I've never been able to fall asleep in bed with a gf. I can never rest enough to get sleepy. I've tried taking gravol and beer to put me to sleep but that didn't work either. It takes me about an hour to fall asleep alone and I wake up often. What do?
>>16781591
Holy fug I never thought I would encounter someone sharing this feel. It takes me forever to fall asleep with another person in the same bed. Maybe it's because I like/am used to the cold helping me sleep and someone else's body heat prevents that. I used to be moderate to bad insomnia but it is no longer an issue when alone so I have no idea.
exercise more
Same. I'm exhausted after my bf has slept over. Help
Anons, how do you let go and stop playing games? Like, say you are in a situation when friend of opposite sex is being super shitty and you want to stop being friends but you fucking can't let go because you miss them and still hope they can change and stop being twatty...
I have shitload of different problems but this asshole keeps me awake at night because I want one last conversation and learn some truths and then let go but I can't get it, so I'm becoming more and more salty with every passing day
>>16779998
I thought this board was called advice not ignore
>>16779998
Get some real problems?
>>16780314
I have plenty real problems my sweet dude, but this one is bugging me the most. It's probably because when I think about it I don't think about my big serious problems
Hey /adv/ my dog has this weird bubble and scratch on his eye. It looks like it's on his cornea and it doesn't seem to be bothering him. Should I take him to a vet?
>>16779997
It's on the center of his eye if you can't see it.
You can if you want, but if it's not a detriment to his daily life then it'll probably be advised to ignore it.
Yes, he needs to go to the vet. Find out what a trained professional says, not the dumbass on the internet.
This is his EYE.
I have very little experience with MMOs, I've mainly stuck with single player RPGs for a long time. However, I've recently found the concept of co-op gameplay in an open world really appealing. I thought ESO would be what I wanted. Unfortunately, despite being the perfect type of game, it was, as we all know, a massive steaming pile of shit. In my search, I've seem a number of games that look pretty good. WoW doesn't seem terrible, but the visual style of the game makes me want to vomit shit all over myself.
I love the MMORPG aspect, but I'm looking for a game, sci-fi, fantasy, shooter, whatever, that lets me run around an open world and play co-op missions as well as PvP.
tl;dr
What's a good MMORPG?
Pic unrelated
>>16779066
I went threw the same phase arojnd 4 years ago when dark souls first game out. All I wanted was a dark souls game with coop. Basically a full rpg with completely integrated coop and multiplayer.
Sadly that's as close as we are right now. Most coops are fps or platformers. Doubt they'll have anything close to what we want for a while, too niche.
Too big for singleplayer and too small for mmo. That's the way the market sees games like that.
Also
>>>/v/
I really like playing SWTOR, but mostly because it has a fully-voiced story. I switch between it and WoW every few months.
The nice thing about TOR is that you get all of its "expansions" free for subscribing, so there's less cost overall than with WoW.
>pretty sure its PvP is mostly unsupported though
Shave or no shave /adv/? It doesn't look quite that messy after I shower.
>>16799368
hard to tell without the rest of ur face. kindal ook ugly either way so just do what makes you comfortable. i recommend a shave generally
The sideburns are kind of messy, your chin needs filled out some more, and all-around it could be better. It's not terrible from that view though; I'd have to see your whole head to say if it doesn't work for you.
>>16799368
Better to be clean shaven than have shitty facial hair. Get rid of it and embrace the fact that you can't grow a proper beard. I've had to do that, too.
Hey /adv/ i've been in an Long distance relationship for almost 4 years now, and the last time i saw my partner is going to soon be 3 years ago because we're both poor. This is not an open relationship
My significant other is a fantastic person who has been great to me. This relationship has also been wonderful. Recently, however, i've been really missing having a physical relationship, as well as an emotional one and I find myself attracted to other people in my life. I'm torn on the matter because I feel like my attitude is selfish (SO's been 10/10 since the begining). I know that this person is something special and i'll most deffinitely end up regretting it if i leave them.
Does /adv/ have any advice for ignoring attraction to others ? How have you coped with your LDR? What do you think i should do ?
I cope with mine by getting engaged and soon to be married. Doing the marriage visa for the US since she's international, the whole deal. Make the commitment.
That's how I cope with it. Now we just imagine when we'll be together and doing that.
My point is that if you want it to work, if it's worth it for you, then it better be worth it to make some real changes in your life, meaning uprooting yourself, your job, your friends and everything to be with your SO or have that person do it for you.
If you can't do that, then your relationship isn't as strong as you might think and you might as well stop wasting everyone's time.
Either put in the effort and get together for real or don't.
>We're poor
I say this as someone who makes $7.50 an hour before taxes and works 20 hours a week maximum. I eat almost nothing to save up all the money and walk absolutely everywhere 100% of the time.
Get going. Or don't. If it were worth it to you you'd already be doing this you lazy shit.
>>16799177
I literally don't understand why people put themselves through long distance relationships, it seems like such a terrible idea especially if the two of you don't have the funds to see eachother
>>16799221
If OP takes my advice and does >>16799217
then that shouldn't be a problem.
Anyone can get a small job for $7.50 an hour given enough time. Then it's just a matter of how much OP actually gives a shit.
If he/she doesn't care enough to do that, then don't fucking ask for advice about it because he/she hasn't really tried.
I have reoccurring dreams that my boyfriend is a homosexual. I am starting to believe it and notice little gay things about him.
Is my subconscious trying to tell me something?
imho it knows more than you think - we are slaves to the subconscious
What gay behavior is the fag exhibiting . Absurd dreams are a direct link to ones self conscious
>>16798735
What does this mean?
>>16798739
I noticed he flirts with his gay friends and acts out in a way. He tries to be really funny and over the top... which is not like him around other people. He's usually a bit quiet and reserved but around the gays, he is almost animated.
He isn't really into sex or talking about sex. He changes the subject or just agrees to quickly move on.
He sometimes walks a bit too effeminately
He notices shades of make up colors
He doesn't like me wearing anything too feminine
He has low testosterone levels
...To name a few.
My wife is self conscious about her breasts being small.
Would it be horrible to gradually psychologically influence her to get implants?
>>16798653
I mean if she wants them. Manipulating your partner can lead to some bullshit later that will probably kill the relationship anyway, so if you do I hope your okay with someone else grabbing those twins you paid for. Plus their going to hurt and kill the feeling a bit especially if she does have tiny breasts cause their more sensitive when there small.
>>16798653
It wouldn't be all that weird to bring up the topic of implants, but it'd be super-weird to engage in a long campaign of manipulation against your wife. It kinda suggests you don't respect her or care what she wants. She's a person, not an anime character. Everything about your post gives me the creeps
>>16798712
She doesn't want implants now but she wants bigger boobs so I figure I can reduce her psychological resistance... I would pay of course. I'm getting my nose done later this year myself actually.
This chick has started to compliment me that i look good
Is this good shit?
It must he good. Korean girls are hot.
Fuck yea. She hot as fuck. Unless your gay or something go for it.
>>16798449
Holy fuck she's cute
Should our generation be tougher?
I always have this nagging feeling that I should be tough like my grandparents were. They were tough as fuck. They got on with things and didn't complain. I have spent quite a lot of time with my grandma recently and it's actually quite shocking just how different life was back then, in the middle of the 20th century.
Does anybody else feel this?
My grandmother was raped by Russian soldiers during their occupation of East German, almost starved to death several times and thinks that I'm spoiled for not suffering like she did. She has borderline personality disorder and PTSD and abused the shit out of my mom.
I'd rather not emulate her example, and seek to be a healthy, well-rounded individual instead.
Im sure they complained just as much, just didn't have the venues to let thousands of others read those complaints...
>>16796474
I did. Then i thought about it a bit more. The problem is people these days are made to act mature before they actually are.
Rather than doing stuff when they're ready, people feel pressured to go to school or start relationships when they don't have the means to succeed. That anybody does succeed at all is blind luck.
Help me /adv/
I found out today that my absolute 10/10 boyfriend looks at gore. At first we kind of clicked on it and talked about it a little. Every once in a while I like to look up gore because a little sense of mortality in the back of the mind keeps me humble and helps me come to terms with my own mortality. But now that it's sunk in a little I'm uncomfortable that he does it. I asked him earlier why he views it -thinking his reasoning would be similar to my own- but he just said that he doesn't know and kind of changed the subject. Which makes me think he won't share the real reason. He's funny and educated and extremely social but he has a hidden sadness inside him, like he's always holding back or being held back by something. We've been together almost 6 months. I'm worried about going forward, possibly being the girl who missed all the red flags and ending up in a suitcase. On the other hand, I do it too but at least have concise reasoning for doing so. I don't want to break up with him. I know it makes me a hypocrite but I'm not sure I can get past this.
What should I do?
Hidden sadness is kind of a red flag. That pretty much means his funny and social self is just a way to sell himself. Also much gore usually means he has some deep rooted problem and looks for justification.
Let him do what he wants? Why does it matter so much to you?
Some people just have a bit of morbid curiousity. There's nothing wrong with that.
Anything else you noticed?
How does girl jizz taste?
Like airports or new rubber tires smell.
>>16796085
Not much. Slightly salty.
Also fuck you for making me taste my own fluids you sick cuck.
Salty milk and coins
so my mom bought me a honda ruckus
how do I deal with this disappointment
>backstory
>be me
>want motorcycle all my life
>begged my mom 24/7
>mom buys me a mazdaspeed protege (orange, yuck)
>get really upset
>not even the stickshift makes it fun
>decide i've had enough
>crash it
>keep begging my mom for a bike
>multiple arguments and fights over course of 6 months now
>eventually she caves in
>she says she has a surprise for me for my birthday
>two wheels and a honda
>birthday comes
>its pic related
i grimaced
my mom was smiling but i just shook my head
she got all red and told me to take it out for a ride
i said no i said she has to return it
she said she cant
what should I do?
Get a job and buy your own bike. Stop being so rude and abusive with your mother. Take a long hard look at your life. Learn carpentry.
Holy fuck how old are you OP?
Whats with your dad? You didn't mention him in your story?
>>16795944
You got a bike and you're still complaining?! How spoiled are you?! Fuck you.
Hi, I need money and was really hoping to get a job that pays more then minimum wage. I make 9.75 at my DQ, which isn't bad at all, but I'm getting tired of fast food. I'm thinking about getting a job in roofing that pays 12/hr. It's hard work but I don't mind. Is there anything else I could do that doesn't require a degree and pays decent, I'm going to college right now.
Carpentry is a fast growing industry that pays well and there's a ton of opportunity for upward mobility within the company. Try talking to your local carpenters to see if you can land an apprenticeship.
>>16798953
Do apprentences make good money? I maily want this job just for the summer fall season. But i could do it year round I guess and completely quit my other 2 jobs if it pays well
I couldn't find the old ones/couldn't reply. I've tried everything. I can't fall asleep at night, I can't get up in the morning. It's nothing I'm stressed about. I don't lie awake thinking about anything. It's absolute silence inside my head and I only fall asleep after midnight. If I get in bed at 5:00 pm, I'm still awake by midnight so I wake up at 7:35. I'm supposed to be up by six thirty so I should be dead by 10:30. It doesn't matter when I'm in bed or what I do. If I read a book I drop the book on my face at midnight. If I do nothing, I watch the clock until midnight. If I do the breathing trick, I count my breaths until midnight. If I look at my phone, I pass out at 2 am. Doesn't matter how tired I am, I can't sleep. Indian alarm clock just makes me piss myself. Noises don't wake me up anymore. In fact, if I'm cooking something and I use my phone's alarm as a timer, my food burns. I'ts like my brain convinced me that the alarm clock sound is a hallucination or recollection rather than a reality they warrants reaction. Sometimes when I hear it, it makes me drowsy, not enough to actually knock me out, but enough to make me useless. Math alarms made me able to do math in my sleep. I tune out everything.
Even physical force doesn't work. I told my roomie to slap me once. He's my brother too, so he has more than enough motivation, and I still slept in. He told me after the fact that he dislocated his shoulder from hitting me so hard. I didn't even feel it.
People talking makes the dream more convoluted.
Sleep cycles just wakes me up (admittedly restfully) at 8 am.
Help me.
wake me up (wake me up inside)