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>>17121252
the deep web brodie

>>17121320
I feel you, I just don't know where man. lol

>>17121336
what do u mean u dont know where
u mean which market?

Bump it's urgent

>>17121119
Sticky pad mouse traps work well if they're the good ones. If you need to catch a lot of them, try the 5 gallon bucket catcher.
Failing that, get a cat.
>>17121125
How fast do you need it done? If you say "by Monday," you're probably SOL.

>>17121119
Poison.

What kind of abuse?

I am a female and I have had abuse in my life and I am into being forced into sex, and I've talked to my boyfriend and we both share an interest in non-consensual sex. This is actually a pretty ironic post, considering we both really talked about it tonight. Maybe she is just trying to make you feel loved. My boyfriend and I actually keep a good balance between "lovey dovey" sex and "non consent" sex. I would say just open up first about fantasies about having sex with her in her sleep... That's actually how me and my boyfriend got started and how we ended up finding out that we both shared a 'rape' fetish.
Or tell her you want to experiment. She might be so supportive because she thinks that might get you hard. She probably wants to make you feel loved during sex.

My story is no joke. I'm open to any questions you have and I'm interested in helping you figure this out.

>>17121121
Abuse like... well, I don't want to get into too much detail. No sexual abuse, but until she met me (she tells me) she had rock-bottom self-esteem, thought she was worthless, she still has scars and she's still afraid to show them in public.

I've been working really hard to make her love herself as much as I love her but I still feel like that's a bit tenuous - maybe she doesn't quite believe it but is willing to pretend when I'm around - and I don't want to risk that by making her question whether I'm trustworthy or not.

We haven't been together all that long. I don't want to rock the boat, but I don't want her to think I find her sexually unattractive either, and our relationship so far has been all about support and consent and boundaries so me asking her to stop telling me "yes" and let me fuck her like it's a kidnapping is just... bluh.

How long have you two been together? Establishing trust is important, but so is honesty. I wouldn't necessarily tell her that you don't get hard while having sex with her because she may get the wrong idea. I know you love this girl dearly, I can tell.

Do you find her sexually attractive, or attractive in general? Like would you say you find her sexy?

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Get a new girlfriend

>>17121098
I can't, man. I've been trying but nothing goes right.

>>17121087
time heals all wounds brodie

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>>17121059
shit bro that sounds terrible
i mean i think u already know it's going to take MONTHS to get over all of this
so surround yourself with people that care for you/talk to the people you care for so they could possibly help you get through this
when i broke up with my ex i dealt with it alone barely talking to anybody for months and it was terrible
so i cant imagine having 2 close people die and then your girl cheating on you

sorry about your loss m8, sending you hugs and stuff, watch a sitcom for a few hours you will stop feeling numb

things will get better bro
again, sorry for your loss.

>>17121097
Ya, I already took them summer off school and just gonna kinda hang out.

>>17121099
thanks man, I appreciate it

>>17121042
nigga i dont know
why did you get a car in the first place

>>17121042
Work

>>17121057
A bit rude
I got it so I can go to work

>>17121058
I go there enough already

Where do people go when they want to go somewhere

You obviously do like her, otherwise you wouldn't be so worried about this.

OP 22 isn't a huge birthday so I wouldn't go all out or anything. Most likely something small (to do with her hobbies) will be fine because the effort of getting her something will be most important. It might sound cheesy but it's definitely the thought behind it and she is more likely to appreciate something for her hobbies than say chocolate or something non personal like that. Go to a cookware store and find something in your price range? Or an art store? Good luck! (And just write a note as well or something)

Something like a generic box of chocolates is fine

>>17121009
No song lyrics would be the first thing to do.

It wasn't me.

how could you forget that you had given her an extra key?

2700 is just enough to chain yourself to a lease and find yourself in slavery to a job

get the apartment of course

I'd say if possible, find a place to live where you can walk or use public transport to get to all of the important places you need to go, then work on getting a car if you feel like it.

>>17121005
Can't tell if this is sarcasm or not. Low income housing around here is about $300/month, which is about 28% of my monthly income (recommended max amount for affordable rent)

Keep going , also was the friend a male or female, when did you start to notice these feelings?

>>17120990
I said "he" so male....I've know about it for awhile I was just in denial

>>17120990
OP said "his butt", so clearly male.

But OP, is the disgust feeling coming from the thought that you might be gay or that you might be a pedo?

Nike has the best advice

>>17120964
Live

Put on a long black hooded cloak and carry a scythe. Ominously point at people.

>>17120956
Find a way to work part time and live a low stress minimalist lifestyle, leech off your parents, milk the welfare system, get lucky at gamblng, etc. Full time employment is essentially modern day first world slavery.

You could always work part time

>>17120956
Look into careers that support fewer days. I went into nursing and between the pay and 12 hour shifts I only work 1 or 2 days a week

>>17120827
if you are interested in someone ask them out immediately.
If you play the "let's be friends" card first, you already lost.

>>17120827
Quit being a bitch.

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>>17120794
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It's not about improving your life, it's about not worrying about it.
The trick is to be absolutely mindless, not to think about your problems, don't reflect on them, don't think about how bad you are having it.

I still don't have a job, never had a relationship, have no friends, all my family thinks I'm a piece of shit good for nothing, etc. Guess what? By reframing it and not thinking about it, I don't care now, and I cry myself to sleep much much less than in the past.
Something good to train yourself in not thinking is meditation, pratice every day 20 minutes, focus on breathing and nothing else.

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>>17120802
2)

Don't worry about the future.

Sure, you might be in your 30s, never had a job, have no education, and being homeless in the future is a very real possibility one day. Just don't think about it, let the future you deal with the problem when one day it arrives at your doorstep. Do things like playing video games, watching a tv series, reading a novel, and things that will keep you distracted, and occupy your time.

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>>17120812
3)

Do drugs.

If you can afford it, find a delear in your location and start doing drugs. They will help you by taking you out of your misery for a moment, and taking you on a trip somewhere else instead. You don't have to spend too much money, for example you can eat brownies with weed in them, instead of smoking, and they will hit you much harder.

I'm not really sure here but I'm pretty sure that the ticket is at a state level and not a federal one so you could go through other states and not get in trouble, kind of like the elder scrolls. But I would read up on it more online

Why didn't you pay the ticket like you were supposed to? Why were you driving like a moron to begin with?

It's a shame you aren't charged with a misdemeanor and promptly told to fuck off at the border point.

A friend of mine told me that he got a speeding ticket in Toronto and years later he tried to go to Montreal but they wouldn't let him cross the border until he paid it.

I wonder if its the same in the other direction, let us know OP.