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I have a GF and a guy friend messages her on and off weekly to hang out with her and have dinners or lunches. She doesn't respond to him but he still asks her to go.
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Tell the guy to f off
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>>16859396
But she says that he is her friend.
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She is setting up your potential replacement. Either that or she is actually cheating on you, which i doubt.
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I tried eating my girlfriend out a couple of times. She says it's really good but she doesn't think she can orgasm because she'll get there and then suddenly stop without finishing. I asked her how she would feel trying to orgasm with a vibratory first and she agreed to try. Why would it help her to do it on her own first? If she can't do it on her own does that mean she can't finish?
Also,
>nigger cock
No.
>someone else
No.
>trauma
No.
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>>16859353
The female orgasm is a fickle thing. She may have emotional barriers even she doesn't know about. Try having conversation while the deed is being done. Worked for me.
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>>16859353
You're trying to make her orgasm, that's the problem.
You can't force it.
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I think you being there could be better.
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Okay, it's a long story, so bear with me.
12 years ago today, I lost my baby. I was almost 9 months along. I was 26, and had just gotten back from some baby shopping with my at the time husband. It had iced over the previous night, and as I was walking up the steps, I slipped. The most vivid memory I have from that day was when I couldn't hear him crying. I knew from the moment I slipped that he had died, but when he was born I still expected to hear him cry. It's almost as if a part of my heart died along with him. I never even named him. I can remember waking up every single morning after that day feeling empty because, he would always start to kick at around 7am. A few months after I lost him, my husband and I split up. He coped by drinking, and I coped by distancing myself. You never get over losing a child. You just learn to live with it. Anyway, a few weeks ago I met up with my ex husband at a bar just to catch up. We both ended up getting a little drunk, and went home together. Stuff happened, and I guess you can put two and two together. Last week, I began to feel just a strange feeling in my core. Nothing I ate sat right. So on my way to work I picked up a pregnancy test. Sure enough, it was positive. I took six tests, and they all came out positive. After I lost my son, I swore I'd never get pregnant again. I called my ex husband and we had a very long talk. He was shocked, but after it wore off we agreed on keeping the baby. He's planning on moving in next month. We're on good terms, and we agreed it's best for the baby that we raise him/her together. We don't know if we'll be getting married yet, we're taking it one step at a time. My only problem is, I feel like I'll never move on. Not a day goes by where I don't break down and cry. My son would've been 12 today. I just feel like I'll never be happy, or that I won't feel love for my new baby. I feel like it'll never get better, but I need help before my new baby is born. Does anyone have advice?
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I don't think that you'll ever get over the child you lost, unfortunately. It is a sad thing to deal with but hopefully the new child will bring out some happiness for the both of you. Best of luck.
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Love this baby as much as you would the one that died. You sound like a good parent I'm sure you'll do good.
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I am sorry to hear about the circumstances. Losing a baby is never that easy, but that far along is especially rough. The above said, congratulations on patching things up with your ex and on your new pregnancy.
Have you seen a therapist before? A grief counselor may be best; they specialize in cases dealing with loss like this. Maybe you've already done this -I don't know- but I've got to check.
You mention that you never named your first child: it sounds like this weighs on you. Have you considered giving him a name? The ancient Romans used to do this. They were not a very creative people when it came to names -most of the common given names were just indications of birth order- but they counted miscarriages and stillbirths in that order. For example, if your new child is a boy, the Romans might have named him Secundus ("second"), even though he would be your first child to survive to term. I am not suggesting that you name this new child Secundus, obviously, and naming your first child Primus (as the Romans would have) sounds strange today. But the Roman found some meaning in naming even lost babies. Would naming your first child have some meaning for you? Might that help the healing process?
I can't stop procrastinating. I'm doing it right now. How do you stop yourself?
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You need a montage
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I never did and now I work at the post office.
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Hello, /adv/. I made this thread earlier, but i had to leave before checking it, so it 404'd probably.
How do you deal with OCD? As in, increasing OCD, who got a lot worse and compromises your mental stability. I could control it in the past with mechanisms, but now the great deal of anxiety caused by the illness increases tenfold, and doesn't give me a chance to react before i'm buried in the anxiety-chaos, unable to think clearly. Doctor prescribed me some pills, but those have violent side effects. What to do? How can i go in the streets without being so sure i'll be robbed, without being sure someone i love will be raped or die, or that i'm getting an incurable disease?
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>>16859337
ask for different pills. continue therapy. if ur doc doesnt play along, go to a different doc
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>>16859340
Should i really use pills, anon? The pills he gave me could work, but i don't want to depend on them, because once i do, there's no coming back kinda. But i don't know, it's not just the desilusions now, but the anxiety attacks for no reason, which i don't have defenses for due to how fast and overwhelming those are.
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>>16859357
ur either strong enough to do it without pills, or your not. there is no middle ground where theres another magic trick wihtout pills. otherwise we wouldnt need pills.
so make a choice.
Hi /adv/. I'm a 19yo student living with my single mother. She's been emotionally, verbally and sometimes physically abusive to me my entire life, but recent incidents involve her threatening to "beat my face until it was nothing but blood and snot" over salad and screaming, throwing things at me because I got sick. She matches all the criteria for borderline disorder but says that therapists are for losers. Anyone who I've talked to has told me to GTFO of this house.
I let her know I want to move out and she broke down crying saying that if I do, I'll be throwing away our relationship. She also said that if I move out I'm not getting a cent of the child support money she's been saving up, which was kinda petty. I told her if she breaks down screaming again then I'll be leaving, which I think she accepted. Lately she's been calm but super passive aggressive.
Trouble now is that I've found a nice studio within my budget that I want to inspect. I live in a big city so that's a rarity. The owner sent me inspection times but now I'm getting cold feet. My friends and boyfriend are telling me my mother is sick and will never get better so I should go inspect the place and put down a bond, regardless of the chance I gave my mother. But I just feel so guilty. I keep remembering all the nice little things she's done for me and how much I'd be hurting her by leaving (my older brother left and went no contact when I was 12).
Opinions, /adv/?
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>>16859320
Your brother is a genius.
You sound like a female norman bates.
My advice is to open and run a motel with your mother.
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>>16859320
>But I just feel so guilty. I keep remembering all the nice little things she's done for me and how much I'd be hurting her by leaving (my older brother left and went no contact when I was 12).
If she really cared about being a good parent, and keeping your relationship alive, she'd get professional help. Threatening a person over wanting to grow up and live their own life isn't something you do when you care about someone. She is NOT going to get better until she gets help, and you are just enabling her bad behavior by staying. You're allowing her to manipulate you out of your future. This will cost you your friends and your relationship. It may not be now, but it will happen.
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>>16859320
A good mother would WANT you to start living an independent life. You weren't born to be this woman's permanent companion. You don't have to sacrifice your happiness and sanity just so she doesn't have to be lonely.
It sounds like your friends and your boyfriend are genuinely trying to help you and look out for your best interest, and it sounds like your mother has NEVER done that. There's only one choice here. You already know it. You gotta jump out of the nest sometime, and you've got a chance to do it right now.
I want to take some zinc supplements. Issue is I can't swallow pills.
Is it possible to open the pill (looks like pic related) and to just take whats inside or would that not work?
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I guess but would tastes horrible
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You can do it, but the taste would be terrible. Some pills can be mixed into juice or other flavored drinks, but not all of them can.
Have you tried putting the pill in your mouth and then drinking a big glass of water? That works for many people.
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Thanks for the input, I usually open them and swallow them with a spoon of mashed apples.
too retarded to get the big pills down with just about anything
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Is it bad to keep your wealth a secret from girls you are dating?
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>>16859291
why would it be?
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>>16859291
Not at all
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>>16859291
>I wonder how well-off he is
>pull up in a 95 Jeep Cherokee with corroded paint
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My friend has a big crush on this girl who I also like. Her and I have been talking alot more recently and it seems like she likes me more than my friend. I think I'm starting to fall for her. Any help or advice because I feel like an utter dick.
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Tell him that you have feelings for her too. Honesty as soon as possible will make things easier in the future.
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>>16859250
how deep dose your brolationship go? if deep, talk to your friend and explain, and think it'd be best if you both went bros before hos.
if not, go for the ho, but lose your friend.
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>>16859262
Thanks, I appreciate the reply pal.
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Hello /adv/. So, about me, i used to have expensive hobbies. Was a hardcore gamer and a comic book collector. I gave up on them when i saw that they weren't giving me the satisfaction for the price. Sold my consoles and my pc, bought a good notebook(beter for studying and space on my room) and stopped buying comics, will download them now.
The only thing i'm spending money on is when i go out to play soccer with my friends(rent the place, but is cheap), and when i go out to eat something, but i don't do this so much. I started Karate but my parents pay for it(i'm on uni).
So, there are things i could do without spending so much money on? Tried anime, tv shows(downloading stuff) but been thinking about more. Oh, i read books too.
Tl dr : reccomend me some hobbies and tell me which hobbies do you have
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>Sold my consoles and my pc
I'm basically poor and I can say that gaming on a pc is one of the least expensive hobbies out there.
You can use the same computer for many years, and you can download games for free. Even if you prefer to pay, there's lots of promotions on steam that make games cheap as fuck.
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>>16859244
Honestly if i could have the time id go to the gym more. If i had the time plus money id go learn some ju jitsu. Not for fighting purposes but it builds discipline plus i kinda miss the grappling i did with frienda when i was in the corps.
The other shit that i do that dont costs me money is the uberbasics. Drawing and writing. Loved LOVED writing military fiction. But again, takes time i dont have. Figure out what your interests are and try to make them cheap bud.
But anything fun costs at least 8 dollars.
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>>16859255
I understands this but the thing is, my PC wasnt that good and i don't play much any new stuff or even have interest on it. If i need to, i do have a fairly powerful laptop to hold on, but thanks
So I have a girlfriend, and I really care about her a lot. We don't life together, and we try to spend as much time together as possible. I really only have one day a week where I'm free. I have school Monday-Friday, and then I have music on Sundays.
I make a pretty big point of devoting most of my Saturdays to her, but that of course means that I have no other time to spend with my friends. Yesterday, I planned to hand out with some friends, and she had for some reason assumed that I was going to spend it with her.
I tried to make plans with them, and for the rest of the week, she just acted all sad, and didn't make use of the time where we did get to see each other at school. It honestly made me pretty angry that she thinks that I can't spend any time with anybody with her.
What do I do, /adv/?
>pic unrelated
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>>16859203
>for some reason
you spend literally every saturday with her for an extended period of time and pretend to be surprised when this happens
>she thinks that i cant spend any time with anybody with her
anytime? or just not the one day a week she gets to see you?
im actually very pro-bro and very anti-ho, but it seems here you're acting like you did nothing wrong, when in your mind before you made plans with friends you literally thought 'this means i wont see anonnette this saturday'.
dont get me wrong you should be able to see your friends, but dont pretend like you were this little innocent fairy goin about your business before the bitch from the gf-dimension came in and ruined everything.
it sucks if you only have one actual day a week where you can meet people for casual time, but if you really cant just hang out on a friday night with friends, then sit her down and talk it out. it might not end well, but it beats it not ending well without talking it out.
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So far only dominant girls showed interest in me, and definitely not to get impregnated, how come? 2016-02-29 00:26:32 Post No.16859200
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mmmm, nice legs.
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>>16859200
You're a fuccboi
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>>16859200
Maybe it's because you're a spooky scary skeleton.
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I had an emotional outburst in which I called my druggie, irresponsible mother a degenerate and a whore, then smashed some things and kicked others. I'm still angry at her and she's disinheriting me, which I don't mind, but I'm genuinely sorry for having yelled at her.
I want to chop of my pinky finger as forgiveness after I sign off my part of the company (which she'll make me do anyway), as a way to say sorry and express sincere apologies. My question is, is there any way to do this so as to make sure I cut it off in one clean swipe?
Particularly, WHERE should I cut?
Before you ask me why cutting of a finger, because I'm an extremist asshole who probably needs psychiatric attention of some kind.
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>>16859180
You speak pretty good English, Yakuzaman
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>>16859201
Thank you.
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Cutting your hair is a more traditional method of physical apology, outside of criminal organizations. Shave your head. It will grow back.
If you absolutely insist on going full Yakuza, then at least get your traditions right. You don't cut off the whole pinky for a first offense. At worst -and this is only for severe infractions- you cut the last joint (i.e. the very tip) of the pinky on your off hand, This is enough to impair your ability to hold a sword, which makes you more dependent on the organization. But not too much, because they still need men who can go out and do the dirty work. More infractions might earn you more joints (still off the pinky, then up to the ring finger, and so on), but one was almost always enough.
Losing a whole finger for a single offense would be needlessly wasteful. That is as true today as it was when the yakuza actually used swords for stuff.
But seriously. Just shave your head. It's actually more visible as a sign of shame, but it will grow back, and it will not permanently impair you.
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Okay, I've had bad acne since 13 (18 now) and it's just such a pain in the ass to deal with. It seems like I get a new one every week. My diet is healthy, I get plenty sleep. and I hardly have stress. I haven't been touching my face or picking/popping the pimples, but they're just not going away. I had made an appointment with a derm, and they gave me epiduo. Turns out, that made it 3x worse. I then try proactive which was the biggest mistake of my life, because now I have small cysts on my jawline.
What can I do? I'm male, so makeup and such is out of the picture. I'm strongly considering Accutane, but the thing is my face isn't completely full of cysts, so will it still work properly?
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Do you still live at home or at a university?
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I had lots of acne in my face in my teenage years.
Now i'm 21 and having acne on my face is very rare, I still get lots of them on my back/shoulders though.
Maybe it's a matter of time.
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>>16859163
pic related is me. hwo you ask?
>tretinoin in the morning (prescription)
>salicylic acne wash in the shower
>moisturizer after shower (and as needed)
>erythromicin at night (prescription)
tretinoin is a cream that kidna makes your skin peel. kills acne, often stops it from growing.
salicylic acne wash you can get at any store, i get mine at riteaid, grapefruit looking kind. just gets the oils out of your face.
moisturizer speaks for itself, apply whenever skin is dry.
erythromicin is a gel, apply right before bed. its anti biotics applied directly to the face. good stuff.
its what made pic related possible hwoever id still get one or two here and there. i have since started accutane, and i look like the 'after' pick 24/7 right now. its only been one month though. hopefully 5 months will kill it all
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Severely stupid question, but if you don't get a response from a girl the next day when you texted her right before she went to bed, it probably means she forgot? She was sending me long messages and was happy, all while she was working too.
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>>16859162
the answer is maybe
from my experience girls "mood" when texting change alot
one day she may be sending long messages and the other she may not even read it, and it's not because they forgot
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>>16859162
Fuck I was just thinking about making this thread.
texted a tinder match if she wanted to meet up on Tuesday and she hasn't messaged me back for 1 1/2 hrs.
Granted we haven't exchanged messages this entire week, as she was on spring break, I'm still nervous about it.
Fuck I really hope she messages me back.
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>>16859195
Oh, well she looks at me a lot and the only reason I texted her was because she offered help on a speech I'm preparing. I'll see her tomorrow anyway.