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>>16871336

ask him. hes willing to talk about it. so ask. say
>did you want some bdsm type thing? or do you just mean you want me to be more active i.e. riding your cock as oppsoed to laying there and getting fucked. dirty talk? roleplay?

go into all the details. use this as an opportunity to explore your own sexuality as well. talk about alternating fantasies maybe

Did he mean aggressive or assertive? Talk it over with him OP.

>>16871342
I'm confident that he meant aggressive, he really enjoys it when I use teeth and take the lead

>>16871340
I think I might, I just really don't want to disappoint him and make him feel like I'm uncomfortable with it. I'm almost always on top- in fact I've only been on bottom 4-5 times in a our one year relationship.

Also I used to wrestle with my ex before sex does anyone think that that's what he'd like?

Dick and balls

>>16870980

>suicidal depressed

have you been to see a psychiatrist? regularly i mean.

>>16871010
>have you been to see a psychiatrist?
I've had bad experiences with them.

>>16860883
Eat healthy measure calorie value of everything that goes in your mouth,and start running

Yes it is. Use EVERY opportunity to walk. To get groceries, to work, to run errands, and so on. Even small shit like taking the stairs and choosing a far away parking space, get off one station earlier adds up!
Going for a run is one of the cheapest, easiest available and effectivest exercise you can do to loose weight fast since it burns a fuckton of calories. You could also get a rowing-machine or a stationary bike on craigslist. Add in bodyweight exercises like push-ups and squats. At first you don't necessarily need any weights. If you want to you can just use waterbottles to make it more difficult. Iater you can get some second-hand weights cheaply. That's all you need!

Also, if you want to eat healthy, go for chicken breasts, minced beef, EGGS (if im on a very tight budget i always go for eggs for protein. Shit's yummy, versatile, cheap, you can stack up cause it keeps so long, it's easily and fast prepared), tuna (in water, not oil), feta, whole wheat oats, carrots, tomatoes, cucumbers, leafy greens, apples, bananas, ananas, and nuts. I also get milk and plain joghurt for my oats. I eat them
With the bananas and other seasonal fruits every morning. I add in lineseeds for fibers and chia for protein but that's entirely optional. Those are widly available healthy things that give you a lot of bang for your bucks!
My favorite snack might be homemade hummus. Oh my fucking god this is so delicious! I dip carrots and kale chips.

>>16870510
How old are you?

>>16870510
Improve yourself

Currently you are the lowest hanging fruit my friend

>>16870515
27, i've been told I look like i'm 20 though by almost everyone.

>>16870517
What do you mean?

>>16860877
>Is this supposed to happen?
yep.
After a few days you also can pull of the white skin. Might sound disgusting, but it really tastes delicious, give it a try

jesus christ thats truly disgusting.

>>16870180
DXM is a legal drug
And if you're small like me you don't have to chug a whole bottle of cough syrup to feel nice

Just show up at parties and drink you American faggot

>>16870188
I'm six foot lmao. Is DXM actually worth your time
>>16870204
If I got invited to parties or even knew how to find them I wouldn't be asking.

A pencil

Some Rotring product(s).

>>16860864
Buy her really nice pencils. Ask engineers. Or go to your local art store and buy PROFESSIONAL drawing pencils.

Or you could just ask her? It'll ruin the "surprise", but it might be better than getting her something you thought she'd like but she actually doesn't like.

If anything, getting her a nice metal architect's scale would work, although she probably would have one herself.

Or a T square.

>>16860862
>how do I stop being so sensitive?
You can dish it out but you can't take it? Then stop dishing it out.

>>16860868
I mean I wasn't really expecting to be left out for so long and then even have to ask to be let back in.

What have they said about you while you where gone?
If it was in a humorous way that wasn't too hurtfull, then you are def overreacting. Start to be able to laugh over yourself

>>16860803
Dude, if you keep fucking bitches constantly you're gonna see it effect your dick. Just take a break and it should be fine. You could get yourself tested for STD's regardless, always good if you do random hookups.

>>16860816
affect* not effect, just fuck my grammar up desu senpai

>>16860816
Would you say get tested ASAP? I'm just worried bout my dick not able to stay hard while jerking it now

>>16869884
good for you.

Prepare to lose EVERYTHING.

You mentioned you have a sister and a mother. legally transfer as many assets you have to them. Stocks, mutual funds, but avoid obvious stuff like cars and house.

Also if you can gently get her out of your property that would be great. They tend not to move a nested mother and would give her your property by default.

>>16869884
I'm thinking about divorce to but am scared of losing my kids.

>>16869915
Just make more of them

A quick google search reveals that it probably won't be an issue. Why do you have an Israeli stamp anyway? They pretty much give you a paper slip by default these days.

>>16861104
To intimidate goyims.

yeah countries deny travelers (and their money) because their feet are soiled with the filthy earth of enemy countries.

>>16860794
>The reason why im still with my current girlfriend is because everyone just keeps telling me:
>omg B, get over it already youre a man. You're 25 and in the prime of your time do something with it.

You have absolutely no business being in a relationship with someone while you're still pining over another person. Even if people are telling you to move on (which you should do), stringing another person along isn't going to help you. It's going to keep reminding you of who you're NOT with, because you're going to continue comparing the two. And you're just going to leave this person a broken mess, no better off than you are now.

Break up, clear your mind, and grow comfortable being alone. You'll eventually grow to appreciate people for who they really are instead of using and taking others for granted.

Now, what exactly happened between you and your ex? Why are you two no longer together?

>>16860824

we were together for ~4 years, and she was 17 when when we came together( i know pretty young) i was 19 at the time.

I know it was pretty much destined to doom, anyway:

again long story short
>She did some speed she promised me not to do ( im okay if she did drugs, i do too (( dutchy btw) but we're no junkies or w/e)
>her sister was with her and kinda forced her into it because she was feeling a little bit tired
>i confronted her sister about it
>sister got mad
>she had to choose between me and her sister
>mom never liked me, got one side of the story, put more pressure on her
>we got into a fight ( me and my ex ) over some dumb shit. and she just said: i think this isnt going to work anymore

now, i know im never going to get back with her. theres no chance of it so im not even gonna try to pursue it. But thats the jist of the break up

>>16860833
In other words, she's a junkie with a shitty sister and isn't as great of a person as you probably like to think she is.

Yeah, you're crazy. You should love yourself more than anyone else on the planet. If you don't, you don't have shit to give.

Time to rethink things, OP.

>>16869671
post some tits you fucked up bitch

>>16869675
but nobody likes someone arrogant. ..

Have you checked with your doc? The increase in pubic hair and dick size isn't common at that age. Maybe you have too high testosteron levels. That might explain the high libido too. Have you changed something? Picked up a sport? Changed diet?
Also, i'm one of those people that don't see anything wrong with porn. A lot of people do. Do you masturbatr? If so, stick to that and your fantasies. That way you will never get in trouble with any future spouse. Some girls get jealous if their men watch porn. A lot don't, but if you can do without porn, you are on the safe side.
May i ask where you are from? Cause it's incredibly unbelievable that you are a single, young male and don't watch porn.

>>16860785
>25
>single
>living with mother
>doesn't watch porn
>doesn't masturbate much I guess
>increase in PENIS SIZE? at fucking 25?

the increase is pretty strange, at your age. get checked by a doc.
otoh, the high libido is normal, and your life sounds pretty stifling, would it be economically feasible for you to live alone as a bachelor?

>>16860785
>Have you checked with your doc?
No.

>May i ask where you are from?
Delhi.

>>16860903
>get checked by a doc.
No.

Thanking you for all the valuable advices. Does anyone have more advices for me,

>>16860768
That's pretty vague.

You have to give more details. Are you just being paranoid?

But also just report it to whomever the fuck and move on.

It's done, keep practicing anyway.