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>>16861110
Don't compare your art to that of others', only compare it to your old art. See how you've improved. Redraw old art to prove to yourself that you're continuously getting better. Focus on yourself only, but do take inspiration from the techniques of other people to help be where you want to be.

Had same problem when I was younger.

Mature, realize that you're not and never will be the best artist and that there are 9 year olds who are better than you. Accept that fact and focus on getting better.

Just like you'll never be the prettiest, smartest or richest person in the world. There's always someone better so stop acting so entitled.

>>16861119
The problem is that I discarded all of my old drawings, and from all my experience, I didn't improve that much, I can't even drawn scenarios with perspective or finish with ink. For a person like me drawing for 9 years it's a humiliation to see someone younger doing better than me.

Sorry, typo. "do you think backing out..."

>>16861093
Fuck yes. You're doing them a favour. You owe them nothing. You're not offering a legal service that binds you by contract. You offered to gift people stuff, and it's up to you when to call it quits. Judging by 'a couple hundred dollars in less than an hour', you've already gifted more than enough.
They're just bitter they missed out on a freebie, and feel they're entitled to it. They're not. Because they're all anonymous, they can get away with acting like spoiled brats, and there's nothing you can do about that.

My advice to you is enjoy the kindness you have given people, but understand your limits and ignore those who don't. There's a difference between being kind and being exploited.

>>16861207
Cool, thanks! I think I felt obligated because I expected some response and to stay organized and fair, I stated it in a business-like, rulesy fashion. It almost sounded contractual at times but it's a 4chan post, not a contract. Maybe you're right!

>>16875081
kill yourself.
we dont need more useless eaters

>>16875081
Go work for a foster house.

>>16875082
what the fuck man I'm asking because I don't want to be a NEET I want to contribute in life have a family fuck off.

at least you know that you can enjoy it...

I was disappointed the last and only 3 times I've had sex. To be fair, I didn't really like the girls. But I still didn't have any fun

>>16861123
Maybe it's because I wasn't into it?

All my sexual life has been full of very passionate encounters, and this is the first time sex leaves me a cold feeling... It makes me feel like I have some sort of sexual dysfunction or something, I feel ashamed and as if it were my fault, I don't know why I feel like this

>>16861140

I've felt like that everytime I've been with a girl.. It sucks. I don't know why

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>>16861064
>asks girls out
>gets no
>ermagerd Deutsche frauen are so stuck up

Nothing is with german girls, maybe it's with you? I've lived in many plances all over the world except for South America, and I've mostly gotten "yes", with a few "no"s every now and then.

You sound buttmad, maybe you shouldn't take it so personally? Anon I'm sure you aren't that bad of a person, because I'm sure as hell while Germans are arrogant (rightly so for many reasons, wrongly so for just as many reasons; just like any other nationality), it would be childish to assume that girls are stuck up for turning you down.

>TL;DR Deutsche Frauen don't owe you anything, and you don't owe German girls anything, either
>stop being buttmad

Have you googled German culture tips or courtship etiquette? You might be shooting yourself in the foot by being too flirtatious or giving empty icebreaker compliments.

Or maybe they don't want to get an American STD. Whatever.

>>16861064
Because you can't meet up with them again because they have to go back... to Germany???

Presuming you live in Europe and they have to take a several hour long train ride to go to wherever you live and back.

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Maybe,
if you at good.

Yes. You'll probably need to go with another person so they know you're not there to an hero.

A lot of ranges require you to either be 21 or have a 21 year old with you in order to rent firearms

Don't lead him on. Unless you love him you shouldn't be with him.

>>16872665
if that other dude pursued you, would you drop your bf?

>>16872676
This. Don't be a shitty person.

>>16872647

have you actually tried excercising more?

like 2 hours a day?

See another psychiatrist and see if you can get a second opinion.

>>16872652

I run, lift weights and play ddr.

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Come on guys, it's not another "a girl looked at me what does it mean" thread

Don't be afraid of failure man. U need to be happy with who u are now. Life isn't all regular assholes crack it up to be. If they don't accept u u just have to move on. Don't let it destroy u. U seem like a good lad and I wish u the best man. Hope this helps.

I don't regret anything. Thermodynamically there is no way you could have been anything but what you were, and where you are now is the end result of what you've been.

In other words, you are a better person because you were a bad person. There's nothing to regret.

/troll

>>16872411
Why on earth do you think this is a troll? I just want to understand what they're doing.

Impossible to answer that.

Personality
Demeanor
Approachability
Style of dress
Hygiene
Racial/regional bias
Any other seemingly arbitrary thing.

Take your pick.

Unfortunately we can't control our emotions so I'm afraid there's not much you can do. Trying to repress it doesn't work. But you can change the circumstances. Maybe limit the amount of time you see them?

Also why do you want to slow the process down for a couple of weeks?

>>16861031
Don't force your feelings.
It's a rule that if you try to suppress an emotion, you'll only see it return with more power. Likewise, seeking an emotion will yield the opposite.

The best you can do if you're feeling things you don't want is try to change your circumstances so you can avoid the source of this feelings. In this case, spend less time around him, keep yourself busy, etc. If you have to be honest with him about how you feel, be honest.

In time you'll get the right emotions again.

>>16861060
Well it is just that I don't know how things are going to work out so I don't want to get ahead of myself

Dogs are stupid

Not only is surgery not usually that big of a deal (imo, med fag here.) unless it is something really fucked, but you worrying about your sister is something that is completely useless. It doesn't matter how much you worry, you can't change what may or may not happen.

Focus on the things that you can change as your first priority, your finals. Then, focus on things you can change a little, such as getting a new pet, or find new female companionship.

It's a honeytrap.

>>16861042
knowing my luck it probably is.

(nah, it's not).

>>16861022
You've got a great girl, you like her, she likes you. That's awesome. Even if you don't think you deserve her, she sees something in you that she doesn't see in others. So find out subtly what she likes about you. That should help. If it doesn't, just go with the flow, and when you two have become good friends (because a relationship must be between not just lovers but good friends as well), tell her about this and she should help you.

>she chose you
>She's better than you, and she chose you
>that makes you better than all the guys who you think are better than you
>and she didn't chose THEM
>SHE CHOSE YOU

Using your own laid out premises, I hopefully demonstrated to you logically that you should feel slightly better about yourself. But hey, humility is a good thing; you're just overdoing it. A lot.

>>16872201
oh my being a girl is so hard.

>>16872212
sorry i forgot that only guys are allowed to whine about being beta :*

>>16872235
pls
all your problems would be solved by saying "Yes", "Sure" or "of course", then the guy would have to take care of everything afterwards. You have to do nothing else.
also what's your mother language? Either I miss the point entirely or you are whining about the silliest thing ever.

>>16861008

learn your lesson

something tells me this isn't the first time

>>16861016
But what do you mean?? I just want to have things like they were amd i'm sorry for fucking up

Be honest OP, have you "thrown fits" about her schedule before? 'Cos this doesn't sound like a first-time deal.

If you want to try apologising sincerely and in depth, Snapchat isn't really the best medium to do it with. Text her if you want, but don't be surprised if she ignores that too. You might have fucked up too hard to fix, in which case all you can do is learn your lesson and move on.