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Where's a reliable place to buy an essay? Really don't feel like writing this research paper. Nothing crazy, just 5 pages but I just don't want to do it.
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If you can't be bothered to write 5 pages of researched content, you're not gonna make it.
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Five pages? Come on, man. When I was in college, I could research and write that in three hours and still get an A. I did, in fact, on several occasions.
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>5 pages

Come on man, if that's really that big of a deal (worth spending MONEY for) then just drop out of college.

I could write up a fucking 5 page essay stoned off my ass.

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Hi /adv/
I've fallen in love with a good female friend of mine 2 months ago.
I know I should just tell her, and I probably will, but I'm less worried about rejection than our friendship afterwards.
Can some of you who did this tell me how their friendship went afterwards?
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Your friendship is over either way. You're hurting yourself if you let it continue if she doesn't love you back. Best to find out now
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>>16858602

its never truly salvaged if ur 'in love'. if you had a little crush you could maybe slide back, but even then its weird.

ur expecting someone to act like nothing ever happened after you admit strong feelings for her. if there isnt any feelings returned, thats awful awkward.
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>>16858946
>>16858940
So you suggest I shouldn't say anything?
I've known her for over 1 1/2 years, and I really don't want to lose this friendship.

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What kind of skills are appreciated in someone who works at a book store or any quaint little shop?

I'm a soon-to-be ex-NEET who's applying to one of those for his first job at 25. I've got decent people skills and I enjoy reading and being around books, but it feels like that's not enough for my motivation letter to convince them. My age, lack of experience and the fact that I'm (currently) a highschool dropout screw me over already, so I really need to make a good first impression. I'm pretty sure I'm able to do this, but I just need an idea of what they're looking for.

So in short, what kind of skills does a shop like that need?
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Bump.

Come on, guys. It's not girl advice for once.
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>>16859341
Bump again.
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>>16858588
I think they like to know if you can organize things. And if its a business, they probably want you to be like, sort of friendly. I don't think there's exactly a lot of qualifications. I would just say be confident about your understanding of what someone might be able to need to know in order to be competent, nay proficient, at sweeping aisles and making sure all the books are where they belong doesn't require you to be able to do more than count to 100, alphabetize, and learn how to clean.

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hi /adv/

What's the easiest way to find persons personal info ( I'm interested in last name and her facebook ). I am having a nice connection with this girl I met online. I know her name, where she lives, her age, I have her phone number ( we call eachother a lot ), but I don't know her last name and facebook page and I really wanna know cause it's bugging me that she knows all my personal info and I don't know hers. Can anyone here help me?

pic related, it's the girl I'm talking about.
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>>16858579
google image search. plus she either actually knows you and or had a look at your basic info on FB
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>>16858590

Google image search gives me nothing. Yeah I know she's been viewing my fb profile, I told her my name to find me and add me, she was going through my photo gallery and told me which pics were her favourites, but she wouldn't add me and she tells me she won't until we meet in real life, that's bugging me cause I don't feel like waiting 2 weeks ( we set up a date ). All I need is her last name, but I'm out of ideas.
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>>16858599
Sounds like you should wait. Since that's what she wants.

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The man I love is has been dating a cute, waifish, blonde 18 year old *~*GaMeRgUrL*~* for the past few months whose main interests in life are CoD, peppermint schnapps and weed.

He and I are both in our late 20s and have been friends for almost a decade. In the past, we've had intense mutual feelings for each other, but they never panned out into a relationship to not being single at the same time and stupid, shitty behavior on both of our parts at various times when we were younger (one example: he felt I was flirting with one our close friends who happened to have strong feelings for me, so he got drunk and fucked a dumb cunt we both claimed to despise in my own house, and then I proceeded to date our friend partially because I felt heartbroken/lost and partially just to get back at him).

I know I'm his ideal physical type (brunette, fit, big ass) since he's told me as much, and our personalities mesh. We know each other's short-comings, mistakes and weaknesses, but we also know the best of each other. We push each other to try and be better people, and we have so much fun. We laugh so much every time we're together and just talk and joke for hours. He truly makes me happy, and it's no secret that we love each other "as friends" to those who know us. When we're alone, there is so much sexual tension barely being tempered by restraint. I haven't let myself be alone with him in a long time.

I don't begrudge him for wanting to be with a young girl who thinks he's "soooo, like, amazing, and, like, soooo hot." She's dumb and sweet, and actually adores me as something like a cool, older sister. I know with 0% input from me, this relationship will eventually fizzle out.

When it does, should I let him know that I think now is the time to try to make it work? Or am I deluding myself because I'm growing older? It never worked out in the past ... maybe we have too much history and have missed our chance already.
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Maybe he's taken by a better mate. 2c
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Very hard to say. In a lot of ways been there done that could apply, on the other why not just be straight up and, acknowledge the history and tell him you want to give it a real sincere shot instead of wondering about it.
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Men don't really work like your last sentence. If you're attractive, you'll always be attractive. That's why the "friend zone" exists in some capacity. We thought you were attractive so we tried to get with you in some way. And some men just accept being friends.

Now the real question is if you even be attracted to him if he didn't have a gf right now? A -want what you can't have- situation.

Ultimately I think you can hold his torch and try to pick it up later when they break up or whatever, if that's what you want. But surely there are other guys you could see in the meantime. Do you really wanna be stuck with a gamer guy who smokes weed and is attracted to teenagers, into your 30s?

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When something good is about to happen, I'm afraid that something bad might happen which will result in that good event not happening.
What do you call this fear?

>pass exams well
>accepted into X
>afraid that something shitty will happen (I don't even know what) that will result in me not getting into X, even though I know there's no reason for it to happen
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>>16858572
Anxiety.
Really what it boils down to is fear of the unknown. Sort of like a fear of the dark.

But rational adults aren't afraid of the dark. Because monsters don't exist.

Likewise, the things you fear don't exist. Never fear the unknown.

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Is it just me or are almost all relationships one sided? Back with my other gfs I didn't give a fuck and I wouldn't text them all the time and would leave them over dumb shit and they loved me and never gave up and did anything for me. I got a gf I really like and I always message her 24/7 and never try to leave her and put up with all her shit and she just treats me like shit sometimes and acts like she doesn't even want me that bad.

Is there a way to turn it around? I turned it around one time and left her and got her to be fuck buddies but I keep falling in love with her and it's annoying. How do I make our relationship more even?
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You most likely can't. It's not anyone's fault. If that's the way she is, then that's how she is. Maybe in 5 years she may settle down but still ultimately that is up to her.
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You need to treat all women the same, like your previous gfs. Otherwise you get situations like this. Now, you are texting her way too much. You are basically saying "im needy and insecure please validate me with a response". You are acting like a woman, dont put up with womens shit. They do it to see if you are a real man. If you immediatly give in you show that she can push you around, and if she can push you around how does she know you will stand up for her and defend ger when the time comes.
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Wow, teach me master. All my attempts at relationships were from my side.

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Weź dla mnie ten plakat
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>>16858545

biorę przyjacielu
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>>16858545
Też wezmę :^)
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później

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In Germany it's common for people to get their driving licenses at 18 because everybody is yearning for their own car. However, I didn't get mine because it wasn't too important to me and my whole family kept saying that I couldn't afford it.

Now at 22 I decided to finally learn how to drive. However, now I am haing nothing but problems and I am thinking of quitting driving school for now.

>take theoretical classes in March 2015
>pass theoretical exam in May with 0 errors! Yay!
>take two driving classes
>driving teacher gets pregnant and can't teach me driving anymore
>sucks, but apparently new teacher will reach out to me soon
>teacher doesn't call me, I forget because I was busy with college and my mandatory summer internship
>internship is over, I call driving school
>"Oh yes, the new teacher will call you to schedule driving lessons!"
>nothing happens
>repeat above two steps until December 2015. Emphasize how I really need to get my fucking driving lessons soon
>new teacher does two lessons with me
>he's shit. Never calls back for new appointments, smokes in the car, yells at me, insults me, etc.
>I change driving schools
>new teacher at new school is great! Very patient, I drive safely and comfortably!
>Bad news. New teacher has too many students, can't give me appropriate time for regular lessons.
>New new teacher is appointed to me
>New new teacher is shit, he screams at students (not only me!) for the weirdest reasons
>total: 10 lessons with 4 different driving teachers.

So yeah, I am really pissed with this whole situation. You only get one year after the theoretical exam in Germany, otherwise your test results and the lessons you took "expire". However, I am also sick and tired of this bullshit with the driving lessons. I don't want to get a new teacher AGAIN.

However, having to waste the time and money I already invested would suck as well. So I am not sure what to do /adv/.
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just keep going. i know i sucks but its a stumbling blocks after you pass will be funny in your rearview mirror.

you wont have to ask other people for rides or rely on public transport or bicycles after that.
just keep focussing on all the positives after you pass, been where you were and come through the other side. if the worst comes to the worst get a licence in another country then get it transferred to a german one.
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this pedal makes car go
the other pedal makes car stop

show me again mommy

no, that's enough for today, you don't want to strain yourself

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So I'm semi determined to kill myself.
Will a .38 special be effective to the side of the head
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>>16858505
The caliber is adequate, but through the roof of the mouth would be better, hypothetically.
But don't kill yourself, OP.
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That might be a good question to ask you local crisis line.
Please hang in there and seek help.
Every life is important. Just sometimes we can't see through our own fog.
Prayers friend...
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Bad advice from other poster...

Please seek help.

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Help me /adv/. I have some issues with a girl right now. But first, some backstory

3 years ago.

Have gf, this other i know girl is into me. Due to common friends we also went to a movie. It was the first time we met. I recognize her eyes started to sparkle as we talked. Had a gf at the time so i didn't care, and was really surprised a girl could manifest such interest into me. An almost intimidating interest.

2 years ago.

Second encounter was at a skating ring, again due to common friends. She made her moves on me waiting for a reply. I obviously dont respond to her advances because i was in a relationship. She keeps insisting. Starts pushing for me holding her hand as we skate. Later the night, almost kissed me when i escourted her to the tram station. Still, keep in touch, because i think she's a nice and interesting person.
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1 year ago

I buy a buss ticket home. I had a fight with my then gf, were close to break up so i went to have a talk to her. I accidentally stumble onto her on the bus. An awkward coincidence, she had her seat right next to mine. She gets flirty in the bus and sleeps in my laps during that night. Gently putting her hand on my right leg and slowly working upwards. Didn't touch my dick tho. After we arrive in the morning, i escourt her to the closest common point before we parted. She then pushed me to herself and kissed me. I was pissed that my gf wanted to break up with me, so i kissed her back. It was the hottest kiss i ever had too.

Couple of months later I break up with gf b/c of reasons. But now that girl is with another guy. We talked ever since, and she told me she's still into me. Attempt nothing, because i don't wanna be a jerk and break up someone's relationship. Still make joking naughty remarks while messaging her on fb tho. She seems to like to engage into that sort of thing.

After a while suddenly blocks any messages received from me. I think that i crossed the line and made her upset because she thinks i want to cause her trouble. I ask, and she tells me that she doesn't want him to know of me (that he's not familiar with any of her friends, and she selectively introduces them to him, in order for him not to interpret things in a sexual way), and that it's best we talk on phone. I tell her to tell me if i ever cross the line. Don't want to make her bf jealous and such. She insists we talk secretly on the phone. I don't call her that often either ways because i'm busy most of the working days
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3 weeks ago

>Calls me. Asks me how am i/ how are things etc. Still tells me of her bf situation and that she doesn't want him to find about me. Unblocks my fb messages again.

Today
>Try messaging her.
>Sees message, blocks my messages again. Later today blocks my phone number.

And now i checked again, I texted her, received confirmation that the message reached her, but i'm not sure if someone can send messages while having their number blocked. So i think she unblocked my phone number, but kept blocking my fb messages.

I didn't even interacted with her so many times for all these 3 years as i've known her. But each time i get to reach her, just to talk as regular friends, she tells me she's "very busy" and sometimes doesn't have time to message or call back.

Basically, what the fuck is going on with her /int/?

I talked about this with a m8t of mine at an afternoon walk, trying to figure out what the fuck is she up to. She's basically the only girl that led me into a complete mistery as to why she acts the way she does.

Usually i can predict girl behavior, but this one is really hard to figure out. So what gives /adv/, why is she acting the way she does now?
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Also, forgot to add. I'm interested into her now because she's obviously open to strictly some sexual stuff, and she has a nice ass. But i'm confused as to either forget about her completely because of her contradictory behavior, and jump to conclusions that she's using me like b8t, or keep pursuing the idea of having sex with her, while trying to figure out the puzzle she's laying out for me

But right now i'm really confused as what she thinks at all of me. Am i just a plan B, or just a simple friend?

And another interesting side story to the whole sharade: I met with her best female friend for some business related issues 3 weeks back. It went well. It didn't strike me at all that both their characters were somewhat similar, them being best friends and all. But, she didn't tell me later that day she'd meet with my crush. I didn't even assume it. And then that night she called and told me she saw me as she met with her bff. But why didn't she just come by and say hello? Why did she just ignore me, but then call me later?

I'm honestly confused here /adv/, any analysis/opinions would help a lot.

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Keen on taking a gram of coke and MDMA on my preseason football trip next weekend. I live in London.

What do you reckon security will be like from Stansted to Belfast? Figure I could probably put it in my large luggage somewhere hidden in a crevasse somewhere.

Probably won't do it because I could get fucked up the ass by the long reaching arm of the law, but maybe the security between these two airports isn't huge.
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A gram of MDMA? Are you retarded? If not, you're going to be.

Have you used MDMA before? I never take more than 120mg, and it's more than enough. I also take all the right supplements, and give myself at least 3 months in between rolls so I don't fuck up my brain.
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>>16858507
Good point, however my question was more in regards to transporting it between countries. I'm well versed in drug use. If I took a gram it would be to share with friends.
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>>16858494
start watching shows like border security. it wont get through the airport and if you have drugs on you? neither will you.

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My boyfriend used to be such a kind, caring, considerate person, but more and more hes becoming less concious of other people's feeling and more selfish. I don't know what to do at all, he used to be such a progressive guy but has changed so much its making me feel nervous. What do I do? I have tried talking to him and he says I'm just being paranoid, or that hes learning about things that have changed his views, but his new views are toxic... How do I get my boyfriend back.
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>>16858493
Men change more dramatically than women do in shorter amounts of time. Time to move on, op.

Also, love Imrijka.
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I don't think it works like that... We are all just a mirror of the world around us... Maybe its not his fault but the fault of his surroundings...
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See life through his eyes and tell me you don't feel toxic... Or jaded...

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Hey /adv/ I am cutting my "depression hair' and I need help choosing a new style. Post pics of trendy cuts for blond men that would look good on me.
Pic related: me (prior to weight loss)
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long hair looks good on you m8
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Looks like u need more than one hair cut m8. Just one hair won't help u.
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>>16858939
dammit dad

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Good evening everyone!

I kinda have a little problem and I'd like to see if anyone could help me. I'm a 18 y/o Scot living in Germany and graduating from a German school in a few months. Here lies my problem. I don't know what I want to do, I'd like to study but I don't know what. Im a little over the average student. I have been thinking about many different options. One would be studying Economic Sciences, but I have the feeling that will end in a dead end office job, doing the same boring thing day after day. Another thing Ive though about is studying something thats a mixture of IT and economics, but it's the same here, chances are to end up with a dead end job. I've also though about studying chemistry because I find it very interesting but the problem with doing that is, I'll HAVE to do a PHD or else I wont be worth a thing later on, and another problem is that Ive read a few forum posts about people not having any spare time when they study chemistry nor do they have time to work to earn money. This would be a problem because Im planning on moving out too (still in my hometown though). Im wanting to move out with a friend, we both have part time jobs and can afford rent and stuff. But do you guys think its smart to move out while studying? Just to be more free and not being bound by parents decisions?
And my final question now refers to the starting problem of not knowing what to study or to do, how did you manage to decide on what you were wanting to do for the next few years/ the rest of your life and could you recommend anything that wouldnt end up in an extremely repetetive job doing the same thing day in day out?

Thanks for any response! :)
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sad self bump :D
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one last time :<
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i think you're not getting any responses because most people who come to 4chan are americans and as you probably know germany and usa have really different societies

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