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>>17121975
what do you mean they weren't decent OP?
also if it's legal in your country, just make sure she doesn't steal your phone. if its illegal make sure you don't get infected.

>>17121975
>No women have ever shown interest in me on their own
No shit. Humans a a sexually dimorphc species, and men approach women, not the other way around.

>>17121975
>The issue was that they were all not decent girls/women which does bother me.

In what ways?
(As well: Do you realize you call other people not decent while you are the one considering to fuck a prostitute?)

>So should i go ahead and have sex with european sex workers in countries where such acts are legal?

If you live close.

If not, and you have to travel anyhow, just travel to hong kong for a week or two instead. There write to all women on the dating app BlendR (+ alike apps) just "Are you here for serious or casual reasons?". If they reply with Casual (1 in 20 girls if you are an average white [!] guy from my experience) tell them to meet you at this or that time in front of a certain love hotel.

+ its cheaper.

>>17121986
Not decent as in they were whores in my book.

Empty spray paint and air freshener cans

thats some good drama lmao

Store it in a shoebox with condoms and vibrators. If they're discovered, say that they're for when you sneak your girlfriend in.

Go to a smokeshop and ask the guy at the counter. It's his job to try to hook you up and appeal to your preferences.

>>17121957
Those things make you look like a tosser.

And when people let out those huge loads of vape smoke I literally laugh at them.

>I need to stop smoking cigs

So stop. You're not a fucking child.

tel her you're coming! she might not want to you to see her like that...
ask if you can bring something from the drug store and also bring something to entertain her. a book or a movie...

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>>17121933
I know she doesn´t want me there having a cold, I was thinking of dropping there with a gift or something funny and then leave

>>17121939
so, just leave it at her doorstep? because i can tell you that girls don't want to have you see them with bed hair, sniffly noses, pajamas and unshowered...

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im 22 and think 18 is too young for me.

Her age/2 + 7 = 19. Lucky you its the limit but its fine

i'm 27 and my bf is 22.
it took me a while to get over myself and our age difference. but then i had to say "fuck it", we have an awesome relationship. why should i worry about something if it is working?

Sure it's worth

>>17121849
Anything in particular? lool

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>>17121860
Fuck her right in the pussy.

>>17121804
You can join a club, or do an activity regularly in an public place, eventually you'll notice people doing the same and you could start up a conversation. say hello to your neighbors and anyone you see regular enough for it no to be weird. Just be personable man.

>>17121804
sell drugs

>>17121818
how can i find clubs to join?

>take me to a museum, gallery, festival or show

it says so right in her profile

also holy shit i dont like her

She sounds insufferable... Why would you do that to yourself?
What exactly is creative in taking her to a chinese restaurant? Look up what cultural events there are and take her there. Where do you meet? I'll look it up for you and decide on one

Op you're just looking for friends right? and you're not going to pay for all her shit right?

Whew lad...
Golden money rule: "only borrow money you can afford to never see again".

A fool and his money are easily parted.

First of all, where in Russia does rent cost 3000 dollars? How can she afford a place so expensive if she's about to get kicked out, why doesn't she move?

I'm not even debating the stupidity of sending a person you never met on the internet money...you didn't even make a logical deduction of her situation.

Well don't feel so bad for yourself, it's surprisingly easy to fall for some con schemes. I guess you should contact the police to try and get your money back, but I imagine most likely nothing will come of it.

Don't kill yourself over 3 thousand! Just accept that people make mistakes in life, sometimes embarrassing mistakes, but lots of people lose absolutely everything and they still manage to live a happy life in spite of their hardships. And at least you learned your lesson!

No....but she will be, every day of that holiday

Ask her if she'd be comfortable with you going on a holiday with a female friend for a little while.

If she's totally cool with it, shit's over.

>>17121757
>>17121760

It can't be that bad guys? For what it's worth, she's quite religious, and I took her virginity.

>>17121746
>My mind is always running at 1000 km/h

Everyone thinks this, it's an extension of the delusion that everyone also thinks they are "above average intelligence".

Simple answer is to focus on your breathing. Treat breathing like a job, that you have to focus and do manually rather than an automatic thing you do.

That said, mediation never helped me. I'd rather think... daydream about shit that's better instead.

>>17121746
The thing you need is to be rigorous about it.

I meditate 2 times 10 minutes a day for a month now.
The first times you do, you probably won't be able to clear your mind at all. But keep doing it anyway, it'll come.

Say you're doing like me, just sit down for 10 minutes and try your best to stop thinking, even if you feel like you can't do it. Don't stop before the 10 minutes are over (or 5 minutes, or whatever, it's not important), even if you were able to clear your mind 1 minute during these 10 minutes.

Focus on your breathing, and whenever you realize you're thinking about something else, don't tell yourself "i fucked it up, i can't do this", just focus on the next breath.

Good luck, i guarantee this is not that hard and it feels really good

Don't sit and let your thoughts go by and try to clear your mind, sit and count your slow breaths from 1 to 10. This way you're cleared and have something to fill in the space. If other things pop in just keep counting and try to shoo em away.

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>year 13
>right wing Australian gf

So many things wrong with your post.

>>17121723
I figured it would be pretty easy to find delusional people. Maybe go to a rally or something. You might connect with someone while the police are barricading you in.

>>17121726
Lemme guess, year 13 isn't a thing for you yanks?

Good use of a Pepe for this thread

it looks like one of those spam sites

It stole my credit card info?

>>17121656

I'm 24 entering university and feel like a piece of shit about it too. It's not really hard to feel better about missed moments, I just repeat the mantra that there's nothing I can do about the past and that if I want to be happy I have to keep working at becoming a better person because this is the only life I have.

Hearing stories of people who turned a fucked up life into a great one is one of the best motivators because there's nothing worse than the thought "it will never get better".

You should be grateful, not guilty.

>living the good life.

What the fuck does that even mean?

Doing dishes, laundry, cooking, cleaning, maintenance, repairs, garbage, dishes, etc...almost every single day by yourself, while at the same point being a poor bitch.

Boy, did you miss out.

>>17121699
This is actually suprisingly comforting. I do have those days when I'm also happier about it and I realize that the time is now. For everything.

>How do you deal with a shitty past?

You look towards a bright future

>>17121638
Some author wrote "We all spend our lives planning revenge on the high school bully"

The point is that it's common, it's normal and, while it's a waste of time, it's not something to beat yourself up over.

Someone else wrote "Living well is the best revenge"

>>17122150
It's really not.