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Define "addicted."
If you're able to go to work/school/pay bills/associate with friends & family( ie: whatever human obligations you have) then is it really a problem? People watch porn. Some people do it every day. Multiple times a day. If other aspects of your life are suffering because it's ALL you do, I suggest therapy. Honestly.

I fell for a girl and porn/fapping just wasn't that satisfying for me, so I stopped.

>>16860235

Having sex with real live women makes porn seem less exciting.

Don't do it dude. You don't need it.

Let me tell you something, OP. I grew up ignoring women completely. I had a few female friends as part of my crew in high school, but that was it. However, at some point after turning 18, I picked a girl I knew and said to myself "I'm going to fuck her."

Soon enough, that's exactly what I did.

Girls aren't that hard, m8. You've just gotta have confidence in yourself.

>>16860222
That's fucking stupid. Losing your virginity to an escort cheapens the experience of losing your virginity simply because you paid for it when you should be capable of doing it yourself.

Why do you care about having sex so much anyway? Don't you have more important things to concern yourself with, like your professional life or developing your self confidence to the degree where you don't actually care about whether or not you are a virgin?

How old are you, OP

>>16860230
How do you go about doing it anyway, especially when talking to girls that you don't know? I don't have that much experience, and a lot of the time I just end up flirting at inappropriate times and coming off too strong when I do start trying to pursue someone.

I don't have confidence issues, but girls seem more interested in me than I am in them.

ru4real

false

I've had about 20 girlfriends and never even raised my hand

False, going to jail over material objects is retarded thinking.

>>16867106
False. A girlfriend isn't your wife or property. Hitting her to keep her in line with your needs or to pay you back for his you feel about her is uncalled for and wrong, just as it is to act that way toward any friends or family. If she were to hit or endanger you in someway, then that's a different story.

>>16860202
Lead with:
Do you want to go get a drink?

A huge percentage of women on those things will complain about how guys chat them up for too long before asking to meet in person. If she wants to, she will. If she didn't want to, she wouldn't have anyway.

>>16860227
Right, that makes sense, i'm sure I have some mild autism or something, this is all really hard for me

I just met a guy on tinder and we had a few decent chats over 3 days and ended up talking about movies and he asked me out. I wouldn't wait too long because if it were me I would be worried it wouldn't go anywhere.
But it's weird when you have an OK conversation once and they ask you out right away.
So for me 3 days of good conversation was perfect.

We have this thread almost every day

If you're not sure, try it.
Personally i have decent success with it (but I always fuck up by fapping and then almost instantaneously it's like, I fuck up irl too)

>>16860201
So I havent fapped since 5 days before 2016. I will say this, at first there were a host of benefits, but right now Im afraid my dick is shrinking. By a lot. And Im kinda scared.

>>16860198
Dude it's fucking Walmart.

Wear an Affliction shirt and carry a monster energy in with you.

>>16860198

be clean.

if you're smarter than the one interviewing you, dont be surprised and then come off like an asshole, just calmly agree with them and ask questions politely if you have any.

if intelligence is comparable, then appear relaxed and don't interrupt others when speaking.

>>16866503
Y'know, maybe as an outsider you see only that, and what about being fat? That doesnt mean anything, you know the saaying: love is blind. Most likely they are nice with each other, and that's all that matters for them. As i can see, you're a bit jealousor you have a crush on him, amirite?

>>16866515
I'm not going to lie, I do, I have been after him for some time but he hasn't ever shown any interest.

So when he started dating this girl, I felt insulted, shes this gross, autist nerd... shes not attractive, she is a chore to talk to... shes one of those people that make you cringe hard.

men don't really get to choose who's attracted to them.

Drop the fedora and do something about it. Perhaps train on your own and gain back your confidence? Or just deepen your knowledge and skills in a different field?

>>16860165
You just had a taste of reality, and now you're feeling guilty about it

Either enlist or don't complain about how "hard" your life is

>>16860165

>how can you ever compare yourself to-

why would you need to compare yourself to them? unless you're going into army training why worry about it?

>>16860120
Sure.

>>16860120
High school is a breeze compared to uni. Depending on his studies, trying to juggle a part time work with it could prove to be a whole lot more difficult.

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>>16860120

Seems weird and dysfunctional to have a relationship based on ultimatums.

High school drop outs spend their lives pumping gas and living in trailers, btw. Drop out if you want to, just look forward to having a completely shit life.

go back to her. who needs men amirite

>>16866460
imagine the opposie situation, your bf and his friend drunk playing a game which ends up in him sucking his friends cock after some teasing. what would you do

This is nuts. You had no idea she was bi or curious or liked you a little bit? Or was it really just a bad joke? I guess it just being a joke would be possible but she asked for more. It is rape but both drunk I don't think it'd go anywhere legal wise. Have you talked to her since?

>>16860109
How old you going to be?

>>16860137
20.

Driving in a motorway is so much easier than driving in towns and cities. If you're scared, try a professional driving instructor. They know how to handle nervous people.

>>16860108
That's why you start slow.

Go out to a part of town that is sparsely populated and practice driving there.

As you learn to control the car and all that then you start driving on more populated roads.

The more experience you have, it's like a second nature after a while.

>>16860108
You just do it. Reading manuals doesn't help that much other than to remember your basics. You'll likely fuck up a few times but that's bound to happen.

My advice: get out into the countryside or a seldom-traveled mountain road. Get comfortable with the car in a low-stress enviornment. Take it slow, get the experience you need. Then attempt the motorway. Do a loop around your city. It's really quite easy, and will even be fun after a while.

If you need further reassurance head h/o/me

>>>/o/

Don't be a retard

>>16866251
But that other girl is offering threesome sex, emotion-free
Simply a good sex whenever and however I want.
I'm confused

>>16866251
He's already questioning it enough to where he wants someone to tell him it's a good idea. He's on /adv/ to find someone to rationalize it for him and agree with his stupid decisions.

I'd say OP is already a retard. A non-retard wouldn't need t come to /adv/ and could sort this out on their own, but like I mentioned he just wants to hear someone tell him it's okay.

>>16860105
>dating a guy for the second time
Stopped reading there. He's probably cheating

>>16860105
Why you like this guy so much?

If I did that to a girl she would clip my nuts.

>>16860112
>>16860116
Besides this incident the changes he's made since our first try are astounding. We had gained such a deep trust of each other so it's really sad to feel it falling apart again. Maybe I am just stupid for thinking he could change but it seemed like he had grown up so much since then. All of the original bad shit happened in 2012, so it's been a while.

Also should add that this girls Instagram was 90% selfies of her and 10% shallow shit like pictures of food or bragging about books she may or may not actually be reading. So he is obviously trying to see her selfies on a daily basis, which is what bothers me most about him following her;wouldn't mind so much if it was pictures of things related to his hobbies but nope, just a bland but pretty Instagram girl.
I didn't feel brave enough to mention this to him though. It seemed like I was pissing him off so I didn't want to go on and on.

Not really into your advice, no, but I got completely cockblocked today so if you relate some of your drunken sluttish antics I'll be on the edge of my seat.

>only 7 shots
>not going to be awake long

how do you party without getting raped
my girl can punish half a quart easily within the hour and be fine the whole night. and she's also a drunk slut.

>>16860097
Not advice but just a general question

Are you the type of slut who enjoys being a slut, are you the kind of slut that hates doing slutty things but physically can't stop, or are you a slut that feels compelled to do slutty things out of guilt because someone had boundary issues with you at a young age?

No judgement, it's a legit question