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I am beginning to suspect my boyfriend maybe an aro ace or at the least asexual after looking up this term on Google.
He never seems to want sex regardless of how hard I time to seduce him. He doesn't seem to be gay since he doesn't show any interest in men. He says the most important aspects of a relationship for him are companionship and cuddling.
He seems like a woman at times yet he isn't even transgender.
What should I do?
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How long have you been together? sex is a vital part of a relationship, if you're not having it you're just close friends, so you might as well break up and just be close friends.
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>>16799103
Cheating on you
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>>16799114
We've been together for no more than two years and during which time I've slowly been suspecting that I'm a sex addict just by judging how many times I've been trying at it. I'm currently thinking of enrolling in a help program.
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What is the appeal in modern girls?
I don't fucking get it. Just sex? But sex gets old quick. It's some thrusting and rubbing, and some feel-good chemicals. There's nothing to it.
And it's not like 99% of these women have any fucking personality at all. They all make the same faces in photos, they all basically just want money, home security, and dick. They only care about having a good body for themselves. They're vapid, always glued to their phones and social media, always looking for the next rise or trend to latch onto. They're complete boring idiots. This makes the sex part even less interesting, too.
Not to mention most of these girls don't want kids now. They have abortions frequently. And they'd be terrible fucking mothers to boot. They are completely and utterly pointless.
I don't get what the fucking big shit is with females anymore and why you all have problems with these skanks that cheat on you. Why did you get involved with dumb sluts like that in the first place?
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>3.5 billion women in the world
>thinks he's figured out every single one
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>>16801916
>thinks he's figured out every single one
Where did I say that? I'm talking about the majority, obviously westernized (i.e. "modern") girls.
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Do you really think it's a good idea to generalize half the world's population?
Do you honestly believe that's a smart thing to do?
I'll start off by saying I'll only date a girl who's a virgin and willing to wait a while before having sex. I'm pretty attractive and I've never had issues getting a date but I've also never met a girl I was okay with. Frankly most girls seem to be sluts. I'm starting to think I should give up since so many girls are doing disgusting things like fucking strangers on playgrounds or doing other crazy shit at parties. I'm only 20 but I just don't see things getting better so I just decided to come here for advice. I really want to believe that there are girls I would like but even the quiet girl who stays at the library doing homework by herself has even done some disgusting stuff. Is this real or some sort of sick joke?
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You can have my girlfriend, I'll take the girls you descibed. Those girls sound way more fun/enjoyable.
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>>16801660
How did you meet her? Am I doing something wrong?
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>>16801660
Cuck detected
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Is having a body shape like this a turn-off for guys?
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All men are different and have different preferences. There is no objective answer to this question.
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>>16801537
No. Would still get rock hard and rim her. Probably BO is less noticeable than on chubbier girls. Why do you ask? Is your body shaped like that?
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>>16801544
>Is your body shaped like that?
you don't say?
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What do people in relationships even do?
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>>16799034
Mostly fart on each other.
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Cum inside because IUDs are cool
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sex, dates movies...
ehh mostly eat together
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Hey /adv/,
Just got a text from my gf saying how she's at a "wild party" and she drank a shot "out of a guy's ass hole."
I find this sort of behavior extremely repulsive, especially so in a monogamous relationship. I thought she was joking or her friends had stolen her phone, but once I realized she was serious, I felt sick and angry. I've never been cheated on but I imagine this is how it might feel - ordinarily she's sweetness and light, I never thought she'd be capable of this (guess I've learned my lesson, huh). I plan to break up with her when I see her tomorrow, before a Valentine's outing we have planned (tad depressing desu, but I feel like the relationship's been poisoned a bit).
However, what stood out to me was the flippancy with which she mentioned taking the shot. She was undoubtedly drunk, but still, the offhandedness of the message was astounding - she seemed to think it was no big deal. Am I an old stick-in-the-mud for thinking this is a relationship breaker? Am I right or wrong to immediately jump to breaking up?
What do you think, /adv/?
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If it's true dump her immediately.
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Go for a walk, cool down. Then talk to her about it, then think about it. You're just letting emotion cloud your judgment right now. She didn't actually cheat, she did something stupid while drunk.
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You're not overreacting. Also, that's fucking gross dude.
If nothing else, drop her for being disgusting.
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I am fucking raging right now. I am recently married and wife is fucking pregnant even if we took all the precautions, don't ask what we have done just understand it's a fucking miracle she is pregnant ; she's the 0.01% failure rate. Pregnant from our first time after years of abstinence. Dick never met her vagina all those years because I wanted to respect her wishes because she is a great girl full of qualities (we've done kinky things though but never vaginal)
I don't fucking want this baby. I don't care about the saying "nothing happened for no reason" or whatever bs about pro-life/religious would say.
I am not ready yet, we planned it for like 5-6 years from now (we are late twenty).
Wife is really hot and I do not accept the fact that her body will be destroyed so soon in our life.
Am I a monster for thinking like this? I'd say no. Depends of the person's view on this matter I guess.
it will be decided tomorrow.
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you sure it's yours?
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Yes 100% sure.
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>>16800220
>I do not accept the fact that her body will be destroyed so soon in our life.
How so? If she takes care of herself, nothing should change.
why don't girls like me? is it because i'm not rich?
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>>16800197
It's probably your personality.
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>>16800197
not rich, unattractive personality, unattractive body/face. Most be something of those three.
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>>16800199
This.
Being successful with girls is about 99% your character, and 1% your looks.
Although if you have money you can cheat, and it doesn't matter who you are or what you look like.
It won't take you long in life to realise that all the dudes who are successful with chicks are those who a) have their shit together, b) have the confidence to ask a girl out, c) can take charge of a situation, d) treat their girl well (obviously there are some people who resort to straight up abuse but let's ignore them), and maybe some other shit.
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I'm socially awkward 2016-02-13 01:04:05 Post No.16800081
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I'm socially awkward
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How to make friends?
Also do you guys wanna chat
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>>16800081
If you're still at uni, you can join clubs.
If you've finished uni and are currently friendless like me, then I have no idea.
4chan is of very little help, more so these past few months.
I haven't seen the NEET thread in quite a while.
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>>16800124
Yeah I think truckerfag stopped posting here to avoid me. Those threads were just sad anyway.
I'm in my late 20s and doing school with a bunch of 19 year old kids. Kind of a blah situation. Also I don't have any bfs and that sucks.
My best friend is a cat and she bites me.
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>>16800139
I found truckerfag to be a smug prick.
Anyway you could still join one of the nerdier clubs, I doubt they'd have high standards.
If there was only one other thing that I regretted aside from not working harder, it is not joining the anime club.
>My best friend is a cat and she bites me.
Get a new cat?
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Can an Asian accent ever sound attractive/hot? 2016-02-12 12:16:13 Post No.16798319
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Like an accent which sounds around 90% American tinted with some Asian.
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I'm sure someone, somewhere, will like it. The same can be said of any accent.
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>>16798319
Oh yeah. I love it. Much better than that nasal eastern braying or ghetto ranting.
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>>16798352
>I love it
this is bait
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Is love possible at an older age? 2016-02-12 11:37:39 Post No.16798270
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I am 38 femanon. I never had a relationship before as I was very introverted and didn't really had a social life. Now that I moved to a new city, I am trying to change that. Is love possible at an older age? Is it very odd that I've never had a relationship? Should I lie and say that I've had a relationship or two in the past?
>inb4 you are too old, you are abnormal, you are stuck with men who are single for a reason, captain hindsight would tell you that you've been native, etc.
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How do you look?
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>>16798274
I guess I am average-looking, but I look a bit younger than my actual age (maybe around 30?)
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Pics so we can review
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Dating While Asian and Male 2016-02-12 06:39:05 Post No.16797724
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Dating While Asian and Male
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I'm Asian and male, and I have trouble dating and meeting women. Alright, I'm mixed, but majority of people see me as only Asian. I've been out of a relationship for 2 1/2 years.
Online dating is a shitstorm, and I live in an area full of old people. I can't move. I have to finish paying off my loans. My life is essentially on hold until then. How the hell can I meet women that are attractive on the inside and outside? It's like women see me as asexual.
>inb4 Elliot Rodger bullshit
>inb4 move
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>I have trouble dating and meeting women.
elaborate.
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I'm an Asian woman, but I have trouble meeting Asian men. I'm social and outgoing, so I meet a lot of people. Everywhere I go, I see:
> 90% white men
> 5% Indian
> 5% black or mexican
I guess I could hang around the Chinese Cultural Center or take kung fu classes, but seriously, it's like Asian men just play vidya all day and never go outside.
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>>16797750
Not OP, but it Depends on culture I guess, most Asians are either really insular and only hang out with other Asians, or are those that exclude it altogether and dont go for Asian men. Feels bad since I am the latter in that I have zero connection to my culture, which makes it hard to find anyone like me since they move onto other kinds of people if they do away wtih the culture I feel. Feels bad since I cant get into the insular groups because of that
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The idea of love both enraptures and terrifies me; I want to be wanted and needed almost more than anything, but I am haunted by the certainty that I'm not worth it.
>21 male, kissless virgin
>live with parents while going to college
>extremely conservative and religious family
>basically no sexual contact of any kind allowed with a woman until you're married type shit
>privacy constantly violated and constantly told what to do while I was growing up
>phone checked every day when I would come home from school, literally no texting on my phone for most of high school because they "couldn't trust me"
>get caught talking to some girl online in 9th grade when I accidentally left myself logged into my email online
>talked about some sexual shit but nothing graphic, I was a virgin after all and didn't know shit
>family treats me like absolute garbage; eldest sister literally spits in my fucking face
>literally told I'm garbage by multiple members of my family
You remember when you found out about gay people, and you thought they went after anything with a dick? That's how they treated me, like I'd try to rape anything female. They wouldn't even let me be alone with my little sister.
>fucking 15 years old with nowhere to go; forced to live like this for the better part of a year, trapped in a house full of people who think you're a monster
>has to pretend to be happy on birthdays and stuff for my siblings (i have 4 sisters) while I didn't get shit for several years
>eventually they "forgive me" and get over it, but who the fuck are they to be forgiving shit when they did me wrong?
>I have never forgiven them for how they treated me, nor his they've mentally crippled me (detailed in next post)
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Ever since then I never tried to have a relationship with a girl.
Went through high school basically conditioning myself to never think of girls as anything more than friends, even though I was hardcore crushing on a few but there was literally no way for me to have any sort of relationship without my family knowing
>can't text
>family will check phone records for call history
>obviously can't bring a girl over
>family always wants to know exactly where I am so I can't just fuck off to some girl's house every day
In addition to having no relationships, I never did anything else in school. I mean, I wasn't a loser but I wasn't exactly popular. Just kind of did my own thing. No drugs, booze, partying etc.
Now I'm where I'm at and I'm just retarded when it comes to women. I can hold a conversarion and not drop spaghetti everywhere, I can probably figure out how to ask a girl out or get her number, but when it comes to anything sexual or realizing if a girl is into me or not, it's like I'm brain-dead. I have no experience.
I don't know how to make a move. I don't even know how or when to go in for a kiss, or what to do if I can ever get a date, or how to do any of that shit.
I don't even know if it's worth trying unless I've moved out and gotten my own place. What girl would want to deal with all that bullshit?
I've been told I'm handsome and I've been rated a 6/10 on /soc/. Guys and girls alike love my beard. So hopefully I could find a girl who wouldn't mind my looks.
But how can I learn? It's like I'm handicapped. Is it even worth trying for the next 2 years until i finish my degree and can get a job and move the fuck out?
I feel lonely and depressed much of the time. I love helping people but I honestly don't have hope for my own life.
I feel like time is slipping away and I'm missing my chance and if I wait too long I'll be stuck like this forever.
What do i do, /adv/?
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Was this too much to ask of /adv/?
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>>16801255
>eventually they "forgive me" and get over it, but who the fuck are they to be forgiving shit when they did me wrong?
Christian family, then?
>I feel like time is slipping away and I'm missing my chance and if I wait too long I'll be stuck like this forever.
Nah, you got time. Sounds like you're still living at home. Are they still checking your phone and shit and interfering with your personal life?
>same 3 best friends for 5 years
>same girlfriend for 3 years
>knows my 3 friends very well
>found out she cheated on me twice on a trip to visit family
>break up with her two weeks ago because of it
>friends stop responding last week
>wake up from nap today
>snapchat from one friend
>two of those friends fucking her at once while he records with caption "lmao"
I'm spiraling down. what do I do? how do I cope? I can't stop thinking about it and I can't stop sobbing. I loved her so much. I was already so hurt by the cheating and then them ditching me. but now it's just been amplified times a thousand.
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you should learn to have some standards for the poeple you surround yourself with
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>>16801086
>friends
>girlfriend
Why did u do this 2 urself also try taking a step back and realizing how pathetic these people are
Find a hobby btw
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Stop being such a fucking faggot and enter the company of people who aren't such shitbags.
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Do you get better / more confident at sex the more you do it?
I'm 24 years old, I've had """sex""" with three girls. But I've never lasted more than about ten seconds.
With the first girl I tried on at least two occasions, but I think I was drunk both times. With the second girl I tried lots of times, not drunk. Me and her were seeing each other for quite a while. She was a great girl. I just never felt fucking confident and every time I tried to have sex ended in fucking failure and embarrassment. Then the third girl was pretty crazy and she was way more desperate for a fuck than I was... she was doing all the work and I wasn't really having any of it. I think that time I didn't come at all actually, because I was quite drunk.
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Hay broh.
I found that as long as you get past that initial first moment of feeling like you're coming you're good. You just need to slow it down as soon as you feel it.
Also, having your cock way up in the puss is a sure way to come faster. You should be getting full strokes out of your cock against the vagina. For instance, in missionary, instead of just having 3/4 of your penis in there and moving 2 cm back and forth, this in my opinion, is what causes you to come too fast - instead you should be taking your cock out so only 1/4 is still in then putting it all back in and repeat. This way for me makes me last longer, slows it down, and makes it more enjoyable.
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>>16800233
Ive only had the opposite problem. I wasnt able to orgasm from sex.
Issue was that all my life since a little child I found the peeing as far back as possible was the cool thing to do. In elementary we used to pee from the other side of the room and have contest to see who could do it the furthest.
Turns out that the muscles used to pee harder are also used during sex and control when you orgasm. I had been doing kegels since little so it took me a really long time to get off.
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>>16800233
Anytime I feel myself about to cum and i want to hold off, i concentrate on something else while taking it slow.
Pretty generic advice, but it works.