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>Burned finger
>week later
>swolen, purple red lines through it
>vomiting fever headaches diahrea

Do I need a doctor? WhT's the chance of a blood infection?
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>>16861281
can get sepsis from any skin breaking injury, go to a doctor immediately , sepsis can kill in a matter of days. No im not shitting you.
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>>16861302
yep its a sepsis. haul ass to an ER like... now perhaps

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Hi /adv/. I just had a massive nosebleed and the first thing I grabbed was my grandfather's pristine white handkerchief. The nosebleed is gone but now I have blood on it. I tried rinsing it with water but that didn't get rid of it. My first thought was to just use bleach since it's already white anyway. Does /adv/ have any home remedies for this problem (someone told me soak it in vinegar but I have doubts)?
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I REALLY hope you rinsed it right away and with COLD water. Otherwise you are a bit fucked. First you get rid of the protein in the blood. Then you try to get the iron ions out. You can try doing that by soaking it with cola, then rinse and wash in the washing machine with some active oxigen for white laundry.
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I use oxy-clean on my underwear when I get the unexpected period leak, and that shit works. But like the previous anon said, you must soak it and wash it in cold water. I hope you did that.
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>>16861289
>>16861332
yeah, I rinsed with LOTS of cold water. Oxy-clean you say? We have a bunch of that powdered stuff. Do you think I can make up a small container of it and soak it?

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So I have a problem with an old friend basically. I'm a guy and she's an insanely hot model. The thing is that I have been talking to her lately over what's app and such and she said we should meet up some time.

Now I do want to do this but how do I go about this? I have a girlfriend and I am fairly sure people will gossip about it if I hang out with her in a way that could be percieved as a date.

Now my question is how I should handle this. Should I wait for some event in a few months to invite her over? Or just go drinking somewhere? The problem with the event thing is that all my friends will also be there, some of them really do not like her. Any suggestions?
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What are your intentions?

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here's the issue /adv/
>ex and i had credit card open together(not under my name)
>credit card was closed out after breakup for obvious reasons
>just got an email from amazon saying charges were charged back from the card for items i bought -before- we broke up, that i paid for and now i owe them money
what do?
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Bankfag here.

It's impossible to close out a credit card while it has any kind of debt. You probably only blocked the plastic but didnt void the contract.

If you did not close the contract (and you must have any kind of validation code to prove so, you are fucked.

May I ask what brand of card it is?
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>>16861260
it's a capital one card. i called them and they just told me the card was closed and didn't say anything else.
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>>16861260
another question is, did capital one initiate the charge back or what? these are from months ago. i don't get how that's even possible.

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does anyone elsd masturbate while imagining non-sexual cute/romantic scenarios, that mostly consist of hand holding and at most making out?
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>>16861234
lots of girls do this, its pretty typical for girls
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and yet I am a boy. what is this
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>>16861241
For real? I have heard of doing it to say R-rated movies because of the story and build up, better acting and lighting. Just hand holding? Bumping for more fenanon input.

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My cousin and his wife have recently separated, what do I need to do to sleep with her? She's 32, i'm 23.

I don't care if it's unethical.
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Just ask her if you don't give a shit. She probably will though. Other people are going to say hang out with her for a while, let things develop but what do you really have to offer a 32 year old woman?
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>>16861232
>"ey bb grl u want sum fuk?"

works every time
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>>16861262
he needs to already be a Chad to even consider making a move on her

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Hey guys, I am in need of some advice from anyone with experience with prescription pain killers.

I am prescribed Norco 5/325 for an extruded disc in my back which I will be having surgery for soon. I am deathly afraid of becoming addicted to them. I am a correctional officer and see everyday, first hand, how these can destroy lives.

I have been on them for about 2 months and only take 1 or two a day if any at all (some days I dont need to take any depending on my pain level.) However sometimes I catch myself craving them for the high that they can produce and try to convince myself that I need to take one. I won't take one unless I am in some sort of pain but sometimes its not severe pain and I'll take it just to be totally pain free (even if it is just mild pain). I never take more than prescribed, I never drink on them or use any other illicit drugs, and I don't run out of them very quickly.

Does this make me an addict? I get very anxious about this everyday and it's all I can think about sometimes (not taking the pills, but whether or not I am addicted to them).
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>>16861224
>I am prescribed Norco 5/325 for an extruded disc in my back which I will be having surgery for soon.

You will be given something stronger after the surgery for a few weeks.

Talk to your doctor after the surgery about getting off of them. You will be fine assuming you don't go looking for pills on the street.
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>>16861254
Thanks for the response. I have absolutely no intention of ever trying to find them illicitly. I could not even imagine myself doing that
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>>16861259
Trust me, it happens. You turn into some disgusting shell of a human being when you're an addict, and your brain will try to reason and find excuses to why YOU doing it is less terrible than other people doing it.
Like "I'm a correctional officer, it's not like I'm on the streets begging for money", "I'm not a criminal, I'm not harming anyone", etc
Believe me, 5 year addict talking here. I guess all I can suggest is: don't forget you're human, and if given the circumstances, you'd eat a live baby if you had to. You're as human as every addict, murderer, criminal and suicidal person there has ever been, so please take care of yourself and realize you too can become corrupt, addicted or dead.

I've realized that the reason I want to have sex with a bunch of girls is because I just want validation. Validation that I'm attractive enough, funny/cool enough, "big" enough.

It's putting a strain on my relationship because any time I get horny, I start seriously considering leaving my girlfriend in pursuit of the feelings and other girls, but as soon as I've had sex/masturbated, I realize how dumb it would be and that I don't need their validation anyway. But then when I'm around guys who are getting girls or who the girls are fawning over/flirting with, I can't help but be jealous.

I don't know if this means I should be single and just do it, or if I need therapy to kill my need for validation from sex.
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>>16861205
Post pictures online?
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>>16861227
what?
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I don't really have advice besides not doing anything off the cuff. I'm mainly responding because I know what you mean. I don't have low self-esteem or anything but on dates and that I feel like sex means it's 'for real', seems odd for a guy I suppose.

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What do i do to help my bf who's scared of getting hurt in a relationship? He's suffered some pretty bad breakups before and now he's kinda closing himself emotionally, it seems, to prevent it from happening again. He's afraid of getting too attached to me and then losing me. But I don't want him clamming up on me.

He's told me of his experiences and he even flat out told me he's trying not to fall in love with me. He keeps distracting himself with work, video games and whatever, he builds himself this busy life so he doesn't have to confront the issue.

It hurt my self-esteem pretty bad for a time, and I tried to get him to acknowledge me more, work over his issues and those of the both of us, but it probably hasn't helped. Pretty much always when we discuss these things (which is OFTEN) I end crying sooner or later we've discussed breaking up any number of times. But I don't really want to, if it can be helped.

Thing is, he probably wouldn't even want me to help, since he likes to pretend to be this tough guy who never cries and who doesn't need other people, can get along on his own etc. Is there really nothing I can do, or?
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I'd probably stop talking about it so much. I know that sounds weird but it's not helping and just annoys him. Realistically you're just going to have to wait. Sure it's not fair and also doesn't do much for you but an ultimatum isn't going to work, he'd tell you fuck off. Maybe just try and work your way into his life, maybe give videogames a shot, stuff like that.
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>>16861196
He's treating you like shit. Did all those girls break up with him? Just because they supposedly treated him like shit doesn't mean you should be treated like shit too. Or maybe he just treated them the same way and they broke up with him.

You should probably leave.
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>>16861196
This is an easy one. If you live together, just "spontaneously" and without mentioning it, develop a habit of only getting half dressed when you get up. Worked for me, guys can't resist boobage.

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Long shot, but has anyone else here had brain surgery? I just want to talk to someone who I can relate with.

My email is [email protected] if you want to email me too
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What about anyone else with a neurological disorder like MS or epilepsy?
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You should probably look for support groups in your area.
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>>16861175
I can't relate but wish you all the best anon, get well soon!

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Hey so I'm from merica, live in Germany and have a German gf. I really love her and love spending time with her. We are studying the same thing at the same university.

We're going through a bit of a rough patch. I have broken up with her like 3 times out of fear of the future.

I am worried about her getting fat because she doesnt really prioritize healthy eating and exercise and is already a bit chubby.

I am worried about her cheating on me because of something that happened 2 months or so into our relationship. She had a sleepover with some of her girlfriends and a guy and they were all drunk (she said she wasnt). Apparently her two girlfriends got in one bed together and she had to sleep with the guy. She said they cuddled because she was cold and when she first told the story said nothing sexual happened. Recently during our rough patch she told me something sexual did indeed happen, but she didn't initiate it. Apparently he put her hand on his penis and she left it there for like a minute (said she was tired or didn't know what to do) and she also told me she has trouble saying no.

Now I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and respect her for telling me all of that, but I still feel like something more could have happened and I told her I would forgive her if anything else did in fact happen, but she said that was it and it won't happen again.

I know it's hard as an outsider to analyze a relationship like this. I love her and really enjoy spending time with her, but I just don't know if it's worth my time and emotions. Should I keep trying or just give it up and try to move on?
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How about... Hey Hilda, I think you are great but I don't trust you to look after yourself or our relationship. Let's just be friends..

That last bit is a covert goodbye by the way. She will be hopping chad in no time and you will be free!
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>>16861149

fucking cuck, she obviously fucked him, she is dropping bullshit to see how much you accept from it, have some spine and dump that whore right now, is every american an dumb cuck like you?
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>>16861165
hmm yeah I've tried but it's fucking hard. I really like this girl.

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My girlfriend loved sucking cock when we met and for the first three years of our relationship. Like i felt bad how often she would suck me off. Now it's MAYBE once a month. Starting to look into massage parlors or hookers to fix my bj fix but seems life a bad path. When i talk to her about it she says she wants to be valued for more than her mouth but is just an excuse. I should note that i go down on her about two to three times a month.
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>>16861130
bad luck anon. there's almost no fixing this.
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thank god she's your girlfriend.
you sound young
get out and date more, plenty of girls out there who will like you enough to want to pleasure you.

the truth is you're probably pressuring her, being whiney, needy, etc. She is most likely thinking of cheating on you. Just thank god you're not married and move on.
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>>16861145
30 here, she isn't thinking of cheating and never will. But how can you be so certain anon you might ask? She knows i have a cuck fetish but is repulsed by it most of the time.

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Whenever I walk in the strees with my girlfriend there is always some douchebag that flirts with her, makes sex comments about her or how beautiful her ass is, in front of me. I almost went to punches with two guys. Does this happen to you anon? We live near a "ghetto" so you can tell the enconomic and social standarts... sometimes there are all these black men outside a house and as we walk through the street they are always saying things about her or provoking me. I had a long discussion with her and agreed that it is better to not even pay attention or look at them ( unless it goes to physic harassment ), the problem is I have a lot of rage inside me, and everytime that happens my rage grows, but then I think that worst things could happen if go fight all that men (eg. They knock me down and molestate her ), so I just remain silent, but inside me this rage grows always more. I dont wanna get pissed by fucking ghetto niggers always telling things at her, but it's impossible... what is your experience with similar problems anon? Any solution is welcomed. I am really sorry, I dont know how to express correctly in english.
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Unless this happens when she's alone too, they're mostly trying to get a reaction out of you more than anything
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>>16875254
It does happen when she is alone
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I wanna know if this happens to someone else and how you manage the situation before going hands

I'm an Indian male. (Inb4 >poo in the loo lol) Usually I'm introverted, so I don't seek conversation, although I am not a sperg so I can hold one when someone approaches me.

Thing is though from what I've heard unless you're like an 8+, you have to be an extrovert to seek a relationship. Is it possible for brown superpooers like me to be attractive enough for others to approach me? I feel like white people are inherently more attractive than me.
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Even if you're attractive, you should still look to be proactive in your pursuit of a relationship.

There's no "inherently more attractive." I'm a good looking white guy and I've seen plenty of Indian dudes who leave me in their dust. But again that's not the kind of thing which appears out of thin air. You stand in front of a mirror (you might have to buy one since you probably don't have a bathroom LOL) and start working your way top to bottom. If you see something you can fix, fix it. Don't settle for "this is how it is." It's not. Make it better. Then, yes, you ultimately need to go out there and do the needful. You need to pursue the women to whom you're attracted regardless of your assessment of the odds.
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Are you talking about white women specifically or Indian women as well?
As a general rule, people prefer to date within their own race. Racism/prejudice might play a part, but people like when their partner and they have a lot in common from the inside and out. For people to venture out of that comfort zone, they need an extra nudge. Like a shared passionate interest in something niche like pottery. Or being unusually attractive or pleasant.
Then there's specific stereotypes like Indian men smelling bad, having small dicks and expecting women to be submissive and meek.
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>>16861132
I use a piss puddle outside my house as my mirror. My new years resolution is to only wipe with my left hand when on the designated shitting streets.
Jokes aside, I'm already improving myself. I've been losing weight (almost 30 lbs lost) and renovating my wardrobe, and I've spaced out from my shut-in friends who just browse /r9k/ and /pol/, replacing them with so called "normies" (who Imo are much more enjoyable to be with). It's just that I am quiet by nature, and even though I can now hold a conversation (unlike a year ago), it's still hard for me to initiate or even seek contact. I sometimes get envious of inherently attractive men, since they just have to be there and others chamber to suck their dicks.
I guess the question is how can I get over my fright of initiating contact with girls? I can easily to it to men, but if they're of the opposite gender, I freak the fuck out.

>>16861167
Even though I myself prefer a mate of my own race as well, I am not picky and will date anyone that I feel any attraction too.
I'm aware of most of the stereotypes (except the preference for submissive and meek women, that's a first). I used to be like that, and I know many Indians like that too. I put deodorant and occasionally cologne, and the small dicks thing is a meme.

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What has the best pay after studying:
>Pharmaceuticals
>Electrical Engineering
>Some third option I've never heard of
I can't decide between these two.

I'm a workaholic and not a social retard.
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Engineering if you're good at maths.
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>>16861113
Plumbers
Auto workers
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>>16861126
I am, but Pharmaceuticals is also very technical

>>16861344
What?

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