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>Text this girl I know
>After she gets off work at 10 she texts me and invites me over
>About 30 minutes later I text that I'm about to head over there
>Show up at her apartment about 15-20 minutes later
>Text her again and tell her that I'm here
>No response
>Call her
>Phone rings a few times and I get sent to voicemail
>Wait a while and call her again, figure she's busy
>Instantly get sent to voicemail twice (think this means she turned off her phone)
>Knock on her door
>No answer
>Go back home
>Call her again before the phone rings a few times and I get sent to voicemail

She stood me up.
She texted then called me the next morning saying she fell asleep and didn't see my texts when I told her I was on the way/already there but I don't believe her because of the inconsistencies with her phone's ringing, which she claims that it just "didn't go through" which seems like an obvious lie.

I'm upset of course, because she purposely stood me up and didn't have the decency to cancel on me neither is she being honest with me.

Am in the wrong?
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I have my ringing tone at 0 and vibration turned off very often. I have been called by people with my phone next to me and I didn't even notice. She might not be lying. Try seeing her once more and if it doesn't work just move on.
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>>17122812
What a bitch. I'd tell her to fuck off.
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>>17122848
That's understandable but I find that hard to believe with her because she's pretty much always on her phone.

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How do you stay in touch?

Meeting people is easy. Getting to know people is easy. Making friends out of them is easy. Yet keeping friends seems impossible for me.

At first I'd invite them to do shit together and they'd invite me, we'd talk regularly and generally just learn about each other. It lasts a week, a month, a few months perhaps. After that it just dies. I run out of things to talk about. They're no longer as eager to meet up, initiate contact or even respond. I could understand if it happens once or twice, but every single person I've been remotely social to in the past few years has withered away despite my efforts to not let it wither away. It makes me wonder if I'm doing something wrong.

So what is the "right" way to keep your friends? How do you guys make your friends?
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OP, what age are you?
Arranging meetups and keeping friends is damn hard past college years, so I heard.
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RL friends are for plebs. Just make internet friends
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>>17122790
College-aged. I'm a few years older than the average student, but for some reason most people think I'm the youngest of their group or close to it. It's the main reason it's so easy to meet people and make friends.
Just getting started as well (late student), so 'past college years' won't be causing this problem anytime soon.

>>17122792
Internet friends are for plebs. Just shitpost around here somewhere

Hey /adv/, dyke scum here

I have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, and in the past few months my sex drive has tanked to almost non-existent due to a bunch of factors and stress. My girlfriend's has not. At all.

She was a virgin until she dated me, and gets very upset/feels humiliated if we don't have sex often. The longer we go without having sex, the more often she asks me about it, and I am at the point where I'm just becoming irritated whenever she brings it up.

I love her, and I want to make her happy, but I cannot force myself to be in the mood, I've tried a few things to get my sex drive back and they haven't worked yet. This is really bothering both of us, and the more it bothers her the shittier I feel about it which in turn makes it even less likely we're going to have sex.

It is getting to the point where we're almost daily having fights and getting depressed over this. Something needs to change, and I am not sure what to do to resolve this.

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>>17122744
>Dyke scum here
>Virgin till she met me
Pick one. You can only hit third base.
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>>17122744
Real talk as a girl and a lesbian
>if you don't hit it she will quit it
Just finger her until she comes;do her as a chore.
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>>17122744
Sex is as much an emotional commitment in a relationship as it is a physical one, she probably feels unwanted and ugly and believes herself to be (partly) at fault for you not wanting to sleep with her anymore.
Which sucks. So, occasionally do her "the favour" and sleep with her or at least get her off, fucks sake woman.

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No, seriously. I can never make the girl cum.

The problem isn't longevity; I can go for hours. But it's not enough. I must be getting something wrong. The rhythm? The angle? Maybe I don't spend enough time on foreplay?

What is the best way to make sure a girl has an orgasm?
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>>17122717
The best way is to have her rub her clit while you fuck her, usually at a nice angle like with her face down ass up or the like. Make sure she's touching herself.

T. A girl.
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>>17122717
>8 Sex Positions for Mulitiple Orgasms
More like 8 Sex Positions for Pornography videos.

Foreplay is the answer probably. Not everyone operates the same, but with foreplay you can get her to enjoy it more in most circumstances.
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Foreplay and clit stimulation before and during

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Hi /adv/
so when i was 16 i started feeling weird about my dad, i couldn't be around him, the thought of him being in the next room made me really uncomfortable. Sometimes when we were eating i feel like he's staring at me and i just had to leave. I generally felt like he was flirting me (though there wasn't any big signs of that)
I still can't be around him because i feel like he looks at me that way.
I even made myself more ugly because i'm afraid he'll find me attractive. I also isolated myself totally from other people and had delusions about the world for a period, I thought the world would end etc. I got really sensitive and my feelings really changed everyday from really high to really low etc. Now i'm 18 and i still feel weird around him but it's not that bad as it used to be. I also have really bad thoughts and suicide thoughts which i've had for about 8 months now.
can anyone help me to know what's wrong with me? Is it just hormons?

pis is kind of unrelated
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I have no idea, but talk to a professional.
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this is the definition

>to make annoying sexual advances to; especially to force physical and usually sexual contact on

you were never molested. You may have wierd paternalistic issues, yes, but you are not a rape survivor
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>>17122672
Maybe you actually want to fuck him and feel guilty about it.

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Girl I like (age 18) just told me she fucked a 34 year old guy multiple times.

Should I bail?
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If you were 18 and you told her you fucked a 34 year old woman multiple times, do you think she would bail?
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>>17122657
Probably not. She's fucking into old dudes and it kinda bothers me
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>>17122660
Then bail, man.

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I recent got my hands on a bunch of money. Something along the lines of 45,000$.
I am comfortable in my job and don't have any debt (which feels awesome, btw).

The money is nice, but I really don't want to spend it on useless crap. Putting it all in a long term investment account is ok, but the interest rates are pretty low. Even with compounding it would take decades for me to make a substation amount of money.
So I was thinking of buying a property and renting it out.
Obviously 45k, is not enough to buy an apartment complex, I know that.
The idea is to make a big down payment on a duplex and have the monthly payments be covert by the rent of the tenants with a little profit left over.

Does anyone have experience with this kind of venture, or have friends/family that do it?


What would be another good way to turn this lump sum into cash-flow?
I really don't need that much money, but I would love to see a monthly check to cover my bills.
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How old are you? And you want to make money with this money or do anything that sounds good with it? Also US?
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>>17122641
32 years old, haven't lived with my parents since I was 15. I got experience, work very successfully in sales, and can get my way.

I want to make money with that money, yeah.
I manly want to have some form of monthly income. 45k is not a lot in terms of investment, I am not going to quit my job, I am not delusional; but enough to cover my own rent and a few bills.

Yeah, US. Texas to be exact.
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I used to work in real estate and was managing roughly $20 million worth of rental property in Chicago before I changed careers. A big part of my management business came from people who bought an income property thinking that it would be a good way to make money and realizing its an incredible pain in the ass.

The thing you need to keep in mind is that the profit margins are thin in the rental market and you don't really make your money from rents. Rent covers your expenses: mortgage, taxes, upkeep, and general building maintenance. You might end up with a few dollars left over at the end of the month, but you'll want to put that away for when you need a new roof or some asshole tenant with fuck all in assets sets your kitchen on fire. The way you make money, especially on the small scale, is appreciation. You buy, let the property appreciate for a few years, then use that equity to put a down payment on another place. Lather, rinse, repeat.

The problem when you only own one or two units, though, is that you can get fucked easily. Can you cover your expenses out of pocket for six months if one of your tenants just flat stops paying rent and forces you to go to eviction? What do you do if you suspect a tenant is running a brothel out of your apartment? If theres a bad fire, can you survive not having a tenant for the time it takes insurance to pay out and contractors to rehab?

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/adv/, what are the cons of not going to parties, night clubs, drunk hangouts, etc ever?
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>>17122593
You could potentially alienate yourself from your social circles and a pool of potential romantic/sexual partners.
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>>17122593
If you are asking this question to choose between your personal preference and what is socially acceptable or common - try every option, disregard any expectations and choose what feels best for you.
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>>17122631
Kind of. Because I hate showing any vulnerabilities to strangers, I won't try partying. Have zero understanding what is enjoyable there.
My parents are concerned that I don't have much friends, that's pretty much it.

>>17122616
Thanks, anon, are these the only minuses?

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What's the point in confessing to cheating?
It always ends in a break-up, if not straight away then later down the line.

If you want the relationship to keep going, shouldn't you just nut up and accept the guilt of what you did? I suppose you could say 'I respect her/him too much to not tell her', but literally what does that solve?
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In ends a break up because you fucked up. It doesn't end because you told them. The point isn't in accepting the guilt. It's absolving your guilt, because you fucked up. Just because you cheat on someone, doesn't mean that you don't care for them, what it should mean is; you owe them the truth of what you've done.

If you've cheated on someone and upset about the impending breakup, simply follow the steps laid out below.

1. Acquire a tree log, preferably oak.
2. Sit on the log.
3.Admit to the act of cheating.
4.Jam the log deep inside of your rectum, naturally causing internal bleeding.
5. Hope that the selfless act of oaky anal play has inspired your significant other to forgive you and your selfish actions.

Or you could just sack up and admit your mistake you fucking idiot.
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>>17122595
This is what I don't get.
By telling them the cheater is not 'absolved', it still happened, only now both parties are hurt and are broken up. Surely living with the guilt is the punishment, because it only hurts the one who made the mistake.

Nothing good comes of the confession, and it seems like not telling would benefit both parties.
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>>17122713
Your life doesn't end with your relationship. Besides, why would it be so horrible if it ended? Is your initial question loaded in the sense that both parties loved and will continue to love each other, there are no too big problems in the relationship and it was all just an honest mistake?

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how to get my ex back? She messaged me that she misses me, and I was told by someone she still loves me. She split up with me. I had some smalltalk with her a few days ago 'hi what's up, what you been doing' but she hasn't talked since.
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So many people in this world and you would rather stay stuck on some
One who may or may not want to be with you. Go find another fish dude.

If you wont do the better decision for yourself and you still wamt her that badly then juststaright up ask her if shewould be willing to try things again. The worst (best) thing she could say is no
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ok

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Hey /adv/,
Just got out of a relationship, the breakup was really hard. I was so confused for the first week. I had delusions of me just needing to wait out the no contact period or change for her. The thing is that I realized I'd been dependent on her for approval and that is more than likely the reason it ended. For the next month I am going to stop trying to distract myself and just let shit be. I'm going to go grab some model kits, maybe do some coding, and do things that I can be proud of for myself. My life is going in a great direction at the moment, and I'm going to work with it. I acknowledge that while all the memories are painful, it's the feeling I had that I miss. Not her. I still truly care about this girl and when I am no longer a wreck I will bring her back into my life. I am a desirable person and like I said I am going to go far so if she wants to tag along for the ride that's another story. I found most of these answers inside and am posting it here because I am proud of myself for Manning up and facing my demons. I hope if anyone else is in a similar rut this can help them too.
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>>17122563
You hit the nail on the head, man.

It gets really difficult being somebody's everything, that's why dependency can ruin a relationship. Just be you, and realise that you don't need a we any time until you're ready. Keep up all the hobby shit, being passionate and enjoying yourself and eventually someone's going to come along and see a you that they want to make a you two.

Best of luck man. Don't get discouraged.
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>>17122563
Well man, thank you, your post helps me especially. I'm still trying to resist the urge to check up on her, and see what she's up to, because doing so will end up with me finding things out that I didn't want to know....

I want to take the same direction as you one day. Thanks for being strong, so that I can be so too, one day. Love is difficult.
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>>17122563
I got dumped by my girlfriend on the 5th a few days ago and it's still hitting me hard. We were together for 4 years. She said she'd felt like she hasn't wanted to be with me for about a year. What I don't get is why she still said "I love you" back to me. I realize now there signs, like I always avoided serious conversations about the future and the life path she was headed and was comfortable with things staying the same. She'd felt this way for a while but for me this is just really sudden and like being hit with a ton of bricks. I've thought about suicide multiple times a day and even decided my fate with the flip of a coin. I don't how to handle this one. I'd been in other relationships but this one is destroying me.

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Where do you have sex when you can't do it at home?
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Why the fuck wouldn't you be able to have it at home?
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>>17122565
Either cheating or underage would be my guess.
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>>17122565
I'm guessing OP's parents wouldn't approve.

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Fuck /adv/, I need help. It's Mother's Day, my moms boyfriend is going back to Indiana, and she hasn't got jack shit except a thank you and an I love you. I don't have any money either. Wtf do I do? Pic unrelated
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Steal something. You're already at the store. Are you telling me your mom's not worth it?
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how about baking her a cake?
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>>17122531

He has no money

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How do you get over the fact that, no matter how hard you try, you will never be more attractive than average, and may, in fact, even be ugly?

I feel like it's hopeless and I'm tired of trying to put effort in.
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Then stop putting effort in. If it isn't meant to be then get over it and put your care and time into other things like achievements. Be at peace with who you are and hold a reasonable world view and self concept.
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Get talented at something. At the very least, be kind and polite. Compensate.
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>>17122475
>>17122482
I'm actually successful and very talented at what I do, and I do have hobbies I put a lot of time into...

I'd just like to be attractive too. No matter how much effort I've put into improving myself in other ways. Should I just pay for plastic surgery? How weird is it to take a month off from work and come back more attractive?

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Hello /adv/, i'm in a bit of a pickle and i need your help
I've been looking for a job for quite sometime now with no success.
And now i got an interview for a position of a depot keeper, the interview questions will be based on that position and i can't for the life of me out what a depot keeper does, can any one help me with an indept explanation? Any help will be appreciated. Thanks
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>>17122386
Ever heard of Google?

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Here are the top 18 Depot Keeper profiles on LinkedIn. Get all the articles, experts, jobs, and insights you need.
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First post seems like it summed it up pretty quickly.

I imagine it's just someone who stocks inventory. I think the most complicated question they can ask you is "Look at this receipt, and tell us who the client is and when they dropped it off."
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>>17122468
Got nothing, famalam

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