I think I've fucked up /adv/
I've been dating my current gf for over a year now but for the last few months or so I've been feeling less and less happy. Not just in the relationship, but in general. We haven't been speaking much either.
The other day when I was at work, I work at a supermarket, I had to go clean some isle and a girl behind me started laughing and said "I wouldn't want to be him". I noticed, looked and her and just chuckled as I didn't really care honestly. I happen to run into this girl a few times more during that same shift. One of the times I ran into her she said "Next time you run into me you're gonna have to give me your number". I awkwardly laughed and said nothing as this has never happened to me before. As she was leaving the store she stopped and said to me "You could have done something", I replied with "I don't want to offend your boyfriend" as she was leaving with some guy. She said it wasn't her boyfriend so I just straight up gave her my number.
We've been speaking a little bit now. Seems like we're hitting it off, however, I haven't told her that I'm still in a relationship. She asked for my last name so she could find me on Facebook but I said that I had deactivated it for a little bit. My Facebook is just littered with my girlfriend and I hate it but whatever. I don't want to tell her I have a girlfriend.
What the fuck am I going to do? She just messaged me saying I should activate my FB but I haven't replied yet. I hadn't even decided if I should break up with my current GF but I just jumped the gun and now I feel like I'm in a shitty situation. I feel like breaking up with my GF now will hurt her a lot and I'm just a pussy and don't think I can do it. I also feel like I'd regret breaking up with her even though I'm not really happy anymore.
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tl;dr
>In relationship for over a year
>Not really happy anymore
>Give another girl number
>Hit it off
>Haven't told this girl that I have a girlfriend
>Wants me to activate my facebook - which is littered with my girlfriend
>Don't want to break up with gf as I don't want to hurt her and I feel like I'd regret it even knowing I'm not really happy
>What do?
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I'll be blunt: stop being a selfish cunt. You've emotionally cheated and you're very quickly crossing the line to the next level of cheating.
Cheaters always justify their behaviour by saying how unfulfilled or sad they are and it doesn't matter. Your unhappiness does not give you a right to hurt someone else and drag them down with you.
Assume for a moment you don't man up and do the right thing though, and that you continue to talk to this girl. There are two possibilities for you:
A. She doesn't find out you have a girlfriend, and when she inevitably does in future both she and your girlfriend hate your guts and cut you out of their lives.
B. She does find out you have a girlfriend (or you tell her) and she pursues a relationship with you anyway, indicating she's a homewrecker and will probably fuck you over as well in future because she has no morals or self-control.
Drop your girlfriend or drop the new girl, you don't get both. Yes you'll cause pain, that's a direct consequence of your decisions so far, so man up and face those consequences.
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>>16860511
kill yourself, I guess?
if you don't want anything to change, you can A. stonewall the new cutie or B. set her straight on exactly how you feel about her
I like option B because it will probably make her uncomfortable and make you feel better so long as you never see her again.
But, if you want to keep her respect or whatever, you should tell new cutie that you'd prefer to get to know her first before you friend her, and peace your girl if newgirl doesn't seem like she's just after the dick
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My bf cheated on his ex once. He cheated on me 5 times with 3 different girls, in the first six months of our relationship. I found out a few weeks ago, we were together for 1,5 years, and he hasn't done it since.
As soon as I found out I broke up with him, so much fucking pain, but he took it hard.
>a lot of hints to suicide
>calling me almost everyday, which i answered as I was afraid he would hurt himself and I still missed him
> he's crying so much, saying he's sorry, that he was a major fuckup at the time and didnt want to lose me.
I want to take him back but can i ever trust him again? Is it really, once a cheater, always a cheater?
Should I leave and be fucking miserable for a few months, or have some hope and stay?
Pic related, thats him
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Do not take him back. Period end of thread.
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I personally would try and move on
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>>16868233
People like him are never worth the risk. The writings on the wall, he's a compulsive cheater. You WILL get burned again if you let this scumbag back in.
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How do I suggest trying out dd/lg (daddy dom little girl) in the bedroom with my boyfriend? He's like 6 ft and looks older than he is and I'm 4'10 and look younger than I really am. He's already pretty dominant (spanking, soft choking/gagging) and not long ago he called me a dirty little girl and it turned me on more than it should have. How do I bring it up?
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>>16860468
tell him you really liked being called a dirty little girl in a sexy cute voice after you're both already turned on
seems pretty straight forward
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>>16860468
Just moan "oh daddy" in the middle of your orgasms.
If he doesn't object, keep upping the ante gradually,
and he'll take over,
dom that he is.
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Just remember to take photos to post.
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I'm a poorfag and I've mooching off other people for tools. I decided it's time I get my own but I'm not sure how far I need to go.
So far all I have is
>jack stands
>hydraulic jack
>oil pan
I only do basic maintenance on my car. I built a wood bench once and put my tv on my wall. I'm only expecting to do car stuff in the near future or even distant future.
Would this set be a decent start and then just supplementing it with shit like hammers, pliers, etc?
http://www.sears.com/craftsman-230-piece-mechanics-tool-set/p-00950230000P?prdNo=2&blockNo=2&blockType=G2
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>>16860460
in a basic tool kit for serving any car:
>full set of metric and imperial open and closed ened spanners
>full set of sockets and rachets (metric and imperial)
>full set of screwdrivers
>set of feeler gauges
>mallet and ball pein hammer and chisels
>decent jumper cables (computer proof) or a jump pack at the least when it happens you will be thankfull i said it
>rechageable LED torch
>pliers and circlip pliers
>strong arm bar and torque wrench
>timing light
>allen keys
>and lastly: heat shrink and soldering iron and solder for those small electrical jobs
only other stuff you may need are the set of torx bolt heads. you may not need them but they do come in handy every now and again
no you dont have to buy all this stuff all at once.
only stuff after that need to have in any workshop is parts washer (worth it weight in gold) and grinding stones for cylinder head work. also welder
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This is bothering the crap out of me
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I've been with my gf for around half a year. She's only my 2nd gf even though I'm 31 years old now. Had one of 7 years before that.
My current gf has had lots of boyfriends and lots of fuckbuddies. She and her last boyfriend broke up after a longterm relationship when she was cheating on him.
Recently, she and I got in a fight and she started hitting me. I told her that if she hit me again she would have to leave my house. She did, and I told her to get the fuck out. She left and I went to bed.
That night I was dreaming of her cheating on me. I told her that the next day, after apologizing and so on and then she told me that when she was at home she briefly thought of calling Chad (for the lack of a better name), a fuckbuddy she used to fuck with before we met each other.
Now, the fact that she's fucked dozens of guys before me bothers me enough of already, but this has truly set me up. We're only 6 months together and she, if only for a fraction of a microsecond, thinks of hooking up with Chad, she, with her history of infidelity?
How long's it going to take her to cheat on me?
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>How long's it going to take her to cheat on me?
Too late
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Haha not long!
She was with me last night.
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>>16868207
I doubt it
>>16868208
Durrr
Anyways, I'm going to confront her with my thoughts tonight.
I really see no reason to not call it off.
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I have a really big nose that makes me look kinda like a witch
And I'm 23
Can I get a boyfriend or should I give up on that?
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>>16860426
most people don't pay attention to your nose, though a picture always helps
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>>16860429
How do you know?
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i know some hideous human beings in relationships, i don't even know what you look like but i bet you can find someone too.
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I got divorced almost two years ago and haven't been on a date, but i met a really nice guy on tinder who asked me out (femanon) how do i not fuck this up? i was married for 6 years so i haven't dated in a long long time.
What am i supposed to do? so far we seem to get along well and i really don't want to screw this up.
Please help.
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so nervous.
This is all so confusing, i don't want to be a prude but i don't want to flirt too much and he think me a whore.
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The basics of dating:
Don't think of it as a date. Think of it as going out and doing the things you would normally do to have fun, and you just happen to be with someone new and interesting.
If you guys both have fun, that means you might be have potential.
If you don't, that just means you aren't compatible .
This is all assuming this is just some random tinder dude who assumes you're there to hook up.
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>>16860436
i've been forward about not wanting to have a hookup or one nighter, his profile also said he wasn't looking for hookups and wanted to meet someone.
i guess i just don't want to meet up and him not be interested and get disappointed.
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soo my gf and I have been going out since we were 15 (22 now), about a month ago we felt more like friends and decided to go on a break
as we still feel like we are each others futures but we needed some time to experience things on our own
part of this was getting with other people, we decided to keep it outside of our friendship group and only kissing,
the other night I kissed someone within those boundaries, as expected she was pretty upset
we got into a fight even though she admitted I hadn't really done anything wrong,
but I kind of have a lot of thoughts running through my head at the moment
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whats the purpose of this thread
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>>16860407
has anyone got experience with a break ?
can it be successful? what type of things did you do in that time? how do you handle your partner being with other people? is it better to cut all contact? I defiantly think a relationship is better than a fling but have spent my younger years not being able to experience that side definitely leaves me curious and is it a bad thing that I do want to experience it?
Hey, I'm just wondering what you guys are doing for work and if there are any jobs you'd recommend. I'm not looking to go to school because I don't want to go into debt, but I also don't like working retail/food service. I'm looking into YMCA/KROC Center type jobs, as well as golf course and lake gas station jobs.
Any recommendations for entry-level jobs?
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You'd take gas station over retail?
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I work at Wal-mart and a shitty one at that (metro area a lot of homeless and crappy low quality customers that really fuck the store up). I honestly enjoy what I do. I don't make much but I don't require much to be happy either. I used to let the store pressure me because a lot of jobs do that to people but I quit giving a shit and just set my own pace now and am still a stand out employee. I could get promoted if I wanted but I just don't like the pressure, it's not for me. Honestly I don't know what the big beef is with Wal-mart but I would suggest giving it a shot. Once you make it in the store you can easily raise in rank to whatever position you feel comfortable in. You can become a store manager if you wanted eventually. If you pic a good store that knows what it's doing you get a nice little bonus also. Wal-mart gives bonuses (if you guys do good) every 3 months. You can get up to like $400 or some shit. Ours varied usually from $100 to $300.
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>>16860386
Lake has station-- for boats. You get to be out on the docks all day.
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I know this girl for over a year.At first we chatted every day and it was very good.Few months later we decided to meet and after it she said that she really enjoyed but i should remember that we are only just friends.Last year we met lots of times,went to to bars and cafes and like that.Last summer she wanted to come to my country to spend summer.I agreed and we spend 1 week together.In the last days of our trip we made out in the hotel room,but just without penetration,bc she said to me that she is virgin and i am the only one who knows about this.I know that she doesn't love me but i really going mad for her.Can't stop thinking about her every fucking morning after i wake up.She is dating with other guys right now.Last week she came to my home and we kissed and cuddled again.But she keeps telling me that we are just friends and we can't be together.
I am hopeless and dont know what to do,help me guys
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Cut contact. You are her backup plan, and even if you do end up together she'll drop you as soon as someone better comes along. She directly told you she isn't interested and you want different things out of this relationship, so end it and move on.
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>>16860359
i've tried,but she is my only friend too bec i live and study in a different country and she helped me so much.it's really hard man
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any suggestions?
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Be me:
>> Still living in my friends mom basement to finish school but I founded an ecommerce business with my programming friend. Making $1000.00 in Sales each day 45% profit margin. We are paying someone to do the work for basically nothing. Expecting $75,000.00-$80,000.00 in profit.
>> Studying Electrical Engineering-->Computer engineering/CS (Junior -Senior year)
>>I have some good footing into my friends company, that I or I have some good connects into Silicon Valleys money market to get some sponsors for a new software company I am looking to start.
>> was doubted by my friend that I couldn't do the business and that I would waste people's money. Now I am teaching him how to do it.
>>When I was doing applied Mathematics the head of the department said I wouldn't amount to anything because I got a c+ in Java programming.Now I am the CEO of my own company. Making more money than even my girlfriend who has her B.S in a Stem field.
>> Completely social/charismatic/persuasive.
>>was president of the mathematics club
>> can pick things up be it mathematics, programming,social interaction, politics,etc. By just looking at it. Literally missed 3 weeks of Java programming came in and aced a quiz drunk. Missed my Circuits lecture for food daily and still tutored people.
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Cons:
<< I miss class all of the time/ sometimes I wont even turn my homework in .
<< I am very whatever about everything. If my laptop gets stolen then whatever I'll get another one.
<<I can be pretty condescending to people who are struggling because I think they are at fault for their own success.
<<I shut down people who think they are better than me pretty quick(especially teachers)
[EX:Had a teacher who told me to pick a 4 digit number as our grade checker, I asked what if we pick the same number, then he replied "Its mathematically impossible" , so I picked 1234, then he said it was picked and I said exactly!] worst experience in class ever.
Whats wrong with me?
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You are making a huge deal out of nothing and it just sounds like you're somewhat self centered and narcissistic.there, you have your attention you crave. Not really a bad thing but I would probably find you insufferable irl
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Your just a lazy chink the same as me. Except it seems you are mostly done with school.
I quit a while ago.
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>Studies electrical engineering and has used his wits to make tens of thousands of dollars
>Math genius who doesn't need to study and can learn things instantly
>Can't figure out how to greentext
Why lie on the internet OP
Can it do permanent damage to a pussy to repeatedly and regularly penetrate/push stuff in there while it's dry?
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This is why vaginas 'self lubricate' its lterally mother nature going ' dont shove things up here dry you idiot'
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Yeah. You can cause tissue damage and then subsequent scarring. Imagine if you kept rubbing dry things against your skin. The same would happen.
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>>16860283
So having sex dry all the time is bad?
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To keep a story short, I'll summarize it with a question/form of a question(s).
If you were a male, aged 16 and had sex with a woman who was over the age of 18, and she got pregnant: Would that child be considered a rape baby? (I'm almost certain he was 16 at the time, but he could have been 15.)
Would the male not be able to see his kid until he turned 21? If so, why? (He never called her a "crazy bitch who wont let me see my kid." From what I can tell, it was a one night stand).
Would he be able to move to another state?(Ohio is the current state he lives in. He tells me he cannot leave his state because of his kid)
What would go as far as child support goes for the male? (I was told he does not pay child support)
I was told a story and I am unsure if it was a demented joke, or true story. He tends to build up a good, interesting story but then pulls the "ahh I got you, you dumb bitch." card. I didn't bring up his kid again, til a few months ago and I said "On a serious note, do you really have a kid or was that just another joke to poke me with?" His reponse was "I just cant see him. It's so sad" But he said it with a tone as if he dropped his cookie, but had 100 more. Not too sad about it in all honesty.
I'll note the kid is probably 2 years old now. The mother does not/will not send pictures of the kid to him. (I don't understand why) This whole situation seems very fishy to me, he just does not hold himself as a "young father who will be meeting his kid in a few years"
I'm leaning to the side of "A joke gone too far and he didn't know how to back out and just went with it."
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The blame would be on her because she's an adult and he is not. I'm pretty sure the reason why she's so secretive with their son is cause she's scared people will find out about how young she is compared to him. Trust me, I went through the same thing but my boyfriend at the time was older. So, no he would not get in trouble but she will. I mean if they keep it on the low and the only people that know sre understanding then why can't he meet his kid. Also he can take her to court to file for custody but then she'd get in trouble. So it's like a double whammy.
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I dont know but a lot of people deal with huge fucking problems by being flippant about it and also because facing it head on would be emotionally too much for them to handle. I tell stories about the time i was tweaking and in rehab and laugh about it and people look at me like i shouldnt be so uncaring about it but thats how i deal
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>>16860265
So if he wanted to see his kid, (if it is a real story) he could have by now?
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I can honestly say that I'd be 100% content in life, if it wasn't for the fact that my gf makes me feel like I'm abusive.
Since there's no unbiased bystander to say what's what, I'm restless at night half laden with guilt. On one hand, She's neurotic and victimizes herself at the drop of a hat (My point of view) and on the other hand, I'm a violent, raging, lunatic that will snap at the drop of a hat (her point of view)
What do I do about this /adv/?
looking for constructive advice, not the inevitable "cut her off" post.
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>>16867699
yeah really gonna need some more to go on here, examples
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>>16867699
for some much needed backstory.
>I've never hit her.
aside from that one time we were really high and I reached for the bong at the same time she leaned forward, and I accidentally hit her nose with my forearm. Was no bigger of an ordeal than a stranger bumping you in public though.
>She's hit me.
Her argument is always that it there's no way it hurt me (which it doesn't, but I still don't appreciate it.) and is always, 100% of the time, the instigator in our arguments
>I'm level headed.
Except for with her, she has a way of getting under my skin persistently enough to where I snap at the slightest hint of instigation and tell her to leave me alone.
>She's not outspoken
Except for with me, she's constantly judging and making passive aggressive remarks about the things I do and don't do, but still says she loves me
>I've suggested we break up.
Clearly if I'm as bad for her as she makes it seem, then we don't need to be together. That statement usually ends our altercations, and she'll cry and tell me that I'm not bad for her and she loves me.
this behavior sounds like textbook "abusive relationship victim" behavior to me. someone who realizes they're in a shit position, but wont leave it for the sake of "loving them." and it is what makes me question my innocence.
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>>16867699
>am I abusive
>gives no examples
also
>2016
>sticking your dick in crazy
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I just sold an Item on Ebay, how much longer do i have to wait to post another listing before it charges me for having more than one item for sale?
does it still charge you for selling multiple items?
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Is that death note for sell.... I'll be needing it for nefarious purposes..
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>>16860237 get a business license if ur doing it enough.
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>>16860245
hahah I was thinking of selling it actually
i made it friday