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>>17123071
I had the same problem as you when I started uni. I failed as miserably as you(didnt even go to any of my exams), lied about it to my parents. Put a gun to my head but couldnt pull the trigger.

When I finally confessed my parents didnt understand but let me redo my first year. I failed again miserably and ran away from home, took a random train to abroad where i spent a week in a random hotel just watching episodes of star trek to keep me distracted. When I read my mails and understood what i made my parents go through i returned home.

I also went to prositutes before trying to kill myself because i didnt want to die a virgin.

My parents always kept forgiving me, even if they couldnt understand. I hid my suicide attempts but one time my father discovered the loaded gun (he alwasy keeps it unloaded, i didnt know how to unload it - its a bolt action rifle).

I changed subject and fell into the same habit again, flunking out in my second year.

I then decided to quit studying and find a job. I excelled in the job market. I learned quick and was eager to finally being able to prove myself. Whatever task they gave me I was eager to do it. As long as it wasnt too complex that it needed serious study time.

I started as administrative clerk at a real estate place and after 2 years I became self-employed and got my own clients to manage their properties and follow up new construction projects. I have a good income, car, travel lots and am wanted on the dating scene.

This year i restarted uni with more confidence, knowledge about my weaknesses but also about how to overcome them.

In the end you still need a degree if you want a stable life.

I am now 26, will graduate at 28 and will have a relatively good CV and no difficulty finding a job (am studying Computer Science with work experience in business self-employed).

whatever bad phase you go through just never give up.

>>17123071
What are you majoring in? Most people will still like you regardless if you have a degree or not. Maybe consider taking a semester off.

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I'm have a receding hairline at 25 and it's only going to get worse.... Im considering hair transplant

>>17123027
>>17123104
Forgot to say , get the trump.

just cut it very short and grow a goatee or neatly trimmed beard if you can

no real sense trying to hide it

>>17123026
Maybe 50-60k a year with a steady white-collar job

That's when my brother married anyways and he's been fine. Of course moved out is another, and paying for your own insurance

>>17123026
It depends on where you live. $45K/year in one state might get you a lot further than in another state. You might need $60K just to live as comfortably as that $45K.

It also depends on how you live. You can be incredibly frugal yet still have a decently nice and comfortable lifestyle if you're okay with that and can manage it properly. Or hell are you even just okay with being poor?

It's all relative to your personal situation. What is stability to you, and more importantly what does it mean to your partner? You could get a rough idea here but there are a lot of variables you need to give us to more accurately assess you.

>>17123033
Should there be a prerequisite # of years working beforehand?

>>17123013

Everything about big cocks is psychological. There are women who can only gain pleasure from dicks of certain size, sure, but for every size queen there's also plenty of women who would find the experience painful.

It's more of a male competition thing, as you've already alluded to. Having a cock is the simplest biological indicator of being a man. So if

Cock = man
Bigger cock = bigger man

And who doesn't want to be a bigger and better man? That's the reptilian logic behind people's obsession with it. The emotional/psychological idea of being with a big dicked dude is much more of a turn on for women than the big dick itself.

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>>17123013
In my experience, very few women have questioned the functionality and size of my dick.

Depending on the day, I've seen my dick rage to 8", but 9/10 I'm a solid 5" cut with some girth and a nice curve. Definitely a grower too.

It also depends on the woman's experience and the angle she's getting a look at it with. From the side or top down, my dick doesn't look that impressive because I'm overweight. But when they get an under or angled view, it looks monstrous.

I've hit the back walls of vaginas and g-spots totally fine, so I really don't think size matters unless it's a personal fetish of theirs or they just don't know better.

>>17123038
so what can be done ? from my mind it isrational not emotional. having more cock,at least a but,will have no negatives and possibly sone positives...anyway,quality post,thank you,

Be interesting and say things.

Offer her money and make it a generous offer

>>17123017
Not OP, but it's pretty obvious that he's asking how to be interesting and what things to say. That stock answer usually pops up in these threads, but it doesn't help.

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To further elaborate we are engaged. He lives in the UK and I live in the US.

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I don't know how often we should talk. When should we talk on skype, how many phone calls a week etc. I don't know where to draw the line between barely talking and asking for too much.

Also were both aspie

>>17122974
Hey op, I can give you some advice that could help you with this. I'm also in a international relationship with my girlfriend in Canada while I'm stuck in the US. During the first year or so we went out of our way to make sure we skyped each other every night but now as we are reaching into our third year together times have gotten busy for both us so I'd be lucky to hear her voice in a week. Take what you want from what I said. I hope I helped.

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Make sammiches for people and they will like you

you're going to tenerife for vacation or to live? If you're going to live there then learn spanish.

>>17123072
To live.

Hey, It's OP again.

I forgot to mention that I could easily get some pretty good revenge on her that would definitely end the relationship she's currently in. It's 100% legal and has nothing to do with her personal information/nudes being leaked. I've decided to go against going through with it for various reasons though. The main ones being I love her and don't want to hurt her even though she's hurt me and I don't really want to stoop to that level.

The right thing to do is NOT get revenge right?

>>17122959
I think you should OP. It seems like youve gotten cucked big time.

>>17122959
The concept of being the "better" person is bullshit. Harm those who've harmed you. There's no karma or sin, you're nothing more than chemistry deluding itself into consciousness.

Get satisfaction out of your life however you can find it before it ends.

>>17122905
Are you me?

Did you suck a dogs dick and let him fuck your ass in return for something you needed badly?

>>17122905
>rebuild their life around a new moral code where what they did was acceptable so they can move on

Why? If you failed, look the truth in the eye, cash in some free wisdom and never do the same mistake again.

If you change your beliefs to reaffirm that you did nothing wrong, you learn nothing. And you open another gate to be corrupted even easier in the future.

got any useless shit to sell? sell it on craigslist or something

60 bucks doesn't seem like that much, sounds do-able.

Ask as many people you know if you can borrow money. If you're good friends, ask if you can borrow $5 - $10, and make the amount lower depending on how much/little respect/trust they have for you.

You can casually ask people on the street to borrow a dollar, etc.

Sell some stuff you own.

Get a temporary job cleaning dishes.

etc.

have you tried sucking dicks in a trailer?

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Surprise her with a sub from Subway

Patience my anon friend

>>17122914
Any idea, a different plan maybe?

>>17122867
ON your lip? It might be a cold sore. Try abreva on it. Do not mess with it.

>>17122872
i actually already 1/2 popped it, it was white and shit and 100% a pimple.

Right now I'm trying some stuff from a friend, he told me if you put a very tiny bit of toothpaste on for a couple hours it just splits the thing. Still not sure if it's a good idea, though.

>>17122882
Toothpaste is okay, but I recommend benzoyl peroxide cream instead. You can get it at any drug store in a tube. Make sure to not get it on fabric though as it bleaches. Don't mess with the pimple anymore though, as it might get infected or scar.

>>17122850
Get AIDs

>>17122850
Smoke alot, and you'll get lung cancer in no time.
warning terminal illnesses in themselves aren't painless at all OP. they usually eat away at you for a long time.

The most enjoyable way is to sleep around I guess.

Only if they're stupid. There's nothing wrong with owning a gun and properly storing it

>>17122843
Most people are stupid anon, that's why I'm afraid.

>>17122846
You think this specific person is too stupid to properly own a gun? Why is that?

Dejavu you dumb niggerhead

>>17122814
Deja vu

>>17122817
>>17122819
I have these a lot.
Do I have a mental condition or something?