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Are you anxious? Do you have a history of anxiety/panic attacks? Is there anything at all going on in the back of your head that might be worrying you?

>>16859174
Absolutely nothing. I haven't ever really had panic attacks before, a couple maybe but really minor, like I calmed down after a minute or two of focusing on breathing in and out.

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please respond

>>16859155

>asking if theres anything there

this is the biggest vagina dryer ever. its even a penis softener. when women say
>where is this going

that tends to be the sentence that kills the steady escalation. if a man asks that, it'd be worse.

its not just women. EVERYONE likes someone who is decisive and makes a move. if they want you to make a move

worse case scenario is she avoids your move, you apologize after that, then go home. but asking to make a move is a sure fire way to ruin it.

At this point I don't think you ask if 'there's anything there'. You set up a third date.

>>16859150

Nothing wrong with you, you're just redpilled and know that your sister is trash, just keep yourself out of her business and you're cool.

Sometimes people put themselves repeatedly into bad situations. You can't be a saviour unless you want to or that person wants to let you.

>>16859176
What do you mean by red pulled? Shouldn't I have some sort of duty to beat this guy up for what he did?

Also she isn't trash, she is bad at making decisions (obviously) but she is the kindest sweetest woman

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I'd say that the chances are slim to none.

Almost zero.

>>16859149
It's technically possible, but spectacularly unlikley. Staistically speaking you have a higher chance of being eaten by a shark in the next nine months than you do of becoming a father.

buy her a vibrator.

>>16859143
She sounds like a great girl, and if she's into you that means she sees something special. Being a firefighter is pretty fucking alpha tbqh familia, and considering how physically intense the job is I'm sure you can compete with some Harvard guy. Remember, she's rich, so it's not like some rich guy can tempt her with money she's never had.

I mean come on man. If she's as attractive, intelligent, kind-hearted and wealthy as you say, there's no way she's not keeping suitors at bay with a pike. And if her father is that influential, you better believe he's got his own pike regiment at the ready. But you made it through, and there's no way she hasn't told her parents about you, and she hasn't broken up with you, so you've clearly made a good impression. You got this bruh.

Though I will say maybe you should help her get out more. Not like clubs or anything, that will probably just put her out. Just doing things with friends.

Also
>violin
>gymnastics
>rich people stuff

Nah, just enjoy that sweet teen pussy, this is not going anywhere far, doesn't matter if its you or some rich Chad, she is way too young to even think about something serious, stop overthinking, isn't like she is going to marry you or the next guy she date.

You're being insecure. I say keep your unicorn.

>>16859131
Don't suck their dick about it, just say that you need a job

Aids

>>16859069
Anxiety senpai.
Go to the doc, get your thyroid looked at.

Damn aids.. i knew it

Give up on her.

As someone who has been in your shoes before, it's best to let it go.

I understand that you're attracted to her, but you just can't be in a relationship with someone that difficult.

Stop hanging out with her. If a girl wants to be with you she will make it easy to get together and will welcome physical contact. I get the feeling that when you do try to just hang out with her she is wishy washy and makes it difficult. If you keep going out with her you are telling her that you welcome this behavior.

>>16859136
So just cut her off? I mean yeah I could do that, but then what?

I say you're weird for calling a 7 "not that attractive."

>>16859072

Point Im making is that it's not her looks that's turning me on.

You're an asshole dude. And don't take that as a compliment.

>>16859051
Pretty easy senpaitachi.

Unexplained changes in behavior. Evasive when questioned.

Unless they bought you your dream birthday gift and want to keep it a secret. Oh man that would be rad.

>>16859051

step 1: track any irregularities or discrepancies in your partners schedule.

if she is more or less accounted for for all the hours of the day, then you have no worries. but if she goes to see friends you literally never meet, or has some weird evening class she has no tools for, then..

>step 2: barge in on said discrepancy

so basically shes like
'oh hey anon, im going to fuck cha- er... fuck cha police at the black lives matter rally today. fuck cha popo!'
'oh cool honey, why dont i come along?'
'errr... no its okay, you're a little TOO white you'll scare all the protestors. baiii'

if she finds excuse for you not to come to this type of thing more than once, then chances are she doesnt want you there for a reason.

step 3: stalk

etiher in person, or digitally. check her phone. check her email. check her facebook. check her snapchat. check her privilege. see if shes having mysterious messages wiht any strangers.

or just go to where she claims she will be, and see what happens there. if she never shows up, the whole thing is a lie. but perhaps she does show up, but iwth someone you dont expect.

>>16859084

wtf i just read...

>>16859024
You keep trying until you've got the result you wanted.

You can't think and plan perfect code that will Work 100% from thought alone.

You get an idea and you start adding to it a little bit at a time

Give an example of a program you have to write.

What functions will you need? What are the outputs?

Here are some random ideas

1) Having an idea, and just trying a lot of things to make it work
2) Having deligence to simplify your ideas, even if your first incarnation is not perfect you can make it better
3) Having a good environment. A lot of people fail at this step because, for example, working with IDEs and complex GUI environments is difficult because it's hard to organize libraries/dependencies, and on the flipside, but doing everything from the command line, although arguably better, has a steeper learning curve

anyways, if you have a specific language it might help add more context

>>16858990

>how do you know if you're in love

there isnt actually a measurement for love. each person has their own specific ideas behind it. you could argue that just having a crush is love. the 'difference' between the two is impossible to measure or gauge. others will say shit like 'when you're willing to make a real sacrifice for him/her'. something that does impose on you, and doesnt come easy. thinking you wouldnt isnt quite enough. by that definition you dont really know if ur in love until that love has been tested.

all that being said, there is no answer. you either think you love someone or you dont.

>how do you know if hte person you are dating is right for you

define 'right'. then see if she meets that definition. generally speaking if you both have fuzzy feelings, decent sex, dont argue too much, etc. you're 'right' but theres a thousand definition here bud.

So if she fits my definition of "right" then we have a chance to grow old together?

>>16859036

you have a chance to grow old together with anyone. the real question is, would you ditch her if there wasn't a chance of growing old together?

No but it will only deepen your oneitis.

>>16858989

the only one who can really define if it is 'inappropriate' is her. and perversion is just an abnormal or inappropriate sexual conduct. i would not call it abnormal. i wouldnt even call it inapropriate.

you ever go to bed wondering how many people think of you while jerking off?

>>16858989
who gives a shit
think about whatever you want to. the world doesn't get to police your thoughts and literally no one but you will ever have access to them

It's usually like 2 weeks max they let go past the due date before inducing, otherwise it's dangerous for both the baby and the mother.
Something's fishy, especially if she's hiding the real timeline. A paternity test is necessary for sure.

How would I go about this? I mean is it something as easy as picking a test up at the store or is this something I'd have to go through a court for? My thought process is gone right now.

I think you can use a hair sample from both of you and goto a clinic. May be possible for her to not find out.