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Last weekend I was trying to be more sexually adventurous with my boyfriend, and tried something I had never tried before.

I asked him if he would let me tie him up so I could have my way with him and he agreed to it. I think maybe he thought I was going to tease and ride him, but I had other things in mind. I actually wanted to facesit him. I had been watching a lot of this pacesetting porn, and it is incredibly hot.

When I initially did it he seemed taken aback, but I really got into it. He was doing what I consider to be schoolgirl denial, saying stuff like no please stop, or let me up, but I had him right where I wanted him. I stared covering his nose completely with my pussy, and then sometimes I would pinch his nose shut and just cover his mouth and he would try to breathe through it, though being covered. His face got so red, he was so cute down there! He was pleading with me in between that he couldn't breathe and would do anything else if I would let him up. I only did this for about 15 minutes, but I had the biggest orgasm I had ever had.

The thing is now though he is really complacent around me, and we haven't had sex since that happened. I feel he keeps making excuses, and he won't even talk about the with me to figure it out. I think maybe deep down he really liked this and is maybe ashamed by his response to it.

How do I get him to open up?
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>>16938138
Hey, he didn't use a safe word, he can't complain.
You should tie him again while he's asleep and then wake him by straddling his face. Tell him that he has to open up and communicate with you, add that's part of a healthy relationship, and that you're not going to let him wriggle out of it.
Demand that he tells you how he felt about your last session, and that he's honest. Any time you think he's being less than honest he gets a face full of hot cunt.
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>>16938138
Umm you raped him for 15 minutes straight. Reason he's complacent is because he's suffering from Stockholm syndrome, while probably hating your guts. This isn't love missy. Over and out.

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whenever I'm on tinder and a match is like "let's swap nudes" I do it but I feel bad. mostly cause I'm a virgin and my parents instilled this whole Save Your Body For Someone Who Loves You mentality into me when I was younger. is this normal?
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>sending nudes on an app that has your face, name and age and is linked to facebook
enjoy your slut status, virgin or not
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>>16937845
Yes if you respect yourself and have values.
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You're a disgusting degenerate.

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how do guys feel when their girlfriends mention their period? should i avoid trying to mention it when i can?

and what about other gross stuff like food poisoning, gassiness or diarrhoea?

i find this stuff so fucking embarrassing to mention to my bf. it's one of the top reasons why i try to eat clean and work out and be obsessively hygienic.

but god damn it, sometimes i want to eat kfc without worrying about it destroying my anus or breaking me out... it's especially bad since my boyfriend loves to eat out and i don't trust a lot of places.
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>>16937745
Depends on the guy. A rare minority are mature enough to take such news into consideration and act accordingly, as evidenced by your well founded paranoia. Either deal with how he handles it or move on.
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>>16937745
I dont really like hearing about it but if its relevant information letting me know so I can understand whats going on is fine

just say you're going through it but dont bring up details unless its relevant
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>>16937745
It never really bothered me when my gf would talk about it. I'd buy her pads and shit and I never had a problem with it. It's just something that needs to be dealt with. Sure it's gross but it's not like I'm touching it or anything.

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Swinging from man to man and receiving constant attention and offers of a relationship, women will never be lonely.

True, despairing loneliness or unrequited love will never be experienced by a woman-that is the exclusive domain of man. When was the last time you heard a woman complaining about being single?

Pic related
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It's true, being a woman is great. I'm so glad I'm not a man, it must suck knowing you're worthless to the opposite gender
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Uh oh, the misogyny thread is back. Instant replies. Every. Single. Day.
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>>16937509
A girl in my accounting class complains about being single pretty frequently. She's short, unattractive, and has a pretty dull personality. I also work part time at McDonald's with her.

There's also a girl in my psychology class that has been turned down by pretty much every guy she has talked to. She is also short and unnattractive, but she always has a tendency to go after guys that are obviously out of her league (particularly the ones that play sports). They make fun of her all the time, and I can tell from her facial expressions and body language that she understands why. She sits in front of me and I talk to her from time to time to make her feel better about it.

Step outside of your box, OP.

>have bf
>sleep with him maybe three nights a week
>almost 100% of the nights that I sleep over, he does this:

>wait until I fall asleep
>rub my sensitive spots for until I wake up
>pleasure me without touching himself until I get off
>tell me to say something
>I say it
>he proceeds with dicking
>he finishes dramatically
>he goes to wash up
>he comes back
>I've usually recovered by then, at which point I go wash up
>we go back to bed

But I really don't know how I feel about every time he tells me to say something. Usually the things he tells me to say are along the lines of, "Yes, Anon," in response to him asking if I want him to continue. And he's really adamant about asking, too. Like yesterday,
>we're having fun
>it's getting good
>suddenly he stops
>"Do you want it?"
>I have an emotionally triggered stutter of moderate severity but kind of lose the ability to talk when having sex
>try to say yes
>fail for five minutes
>he keeps encouraging me to say, "Yes, Anon."
>I keep trying
>eventually call him an idiot
>"That doesn't sound like, 'Yes, Anon'."
>I reply sarcastically, "Okay, Anon".
>"Good enough," and he continues.

But what the fuck? I really don't understand why he would do that. Does he get off on it? Is he asking permission? We're literally in a committed relationship and I've not once EVER said no. Never. So all that's left is he's asking to derive some sexual pleasure out of it. But how is that even possible? He is literally blue-balling himself so that I can gather myself and answer a question. What the fuck?
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>>16937365
it could be

A. he wants to make sure you are enjoying it
B. he wants it to be a more connected experience, he wants more emotional involvement from you
C. he wants his ego stroked a bit

I've had sex with girls and I couldn't get into it because I couldn't tell if they were enjoying it as well or not
some girls just lie there making no indication they are into it, and so you stop and they complain "I was really enjoying that" and you think "so why didn't you make some indication of that"

don't be one of those sex ninjas that makes no noise and says nothign
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>>16937365
>Does he get off on it? Is he asking permission?
probably both, is it that big of a deal? if he likes it and you sound like you're enjoying it why not just go with it? sounds like you're asking for attention more than advice.

Have you guys ever used a penis enlargement pump and does it really work?
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That shit looks painful desu
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If it really worked would anyone have a small penis?
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Bf has one and it makes sex better and makes him laster longer. It makes it look bigger from my experience. But get a high quality one the cheap ones hurt.

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I apologize if this topic isn't safe for work. I won't be posting any nsfw images. The porn boards are also not the best places for discussion or advice.

Is there a healthy and relatively normal way to give up certain fetishes? I have a few that make me feel like crap whenever I watch some porn with them in it. And not in that way which makes submissive people feel lovely. Just like crap.

So I'm wondering if I can give up these fetishes that I see as damaging in my life, without doing further damage. There are all sorts of resources on the internet about fetishes and telling you they're normal, and I totally understand that. But I'm not enjoying these fetishes. I do have fetishes that I enjoy. That's totally fine. I'm at peace with that.

Can anyone on /adv/ point out some good resources on giving up fetishes?
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lol NSFW is just for images, text doesn't matter

anyway what fetishes are we talking about here? It's diapers isn't it.
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I'd be interested in this
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>>16936979

I posted about this the other night and /adv/ told me there was no getting over fetishes. Then my thread died.

So, OP, sitting here looking for the answer with you.

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What happens if you stop masturbating?
Do I get super powers?
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sort of. even if i dont masturbate for 2 godamn days im a social butterfly making girls smile left and right

i mean i could still do it after a day of jerking it. but i just dont want to. i become just kinda lazy and lame

fucking addicted to masturbating for like 10 godamn years now fuck
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>>16936847
only if you stopped for a prolonged period. Like 20 years ? accelerated regeneration, immunity to disease. 40 years ? super speed. 60 years ? control of elements and gravity.
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>>16936847
I stopped for a month and I did get looks from women. I guess it makes you seek out women's attention more, but for me it did not get me into a relationship so I fapped.

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I've just gone official with a girl I'm seeing long distance, we're about 500 miles apart til after summer, after that we'll be on different continents for another year until she moves to my country.
She is really great for me and I'm willing to make it work even when she's across the atlantic and have like 1 visit every couple of months MAX.

I guess what I want here are people with experience from this where it worked out and you lived happily ever after so I don't have to doubt my decision to be with her and invest myself more and more in this
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>>16935767
LDRs aren't real relationships. They're placeholders between in person relationships. Enjoy being an emotional tampon while she rides the cock carousel.
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>>16935786
She's not like that, she was a virgin before she was with me and she's a true introvert, hates parties and loves staying inside reading.
Honestly not worried at all she would cheat on me.
I see her about every 2-3 weeks now since it's only two train rides away and it's the best each time, how is it not a real relationship?
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LDRs are 100x harder than normal relationships. I'm in one at the moment and it's pretty painful at times. But mine has no end in sight yet, and I'm discovering sides of my bf's I'm not terribly happy with. Sorry this is not a happy ending, just wanted to say they can work and I wish you success in yours!

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And He began speaking and taught them, saying:

“Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn,
for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek,
for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they shall be filled.
Blessed are the merciful,
for they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart,
for they shall see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called the sons of God.
Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

“Blessed are you when men revile you, and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake. Rejoice and be very glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in this manner they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

[Matthew 5:2-12] - The Beatitudes
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Join us in prayer and worship, all are welcome!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqANd2aw8Mc
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>>16935624
What the hell are you doing on 4chan?
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>>16935896

I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

Luke 5:32

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> find girl on okc with 95% match
> fits perfectly, similar interests great chemistry
> meet her, get along really great
> but she seems to be at least chubby, cant say how much exactly, give her the benefit of the doubt
> things escalate over the course of a few dates
> well we fuck and she is quite a lot too heavy. cant even fuck her doggystyle because there is so much fat on her ass.

If she was less fat, she would be marriage material for me, but I get goose bumps if I think of fucking her again.

What do I do?
a) tell her straight forward and leave her with the option to come back, if she loses weight (unrealistic)
b) keep meeting her, but stay away from sex until she understands, why that is the case
c) something else

> definitely more fat than this picture
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>>16939924

C) something else. Break it off. Don't string her along or try to change her, because it only leads to resentment.
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>>16939935
This.
Seriously you fucked up by fucking her already. If you come forth its gonna be a shit show. If you go dark itll probably be fine if you have no other connection s with her.
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I'm just surprised you managed to get your dick up for her. Break it off, she's obviously not the one you want to be with.

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I just started living alone for the first time, and the loneliness is literally killing me. Yes, literally.

How do people do it?

Before anyone suggests it: I'm allergic to cats.
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>i'm allergic to cats
good, because cats are shit animals with parasites all over them.
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Get a dog
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>>16939723
It would have to be a small one. Apartment.

Guys that got laid in high school;

How did you do it. Please be detailed.
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The first time I had sex came down to two things, 1- being completely oblivious to her interest (so I never tried and never looked desperate) and 2- being a genuinely chill and kind person. With that second part I don't mean being a white knight or Nice Guy. I mean that she saw me hanging out with my friend after school, he hurt himself so I made sure he was alright. That's it. Thirty seconds to show that I'm not a weird loner and that I act like a decent human being. I know that the really hot girls might be looking for a lot more stuff but she was good looking enough and I still got my dick wet. My overall advice is to keep it simple and don't miss the opportunity when mediocre girls come knocking out of nowhere.
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How the fuck can you not find girls who are easy to take advantage of in high school?

I'm a Jesus freak, but if I wasn't I'm 100% sure I could've at least fucked the really lonely blind girl, or my insecure female best friend.

Or am I missing some kind of point here?
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>>16938430
>I'm a Jesus freak

I thought that was you!

Glad to see some of the oldschool tripfags still posting.

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Swinging from man to man and receiving constant attention and offers of a relationship, women will never be lonely.

True, despairing loneliness or unrequited love will never be experienced by a woman-that is the exclusive domain of man. When was the last time you heard a woman complaining about being single?
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>>16931043
Yesterday
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>>16931043
My friend, who does your bitterness hurt most? Yourself.

It's like you're eating poison every day hoping the other person will die. They do not feel your contempt, hatred, or anger in the slightest. They are not pleasant feelings, yet you force yourself into such misery everyday. They live their lives oblivious to your scorn, while you seethe with anger and disillusionment. It's a hopeless struggle and you will be the loser.
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>>16931043

all the fucking time nice bait 1/10 for reply

So I have a problem with my FWB/guy I'm currently seeing (don't know how to define the relationship, we sleep together often but recently started going out on dates). He's 10 years older and told me he has quite a bit of experience, while I'm SUPER inexperienced, which he's aware of.

We started sleeping together very quickly, I told him that I was very inexperienced the first night. He didn't seem to mind, and it went well. The second time he wanted to try anal, and I told him it was a bit too quick for me. I'm still very new to having sex, so I told him I'd rather wait, but he was very persistent. We did it, it was okay for me, and he's wanted to do it for quite a few times. I mostly do it because he enjoys it so much, but I don't feel like he things very much about my enjoyment. I love to please him, and I happily go down on him 2-3 times a day, ask him about his fantasies and do my best to fulfill them etc. But he rarely wants to go down on me, and will stop after 5 minutes to complain his neck hurts or why I'm taking so long to cum. He doesn't really do any foreplay before we have sex, like I told him I enjoy cuddling and being caressed in the morning, but he just sticks his dick in me a few minutes after we wake up, not even touching my body. He's not very affectionate and I don't feel very sexually satisfied.

I have feelings for him, but I'm wondering if he's just seeing me as a sex doll and isn't into me at all. I don't know what to do.
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>>16939866
ahahahaha

you degraded yourself you dipshit.

See this guy wants pussy.

Your new to this. You think this guy cares lol

Hes had tons of pussy if he got you to do anal this quick, guys a champ.

If you wanted foreplay and companionship you should have gotten a boyfriend not a fwb.

The moment you allowed him to get pussy the contract is done hes got what he wants.

If he wants to date you hell try if not when you complain hell just leave you dumb ass.

Good job getting played.
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>>16939879

But we do date. We go out to dinner, see movies, have long snuggle-sessions on the couch etc. He calls me often and has said he's never had sex with someone he wasn't into. We don't see anyone else.

Anyway, where I live, people don't get in relationships BEFORE they've had sex. Most people sleep together for 4-5 months at least before starting to discuss entering a relationship.
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>>16939887
aw hell yeah dude where's that at

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