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I keep getting angry due to stress from personal problems and my moaning from this sometimes creates argument in my house

any advice in regards to controlling anger? thanks in advance.

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Was going to write my entire life's story and how my own mistakes have driven me to suicide but I realize now that I can sum everything up quite shortly
>Have high goals and high expectations for self
>Not work hard enough to achieve goals
>Fail to achieve goals
>WAAAAAAAAAH Now I want to kill myself cause I think it's too late to rectify past mistakes that brought me here.
Wat do?

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Is it cute to give your gf a stuffed animal sprayed with your cologne so she can sleep with it when you're not there? Is there an equivalent of this that girls like? A good way for them to think of you when you're not there?

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I got punched multiple times at school and now I have a tiny scar on my face somehow. It was a scab but I guess it came off when I slept. It has scarred. Others don't notice it but I notice it. What should I do. Please. I hate this scar.

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I asked out a girl and got rejected. She explained to me that she's an aromantic person and apparently can't tell the difference between platonic and romantic feelings, and feels she shouldn't date because of it. We're friends but it's kind of weird now.

I've never honestly encountered this before, and I've only heard of the term once. I have really strong feelings for her, no lie, and I really want to keep trying because I figure she just might not have ever had a guy really mean anything to her. But at the same time I don't want to incase it would be disrespectful to her.

Am I dumb? Because I feel some kind of stupid. She was a really cool friend.

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need help? need answers? i'm totally here for you...

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1a1s you c1an 1s1e1e th1e numb11er 1 is stuck in my ke1ybo1ard. I'v1e cl1e1av1ed it thoroughly, 1wh1at els1e c1an i do?

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>plan since October to move put of the country
>full around on tinder not expecting a thing
>she appears
>we chat, she likes me a like her
>go out a few times
>she is special
>everything great
>i let my guard down and crush
>go out again
>she tells me she will be away on a trip with her class and probably won't make it to see me before i leave again

..not that i could take her with me or anything but it still hurts so bad.
i have a lump/knot in my throat right now and my eyes keep getting watery.
it hurts anons. even though i knew and also i know there are many girls out there..
i don't know if i need any advice.. too numb now..

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>met a girl at poetry club last Thursday
>another meeting tonight
>slam poetry event tomorrow night (I think slam poetry is cringey but hey, common ground)

Should I ask her if she wants to go to it tomorrow night? If so, should I suggest meeting there or meeting somewhere else before going? Supposedly there will be coffee/tea/snacks at the slam so I dunno about getting food beforehand. Plus a meal and poetry slam would be a big commitment for a first date type of thing. The slam's at 8 IIRC.

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My grandfather has terminal cancer and dementia. I've been his carer for the last 10 years, and I'll be completely honest, since about 3 months ago, I don't enjoy his company anymore; not because he does 'embarrassing stuff', but because I can't have a conversation with him. He just rambles. And he doesn't want to do anything except watch TV, despite my best efforts to get him to help me with baking cakes and whatnot.

I'm going slightly insane, and part of me really wants the nightmare to end. I feel both guilty for my feelings and completely helpless, and it doesn't help that he gets aggressive whenever we try to get doctors/nurses/social workers to help. And even I draw the line at putting him into a home (I'm based in the UK, where carehomes don't have the greatest of reputations)

How do I stop going insane

How do I stop disliking being around what was once my best friend

How do I stop feeling guilty

Advice/help/motivation please.

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I’m fairly drunk, so please excuse anything that doesn’t make sense. Mild drunkardness was the only state in which I could do this. Whatever this is.

I have something to say, but saying it would mean that I’ve said it, which I’ve always said is ‘too chocked by finality’, or however the saying goes*

But here I am with the thing gathering steam on my tongue, and I gotta get it out before it burns my mouth.

I can no longer tell the difference between opinion and fact, between earnestness and sarcasm or an artwork and an ad. I’m not saying this is a bad thing, as, if history dictates, it could be a phenomenon confined to my mess of a mind, but I feel as if someone’s gotta take to the internet with a color coded binder system, separate the things from the other things and give every single thing a clear label.

Strangely, even though my relationship with the net is as tangled as a Guinness Book of World Records-acknowledged game of Twister, I relax into that mass of sweaty limbs and bad breath and laugh as if I’m having the best of times. It feels like home to meet the eyes of a bright screen, to press ‘refresh’ and ‘see comments’ and ‘back’ and ‘forward’ and back and forward and back and forward until oscillating URL’s rocking me to sleep.

Okay, so I’m avoiding the real reason for this rant, and being a bit of a wanker, sorry. The whole purpose of this is to explain an embarrassing truth to a particular woman. A woman who I will not name, but who needs to hear the following. Once I allude to the details, she’ll know this is addressed to her. I apologise to everyone else who has to suffer through this (that is, if anyone is nice enough to share it anywhere at all), but there’s no other way I can think to get it to her.

From here on out, I’m going to call her ‘you’, purely so my mind doesn’t run off track.

Hey you.

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I'm renting a room in my house to this girl. She hasn't paid the rent in 2 months. I let it go last month but I told her if she didn't pay the next then she'd have to pack her things and go.

No money has come my way. I feel guilty because she has nowhere else to go but what else can I do? Should I give her more chances?

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Would it help showing a girl I deeply care about her by taking a shit at her doorstep every morning?

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I got trolled and swet my iPhone to 1970 and now it won't even turn on. Is it completey fucked some people said letting it die works but other people said it'd bricked. How the fuck CA changing the date brick my phone

Yes I know I should have got android

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>Ex and I break up because we're both assholes.
>I make advances after, stop when she tells me to.
>Chick flirts with me every time I see her.
>Tell her to stop leading me on, because I ain't no scrub.
>Then she comes over and we fuck a week later.
>She starts gushing about how much I've matured and whatnot.
>We make plans to meet the week after. Day of scheduled plans, she tells me she has a boyfriend and feels super guilty for what she did. She cancels.
>proceeds to tell me she loves me, then sends me random luls and pictures of herself a few days later.

This is a retarded situation, senpai. Part of me feels like there's a good chance she's just toying with my emotions. However, my heart and dick are steering my brain right now, and I want you to criticize my plan going forward.

We're meeting alone at my place next week to cook and chillax all day, and I figure it's an opportune to figure out where the fuck we're going from here.

Plan A: Make romantic advance, succeed, discuss future in post-coital victory bed.

Plan B: Advance fails. I confront her firmly but kindly. "Why would you say you love me, send me pics, and continue to see me if you didn't want me? I want to see you, and work through our bullshit and enjoy each other."

If she refuses, then I'll tell her to stop fucking with my emotions and let me move on with my life.

What do you think?