic!!
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You weren't being successful with her. If you spent that much time with her and nothing was happening, I think it's a good bet that nothing will happen in the future, new pub owner or no.
Have you actually offered her something that is worthy? That you will leave your wife, and she her husband, and you will provide the support? Did you really expect her to continue being strung along by you to satisfy your failed marriage?
Hand or fleshlight?
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Sweet juicy cunt.
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>>16798413
Is it that much better?
Hello /adv/, would like some insight. While i am not a person who can say ''i have no friends''(because i have quite a few) i am constalty suffering from the fact that i may depend on them too much.
I am the one who always calls the majority of them to do something, the one who has to organize things and i get pissed because a lot of them arrive like 4 hours late to the event or something like that.
tl dr; i am pissed with a lot of friends over these things. Is this normal?
I want to make new friends, can you guys recommend places to do so? My hobbies are Comic books, cinema and books. I plan to start doing martial arts soon. Problem is, i find the majority of these fanbases just insufferable.
tips?
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Pls halp
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I want to make new friends as well, and I get what you mean by finding the majority of the fanbases you mentioned insufferable. I don't have many friends, though, and I rarely set up any meetings with them. At best, I send them a text every two weeks tops.
I'm into anime and manga. The genres I enjoy the most are, despite a bunch of generic series being fun to watch, far from your traditional action packed shounen, which is what the majority of anime/manga fans are into where I live.
Bookstores where I get manga from should be good places to make friends of at least acquaintances. Maybe look out for someone taking a look at what you think is interesting and work out recommendations for them based on what they've read. Sad part of this method is I never once saw someone taking a look at any of the things I'm into, so I just end up making acquaintances online.
It just becomes a "this and this are pretty nice, you might like them"-"you're right, this is awesome! thanks" relationship.
I don't know what to tell you, mate. Maybe try to make friends outside of your interests. If they're comfortable around you in your "comic book nerd" mode, and you're comfortable with whatever they're into, it will be way better than flinging shit at your buddy for saying he likes Superman's attire.
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Hey /adv/, just got a quick question.
Would it be a bad idea to tell my therapist about acid use? It made my depression disappear completely, but he works for the school and I'm not 100% sure of how confidentiality works and if this could possibly come back to bite me in the ass.
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Well, if he's proffesional, he must not tell anyone, it's prof. secret, but it's gambling since he works in/for school...but my adv is to tell him, cuze if you want him to help you you need to be honest with him, no matter if you think something is irelevant, you need to talk to him..(not)sorry for england
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>>16798351
I was under the impression that you could tell a therapist anything, unless it's wanting to kill yourself or domestic violence, then hey have to take action. Telling a therapist u did acid will have no negative consequences
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>>16798351
Seeing a therapist and not telling everything is as stupid as seeing a doctor and not telling where it hurts.
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Need some advice /soc/ there's this qt ginger girl that is into me but she doesn't know I have a GF. My GF is currently overseas and won't be back for 3 weeks. Do I bang or don't I bang?
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>>16798335
Bang her like in the pic OP
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>>16798335
How would feel if you found out that your gf fucked someone else while she was over there?
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>>16798337
Worse than I would if I found out she banged someone else but I had too.
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Everytime I am worrying I am shaking at the same time. How can I prevent that?
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Buspirone and Lorazepam.
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I posted this thread a few weeks ago but I'm curious to see if anyone new (or old) wants to answer, and in case anyone else is interested or curious about it:
I'd really like to know how other girls are in bed. Mainly when in a relationship.
Can you pls give me some stories?
1. How old are both of you, and how long have/were you together?
2. How was the first time you slept with your gf?
3. What are your fav positions as a couple?
4. What is she into?
5. What gets her off?
6. How compatible is your sex drive?
7. Is she into kinky stuff?
8. Are there things she won't do?
9. What would you wish she'd do differently?
10. What do you like most about sleeping with your girl?
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>25/24, since 2007
>about 4 months after meeting
>mine: manual, his: doggy
>he likes butte stuff
>anything
>his drive is way higher than mine
>he is, I'm not
>i have not found that boundary yet
>i wish he'd tease more
>i like when he's gentle, plus he's my man 100%
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Copy+pasted most of my answers from the last thread kek
>1.
I'm 20 and he's 22. We were together for just over 2 years.
>2.
Honestly, it was incredible, and very romantic. I'd stayed at his place a couple of times before we actually had sex, but we'd agreed to take things slow. Our first time together started off in his spa. We were just kissing and touching each other everywhere, it was very passionate, kind of slow but super intense. We got out and made our way inside to his bed. We didn't fuck that night, we made love. No one had ever made love to me like that before. It was magical. And the cuddles afterwards were really nice too.
>3.
Missionary with my legs over his shoulders, prone bone, doggy, doggy with him standing behind me and me leaning over the bed, 69, spooning but we also loved it when he got up into a bit of a kneeling position while I was still on my side, and cowgirl/reverse cowgirl.
>4.
Dirty talking, hair pulling, choking, spanking, bdsm (blindfold, handcuffs etc), being dominated and degraded, rape play, anal, head (giving and receiving), public sex, him fucking me when I'm asleep.
>5.
When he ate me out while fingering me (2 in my pussy, 1 in my ass is fucking great). Using my vibe on my clit while he ate me out was pretty great too.
>6.
Super compatible, we have amazing chemistry, and our sex was the best sex we'd both ever had, which is saying a lot for him. But sometimes he found it hard to keep up with me.
>7.
Yes, see 4 ^
>8.
I wouldn't stick a finger in his ass or give him a rim job (which he had asked of me a couple of times), idk I was just kinda uncomf with doing those things.
>9.
The only thing I wanted him to change was how often he ate me out; not very often, and the me going down on him vs him going down on me ratio was not very equal at all tbqh. So more often would've been nice.
>10.
Everything. Seriously, everything. But I loved when we got really intimate and passionate, and feeling/when he came inside me.
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So a while ago I started a thread and this anonette left behind her email saying that I can contact her if I have more questions on the issue. After emailing her a few times, I am starting to think that "she" is a troll pretending to give good advice. Recently, I started another thread and she left behind the same email (although she doesn't know that I'm the OP). Is there a way for me to search all the posts in which she left behind this email?
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>>16798288
Yes, there is an advice archive
http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/
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>>16798326
I want to search for an email which appears in the comment section of posts and I don't think 4plebs allows that
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>>16798329
It does. Just enter the email in the search bar and all posts (comment section of posts included) will show up.
I did something I regret and feel like I can't move on until I've fixed it.
I used to hang out with a group of people, until one of them made a fairly long facebook message about how they felt maligned and left out (posted to the whole group of us). I felt like it was mainly directed towards me, but I became very anxious and unsure of myself and didn't reply.
It's been about a year and three months since that happened and I've only seen/spoken to one person from that group a couple of times, otherwise I basically cut off all contact. The one who made the message unfriended me on facebook.
Even if we don't become friends again I at least want to apologise but I keep getting scared and backing out.
How should I handle this? (sorry for the blog post...)
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>tfw no replies
I shouldn't have posted so much...
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>>16798286
sounds like you suffer from insecurities. you probably should of apologised to that friends of your who made the message and had a discussion with him about the problem. did your other friends express how they felt about the message?
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>>16798286
What did you do to the guy, exactly, to make him feel that way? Because it's possible that you really were an asshole, but in my experience, people who make long Facebook messages about how they feel "left out" are self-centered, passive-aggressive dicks. Just because someone is always playing the victim doesn't mean they're NOT a dick. It just means they're manipulative.
If you really did treat this person poorly, you apologize and try to do better, you don't just run away and cut yourself off from everyone. Look, not everyone you meet is going to like you, you're going to rub people the wrong way sometimes, even make enemies, if you're really out there living your life and going after what you want. It should always feel bad when you've hurt someone, but it shouldn't DESTROY you like this just when you've made someone feel "left out." You're important too, you've got to put yourself first sometimes, don't just completely sell yourself out over someone else's hurt feelings.
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Why do girls like couples? I'm chatting up this girl in the park and this other random girl comes right up to me and asks directions. I thought fuck you, you wouldn't do that if I were alone as usual.
original
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>>16798268
Because in a world where women are sought after as sex and social status outlets by lonely males, couples are the only thing that make a woman want it as much as a man.
Want to get girls? Hang out with couples who need a third wheel when things are getting stale.
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>>16798268
Guys with a woman tend to be safer than the guys ogling you that are too insecure to admit it.
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>>16798268
Why do you play stupid? Why do you ask questions with obvious, sensible actions? If a guy's standing alone, and a girl asks him for directions, there's a good chance he's going to flirt and make it awkward rather than just giving the damn directions. If your girlfriend is standing right next to you, it's unlikely that you'll hit on her, which makes it much easier to get the help she needed and get on with her day
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Alright /adv/,
I kinda wanna know what this girls deal is.
So me and my ex gf where together for little over a year, we hit it off pretty good and we loved eachother a lot. Things began going downhill and she ended up breaking up with me. This was 5 months ago.
In these five months post-breakup, we have had sex multiple times and she even considered getting back together with me. One day i told her i had enough and i didn't wanted to wait for her anymore. I deleted her on facebook(i know, i know) for my own healing purposes.
When she found out, she was furious. Calling me immature and then told me never to contact her again. I said okay, and kept on doing my thing.
Skip forward a week after the "fight", she texted me asking how i was doing, and initially apoligized to me. She said she was sorry for being such a bitch. Btw, my mom just got cancer, so she said to me she is very sorry for me. She even requested to come pick me up so i could sleep at her place, so i didn't feel alone(Like wtf?) She also mentions that she wants to come to my apartment to talk to me whenever i feel like . She even said that her parents would gladly have me over for dinner some day.
I politely thanked no, because she cant have me around her little finger like that.
Whats her deal?
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>>16798267
Just like you said, she wants you wrapped around her finger... until something better comes along. For now, you're just someone from the past she can emotionally cling too.
But the real question is what do you want from this OP?
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>>16798306
This. She is keeping you as a back up plan. >>16798306
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>>16798267
Girls like having power. You took hers away.