My sister has an unidentifiable illness she is always sick and she is always tired and has absolutley no energy..... this happend last summer and now its happening again and we went to many doctors .. medical and psychological and all have said they cant help us... my gamily is distraught please help me if uve ever seen this or know what im talking about
Go to more doctors.
Depression? Chronic fatigue syndrome? Go to more doctors.
Has she been checked for Thyroid issues?
I'm a lonely fuck, pretty attractive but my personality defects keep me from getting holding down relationships with attractive women.
Should I just date a homely girl?
I think an odd looking face and general unkempt is pretty cute but I always get hung up about whether they know how to clean their fucking vagina's.
>>16799562
>pretty attractive
post pic
>>16799562
if the issue is your personality and not your looks (cough) then dating a homely girl wont matter. we all like looks but a girl would rather end up with someone she enjoys.
>>16799565
This isn't soc, so I won't unless more people ask but I'm definitely a solid 7 at the least.
>majoring in Japanese (going to graduate in December)
>really, really enjoy it, but it has dawned on me that I will probably not be able to get a job with it because
>poor auditory processing, on top of that subpar hearing
>poor lateral thinking, affects translating (I think too literally for it)
>don't want to go to Japan because that would mean sacrificing drugs and pirating media
>plus am autistic so being in a radically different environment like that would likely be too jarring
>I feel like I have a slight chance at working hard at improving my translation skills so I can get a job at least online translating JP to ENG
So basically, useless degree. On top of that, I'm not suitable for hard labor because I have shitty genes and my hands are messed up because of video games (I need surgery or work is impossible, I can't use my hands for more than an hour or so at a time).
What do? I don't need much in life, just drugs and my rig. I'm just anxious about employment, though luckily my family is fairly wealthy so I have a decent safety net. What moves do you suggest I make to secure just above poverty employment given my circumstances ($~25,000/yr)?
>>16799542
Where are you from? It really depends on that
>>16799542
god how can someone fuck up so much.
I'm inclined to say you're actually just a lazy bitch and is lying to yourself, trying to convince yourself you wouldn't get a job.
Anyway, or you translate or you teach.
You can also kill yourself.
>>16799548
The U.S.
>>16799550
Well, I've been taking classes for 4 years now, and I can say with absolute certainty that listening is my weakest point. I have trouble parsing even English words. Additionally, while I can understand anime at an acceptable level, spoken Japanese in live-action movies or real-life conversations are difficult for me because I drop and mishear words all the time.
I've considered teaching, however my lacking listening ability would likely interfere with it, but I'm willing to give that option a shake.
I can kill myself, and I have considered. I don't cling onto my current center of consciousness too much given the negatives in my life. I always have the option of using my credit card to purchase a handgun and ending my consciousness instantaneously if things seem incorrigibly bad. Things aren't quite there yet, though, but it is definitely a card I will play given the appropriate circumstances.
>recently ended long term relationship
>life is good besides this
>i want to move on but dont know how never been through this before
>i feel really lonely
Help me /adv/
>>16799537
well, why did you end the relationship?
why do you feel lonely? you opted to end the relationship. what did you think you were doing?
take some time to better yourself. read some books, hit the gym, rekindle with friends, go out and be social. figure out what you want. a relationship? something casual? nothing?
>>16799545
We did not work together. He couldn't work on himself when he was with me. At the same time he didn't want to accept this and even if he would realize it he wouldn't end it because of how loyal I was to him. We have been together since I was a freshman in highschool.
He barely matured while I have a good grasp on everything I am doing or what I want to do/achieve.
I am lonely because I loved him and I tried really hard to make it work but it just wasn't enough. And I am alone. I open up really hard to people so most of the times I am someone's close friend but they aren't mine.
And what I want totally depends on the person.
>>16799537
If you are lonely you should go meet people and socialize. What else do you expect us to say? In three months you'll barely feel any sadness over the end of the relationship. Give it time.
I don't think i have a premature ejactulation though it is somewhat below average. This wasn't a problem with my ex or previous sexual partners though there was more condom use back then.
So what do I do here?
>>16799505
The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Read the book, jump all the shit about religion and shit.
>>16799510
Does it talk about things such as how weight and sedentary lifestyles (of both partners not just the male) affect the issue?
>>16799517
Get fit do cardio be an alpha male faggot
I can't stop masturbating. Every morning, I jerk off looking at shit on my phone.
If I come home from work in the evening, and have the place to myself (not as often as I'd like) i crank one out.
I literally do this shit on the daily.
I didn't do it today (yet) and I'd prefer not to, my dick is raw in spots and needs to heal up, but I just can't stop jerking off.
I have a very active sex life too, but I'd almost always much prefer to just jerk off alone.
why does the webm not load??
>>16799455
There is no secret dude.
>>16799455
So?
Unless you gain health problems, it stops you from doing important tasks, or if you start cumming/peeing blood, there is nothing wrong with jerking it a lot
Who cares what a bunch of anons on 4chan say "oh it makes me Happier." Bullshit.
I am wanting to build something and don't kno what to build, any ideas?
Build a Harem
>>16799428
Read a carpentry book, should get quite a lot of ideas from one.
try building a real image first
I will spend 2 days in Beijing, how are chinese women? Anyone care to share some experience?
>>16799422
ask >>>/trv/
It is a stupid question tho
Not looking for advice. I have to go to the office, and give testimony that a coworker has been sleeping on the job and steeling supplies. I have the support of my superiors, but I fear reprisals from this person.
Give me your energy. I fear him to be knocking on my door if this does not go well. Wish me luck.
can you not report him anonymously?
there's this insanely cute girl that sits a few rows back from me in one of my classes. it's a large lecture class with 300+ people.
would it be considered weird if I went up after class and started a convo with her? nothing major, I figured I could just ask a question or make a comment about the class. like "hey do you know when the quiz is?" and just go from there.
I usually meet girls through my group of friends, but I realize I'm going to have to break away from that soon because I'm at my college the majority of the time.
sit next to her?
>>16799396
I can't
it's a month into the semester and she sits with friends
also I'm talking in general- for any girl in a class.
>>16799400
after-class convos arent ideal for that. sit next to them
Hey /adv/, how do you deal with stalking people too far online and then interacting with them IRL? I went too deep into somebody's Internet life (not that deep, but it's still really suspicious) and found out we have similar interests and now want to talk to them in person but I have no idea how to make it sound natural. Plus I am bad at lying. Fuck.
>>16799391
"Hey i saw something in common on social media with you, i was just looking around and found that you like ...."
Hey /soc/, how do I gather loyal pawns under me. I think it would be useful to have people that I can easily control.
>"Do my bidding you mere peasants!" "I am the ultimate superior gentleman, AHAHAHAHA!l"
Last night the police arrested my new housemate for rape, I have only spoken to him twice and have no idea or opinion whatsoever on whether he did it or not (other than he seemed a bit weird).
Didn't know him before he moved in, the landlord just throws anyone in the house who will pay rent
Will the police tell my landlord?
Should I tell my landlord?
Other thoughts / experience with similar situations?
pic is hot girl like he might have raped
bump, should I take this to /b/? They love rapists
>>16799371
i would assume your landlord would be informed. I'm not entirely sure how it works but I believe they get an arrest warrant unless he was arrested during the crime and show the landlord. I would tell the landlord just to be sure.
>>16799444
good point, completely forgot about warrants. Think I'm gonna wait out the weekend to see if anything happens then tell the landlord
Ive been doing no fap 2016 and Im worried about the side effects.
I can now get an erection whenever I want and the erections feel harder, but the girth has decreased by about a quarter of an inch. The length has decreased by about half.
Im really worried no fap is shrinking my dick. My dick is larger than average and Im happy with it, but I definitely dont want to lose size.
Ive been telling myself that its just because my dick is only at 90% erection since Im not masturbating it to get it to 100%. But I feel like thats just me lying to myself.
Am I unreasonably worried.
You mean they didn't tell you that no fap ultimately leads to no penis? It will keep getting shorter and shorter until there's nothing left.
>>16799473
This
Then if you try to masturbate and rub the place of your dick it will get deeper and deeper and you will grow a pussy. In the end you will turn into one giant cunt.
>>16799351
why are you even doing no fap? it seems completely pointless. you are just worry anyway. you can't lose dick size because you dont wank.
Been with this guy named Matt for 3 years now and we just moved in 6 months ago. We have had our ups and downs. The other night I wanted us to go out and get cake at this diner but he simply did not want to go. I didn't want to go alone. So we just sat home doing our own thing.
I know Matt and I have been this struggle, I've been more in love with him than he's been with me most of our relationship. We had discussions about moving in etc. but then we moved in and it was amazing! We mesh so well we blend together, and I fell hard.
I live this fantasy that this is it. I can't imagine my life without him. Sure I get mad about things and I have doubts like my cake theory, but on this other level I know that this is love for me. So I let myself talk about future stuff, we joke about rings and weddings etc. I talk about it with him, with friends in front of him, with friends without him etc. I have this idea that we're going well. Sure we've been living together for only 6 months but we've been together 3 years, and we've been through a lot, we know each other.
Well yesterday, Matt was talking about his financial adviser and I was never mentioned. So, I said can you stop being stubborn and just acknowledge there is some intention to save for some things...me related. but he never mentioned it, he's like sure I have a savings and there are ways I'm saving money etc.
Cont:
So I go to bed, he never comes and lays in bed with me but he decided to, so we're talking and I asked. Is it just you're waiting for some relationship point, financial benchmark, or are you still figuring us out. He said all of the above. And there it was. It stung. The still figuring us out part. I thought we were beyond that. I thought we knew, we moved in together because we had this intention. So suddenly, I felt everything all at once. I felt defeat, I felt naive, I felt dumb, I felt regrets. It's intense.
He kept saying it's a big decision, we've lived together for 4months it's always something you need to consider,weigh etc. but no, that hurt. So I told him. I'm a dreamer, I'm creative, I want that fantasy
I want to believe two people can meet and it can be so intense there is always a shread of honeymoon phase. That someone would get me cake if I merely mentioned it. That I know you would be ok if we broke up in the long run but for a moment your world would end. People get married after 1-2 years together, they know. and honestly it hurts me to pieces to hear that someone I've been with for 3 years, live with, pour my heart into and think we're at the next level is still figuring me out. I get the logical, rationale, but it hurts. I feel dumb. Like am I pushing him. when I talk about rings do I look like a silly naive girl he deals with. I feel so cut open to it.
Cont:
I do vows in my head. It's not about the wedding it's about the idea of a dedication of love. I want that! I want that feeling that this person loves me so much they are committing to a life where they can't live without me. and to find out he's not on that page. I don't know how to feel. I know we've went through this before, but then we moved in together and I thought that was the symbolism it was over that. That he figured that out. but he popped my bubble.
I want to push him away now. I want to just try to move on and find my #cake but I don't want to live without him.If i stay with him is it because he's safe and I wait patiently. or do I take a risk and find someone who can meet me and fall so in love with me it moves fast and believable to them.
It's not like I'm desperate like hey give me a ring, but the way he says it makes it sounds like we are less than what I thought we were. I want to just think of the end game, the later in life parts, I want that happiness. but he's still figuring it all out. Where do I factor. Then again NO. I don't want to be factored in, I want to be the damn CENTER. I want it to be 'you are my moon and stars'. It's not fair. I've always had low self-esteem and I want someone who makes me feel like I'm more than I think I am. Matt does that...did that..until now. I feel broke. I don't even need a wedding. I just want to believe that I am an end goal. if the wedding takes forever it takes forever but I want that idea that it's there.
Last part:
Matt farts on me. Like literally we are laying and he doesn't move sideways. He's moved on game over. haha. Sorry I sound so bitter. I shouldn't be this naive, boys need to figure it out, am I fool for rushing in? Should I be equally as level headed. Step back and love him less, vet him as much as he's vetting me. I aked him what is there to still learn, he's like well apparently you go ape shit when I don't change the toilet paper roll and send me photos. Are you fucking kidding me, you don't know if you love me because I'm annoyed I have to walk to the closet in the middle of a piss with my pants down to get toilet paper.
I dunno what I should do anymore. I feel lost. Sorry this is too long.
TL;DR, I dunno what to do with my boyfriend of 3 years who is still figuring us out. Not sure if he even wants to be with me anymore.